Saturday, November 19, 2011

Are All Girls Bi-Curious?

I just posted a similar question but wasn't getting the feedback I was looking for...soooooo, I'll shorten my question. Even outside of pornography, there seem to be more girls willing to engage in quasi-sexual or outright sexual acts with other girls than men with other men. I've also heard that the Y-chromosome that makes a fetus male in-utero is on the decline and the male gender may eventually die out all together. A surprisingly large amount of my girls friends admit to some level of attraction to other girls, or a willingness to experiment sexually with them. It is not uncommon to go to a party or check youtube and see 2 or more girls who claim to be straight willingly fondling, kissing and getting incredibly intimate with one another. So, someone tell me, is this all just a show that girls put on, or is there more to it? Do you think maybe girls really are more attracted to those within their gender than they let on? Is there any girl who would never kiss another girl?

Are All Girls Bi-Curious?
No some of us are not curious we are just Lesbians
Reply:i think guys are too, it's just most are too macho to say so. it's the unknown that gets you
Reply:I think anytime you begin a statement that begins with ALL or EVERYONE, you should assume that you are over-generalizing. While instances of drunken or coerced "bisexuality" may be higher amongst females (i refrain from calling them women for my personal reasons), this does not mean that ALL women are bi. I'm sure there are some women who would never kiss another woman. While I feel sorry for them because they're missing out....im sure they're out there.
Reply:Ask your mommy.
Reply:Sure we are....just like all guys are....this is a freaking myth! Sure some girls are, just like some guys are girls are just more likely to show it in public than guys because there is less of a stigma. Now grow up and stop being such a perv!
Reply:I think they are definatley more than they put on. Some, I know arn't in the least attracted, but with the fear of homosexuality, I think alot of girls hide their bi-curious self.
Reply:I am sure there are plenty of women who are not bi-curious in the least. But, I also think that it is more socially acceptable for women to be curious than it is for men. Women are more emotionally open, and maybe it is easier for us to be openly curious and/or willing to experiment.





Also, for some reason, it can be an insult to a straight man to infer that he is homosexual, as if it implies that he is less of a man. So, from the perspective of a straight man, there is more stigma associated with bi men than there is with bi women.





Besides, when was the last time you were watching porn and saw two men together? (that wasn't specifically gay porn, that is.) Straight men just don't find that as attractive as two women together. LOL!





I think also, that culturally we are far more aware of these shades of preference and sexuality now than we ever have been, so maybe that allows people to admit to a certain level of curiosity that would have been unthinkable even 20 years ago. Let's hear it for progress! Who knows what it will be like 20 years from now? ;%26gt;
Reply:I would never ---the thought of it just grosses me out. It seems to me that girls today do the bi thing to be "cool" or to impress guys or something. Girls today seem overly desperate---it's kind of pathetic.
Reply:Snoog???





Genetically there have to be different sexes for procreation of totaly different individuals. . . currently. Perhaps in the future turkey baster babies will be the human norm, and I quite expect designer babies to become a common human form. That is simply another facet of husbandry; a specific type of evolution. Who knows what humans will be like in another 500 years.
Reply:I am not even slightly bi-curious.
Reply:i am bisexual and i am not promiscuious at all and i am very fussy with who i date. some girls are not bisexual or bi-curious they are just attention seekers who snog other women to attract and tease men and then claim to be straight. i think it's disgusting because it makes bisexual women look cheap. no wonder why people (even myself!) find women that do this revolting and embarrasing. it's so pathetic and lables true bisexuals and makes people believe straight women are secretly bisexual when they are not
Reply:I think it can be more in fun. I have kissed a girl before but I was just trying to get another guy turned on. Nothing to do with me liking her at all.
Reply:No. I have never thought about being with a woman and the thought of vagina makes me gag.
Reply:Interesting. I have noticed the same and you beat me to the question. Seems to be very prevalent among the young girls these days.
Reply:How can you blame them? If I was a woman I would find other women attractive. Bottom line, women are beautiful. Or would you want a drooling, hairy, stinky guy on top of you. Sice that is most of the guy out there.
Reply:Im married and have kids. I am straight. But yes, I have kissed a girl. Yes, I would kiss a girl again. No I wouldnt have a girlfriend though.
Reply:I think so, I also think that there are more males out there that are bi-curious that actually let on. I think that almost everyone goes through that stage in life.
Reply:I don't think all girls are bi-curious. They are just more open with their sexuality then men and just say they are "bi" so they can get attention from people.
Reply:Um I'm not bi curious at all. the thought of munching carpet makes me want to throw up. yeah women's bodies are beautiful, but that doesn't mean i want to do anything sexual to it. i can admit that a woman is beauitful but thats more like a jealous or in awe of, not causei want to sleep with her.
Reply:no.


As a woman who is attracted to other women, and is also attracted to men (but won't identify as Bi) I can answer you frankly and honestly "absolutely not".


Female bisexuality has been so objectified, it's been so pigeonholed as a pornographic orientation, that I think most of the women (on youtube, in parties, in bars, who "admit to it" in front of men) do so for the benefit of the watchers. Not to say most women are willing to cheapen themselves that way for someone else's sexual excitement, but some are, and our current culture encourages is, so there you have it.


It's not a secret that every man's secret fantasy is a woman who wants other women (and let's him watch or participate) so there are SO MANY girls who dangle that possibility in front of them, or let them have it in order to be regaled as the ultimate fantasy and take all the validation that comes along with it. It's sad, and it's the reason I won't label myself as a bisexual. I am not here for anyone else's pleasure.





I know lots of women who would never kiss/fondle/touch another girl, and I know ltos of women who would only kiss another girl for the sake of the men who're watching.





I also know lots of women who will only ever kiss other women in private, behind closed doors, and will never videotape, discuss, write about, or brag about it for anyone else's gratification.





No. Not all girl's are bi-curious. Some of us are just plain old BI, some of us are lesbians, some of us are 100% and totally straight.
Reply:Not necesarily. The reason girls are more open to experimenting with girls than guys are is because guys are basically brought up to be macho.
Reply:Some are and some are not. It depends on the person.


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