Saturday, November 19, 2011

Girls-Is This Strange?

The girl Im going out with has this thing where she tells me that I would look good together with a certain girl.Not a celibrity but certain girls we know.Then she goes into detail saying because our skintones match and other different things.I thought maybe she wasnt interested in me and trying to push me away but she said theat was like this with her exboyfriend of 8 years who she has a kid with.I cant imagine her with another guy let alone telling her she would look good with someone else.I've never met a girl nor have any of my friends who did this.My family is mostly female and they have never done this or any of my female friends with their boyfriends.She tells me that she cant believe I think thats strange.What does she want me to say?"Ya I think shes hot too"?She told me that it would hurt her if I was interested in another girl or checking someone out though.Its not like shes thinking of us making out,she says.She is definitely different.I dunno,what do you girls think?

Girls-Is This Strange?
Thats simply confusing
Reply:RUN AWAY!





This girl just seems to scream all sorts of issues. First of all, you don't want to get mixed up with someone who has a kid. That's drama right there that you shouldn't have to deal with.





The other thing is... why would *any* sane girl do this? It sounds to me like she's looking for drama and likes to instigate all sorts of problems.





There's a LOT of awesome people out there. Don't settle on this crazy one :)
Reply:beat her to the punch. DUMP HER FIRST!!!!!!!!!!!
Reply:Dude, run. Just f*cking run!!
Reply:I hope you havve a good job because your going to need a therapist.
Reply:ask her to stop or do it when ur not around
Reply:i think she is trying to get u to confess to liking another girl(if you do).... i mean by her telling u that you would look good with jane for example shes waiting to hear "ya, we would eh?" u know she just wants to see how committed u are to her and stuff! thats wat i think anyways, why dont u just start saying "hey i think u and bob would look good together because uboth haver the same eye and hair colour" see how she reacts... u got to throw a little reverse phycology at her!


good luck


and shes not really abnormal or anything its just she wants to see how into her u really are(iv dont it to my ex bf many times in ther past!)


good luck with her though
Reply:you've got some drama...
Reply:mental heath
Reply:don't see a question like that everyday! you have your own mind. she has her own mind. remember that. only you make your desicions in life.
Reply:Yes
Reply:sounds like she's insecure..
Reply:Yes, I believe this is strange. If your girlfriend loved you, she would accept your relationship, and not compare your relationship. It is very strange, and you need to be very upfront about it. Next time she says something like that, you should do the same. Compare her with another certain guy, and see her reaction. If she doesn't like it, you should let her know that you don't either. If she can't stop comparing you with others, than you should tell her that pretty soon you will be with one of those girls if she doesn't stop. And ask her, if she thinks you would be better off with another girl, than why is she hanging around with you?
Reply:ok well maybe she's just very obervent of the world and likes matching i mean i do that its fun! but i dont know i would do that with my boyfriend i mean with friends yeah but uhhh??? well i dont think shes stopped loving you and maybe you shouldn't worry so much i mean if you love her try and let it pass if some compication arrises then talk to her im sure you guys can get through it! good luck
Reply:YOu should threaten her. Just say ok well lets go see how this will work. Then see what she says.thats one way to find out if she is trying to get rid of you.
Reply:I think maybe she is so confident and secure with you she can picture things like that without having to get jealous, as to why she does it, she's a girl, she probably just likes thing to match and can put her colors together well, which would actually lead to a promising career in fashion or interior design of some sort.I bet she likes "pretty" things.

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Girls and guy answer this please?

It is more than a fact for a huge part of my life i've stayed home alot. Even throughout high school, i never was apart of the parties and football games. I just never found it appealing. Now that im in college, it has been the same case, but i try to go out more and i like it.





When i go out im never used to the whole dating and looking for prospects in girl. I went out with a friend of mine to check out the night life and look for girls. At the end of the night, my friend admitted he was envious of me. I asked why and he said alot of girls were checking me out at the party and even at the beach he would point out girl staring at me and i wasnt even trying to get attention. I never really noticed because i like to be humble and not assume. I want to go out and have fun and mingle with girls, but how am i when i cant simply detect attraction from woman in an environment? Is girls checking me out and staring at me give me a good chance of getting numbers? or they just looking? help?

Girls and guy answer this please?
They might find you attractive and hope that you may see them looking and approach them about it. Don't be shy, i'm sure they see something in you if they were checking you out. In my opinion i like for the guy to come up and make conversation with me, instead f me going up to them first. It usually starts out by me looking at them and giving them a slight grin to let them know i'm interested. Be a little more outgoing and you might be surprised by how much of a diference it will make things.
Reply:somtimes they just looking but if you get alot of "i want you look" then they want you. and you probably at least an 8.


Thick girls or skinny girls?

what about the thick girl (real thick girls. not the ones who only has a butt, that don't make you thick). a thick girl is thick all over.





Why don't thick girl, girls with a little stomach, and big girl ever get in play? and if they do it's never in public.





here are some examples of thick females: tyra banks, countest voungh (kim from the parkers), toccara (american's next top model), kelly price, julie scott, jeniffer hudson

Thick girls or skinny girls?
Girl I don't know where you been, but men, especially black men, like their women thicker than a snicker!!! LOL!!! All the women you named are wonderful and I'm glad that thicker girls are getting some play. It's ok to have a few curves here and there, but the most important thing is that you maintain your diet to stay HEALTHY, not to be in the latest size 2 jeans! Just be you and don't conform to what society says is pretty!!!
Reply:i hate skinny girls and toccara lost too much weight i liked her the second i saw her on top model Report It

Reply:just be yourself,
Reply:Just more to love. But seriously, skinny girls make me nauseous.
Reply:all them females can get play from me...especially toccara...but sometimes some females dont have it toned right and some are just nasty...but thick girls get play down south where i am but there is a difference between THICK and FAT...you can be thick but still healthy but fat is not healthy at all...i got to have a healthy chick
Reply:tyra banks doesnt belong in that category and i doubt toccara does they are both skinny. jenifer hudson is thick. and fat chicks need love too for sure.


Why can girls wear revealing clothes and guys can't???

O.K heres my point,I've seen posts asking do girls like speedos,Do girls like tight jeans, and the answer from most is eeewww gross.


Girls can wear bikinis,Girls can wear tight jeans,Girls can wear tiny thongs that show in thier low rise jeans.But why can't a guy show off his body too.When us guys are turned on by revealing clothes, aren't girls turned on as well??? I have a hard time accepting the fact that girls arent at all turned on by speedos or tight jeans.That must mean they aren't turned on when were naked,Right??? I wouldn't want to see a girl wearing shorts that come down to their knees on the beach!! This makes no sense at all.Please explain,And if you do like like it, please admit it.

Why can girls wear revealing clothes and guys can't???
Guys haven't got anything worth revealing
Reply:Its just how society is!!
Reply:I think you want to see some men in tight jeans and speedos.
Reply:Because more girls will loose thier boyfriends. More and more men are leaving thier wives and girlsfriends for other guys. Girls feel threatend by the male body. Girls who take care of their bodies don't have that problem. Think about it; you see more guys than girls at the gym. Men like firm bodies.
Reply:Lol....im curious about that to.....i think that if a guy wants to wear butt tight pants then more power to him!!!.....hey some guys look hott in tight pants......some dont.....
Reply:Are you Homosexual? Why would a straight guy want to wear revealing clothes like a girl anyway. In society today the world is done by men and sex sells, but only if you're a women, and men don't want to see other men walking around half naked, but when it's women it's appealing.
Reply:do you really care - I like it that the girls do.
Reply:Girls generally just look better than guys do showing skin. That is unless they are one of those way overweight ones wearing too tight clothes that let their stuff hang over. Ugh
Reply:Well, if a guy wears a g-string, he looks gay. If a guy doesn't want to look gay, stay away from the lingerie. And if he is or just doesn't care, go for it, whatever blows your hair back, sweetie.
Reply:Maybe not so much with speedos...but girls are probably turned on by the muscular hunk with his buttoned shirt hanging open or something like that. They're probably turned on when we're naked (depends on how you look). I get "urges and attractions" too whenever I see a beautiful young girl wearing what you speak of (although I see them not too often), but I believe that that's the way girls turn guys on, and guys turn girls on through actions more than looks. That's what I believe; I can always be wrong. What do you think?
Reply:speedos show way too much and it's just not attractive. and also, men do have the package... i'd prefer boardshorts. i find that attractive. and baggy pants on guys... are hot. i can't believe you would want to compare all that to females. so you think men should be able to look slutty...
Reply:It's called exploitation -- rich companies (made up of rich executives, owners) exploit the fact that males are easily stimulated visually, and that females are only too willing to wear revealing clothing in order to attract their attention.





