Sunday, August 22, 2010

Why are many girls that go to church more judgmental, critical of guys, and more shallow than other girls?

I'am a single 22 year-old guy that lives and goes to church in San Diego. I'am troubled and quite frankly pissed off at the fact that many of the girls that I go to church with (most of them are very pretty) are very shallow, stuck-up, and very judgmental when it comes to guys. The church group that I'am a part of is for collage-aged people, like me. Many of the girls are in the 18-21 year-old range. They all seem to go to church for other reasons than to worship God. The number one reason I go to church is to worship God, but I would also like to meet that next girlfriend or special someone there. The problem is that I have meet better girls in town; girls who are non-christians or girls that don't go to chruch. I thought that church was the place to meet a girl who is nice and lives a good moral life. Is this no longer true? Are girls at church just as bad as other girls? Where should I be looking to meet a girl who is pretty but has all of the good qualities that I'am looking for?

Why are many girls that go to church more judgmental, critical of guys, and more shallow than other girls?
I know what you mean and hey, I'm in the same boat as you except I'm a single 22 year old girl who believes in God and live in California. I agree with the others who said you should pray to God and if it's part of God's plan for you to be with someone He will bring you someone. Well, here's a cute love story I was told when I was younger. It might help you. I'm guessing you are Christian, so you might have heard this story before, so I'm sorry if you have, but I'm going to tell it anyway. Well, there is this lady who sings in a Christain band. I don't remember the band's name, but anyway, she was in her 30s and she never dated a guy or nothing, but she wanted more than anything to get married and have a family. You know because she wasn't getting any younger, so one night she prayed to God to let her go since it's said that if you are single for a long time it's because God loves you too much and doesn't want to share you with anyone. The next day, the guy who plays the guitar in the band confess to her his feelings and they started dating. Three years later they got married and have a kid. I don't know if you ever dated anyone or not, but if you haven't maybe you should pray to Him to let you go and if He thinks you are ready He will send someone to you. Just be patience. Patience is a virtue, so wait and you will find the one you truly deserve and the one God put you on earth to love. Good luck and hope I helped.
Reply:ME 2! I try 2 approach a friendly face in youth group and they give me the cold shoulder!


and they're all (excuse my french) $luts! wearing mini skirts! it's sick! WHAT HAS OUR CHURCH COME 2?!!!
Reply:because they are brainwashed.
Reply:I find it easier to get on with non christian men than christian men to be honest. Not all christian people are the same though, but i must admit their are some stuck up people and medleers in the church, who think they know it all. Pray and ask God to find you a nice partner. If you meet someone nice ask them to church. I am sure God wants someone special for you, leave it with him and don,t worry about it, just concentrate on being friends with females.
Reply:Most girls in church who are lookin gfor a guy want someone whos almost perfect trust me i know this theres this lady in church whos 33 hasnt gooten married b/c shes looking for a guy whos awesome looking AND a preacher sorta type. Like thats gonna happen. A lot of people make fun of her for that. adn shes not ugly either
Reply:Sad isn't it. We live in the luke-warm church age. People go but don't seem to live what they hear preached. Since you go to church and are possibly a christian then why don't you just pray about who you are to meet. If you really want to meet a nice girl ask God to bring her to you, and have faith in that. Also be an example to these shallow minded girls. Trust God, He won't disappoint you.
Reply:just because the girls go to church or not does not make them the way they are. Girls who can go to church and then still be the creepy little things they are probably should not be going to church God says judge not lest ye be judged. you can find a decent, loving and non-judgemental girl anywhere and if you can't find one at that church go to another one
Reply:Ever if they go to church they go for all the wrong reason. Me myself I go to church and I see the same problem that you see at your church. And they start younger and younger. I dont believe that its the fact that they are in church, but they are just going to act like ever one around them. So i think that the best decision for you is not to look for anyone inside the church but out, and bring them to church.


Why do girls never chace me out i have anice body but no face/ i appraoch girls in public and they just laugh?

WHY are the girls not interested in me.?/?


