Girls, dont like me at all WHY???????

I am almost19 and I have been shy around girls ever since I can remember. I was never able to tell any of my crushes how I felt or ask them out or anything. I am going to college this fall and never had a girlfriend or even a first kiss,I am way to shy to even approach girls. I just dont feel that women are attracted to me. I dont know why. I am really athletic and built,I am good looking I think never been told otherwise, kind honest and respectful, pretty smart, can have fun doing just about anything, but I just feel like I am unattractive for some reason. I dont know how to stop the shyness either, even the few girls I knew was still shy around them. I just answered this guys question who was complaining about girls throwing themselves at him WTF, no girl has ever been attracted to me and couldnt get a girlfriend no matter what and this guy is complaining about to many girls, what is wrong with this world also never went to any dances or prom, cuz who would want to go with me no one

Girls, dont like me at all WHY???????
First of all, you're 19, so there's no reason to be so pathetic just yet. Haven't you seen the South Park movie? Chicks dig confidence. The reason women don't pay any attention to you is because you have no confidence in yourself.
Reply:Just talk to them like you would with a friend. We're not that scary and the biggest reason why you probably feel like girls aren't attracted to you is because you seem closed off. Just go out and do things you enjoy doing and makes you feel great, maybe it'll help you gain some more confidence in yourself, and maybe you'll end up meeting girls that have things in common with you as well.
Reply:I agree with adam, girls like me like confidence in a guy. But theres a big difference between being confident and being cocky. DO NOT be cocky. Go out and have fun! approach girls at clubs or whatever, ask them for their number, and take it from there. Be confident
Reply:i'll go out with u


u sound like the kind of person a girl would love to be around don't give hope i am sure u will find the right one. i'm sure u r hot so just go to a girl get to know her then ask her out.
Reply:I used to be a pretty quiet, keep-to-myself person. I never thought of myself as attractive at all, and I didn't have much in the way of social skills (and that contributed to being shy and quiet). I decided to just go it alone, not think about guys much, and figured I'd find someone one day when the time was right. Later on, when I opened up more, I learned that some people thought that I was stuck-up because I didn't talk very much, other people thought that I was attractive and surely already had a boyfriend, and others were afraid to approach me for those reasons as well as others.





I would try opening up a little bit. Life can be so wonderful and life is too short to just give up at your young age and decide to go it alone and be lonely. Take some chances. You'll have some losses, but you'll never have any wins if you don't try. If you relax, be your true self, try to have more of an optimistic outlook, and open up to people, you might find things turning around for you. They did for me! Good luck.
Reply:my husband was 23 before he had his first kiss, which was me, to top it off he was a virgin, and i love him for that... he had a lot of the same issues, and he has a girl that wouldnt trade him for the world. i garentee your a good looking guy and you will find someone that will make you happy... sometimes god makes us wait for our soul mates to come around, just so we appreciate them so much more.. consider yourself lucky not to have to deal with the stress of a relationship while in school, you have time for study and other types of fun... just dont give up hope you will find someone sometime when your least expecting it... good luck to u..
Reply:Easy. You are shy, just ask a single one out already. And don't be afraid to date a year or two younger. It can really help. Just ask "(Insert name), will you go out with me to ________". Before you know it you got yourself a date.
Reply:Looks like you're going to have to save a few bucks %26amp; get yourself a hooker.





Get an experienced one - she'll show you the ropes.





In no time at all you'll be walking with a swagger %26amp; smirking at all the pretty girls!
Reply:honey quit being shy. no need for the girls to be attracted to you, just go out there and get them. and if you fear rejection, who gives a crap because there is always another one out there for you, and their loss is another ones gain. and honey you sound like a really great guy and there are many girls out there. STOP BEING SHY, girls like guys who have some confidence, and hey make your next task just a simple hello to an attractive female, it helps you slowly become more confident. sweetie don't worry your time will come.
Reply:Dude where's the confidence? How can you expect to know if their's someone out there interested in you if you don't make a move. Sometimes girl's think that the guy should make the first move and if you think that they should make the first move then both of you would be waiting forever. You have to chance it in order to get some results. Even if you get rejected, raise your head back up and do it again.
Reply:Aww! Don't give up!


Like you said, you're really shy... the thing is... you need to let the girl you like, KNOW that you like her.. and you have to actually go after her. DON'T wait for girls to throw themselves at you! That's silly! You have to take the lead. Girl's like that. They like to be pursued, it's a thrill.. and very flattering... Otherwise the girl that you like, who just might like you back, might just ignore you and move on (because even though she thinks you're cute, she might think she's just wasting her time, because you never let her know you like her)... I'm 19, and I've known plenty of girls you were absolutely crazy for guys that were very very shy, and quiet who never dated much... and they would have LOOOVED for that guy to give them attention and pursue them.


Pursuing girls lets them know they're worth something to you... that you'd spend time.. and creativity on them.. instead of just expecting them to like you just cause you're so "wonderful".... that's just lazy... I bet you there are girls who do like you right now... but they might be like you.. very shy.. and you just never know it... Make girls laugh... compliment them.. talk to them... smile at them when you pass them... we love it! Try to be open. :)
Reply:Dude your doing it right now. You are listing all your qualities. Maybe try to find some1 that you can be yourself. Maybe they think your shyness and the way you just talked about yourself as a turnoff.