It's basically a sick society. We exalt youth more than most cultures (who revere age); and with youth comes foolishness. (Though age is no guarantee of wisdom.)
Reply:I think tight pants on guys is a really hott turn-on. Thongs on guys are gross, though. It's only preppy bitches that hate guys who wear revealing clothes. Most of the time...a girl will not want to see a guys penis sticking out of a speedo, so that's why they don't like it. Girls are turned on when guys are naked....but just as long as the guys her b/f. Beside, it's mainly Mormon girls who wear longer shorts on the beach w/ a bikini top or sumthing, and i just think that it's really a comfort issue. It's your opinion on how you think it's weird or annoying how girls will wear that to the beach, but this summer, whe i was in San Diego, i was body boarding w/ some guys (CUTE guys) and all i was wearing was a bikini top and knee-long shorts...and they liked it! Trust me...it's just the preps who think a guy's body is gross...but i don't.
Reply:because, girls like to use our imagination. guys on the other hand want it all served on a platter right in front of their faces.
Reply:Why can guys walk around shirtless on a hot day and women can't ? It kinda goes both ways...sorry.
Reply:you have a really good point. i wouldn't be attracted to a guy in a speedo or tight pants. i think that each gender has a different way of dressing to flatter their figure, and you need to leave SOMETHING to out imaginations, i don't wanna see the family jewels right away. women can subtly accent their assets, yeah, and some women just go way over the top. when i see a guy wearing really tight clothes, i right away think that he's gay. i know that isn't right, but it's something that you would associate homosexuality with.
Reply:It all depends on how the clothes look on the man. If he's strutting around in a speedo with a gut that won't quit, then no - not turned on. On the other hand if he's a hard body with a hard, well never mind, then yes, turn on. If he's wearing tight jeans that give him camel toe - then no. If he's wearing tight jeans and he looks as good as Tim McGraw in them - HUGE turn on!
Reply:1. Men and women have different body parts, and they are highlighted differently by fashion. For example, a woman's bikini top highlights her breasts whereas it would look stupid on a man.





2. Society has rules about this (rules we need to change, but rules nonetheless). The "gaze" is reserved for women. A woman trying to look at a man in the way a man looks at a woman is regarded as comedic or joking, not actually admiring his body.





I suggest you take a womens' studies class and keep fighting the good fight (i.e. don't let a man judge you on your looks and don't use your body to get things.)
Reply:First off there is NOTHING sexy about any MAN showing his a** in a speedo. I don't care how cute he is........it's just gross. I think the reason why is that women don't equate nudity to sex like you men. We do like to see our boyfriends naked.........but only when it's appropriate. I like my man to dress for the occasion. The beach should be board short. Don't know why but they are sexy as hell.





ALSO a man in a thong looks gay. You can thank all those creepy Euro pervs that hang out in Cancun for that.
Reply:I don't know. It is a little messed up. But I'm a guy with a nice bod and I on occasion do wear really revealing clothing. It is nice, it makes you feel sexy.
Reply:Women have nicer bodies.
Reply:because girls arent gay faqs
Reply:Women have more goods to reveal then men. In my opinion males just have one thing worth revealing and honestly its pretty scary down there to make public for the world. While female anatomy is quite pleasing to look at.
Reply:the reason women wear revealing clothes is to impress guys with their bodies. women wouldnt be so impressed if we saw a guy with tight jeans or speedos.
Reply:look at it this way. you dont like it when a fat chick wears a bikini do you? but its okay if a girl with a porn star body does.





its the same situation with a guy. if hes attractive and has a good body, we dont care what he wears. but if hes fifty and has a hairy back and beer belly, we have a problem with the speedo.... (or even a normal swimsuit for that matter)





if you want to wear a speedo, join a high school swim team or go to europe
Reply:Because a womans body is a beautiful thing and mens are just disgusting.
Reply:y do u care


i dont want to see guys in bikinis


but lookin at chicks is cool


the girls are probably young and still laugh at the word penis and think that it is a gross thing that should never be touched
Reply:Its funny that the guys are opposed to it,Of course guys don't want to see other guys goods,But i think the question is for the girls!!
Reply:This one is easy. Now, for men to be able to have some sort of mystery behind what a woman's body looks like under her clothes is a turn on, right? Well, it's kinda the same for women towards men. What woman wants to see a guy in Speedos? It gives away what the imagination was ready to conjour up on it's own. No fun! It's all about the mystery my friend. It has absolutely nothing to do with the fact that we think that you look gross naked either. Granted, some woman really don't find a man's tool attractive, but that doesn't mean we don't like the way it feels. Hee-hee!
Reply:Women have nice bodies, guys have penises. I don't wanna be lookin at those.
Reply:If the guy has a great body--- by all means wear revealing clothes! Just bear in mind there is a right time and place. No Thongs only in the mall please or tight jeans in a formal party. I admit I looking at hot bodies on guys!


Girls on the dance floor?

ok so i was at a club last night and these 2 cute girls were dancing extremely close to me. i've had this happen a few times where some girl/s did and once i tried to dance with them or slightly touch them (on the hips) just to give an indication like hey lets dance they run away. also there was this hot girl on my left who i could tell wanted to be danced with. anyway these girls last night seemed to give up but they didnt go too far....still in my eyesight. anyway so i just paid no attention. the more i did the more they got closer. ok so my question is what would u girls prefer...i grab u or just ignore u. if u really wanted to dance with me wouldnt u just grab my hands or face me. how could i tell if the girls really wanted to dance with me? also i know its a big game out there

Girls on the dance floor?
Dance wit them but dont touch just put ur hands up or to ur sides and let them do the rest.
Reply:Idiot.


Sometimes the dance floor is so crowded people can't help but dance in close proximity of each other.


I've been bumped into many times on the dance floor by women.


But, as I'm dancing with a woman myself, I know it's not a come-on by them.





Do you dance by yourself? Why don't you ask a girl to dance instead of grabbing them on the dance floor?
Reply:You should probibly dance next to them instead of just looking at them....if thats what you do? I kno I love to dance and I hate when guys just stare at me and then they grab me and don't know how to dance what so ever...eww. N e way if you dance by urself they will see that u know how to dance and will usually come up to you..if your a good dancer. When I go to the club I like to just hang out and dance...I hate when I go and guys just gock and when you dance with them they get wayyyy to excited that will make a girl walk away form you.

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Indian or Punjabi guys and girls plz help me wid punjabi girls!!! LIVING IN US,CANADA, OR UK ONLY!?

I have spent most of my life involved with white girls and want to hook up with punjabi girls... I want to be appropriate do not want to offend...what is the right way to approach an indian girl what do they want to hear? will the ask about her and compliment strategy work with pun girls??? what about when your at family parties; receptions, holiday parties etc. is it OK to approach a indian girl there with all her family members around as well as my family members nearby? Do I have to change my game according to race or can I use my old techniques that work for me except when it comes to punjabi girls.


*I am not implying that white girls are easier than punjabi girls its just that white girls are more receptive to guy walking up to them and talking to them than indian girls who have been raised by a strict upbringing when it comes to dating and sex before marriage IF YOU ARE GOING TO BASH ME OR DO NOT HAVE ANYTHING USEFUL TO SAY PLEASE SKIP THE QUESTION!

Indian or Punjabi guys and girls plz help me wid punjabi girls!!! LIVING IN US,CANADA, OR UK ONLY!?
Maybe u should just learn to spell....
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Reply:indian girls are easier than white, no offendings, but it is usually right. they think that life is like a love story or better a fairy tale...
Reply:Maybe you should treat them like you treat everyone else.
Reply:feel like bashing you but you write a question and it sounds quite polite rather than pervert so i dont...:)


Well...maybe find out about this race more from either the library book or your friends
Reply:hey! i'm indian and i know that U SHOULDN"T EVER ever ever ever ever ever go up to an indian gurl and say n-ething to her in front of her parents unless u want to get her in trouble. i'm 14 going on 15 and i've been out with one mexican, two white guys, 1 indian (family friend whom with i even slept with) and i almost went out with this really cute black guy SO DAMN CUTE but yea good luck. (hamesha apne dil ki sunno!) that's hindi for always listen to ur heart!!! PS i know u're a guy but isn't Hritik Roshan just so damn fine?????


Do girls like guys like me ?? --I have a pic?

Girls what do u think of me ? Im 6ft, im tan, i have size 14 shoe, skinny. Nice around girls and shy. Alot of ppl know me in school but i dont hang with ppl on weekends. I don't do drugs and never will. I probably wanna be a cop after high school. Im 17 and im a junior in my high school. I like alot of short blond girls cause most of them are cute and have great sense of style. I never had a gf but other kids in my high school who do drugs and part have hot girlfriends for some reason. Im a nice guy and romantic but im saving all of that for some nice girl. Someday when ill have a car and part time job i wanna take a girl out on the beach at night and walk with her since alot of girls like that or i would go buy some food and take her out on the beach and have picnic. Right now in high school and i havent found the right girl for some reason for her looks and her personality. Her is my pic





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Do girls like guys like me ?? --I have a pic?
i think u are very nice looking. dont stress about women right now though, while in high school, concentrate on books and that way you can make a whole lot more money than all those drug-addict jabronies. thats when the ladies will flock :D plus, ur so young. just have fun. definately get more active and involved with extra cirrucular activities. hit the gym or work out @ home. hot bodies are always a bonus :D
Reply:oh so sexy!!!!!! %26lt;LOL%26gt; LOOOOOOVE the pic.
Reply:your sooo cute!!!! I would go out with you!
Reply:You sound like such a sweet guy and your super cute too. i think its really sweet of you to want to do that for some girl. and believe me..girls think its so gross when guys do drugs..unless they do them. so the guys who have the girls..and do the drugs..wont have a stable relationship. you on the other hand need to find the girl that deserves you. i dont even know you and by the looks of it..you seem like a really sweet guy who deserves a really sweet girl.
Reply:who wouldnt want to date you? ur hott man. get some more confidence and talk to girls!
Reply:You are effin adorable. I love the way you look. Cute cute cute!!!! ^-^ Seriously mate, I love your looks. 10/10
Reply:you remind me when i was young! i was shy once but then i started playing rugby and socialing with the boys on the weekends. for some reason girls like sports players. now i am a copper and enjoy taking gals out, but dont be to romantic they can get bored of it! good luck with the future, you look like a copper.
Reply:You look really cute and hot! I would definitely date you. I bet that a lot of girls definitely like you. -That is my honest answer!





