Girls and Guys, i need your advice, please answer. Best Answer = 5 stars and 10 points.?

Ok sheer's the deal theres this girl named Clarissa, who's my girl cousins bff. Now i admit she's cute, however, my guy cousin who gets all the girls, wants me to go out with her and have sex with her and leave. Only because i've never had a gf before and im still a virgin at 16 years old. Its kinda like they're trying to force me to go out with her but, i don't like her personality. Since i don't wanna be with her they think that im gay, because i only want love, and i just don't want to bang a chick then walk out. This girl clarissa, isn't really my type. She likes the guy who does bad things, isn't too bright and is just the bad ***. Im a nice guy that treats a girl well, who cares about womens feelings, and loves to listen to them Besides, which girl these days likes the nice guy? I want to wait untill college to have my first gf, or if luckily God matches me with a nice girl who isn't so shallow.





Anyway my question is, should i just settle for her? Or tell her....

Girls and Guys, i need your advice, please answer. Best Answer = 5 stars and 10 points.?
Why do you care so much about what your cousins think about you? If you know that you want a meaningful relationship and not just get laid then you shouldn't feel pressurred by your cousins. You needn't prove to anyone that you're not gay. You know you are not, then why do you care what your cousins think? Just tell your cousins that being a virgin doesn't bother you and you want to have your first time with someone that you truly like. You needn't necessarily wait till college to have a girlfriend, if you like someone then go for her but if you want to wait then thats ok too.





EDIT: If you don't like the girl and you know that she ain't your type then tell her you're not interested. You shouldn't bother about her life. Its her life so let her deal with it.
Reply:well you can just hook up with her and tell your cousins she's not your type you just weren't feeling her. so you kinda win both ways? i hope that helped.
Reply:WAIT! Dude you don't like her wait for someone else. Who cares if they call you gay...only go out with a girl you like don't break her someones heart for no reason.
Reply:Wow, well I don't understand.. you just said you don't want to go out till college but then you said your looking for a short-term relationship? Maybe it was just a mix-up, but anyways.. your cousins shouldn't think your gay, only YOU know.. and you all ready do know that you aren't. Their your cousins they should respect your morals, not try and make you do something your not. It's YOUR virginity , YOUR life.. if they can't respect it then be so. Since you said they sleep with girls a lot then leave them, and it seems like they lost their virginity early.. they probably want it back but cant so they try to make others feel like how they do so they feel like there not alone. Send them this post, and all these comments .. and see what they say then.
Reply:Honestly, don't do anything with her if you don't like her. And by the way, being a virgin at age 16 is wonderful, waiting is best. Who cares if they call you gay? It doesn't matter what they think, it matters what you think. Wait for the right girl...
Reply:Hell no ... Do settle the gal u LIKE/LOVE onli... do not force urself of wad other think/wan u to do..





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