-HeartBrokenForever (Diane N)
Reply:hmm...you look a little lean...but CUTE! The right girl will come. Just be yourself, and it's really, REALLY not about the looks....it's like 15% looks for girls. But everything else is your personality. You sound like a nice guy...a hubby if you will (male version of a wifey). Just give it some time...you still got a lotta growing to do...a lot of soul searching. I'd say college is when you'll most likely find a girl who is worth the trouble. If you're just looking to date get out there and ask a girl you like out. Forget about the consequences, it's just dating. It's just highschool too! Good luck! And eat some carbs.
Reply:I agree. You need to eat a few cheeseburgers or something.
Reply:Very nice!
Reply:Maybe a guy would
Reply:Just relaz and be yourself. Ask a girl to the beach now for a picnic, there is no need to wait. You are cute, girls will like you.
Reply:You are pretty cute.


Just don't try to be predictable, doesn't


every guy say they like walks on the beach and


picnics?
Reply:UR pretty cute.


You seem pretty nice too! UR girl will come along. Don't worry.
Reply:ur kinda cute i would date u
Reply:You are real cute and shouldn't have a problem. If you get bored with the girls, it might not be them. You just aren't imaginative enough. Find something interesting to do with them. If you are bored, I am sure they are as well. You will find that right girl!
Reply:your not my type but you still cute try and get more musels in your chest
Reply:you sound pretty good to me. the no drugs thing is a DEFF plus. and it cool how u dont go around having a lot of girlfriends. you are saving it for one special girl. hopefully when you find her, you both decide to wait for marriage. you sound like a good kid and someone i wish were at my school. if girls dont really seem to like you, they dont kno what they are missing.
Reply:your so sweet i hope you find the right gurl yes you are a perfect guy. if there were more of you and my age i would be so lucky . yes you are perfect good luck finding the perfect girl
Reply:Hey I am 5'1, blonde, and blue eyed. I like guys that are over 6 ft. haha ur really cute: ) but im a senior in high school
Reply:Your cute but seem to young to be 17.
Reply:Get some meat on them bones, boy!
Reply:i think u need to be tougher, girls dont like sissy neither do i
Reply:lol I'm 22 hun so I'm too old for you but you have a cute face,put on about 50 pounds and call me in a year! ; )
Reply:dont repeat things.
Reply:its that u need to feel secure about ur self ,and that u need to eat more ur not ugly


one day ur gurl will come
Reply:i like how u describe ur personality. you are cute too...so bonus there
Reply:uhhhh....
Reply:You're cute and you look like a sweetie but can you do something about your hair? Maybe put some blonde streaks in it or bleach it or something? Blonde girls like blonde guys! I hope you don't wear those pants to school, if so those pants have got to go.
Reply:i dont


Girls weight???

There are heaps of questions been asked about y do guys like girls who are skinny girls/ bony girls .the most common answer is that guys find girls like that really gross etc but wot if the girl is naturally skinny?? like some girls are naturally bigger. If i am naturally skinny ( a little bony) and i EAT would you still judge or think negative thoughts or refuse to date me etc????

Girls weight???
honestly yes i would judge you right off back as are you sick or what’s wrong. but i do know that different people gain weight differently and it’s some people who can eat all day and it doesn’t do anything to them but some who eat a hamburger and blow up. God made all of us differently but thinking and judging is normal for anyone. If you see me with all colors on you’ll think I’m gay but it could be that I love all those colors. It’s just human judgment and it comes naturally. try not to worry so much about what others think of you. you'll find someone who's not so shallow one day
Reply:who gives a krap about them if your healthy and happy then dont listen to them.... and be happy cause if your young it will most likely reverse as you get older... and as for doing more positions thats not true... big girls can do it all... well some can.... i guess if you are not big but huge then you probably cant
Reply:Honey screw them u r what ur be proud.
Reply:I'm another skinny girl. People who I've never seen before ask me if I'm anorexic. It's so rude. They tell me I don't eat at work while I'm going through a pile of fried chicken. I don't know what to do about it either.


That doesn't answer your question, but I just had to rant.
Reply:Well ya, If I don't know you to see you. I guess it would still apply. But then again, like the saying goes, you can't judge a book ..etc, etc. It's not good to have that happen but it does. Sorry.
Reply:guys are all bout looks so if you look hot of course ill date you but if ur ugly goodbye ps. skinny girls can do many positions thats a plus.
Reply:like i am naturally skinny


i aint bony but a size 10


i don't see y guys should gurlz by the way they look


itz wats on the inside that counts


i'm vry sure that most gurls put alot of pressure on themselves to bcome skinny probably jst to please some1 or bcos they feel uncomfortable abt the way they look


or might av an eating disorder like bulimia or anoxeria


Girls help me please?

I wanna know how girls think. Being specific, I wanna know if a girl is interested in you and is someone you can trust who WON'T cheat. Also, do girls change there emotions a lot of times during the day? And, how can you tell if a girl isn't using you for example if she is kinda lightweight flirting with you. One more thing, is it a good or bad sign if a girl I'm talking is always laughing when she talks to me and calls me names like loser, fatty, stupid etc. ? Please help me out, girls mainly answer please. Thanks for your time.

Girls help me please?
Why would someone be so rude to call you fatty or stupid? Please don't put up with that because you deserve much better. That girl is a jerk and if she doesn't have respect for you then she's not someone you should be hanging out with. If she really liked you then she wouldn't be so abusive. That is just so despicable.


About the changing emotions thing, I'm sometimes bored, annoyed, or laughing in just 30 minutes. I dunno, I guess it depends if you're around friends or in history class taking a test....

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Girls answer this very curios guys can pitch in too?

I wonder what do girls think of a guy who tells them he is virgin?


do girls think that guy is a nerd or do girl ever think maybe he think it is important to him to who he gives it to, just not a random girl off the street .. or maybe he had chances but he wants to give to someone special...... or should that guy be hasitating telling a girl that he is a virgin? could this also be applied to a girl? you guys have three days to answer my question so give me your best answers!!! thanks.

Girls answer this very curios guys can pitch in too?
That is NOTHING to be ashamed of. The ones who need to be ashamed are the ones who are bedding down with whomever.





The Virgin -- a dying breed. Don't go quietly into that good night, my friend. This is VERY honorable. There is nothing more beautiful than being able to give yourself as a gift on your wedding night. May you find a real lady who waits for you.





Blessings to you!








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Allow me to add that if the girl you date doesn't want any further relationship with you because you are a virgin, then SHE is not worth having. That means she is not one, and you deserve someone who is.
Reply:this is a conversation that one should only have with someone they have deep feelings for. someone whom they believe is the one they'd like to lose their virginity to. i think,based on that, then the girl would be very understanding and not judge. if this were a conversation with just anyone, they'd think you were nuts. not b/c you're a virgin but, b/c you told them.since the guy has decided to wait,i assume he would want to know the girl quite well so the girl he chooses will most likely have similar feelings.
Reply:Being a virgin for a guy is definately attractive to a girl. It means that u will not try to take advantage of the girl and you should definately tell a girl but also give them a reason of y ur a virgin
Reply:Most women won't touch a guy who is a virgin because they want someone he knows what they're doing.
Reply:im a 32 year old female, and if i met a guy, and he was still a virgin, and at least decent looking, and a decent age, i would think that was hot...waiting for the right person...thats my opinion.
Reply:You are doing the right thing,it shows maturity not to mention smarts as you are safe from std's or causing unwanted pregnancy,same goes for a girl. If a girl rejects you because of your lack of experience she's not worth it and is not the one for you.


Girls! girls! girls!?

i love elvis! haha, anyway, do you like girls that wear brand clothes like hollister and af but then they're styles are bland like they only wear tees, jackets, jeans. or do you like girls that wear clothes without name brands but they work their styles with a sense of sophistication? bottom line, girls with boring clothes from hollister or girls with fashion sense clothing from anywhere?

Girls! girls! girls!?
I like to wear fashionable clothes! Yay! Smiles! :)
Reply:First wife or second wife?
Reply:I wear like Sonoma, Aeropastle', and Old Navy those clothes are cute!
Reply:not a girl...just answering for points...THANKS!!!
Reply:i am a woman and my style is my own. not what the brand says i am and not because it is in. it has to talk to me and state this is Judy!
Reply:it depends....
Reply:i hate brand-name whores. I like to wear stuff from walmart, target, kohls...cheap places where i'm not paying for the label. why should i spend $120 elsewhere for the same thing for $15 at walmart
Reply:girls who have their own fashion sense are awesome- they dont have to live up to the "rules" of society. plus it shows their uniqueness and trueness





and that doesnt necessarily mean that hollister is the only non-unique company out there...
Reply:i buy clothes from anywhere aslong as i feel good in them ;)


if i feel good, i look good
Reply:Looks is only half the battle son ;) and different stuff works for different girls lol its not rlly what clothes they wear...but if they wear the right clothes.
Reply:YOUR DUM!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!...
Reply:Does it have to be one or the other? I mean, can't a girl wear something Hollister and make it work for her? It can be a pair of $80 jeans with a Wal-Mart shirt and still look awesome and have it go with their style. Besides, it's not really about what they're wearing (it's about what they're not... jk).
Reply:I prefer girls with no clothes. =D





nah, j/k lol. I like girls with stuff that makes them look good. I don't care about brand really.





http://youtube.com/watch?v=hnmvuPaBh-Y
Reply:are you gay?


and i mean that in the nicest way possible
Reply:i don;t think 24.95(aeropastale) for a shirt is a reasonable price most of my clothes are from Khols
Reply:Girls with fashion sense that can be creative without spending a lot of $$$ on name brands are "it" for me. The clever ones that way are less boring and can think of more fun things for us to do. Also, give me fashion tips and where to shop to find the "good stuff" and bargains. If, I am really lucky she will go with me, and pick things out for me to try on. It's not always "about her."
Reply:I wear....very odd stuff....I'm in stripped stockings and a plaid mini a white screen tee that says 'I'm on a path of my own' and a decora hat....everything but the shirt is neon green and pink
Reply:fashion sense clothing from anywhere
Reply:WHEEEEEEEEEE I LOVE GIRLS THAT WEAR ANYTHING
Reply:i wear jeans and a tee-shirt


i wear aeropastale





but it dont matter


do you like guys that dont wear under wear ???
Reply:I dont mind , aslong as they look good thats all that counts. I like my girlfriends style , its just casual but fashionable
Reply:I never was much of a one shop girl. Some girls who have a lot of money and absolutely no creativity will just but some hollister outfit or AE outfit and never, like, mix layers and never think about mixing their clothing to create new combinations. I always thought that the five dollar tanks from Wet Seal and the fifty dollar ones from hollister look EXACTLY the same.


You do, of course, look more sophisticated without a big HOLLISTER across your T-shirt, but you don't fit in as well.
Reply:I personally like to wear somethin I feel comfortable in... If I'm not comfortable I won't wear it.





And I have a thing I have to be matchin or else it's not working...
Reply:girls with style...they kick @ss!!! I mean, I don't deny that I buy cute things from places like Burlington Coat Factory, Walmart and Target, but I get really cute stuff and I mix things up...color and fun is a good thing...
Reply:Most girls get their clothes from Wal-Mart.
Reply:I just like girls,women, any kind of clothing.
Reply:I'm partial towards girls with no clothes.
Reply:why do they need the clothes
Reply:i wear clothes from newhere ;]
Reply:i like to wear fashionable clothes. something thats not boring and when i go to school i dont see like 5 people who have the same shirt on. e-bay has cool clothes. it doesnt have to be from a name brand store to be cute. lol i dont really wear hollister. its expensive and not that good lookin. plus ive seen the same hollister shirt about a million times. I guess people just have no individuality anymore. you can look fashionable without wearing the same things as everyone else. ^__^


Girls, if you meet a creepy nerd guy, what would you do?

I met this guy who's a friend's friend. He's never had a girlfriend nor does he have female friends and he's so much into japanese anime. Like, he has a lot of dvd's, figures, and posters in his room. But that's not what creeps me out.





What creeps me out is almost all in his collection are girls in sexy attire. Like his pc desk is covered with anime figurines of school girls showing their panties, girls in bikinis, girls in very sexy armor, and worst of all anime girls in provocative poses that look like little kids. I know some people said that "they only look like kids but in the anime they're actually 18", but still. And he keeps saying that he's proud that he likes women because it proves that he's a man not like other anime fans who like robots or men fighting.





Now I'm having mixed emotions. Part me of feels creeped out, but part of me also pities the guy. I mean it's not as if he disrespected me (in fact he was a bit too chivalrous, probably cuz he's never had a girl-friend).

Girls, if you meet a creepy nerd guy, what would you do?
Be nice to nerds. Chances are you'll end up working for one. Bill Gates
Reply:i met a nerdy guy at kroger who was bagging my groceries. my husband was with me. anyway i had one cart full and he asked me if i needed help taking my groceris to the car. i couldn't help but laugh.
Reply:He seems harmless, just be aware of him but don't think you need to fear him. I use to know a guy like that really into anime and the anime girls but I was never wierded out by him cause he never disrespected me or tried anything funny. Just wierd that's all.
Reply:he just sounds like a harmless guy who hasn't got any yet. it isn't as creepy to me as it is funny. i think that with time (should he ever pry himself away from his anime), he'll figure out that a real girl is a lot more fun and that the "real men" are those who don't proudly display their collection of cartoon porn to a girl nice enough to enter their room.





he just has a bit of growing up to do is all.
Reply:Honey If I were you, I would run away and fast!
Reply:i agree run...lol-jk





well- try to intrest him in something else that has to do with anime- but minus all the weird creepy stuff... then once you get him intrested in something somewhat normal- try to find him a girl who likes anime as well- there are so many out there- im sure he'll find someone...and good luck :]
Reply:run far far away
Reply:If you meet a person who you feel uncomfortable with, then stay away.





A better response would be to just think for a second; "do I feel comfortable with this guy? is his hobby making me feel uneasy? would I want to hang-out with this person?"





If your answer is NO, then just stay away from him/her
Reply:haha thats weirdd
Reply:Tell him if you want to be friends, I don't know if you do or not. Just tell him you find this stuff offensive and that women are not objects.
Reply:He has a penchant for schoolgirls. Lots of men do.


It's not child porn and it's quite common so I wouldn't worry too much about it. It gets about a 5 on the creepiness scale. However, if it puts you off it puts you off and it seems as if he's very naive about and isolated from women, so he may have some strange ideas at first..





Since you're torn between creeped out and pity, the future isn't bright, so time to ditch the bizzarro and look for pastures new
Reply:You just met, him if you get bad vibes , take an exit door . If you like him, stay at a distance until you get to know him more .
Reply:Okay i had friends in high school that liked anime. Seriously all the girl characters wear nothing and stand in "intresting' positions.





But if you don't like the guy- ignore him. Eventually he'll get it .
Reply:Well ,you just describe adult anime.....there is even xxx animes...is like playboy but with comics .........probadly his like any other boy of his age....surely looking for the samething ! stay away from his bed-room....lol
Reply:hahah he seems like a good kid prolly jut sorta lonely. i dont know how this kid feels about you and if you think hes good looking but atleast be his friend.
Reply:If I felt creeped out by somebody, the last place I would put myself is in his bedroom. In fact, I'd stay as far away as possible.


Girls. Do yo all find other girls attractive.?

Okay this has always been a question I thought of. Are all girls really secretly lesbians. Girls just look better. Guys like me are disguting. I can't see how anyone can't see how girls are better looking. GIRLS DO YOU BELIEVE GIRLS LOOK BETTER THAN BOY.

Girls. Do yo all find other girls attractive.?
lol Open your eyes, there are good looking guys all around you. ^^





To answer your question, no, not all girls are lesbians.
Reply:I'm not sure if i'm straight or bi but yes i find them attractive. but i like guys more. But I don't like the ones that look really manly and muscular. I like thin ones with long/longish hair.
Reply:No I prefer to look at guys. But there is alot of girls I find attractive just not in that way. A girls body is more beautiful.
Reply:I am straight yes... I am about to have a baby with a man I love beyond anything I could have ever imagined. But, I have always thought women are more attractive than guys. Our bodies are under appreciated, so it's natural to find things to appreciate about your own body and compare that to other women... It's not the mans fault we are hotter lol.
Reply:I think girls look better, but i'm not attracted to the same gender. As I am only with Gods way of life. Only a Man and a Women can make true love.
Reply:I do find girls more attractive than I find guys, yes, I always have. Girls bodies just flow... love it.
Reply:As a lesbian in a mans body, Hell yeah!
Reply:Yes but that is not y i like girls b/c they are knowin wat u r feelin and u can tlk 2 dem better than u can tlk 2 boyz
Reply:Most girls do, yes.





As far as all other girls.. I prefer feminine girls, myself.
Reply:yeah...jus a little.
Reply:yes i find some girls attractive, but that's because i'm bi!


but i thing i like guys more than girls.
Reply:Girls are definitly more attractive than boys, because on average we take much better care of ourselves!

Racing Shoes

Girls please help me out please?

Hi everyone i need major advice will today at lunch i when to my table and the girl who i use to like pass she was smiling at me. i smile her back..But them i when to the library she was near and she smile again..I know this girl since 7th i use to talk to her but now id . . now im in 9th grade and now she starts looking at me all her friends know the i like her but i don't like her because now i have wonderful girlfriend but the problem is the she is an hour and thirty minutes from where i live ..should i figure if that girl likes me or should i wait until my girlfriend brakes up with me im so confuse











since i still like this girl im playing football this year


she play powerpuff aka girls football


she also plays soccer





there is a problem thought. Her soccer coatch is sick he is my STUDY HALL teacher i hear rummorn the he **** two girl from the soccer team an im afraid the she will do that to her..


she very kind and attrative i like her id want to lose her i care about alot.

Girls please help me out please?
You need to pick one or the other....don't string them both along, it's not right. You shouldn't pursue the girl at your school as long as you have another gf. However, if you break up with your gf, there is no guarantee that this girl will even go out with you.


You could ask her if she would consider dating you if you were free, and then decide.


Good luck!
Reply:First of all, STAY IN SCHOOL! your spelling and grammar is pretty bad. sorry.





You're still young and for you to have a gf an hour and a half away from you is just silly. You can't even drive yet.





You said that you didn't want to entertain the idea because you're just going to wait for the other girl to break up with you. That's just nuts! If you're not interested with your gf now, why don't you just end things yourself?





Oh, by the way, smiling does not mean that she wants to go out with you sometimes is simply means "hello"... and that coach needs to go to jail if he's sleeping with students!
Reply:dont let lust confuse you.you might be trading in something for nothing..
Reply:well ask u'r self this which one do u like more? how has the best personality? how will b there for u? how will u b there for? and then dump or ask out... ~Mary~
Reply:i think you should follow your heart. who do you like more? or the best choice wait it out and see what happens. think it all out.
Reply:You are still young and shouldn't be taking any relationships you have right now too seriously. It's impossible to give real advice without knowing more about the relationship - how long you've been dating, how serious you two are about each other, etc etc... But...





You can tell your current GF that you are interested in dating other girls, she may not like that, she may dump you, who knows. If you are waiting around for her to dump you anyway, it doesn't sound like you have too much hope for the "future" of the relationship anyway. The important thing is to be honest and not try to be sneaky and go behind her back.





Also, please pay more attention in English class.





Edit: I missed the part about the soccer coach - please inform an adult, parents, school officials, etc etc.
Reply:well if you are already dateing somebody else than their is no reason for you to want to date anybody else. i wou;d understand if you and your girlfriend is haveing problems then you should approach the other girl after you and your girlfriend break up. but if not it is not wrong to ask the girl do she like you but dont mess up a good relationship that you might regret. trust me
Reply:go for which ever one is sexier!
Reply:1) Learn to speak english.


2) An hour and 30 minutes? Maybe you should rethink that relationship, hun.


3) Just ask her out once things end with the other girl. If you like two people, then you can't like (letalone love) one of the girls with the whole of your heart.
Reply:u should still keep in contact with her but if u want 2 date her then u should wait till u break up with ur gf.
Reply:hahahahahahaha well that was worth the read bless!!!
Reply:What does you heart tell you? Go to her and tell her how you feel and what you have felt.. if you really love her, and cannot imagen her with another guy, go for it. maybe you might be surprise to know that all this time she has felt the same or more for you and have not even notice.. Best Advice tell her, and not be afraid anymore.. Take a chance, cause with tiome you will regret not knowing if she ever felt the same way...... Good Luck wish you the best luck in the world!!!!!
Reply:Well, do you care about your current girl friend more then her, or vise versa. And if he **** two girls , find out if thats true or not because someone may of said that because she/he hates him and is not true. But also dont be intimidated because she plays on girls football. IF you care about her and the rumor is true, you should totally protect her. IT sounds like your not really concerned about your other girl friend so maybe you should dump her and go your seperate ways. But do it nicely, and dont do it over a text message, girls like me hate it and its really rude. So ask her out! Who knows? You may not get anouther chance like this.
Reply:you sound like you are confused but if you like your girlfriend so much and you care so much for her and she's so wonderful then the girl you use to like will just be a friend and only a friend tempation is a mother burt if ur realtionship with your girlfriend is so strong and yall are happy then dont even get involve with this other girl u USE to like because you dont want to jeroparize your relationship with ur girlfriend with the girl you USE to like.....sometimes a girl wants u because some else have you so i believe if your happy with the new one dont get confused just kno you dont want this other girl because what you use to feel you dont ..... you may care but in a friend way so just be that friend


Girls: What do you want? Bad boy or great guy?

I have a friend named Scot. I see him meet and talk to girls all the time and he always gets a great reaction. He tells me to be myself. I do that but I still get many girls who brush me off. We have the same groups of friends. All the new friends (girls) think he is great and tell me to act more like him if I want to attract a girl. They buy his BS when he prays before meals (they are Christians... like me.. he might be as well) and stuff like that. He still is the old Scot who talks about getting a girl just so he can "Hit it" and move on. Our old group of friends think Scot is a jerk. One girl told me she hopes and prays that most guys are not like him. Why does a guy like that get total strangers to giggle and bat their eyes at his every word, but I try being myself and I get crickets chirping? I tried the David DeAngelo stuff (cocky/funny). Some of it is good but I just wanna be myself!! Maybe I could stand to be more confident.

Girls: What do you want? Bad boy or great guy?
Girls are stupid. They never really know what they want, so they go for the bad guy.





Then they blame ALL guys as being mean, bad, yada yada.





Stupid bims needs to grow up.
Reply:I rather have a bad guy because number one they are hot but then again they may be a jerk but they grow out of it and you know what they are capable of doing....a great guy can be so good to you but very sneaky and you don't know what to expect out of them because they seem to be so perfect that you wouldn't expect for them to do something wrong and that is what they want you to think
Reply:BEING A GIRL it hard to say what girls want. Some like a good nice guy and other like a bad boy. The majority of my girlfriends like a combination of both. IT is hot to have a bad boy and sweet to have a good nice guy when having alone time one on one
Reply:"Your time is limited, so don't waste it living someone else's life. Don't be trapped by dogma — which is living with the results of other people's thinking. Don't let the noise of others' opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition. They somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary." - Steve Jobs
Reply:I have personally had them both the Bad Boy and now the great guy which coincidentally are the same person. The great guy now use to be the bad boy years ago. We broke up and now years later he has really changed and is now the great guy. The major difference between the great guys and the bad boys is the confidence that the bad boys exude. Women love confident men and good guys don't seem to have that outgoing personality that bad boys do. That is what attracts the women to them to began with. But in the long run when a woman wants a serious relationship she really wants a good guy with a bad boy's confident personality. With the change that has taken place with my former "Bad Boy" I now have that and it's great!
Reply:Face it some women are just too shallow and stupid to realize those kind of things. They would rather have a guy who is "so fine" and treats them like crap. (Not saying you are not good looking cuz Im sure you are.)Well you don't have to pretend to be someone else and definitely don't try to be like Scot. The right girl will come along...one day....and I definitely think you're hanging out with the wrong crowd. Just be patient and find some new friends or stay with the old ones.
Reply:I think that maybe you are meeting the wrong kind of girls try to be kind and try to be yourself all the time
Reply:Women's emotional expectation of a relationship is so abysmally low, and they are so suspicious that all they expect is emotional intensity. Your friend is prepared to manipulate tease and goad women - if he treated a man that way, he'd get his lights punched out.





Unless you get a woman who has enough maturity to recognise a good thing when she sees it (and they are vanishingly rare) you must play brain games with women.





Women's romantic fiction;


Girl Meets Mr. A (Safe)


Girl meets Mr. B (Dangerous)


The plot plays out in a number of ways including but not limited to;


Having been mistaken and Mr. A is actually a bit dangerous.


Mr. B made good by the love of a good woman.


Mr. A becomes a hardguy saving the heroine from the Evil Mr. B.


Mr. C turning up and...


etc.


Yadda yadda yadda. You get the picture? It could be anything.





Read "Pride and Prejudice". Make your target woman's experience that of heroine, and cast yourself as Darcy. Just don't be Mr. Boring.





Once you are together, you can let her unwrap your camouflage, revealing your fundamentally decent character.





In the meantime, it is the Mans part to QUIT COMPLAINING.
Reply:be yourself. the perfect girl will come soon if your patient. just live life to the fullest till she comes.
Reply:Maybe the girls he's attracting aren't really the right kind of girls. True though that lots of guys can be shady and girls can't always tell.


You do just need to be yourself. Maybe you should look for the right kind of girls somewhere else. Women are always looking for the "great guy" honestly. I tried the bad boy thing before and it SUCKS! Now I have a great guy and am so happy in life.


Good luck to you. Just stick to your guns and don't try to change yourself (you sound really nice) to attract a girl. If someone doesn't like you the way you are, then they aren't right for you at all.
Reply:Hi, Im guessing your really young, and I think that you pretty much answered your own question, when you said that all you really need is a confidence boost, trying to be like other guys may work for a while but to be honest it doesnt last very long. Most girls and women like a guy to be true to themselves, not act like a jerk. Im old enough to know what I want in a man and its NOT a guy that can give great chat-up lines and charm the birds from the trees. What I and most women want in a guy is someone who SAYS WHAT HE MEANS AND MEANS WHAT HE SAYS!!! In other words, just be yourself and trust me, some day soon you will meet girls who think you are great to hang out with. I really wish you the very best of luck honey!
Reply:Confidence goes a long way. Haven't you ever seen guys who are not that attractive get girls that were gorgeous? Well, there is formula involved. You have to have confidence, good conversational skills and something to offer whether it be intellect or whatever. Some think you have to have money but the truth is, that the girls you will attract with money are girls that will be around as long as the money is around.





Also, you seem timid. You may just want to wait until the right girl for your personality comes around. Don't try to be someone you are not. If chicks don't like you for you, let them cluck somewhere else. You just don't want the heartache and resentment that goes with being someone you are not.





Good Luck to you!


Girls, dont like me at all WHY???????

I am almost19 and I have been shy around girls ever since I can remember. I was never able to tell any of my crushes how I felt or ask them out or anything. I am going to college this fall and never had a girlfriend or even a first kiss,I am way to shy to even approach girls. I just dont feel that women are attracted to me. I dont know why. I am really athletic and built,I am good looking I think never been told otherwise, kind honest and respectful, pretty smart, can have fun doing just about anything, but I just feel like I am unattractive for some reason. I dont know how to stop the shyness either, even the few girls I knew was still shy around them. I just answered this guys question who was complaining about girls throwing themselves at him WTF, no girl has ever been attracted to me and couldnt get a girlfriend no matter what and this guy is complaining about to many girls, what is wrong with this world also never went to any dances or prom, cuz who would want to go with me no one

Girls, dont like me at all WHY???????
First of all, you're 19, so there's no reason to be so pathetic just yet. Haven't you seen the South Park movie? Chicks dig confidence. The reason women don't pay any attention to you is because you have no confidence in yourself.
Reply:Just talk to them like you would with a friend. We're not that scary and the biggest reason why you probably feel like girls aren't attracted to you is because you seem closed off. Just go out and do things you enjoy doing and makes you feel great, maybe it'll help you gain some more confidence in yourself, and maybe you'll end up meeting girls that have things in common with you as well.
Reply:I agree with adam, girls like me like confidence in a guy. But theres a big difference between being confident and being cocky. DO NOT be cocky. Go out and have fun! approach girls at clubs or whatever, ask them for their number, and take it from there. Be confident
Reply:i'll go out with u


u sound like the kind of person a girl would love to be around don't give hope i am sure u will find the right one. i'm sure u r hot so just go to a girl get to know her then ask her out.
Reply:I used to be a pretty quiet, keep-to-myself person. I never thought of myself as attractive at all, and I didn't have much in the way of social skills (and that contributed to being shy and quiet). I decided to just go it alone, not think about guys much, and figured I'd find someone one day when the time was right. Later on, when I opened up more, I learned that some people thought that I was stuck-up because I didn't talk very much, other people thought that I was attractive and surely already had a boyfriend, and others were afraid to approach me for those reasons as well as others.





I would try opening up a little bit. Life can be so wonderful and life is too short to just give up at your young age and decide to go it alone and be lonely. Take some chances. You'll have some losses, but you'll never have any wins if you don't try. If you relax, be your true self, try to have more of an optimistic outlook, and open up to people, you might find things turning around for you. They did for me! Good luck.
Reply:my husband was 23 before he had his first kiss, which was me, to top it off he was a virgin, and i love him for that... he had a lot of the same issues, and he has a girl that wouldnt trade him for the world. i garentee your a good looking guy and you will find someone that will make you happy... sometimes god makes us wait for our soul mates to come around, just so we appreciate them so much more.. consider yourself lucky not to have to deal with the stress of a relationship while in school, you have time for study and other types of fun... just dont give up hope you will find someone sometime when your least expecting it... good luck to u..
Reply:Easy. You are shy, just ask a single one out already. And don't be afraid to date a year or two younger. It can really help. Just ask "(Insert name), will you go out with me to ________". Before you know it you got yourself a date.
Reply:Looks like you're going to have to save a few bucks %26amp; get yourself a hooker.





Get an experienced one - she'll show you the ropes.





In no time at all you'll be walking with a swagger %26amp; smirking at all the pretty girls!
Reply:honey quit being shy. no need for the girls to be attracted to you, just go out there and get them. and if you fear rejection, who gives a crap because there is always another one out there for you, and their loss is another ones gain. and honey you sound like a really great guy and there are many girls out there. STOP BEING SHY, girls like guys who have some confidence, and hey make your next task just a simple hello to an attractive female, it helps you slowly become more confident. sweetie don't worry your time will come.
Reply:Dude where's the confidence? How can you expect to know if their's someone out there interested in you if you don't make a move. Sometimes girl's think that the guy should make the first move and if you think that they should make the first move then both of you would be waiting forever. You have to chance it in order to get some results. Even if you get rejected, raise your head back up and do it again.
Reply:Aww! Don't give up!


Like you said, you're really shy... the thing is... you need to let the girl you like, KNOW that you like her.. and you have to actually go after her. DON'T wait for girls to throw themselves at you! That's silly! You have to take the lead. Girl's like that. They like to be pursued, it's a thrill.. and very flattering... Otherwise the girl that you like, who just might like you back, might just ignore you and move on (because even though she thinks you're cute, she might think she's just wasting her time, because you never let her know you like her)... I'm 19, and I've known plenty of girls you were absolutely crazy for guys that were very very shy, and quiet who never dated much... and they would have LOOOVED for that guy to give them attention and pursue them.


Pursuing girls lets them know they're worth something to you... that you'd spend time.. and creativity on them.. instead of just expecting them to like you just cause you're so "wonderful".... that's just lazy... I bet you there are girls who do like you right now... but they might be like you.. very shy.. and you just never know it... Make girls laugh... compliment them.. talk to them... smile at them when you pass them... we love it! Try to be open. :)
Reply:Dude your doing it right now. You are listing all your qualities. Maybe try to find some1 that you can be yourself. Maybe they think your shyness and the way you just talked about yourself as a turnoff.


Black girls dating white boys: What are your thoughts?

I'm from Norway, and here there isn't much talk about black and white, but often I'll see something TV or the net that gets me thinking. I find some black girls very attractive (I'm blue eyed, blonde btw), but I've noticed that there are a lot of prejudices, at least in the US, towards white boys and men (and vice versa). I've read that some black girls think white guys only want them for sex. I think that is very judgemental. Also, I once knew this black girl who dated a white boy who she used because he gave her things. I hear about how some black girls say all white men think black women are irresistible. Sounds like white people in general are seen as dull, non-sexual (or too sexual), hateful etc. So, I wonder what people here (black girls in particular) think about dating white boys. Personally, I fall for a girl who's cute, sweet, smart, funny. I've never looked down on black girls for being black. That's just stupid! I think personality is a huge part of the attraction.

Black girls dating white boys: What are your thoughts?
Well, I'm black and I'm from Germany. It seems like to me that in Europe interracial dating is more acceptable. Only when I came here it seemed to be a big problem, bigger than I expected. I like white guys and I'm dating one. Especially in England I've noticed a lot of white guys dating black women. It's more rare in the States and not as acceptable. Don't get me wrong, some Germans have problems with interracial relationships too, but over here color seems to be such a big issue.
Reply:i'm black %26amp; i think white guys re so hot %26amp; sure i'd date em (if his hot), but to be honest my friends %26amp; family would say he just wants to see how it feels like to 'do it' with a black girl. Report It

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Reply:It's too bad that color is still an issue.
Reply:You can't help who you fall in love with no matter what people think if 2 ppl of different races fall in love so be it ppl arent to judge. (Judge and tho shall be judged)
Reply:If a black girl wanted to date me, I would be all for it. I have absolutely no problem with it whatsoever.
Reply:Like the English say, 'All cats are gray in the dark'.
Reply:what ever make you happy
Reply:COLOR DOES NOT MEAN A THING .


IF THEY LOVE ONE ANOTHER THEN COLOR SHOULD NOT MATTER
Reply:I happy someone else feels that same way!!! I really like white boys
Reply:I like dating white guys. My boyfriend who I'm in a long-term relationship with is white, and we plan to get married soon! :)
Reply:Love is color blind. Black, white, green. It doesn't matter.
Reply:Every race of people have their crackpots. Black/ white everyone has it's golddiggers or people who just want someone for sex.





But as long as the love is there I don't see what could be the problem. I've dated black guys before and saw some hatefullness. But only from other white people who called me a Ni**er lover.


I broke a couple of people's noses over that one!





Like the first person said Love is Blind. Date who you want to and screw the rest!
Reply:if a black girl would date me i'd date a black girl as long as she's not a gangsta *****. i don't want no part of no gangsta boos
Reply:It's still taboo in the U.S.


But, I agree, personality and compatibility should be the deciding factor, instead of race.





It's part cynicism on the part of some black women and part truth. I've heard comments from some white males about having sex with black females and wanting nothing else. Some of the comments were downright cringe-worthy and gave me pause... even though I knew not all white males saw black females that way.





It's mostly about preference. I have friends who are just not attracted to white males; but they're not prejudice... just content with what they have.
Reply:hhhaaaha lol i love zoom zooms answer hell yeah....but i dono i would feel wierd datin a black girl... i like hispanic and white girls no asians....no offence im not racist or anything
Reply:i think doesn\'t mather...we are all humans..if u like her why not





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Reply:What is there to think about?Hell yeah i would date a black girl(or any other girl)if i like her.There are some prety hot black girls out there
Reply:I grew up around only whites, but I date all races...as long as you're cute, funny, CONFIDENT, unique, have class and are fun...I'm completely for it!

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Why do girls care so much about weight?

Can you help me understand this?





-Girls insist they are fat, even when you tell them they are skinny. If someone says "youre skinny" the girl says "no, you are skinnier. i am a fatty."





-Today me and my friends were talking about gaining and losing weight in the last few months.


"I lost 2 pounds"- one girl (last two weeks)


"I lost 4 pounds"- another girl (last month and a half)


"I stayed the same"- other girl


"I gained 10 pounds"- me (last two months)





Well they insist I am still skinnier then them and they are fat. I mean seriously I was the only person who gained weight and I wasn't making a big fuss about it, I just stated it.





Why do girls want other girls to think of them as fat? And when girls are really fat, they are automatically skinny?

Why do girls care so much about weight?
i agree with your first answer its because of the powerful messages that girls are getting from the media that if they dont look like models or celebs that their is something wrong with them. thgey must be like those perfect slim ladies we see on advertising etc. THose are the girls who get the guys so I suppose they preceive that it will help them attract me also


I agree it has gone crazy .very mildly overweight females are regarded as fat etc. and of course it explains the incresing number of cases of anorexia and bolemia
Reply:it's the desire to be attractive and look like celebrities that we admire.
Reply:i hate that! i prefer boobs


Do girls like guys who "look like girls"?

I consider myself a pretty guy. My skin is super smooth, I have light blond hair, big blue eyes, big eyelashes, and soft features, what could be considered feminine. I guess you could say I have a teen idol look, like Jesse McCartney or someone like him. Well, one of my guy friends said recently that he doesn't think I appeal to girls as much as I think because I look too pretty, and he says that girls don't like "pretty" to the extent I've gone. Well, I've recently found out that a lot of girls ***say*** they don't like that in a guy, so why then do girls notice me anywhere I go? :) The question is, is he right? I am quite masculine below the face, farly tall, broad shouldered, athletic. But is he right that not as many girls like that "pretty" look as I think. Honestly, I can't help my face, nor would I want to, I'm practically in love with my reflection. :) What do you girls think of all this? Do I sound hot or not? Be honest.

Do girls like guys who "look like girls"?
Yeah, you sound hot, according to the girl on my right. But then, boys "who look like girls" are only thought of as cute and dating objects, whereas boys who have that masculine look such as Zac Efron of High School Musical are thought of as atheltci and marriage object.





I think your features are somewhere between the Nordic and the Eurasian type, which is kind of cool nowadays.
Reply:I disagree with the top answer (by Matt P). I'm a woman. I'm 5'8" or 5'9", I'm fit and muscular, long brown hair, blue eyes and I get asked out all the time by "macho" guys and I always turn them down. I'd much rather marry a guy who had feminine features rather than someone like Zac Efron. Report It

Reply:Honestly, if want to find girls who like guys who "look like girls" go to an anime convention. Seriously. Lots of girls who are anime fans like the whole androgynous look. I'm a fan of boys with long eyelashes, myself.


If you want to look a little more masculine, try growing stubble. Nothing too bad. But I think it makes most guys more masculine and sexy.
Reply:no, i don't like guys who are in love with their reflection. and i actually prefer guys with long brown/black hair and brown eyes that wear tight pants and skateboard. i also like guys with good personalities, and you just sound like an *** ♥
Reply:To be honest with you, I'm not a big fan of boys looking like girls but I like it if the have nice eyes and eyelashes, that can be cute but that's pretty much as far as I go.


Why do girls stare???

im 23 years old. i been there done that wen it comes to girls. had way older girls, younger, my age, mature, immature. i mean u name it. but i still dont quite understand girls. my questions is, wen i go out, there is times when i get a lot of girls staring at me. and other times wen i go out, no girls at all stare. why are they staring wen they are and wen theyre not why? im not an ugly person but i also dont think im really good looking. although i do have low self esteem. so wen girls stare i feel happy but then i feel like they staring cus theres something wrong? why do most girls stare? and if i get girls staring one day how come the next none stare at all? really confuses me

Why do girls stare???
Maybe they are trying to get your attention or just admiring you Sweetie, take it as a compliment.
Reply:Maybe the times lots of them are staring are the times when your at your best (confident, dressed well etc..) and mabye the times nobody stares you are wearing an ugly outfit or something.


btw i think its funny that you said "Im 23 i been there done that when it comes to girls " haha. not trying to be rude but im 27 and when i was 23 i thought i knew it all about guys too, turns out i didnt know as much as i thought i did.
Reply:Sometimes they just want attention, or want people to notice them all dressed up or whatever... Or maybe they like you. But if its a dirty look then probably not.
Reply:If they're staring and there's nothing visibly wrong with you, or if you're not being weird, it's a good thing. But maybe other times you don't look as good ... because that happens I guess. Just accept it. Like, maybe some days you have better hair or skin, or are wearing nicer clothes? Perhaps you should note how you look and how girls react. Also consider where you are.
Reply:We stare coz we like the look of you and maybe want to get to know you better. Every1 has good days and bad. Days when you get loads of attention and days when you dont. On the days you do get attention, take the oppertunity and go talk to them. You dont know what you might be missing.


GIRLS ONLY Is it ok for a girl to just use a guy and get rid of him?

I asked this question b4 but i want a girls oppinion on this now there's this girl I sometimes hang around with she always says ''oh I took his virginity and even though we aint 2gether but I can use him for sex.'' I sit there and wonder is it ok to use a guy and throw a guy away like trash then play around with their minds.


Now girls what kinda girl do you think she is give me your girls oppinions. GIRLZ ONLY ON THIS

GIRLS ONLY Is it ok for a girl to just use a guy and get rid of him?
Of course guys do it....
Reply:It is never ok to play with anyones heart, feelings or mind. Remember what goes around comes around.
Reply:its ok if she wants to be treated the same way. but from a girl with self respect and morals NO this is not OK thats why guys are a**holes to women because girls like that played them and gave them the impression all girls do that to guys and its not true.
Reply:yes of course it is ok to use men they are all w*nke*s
Reply:it may be morally wrong, as many girls will place this issue as a top priority. Sure there are girls here willing to give opinions, but remember that 80% of the girls have relationship problems themselves and the remaining 20% base it off their past experiences. So whats the problem? The problem is that there are few hot girls on this website, the thing is that all hot girls have better things to do than to post and answer people on answers.yahoo. So you had better know that they aren't giving you advice that unbiased nor is it very accurate.





But other hot girls will see this as acceptable, in fact in many occasions, the girl will find herself so called "Dating" a wealthy guy for financial reassurance while she really gives the sex and love to the other.





So life moves on, whether or not you'd like it, there is a greater prominence in females of great beauty. All thats left is for you to be the guy they are secretly having sex with





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Reply:no its not ok
Reply:nooo
Reply:well to treat them like trash no, but if the guy knows whats going on, and he's on board


why not, the key is to be honest and not lead anyone on, and take advantage of someone else other wise its selfish
Reply:WOULD YOU LIKE SOME ONE TO USE YOU AND THEN DUMP YOU LIKE TRASH WHEN YOU ANSWER THAT YOU GOT UR OWN QUESTION ANSWERED !!! WE ARE HUMAN NOT OBJECTS OR THINGS THAT ONCE USED CAN BE DISCARDED, YEH IF YOU HAVE A MISUNDERSTANDING AND YOU CANNOT GET ALONG WITH ONE ANOTHER THEN IT IS DIFFERENT BUT JUST FOR SEX OR THING LIKE THAT I DONT THINK SO, YOU WANT THAT THEM GET A P.... P...
Reply:ok, NO WAY! the only people who do that are f u c k i n g S.L.U.Ts! That is SO wrong and I HATE when guys do that. THEY. HAVE. NO. RESPECT!
Reply:A girl that does that is a whore.


And besides, if you treat another person like that, bad luck with come back to you two fold.
Reply:hi my name is kimo iam male and i wanna talke about sex with any girl iam online now my e-mial is kimo_007_007
Reply:Who knows how people can do this. Its so wrong. It would really hurt someone when they find out what was going on.
Reply:No, it's not ok. It is not tok for people to use other people, that is cruel and un healthy. That should be done to no one.
Reply:I wish someone would use me tonight.
Reply:Guys do this all the time. I'm not saying its right b/c its not, but women are starting to act like men and do them the same way. I dont feel its right to use anyone. I just think that maybe it was done to her and now she's doing it to someone else so that it doesnt happen to her again.
Reply:hey, guyz do this all the time to us...gals. it's pay back baby.


i'm not saying it's right....but it's not wrong either.
Reply:I think that is sh*tty for anyone to do to anybody!! What goes around comes around!!! Treat people the way you want to be treated.
Reply:Sure they can do that....but what does that make her?
Reply:Its not cool to hurt their feelings....esp taking their virginity and all. ur friend has issues.





I am guilty of using guys for free drinks ever now and then.
Reply:It depends on if the individual feels guilty about it. It seems like a bad thing to do but guys do it all the time, however the guy that you are doing it to might innocent to the whole thing.





To me it could work (have done it before and still doing it).


But the only way to feel ok about it is if the guy is seeing other people and he is just thinking that he has a chance with you and that you are willing to cheat with him.
Reply:OMG. What a skank *** b**ch!!! Beat the s**t out of her. I no that girls get crap from guys all the time but that doesn't mean that we can treat men like junk. Masturbate. That is a easy solution!!
Reply:shoot guys do it to us all the time and we take well if she gets away with it then good for her cause its been happening to us since the beginning of time
Reply:no i believe a person shouldn't play wit other ppls feelings....she is a very confused girl n later on in life she'll get very hurt....


but dat goes 4 guys also .... dey shouldn't play wit other ppls mind/feelings....'cause wat goes around comes around....
Reply:NO, its ****** up and wrong whether guys or girls do it.
Reply:I think your frined is going for the reputation of a slut. She may be saying all that, but i bet she is really lonely inside.
Reply:tell me about it my best friend is like that. its annoying and some of the guys are my friends. Its hard to tell them its not good either. i dont like it. its good to do it to do it to guys that do it to girls but not good guys
Reply:She sounds cheap and like she has no self respect.Sad.Maybe if the guy knows he is nothing but a fk buddy,least that way there is an understanding between them.If she leads him on too think otherwise...that would be different.Why would you hang out with a girl like that?
Reply:i do not think it is ok, but I have friends who do it ALL the time. At first i thought it was so messed up of them, but after a while i realized just how stupid the guys are. Most of the guys know exactly what is going on %26amp; do nothing about being miss treated because they are getting sex with no strings attached.





so my thought is they both deserve each other
Reply:It's lots of fun if the guy is all for it. I just never had sex juss alot of spending and hanging out. but if he is like seriouslly in luv-CARMA WILL GET HER- trust!! it happened to me. guys could be playah's buy why when a woman makes the move we are considered hoes. She's just havin fun n we can't stay young 4 evaah!
Reply:thtas messed up you guys might have had feelings for each other at one point but now its just torture for you and her sounds like she needs you to fall back onto and make fun of while you take all the pounding get rid of her!!!!

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Iam not attractive to Japanese girls.?

I travled to Japan last year. I heared Japanese girls are kind, and open. One thing I realized was that they were open and kind to foreigners but I am South Korean so they werent like that they were not welcomed, and rude. Iam having trauma to Japanese girls. I think it is cultural things. They always get angry the thing that american girls would not get angry at. Like conversation, they are so stuck with personal things. Also some girls would stare at me when I eyecontact with them, they look at me like I am stare at them. They act weired stuff. I am so scared to them. I try to think that all Japanese girls are not all the same, but I see these kind of girls everyday. I cant read them what they are thinking and i dont know what there hobbies are. Sometimes I see girls who looks very kind, They are so different to American girls. Could u tell me about Japanese girls. Do u think it is just saw the wrong girls, there should be few nice Japanese girls?

Iam not attractive to Japanese girls.?
I believe that most Japanese women are attracted only to their own kind. It has happened that some lucky American sailor found a lovely Japanese female to fall in love with him, but these are probably rare exceptions. In general, I think they are more aloof than the Jews, which is not an attempt to knock or berate either group. Just saying they prefer to remain apart and not "mingle", in general.
Reply:Yeah I've heard Japanese aren't too keen on Koreans.
Reply:I heard that prejudice towards Koreans is pretty commonplace in Japan, but Koreans display animosity in turn. Korea and Japan have a history of bitter conflicts and it lingers on in the present.
Reply:japanese arent so polite these days as they used to be in the old days..
Reply:i lived in japan for 5years (because im a japanese)


and the japanese girls are different in there ages.


if 20-29 there are woman like yankee there are woman like


kind. if 13-15 the girls are want to be like yankee and some girls are not.


16-19 are better not be close. woman or maybe you could be


friends girl. are the lot japanese woman are all different


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A few of my mates when encountering a strange man they do not know who concerns them by continually looking at them - point at him and repeat "staring man, staring man, staring man "





since you bleat on continually about girls only, and seem to ignore the fact that you were amongst Japanese men too I can only guess my mates may have given you the "staring man" treatment!





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Girls are so tall these days taller than me but how come cause...?

I live in the UK and am 5ft 8 not growing any more. Anyhow they say the average here is 5ft 4 for a girl and 5ft 9 for guys. I dont believe that for a minute!! Everyday for the past few months I stand near girls at the train station, bus stop etc. etc. And they are NOT wearing heels. The vast majority are taller than me!!! What's going on. The average can't be 5ft 4 for girls here. Its gotta be 5ft 7 minimum. But whats going on girls are going huge. I feel so short even around girls here!! Any girls from UK? How tall are you? Compared to other guys u know??

Girls are so tall these days taller than me but how come cause...?
Growth and height have long been recognized as a measure of the health and wellness of individuals, hence part of the reasoning for the use of growth charts.


Average height is increasingly used as a measure of the health and wellness (standard of living and quality of life) of populations. Attributed as a significant reason for the trend of increasing height in parts of Europe is the egalitarian populations where proper medical care and adequate nutrition are relatively equally distributed. Changes in diet (nutrition) and a general rise in quality of health care and standard of living are the cited factors in the Asian populations. Average height in the United States has remained essentially stagnant since the 1950s. The reason?


Malnourished (overweight and feeding on fast food or junk food are a class of malnourishment) youngsters who do not exercise.


Young people being taller in Europe is a sign of development and well being. Good thing.


As for the average height, the population has to be 18 on average to be censused, maybe in next year's census you'll see that change in average height. The latest is from 2002.


Girls & Guys OpenionS...?

Hey all! I had recieved an e-mail about Guys Facts .. and I would really like to know if they r true or not...So guys and Gals ur openion is needed..


Facts:


1.Guys don't actually look after good-looking girls. they prefer neat %26amp; presentable girls


2.Guys hate flirts


3.When a guy says he doesn't understand you, it simply means you're not thinking the way he is.


4.Guys may be flirting around all day but before they go to sleep they always think about the girl they truly care about


5.When a guy really likes you, he'll disregard all your bad characteristics


6.Guys go crazy over a girl's smile


7.Guys will do anything just to get the girl's attention


8.When you touch a guy's heart, there's no turning back


9.When a girl says "no", a guy hears it as "try again tomorrow"so true


10.You have to tell a guy what you really want before he gets the message clearly


11.Guys love their moms


12.A guy would sacrifice his money for lunch just to get you a couple of roses


13.You can never ....

Girls %26amp; Guys OpenionS...?
Here are my answers to the Top 10:





1.We like both good looking and neat. Good looking will catch the eye but the neatness is the hook.





2. We LOVE flirts...the more the better.





3. When we say we dont understand you it means we dont want to FEEL what we are feeling at the time...change the subject!





4.We always go back to thinking about the real one we love.





5.We will disregard all bad things for a while.





6. A girl's smile drives us WILD!





7.We will do anything to get your attention.





8.Once you touch our heart you have us.





9. When a girl say "no" it just means "keep trying harder"





10. Guys only hear what they want to hear
Reply:Every guy is differnt. of course some to the things that you have listed might be right but that is just a poll. If 6 people say yes and %26amp; people say no, you could say that the majority of the people say no.





When you touch a guys heart?


lets just say that he has to be looking for some one to share his life. You have to have the right time and person.





Most people like there mother





A guy would sacrifice his lunch money for flower.


some might but most will have a job.





If a guy went crazy of a smile. he would never get out of high school. again it has to be the right time and person.
Reply:if that's the case.........HE LIKES ME!!!!!!! yes! no!





i don't know if some are true of yours but


he's telling me how he thinks about me before he sleeps


i'm neat and not too flirty (not over-flirty)


he teases me


he's always blowing me kisses and calling me(when silent)


etc. etc. yes yes yes





no!!!!!!!!!!!!!


you're probably confused. one nerd that i hate likes me and a guy i like likes me(i think)





the nerd has even told me he loves me.





sorry.





please say the cool guy likes me and this is all true


What do i about my sir and girls?

i am student in it-field. and i always go to collage.


all boys and girls are my friends mean i am very populer in my collage and also i am toper of my collage.


my sir see me with a girl . and he think wrong about me and girl.


in my collage this girl talk me only two times and when she talk to me . sir comes. and sir thinking wrong about me.


but i am not a this type of student. i am not intersted in making girlfriend. and girl is as like me .she is not a bad girl.


but sir think wrong about me and girl.


and today my sir come in class and say to all class that "me and girl witween something wrong"


and after this girl is crying and being sad.


i feel so sorry about girl . and this girl is a good girl and a bad girl.


and due to this . all class understand that she is a bad girl.


what do i? i can't forgive me?


i talk to girl or not ? what i do ?


tell me?........

What do i about my sir and girls?
Is it ur college or collage?


And u said u r a toper not a topper.


That too toper of my collage.


What a spelling and so many mistakes in sentences.





The way ur sir is behaving and students are thinking means this matter looks like serious. It isn't as simple as u say.


But I take it true what u told.


Don't worry about it. For time being don't talk to that girl.


Time will heal everything.


Such a thing had happened to me also.


But slight variation was our sir saw us together twice at same place, same point and it was our bad luck. He didn't teach us but was a faculty member of our college. That was most embarissing time.





Hey remember one thing that character is one of the most important thing in anybody's life. But for girls its most precious thing. So take care and stop talking to her. And concentrate on ur studies. Be a topper as u r not a toper. LOL!
Reply:college is to study.....focus on your future rather than spending time girls....if you have a good career you will have lots of girls....
Reply:YOu shoulds talk to the teacher and ask him why he said that in class. And if he does not talk ot you properly then should try to compromise with the teacher, and if this continues then you should talk to the principle.





YOu know more about your school then I do. But try talking to the teacher in a profesional manner. If he continues to say stuff about you then go to hte principle. When you talk to the principle, talk to him/her to bring this situation into his/her attention, so if something like this happens again, at least the principle will listen to you.





If you know the girl is a bad influence then why do you talk to her.
Reply:i'm sorry what?
Reply:I do not understand why your teacher said something to that girl?if you are not doing anything wrong why your teacher have to say anything to anybody.


Now I do not understand why she was crying she can just say ' look Mr I am not doing anything wrong and you have no right to disrespect me..


Now if you are thinking you did something wrong just talk to the girl, say you are sorry.


I think you told something wrong about the girl and now you are sorry and you are blaming to the the teacher.
Reply:ur teacher is very backward in mind


but i hope other students n ur friends wont take it too serious


for long


poor girl!
Reply:forget abt ur sir %26amp; da girl, looks like a cool college,


thts y a guy like u is a "topper"





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