I think im okay looking, but the girls never check me out. You know, when you pass a cute girl walking, you look back after you pass. ... Well , ive never seen a girl look back at me. And i always look. i evn use my perephinal vision when i walk past a girl and i see them glance at my face and turn there eyes away. talk about second glances never most girls i see will just look and look back as soon as they see me. Some girls do stare me in the eyes but "its rare' and when they do it they dont smile at me they just look me in the eyes and dont evn put up alittle smile for me.?


Now i thought i was attractive looking atleast ok looking althouggh nobody has told me this!! i mean my face is kinda soft looking.and my left cheak does stand out more than my right side but then again i thought no bodys face is perfect.


My body looks awsome with huge broad wide shoulders and evrythingive already appcd some girls in publc iand they laugh in my face

Why do girls never chace me out i have anice body but no face/ i appraoch girls in public and they just laugh?
When you were born was there lots of lightning with a mad doctor shouting "He's alive". That could explain it.
Reply:Maybe they're being subtle about it. Why don't you go up and talk to them? As unfair as it is, men are still expected to make the first move. Until we can get that to change, you're going to have to learn to do that. Go up and strike up a conversation. Don't use pick-up lines, they're _all_ cheesy. Just treat her like a human being.
Reply:its really cool bro that you have a great body, chicks dig it. Dont worry about your face man, as far as women are concerned you might as well be a monkey, as long as you are good in bed and rake in some serious cash.
Reply:Speaking as a girl, we do like to look at guys, but looking into your eyes actually means more! As for why they don't check you out, maybe they see you looking to see if they're looking so they don't look! Does that make sense? Anyway, you sound cute, so...
Reply:How old are you? I can tell you that looks may play a role, but not the determining role. I'm not sure how many times a month I have actually turned around to check a guy out...I usually mind my own business, unless he's extremely attractive. The simple fact that a woman is not turning around to check you out is not telling me much. How else are you in contact with women? School? Activities? Work?





Girls can be mean. It's easier for them to ridicule and reject than be accepting and nice. This partially has to do with the age group and wanting to be "cool", as well as having been annoyed for being approached and reacting to it in an immature way. You don't want anybody who is that mature anyway. Do you have any female friends? Having a close female friend will help you understand women and their actions better and you won't feel as alienated when it comes to women.





It doesn't matter how pretty a woman is...you can't let her be in charge of you and or making you feel a certain way. We are all the same and put on our pants one leg at a time....so no need to be intimidated.
Reply:it could be the way you come at them have you ever talked to a girl with out wanting to sleep with her try that an see what happens.
Reply:lern huw too spel
Reply:LOL @ MacD
Reply:The fact that you have no face could have something to do with it.
Reply:Perhaps they're looking for someone with more than a FOURTH GRADE education ;);););)


Fat girls...Skinny girls.?

Why do them fat girls always gotta hate on them skinny girls by accussing them of being annorexic, Telling them they don't eat enough and need to eat more. So the skinny girl fills her plate with food stuffs her self until she's gonna throw up and the fat girl says that's all you gonna eat? You on a diet? Then they say skinny girls work out too much even if she only goes to the gym 2 or 3 times a week. And of course the skinny girl is always skinny cause she has an eating disorder or something else. Not cause she eats a balanced diet and excersizes regulary. Why them fat girls always gotta be hating?

Fat girls...Skinny girls.?
because they're jealous
Reply:well they might want to show her the world of fat girls! Report It

Reply:I consider myself to be in between skinny and fat but, a lot of people consider me skinny, (thought I was gonna say I was fat, didn't you?) why are the women with the really skinny boyish looking bodies always putting down women with bodies like laetitia casta? because you're jealous of us. Report It

Reply:EXACTLY. Because they're jealous saying "oh guys like cruvey girls". Excuse me, curvy doesn't mean full of cholestrol and hanging fat from the corners of your stomach. Okay, so there you go, fat chicks are jealous of skinny girls because guys like skinny not FAT! Report It

Reply:Why do Mexicans love fat women? lol
Reply:Aw, you gonna take me home tonight


Aw, right beside that red fire-light


Aw, you gotta let it all hang out,


Fat-bottom girls, you make the rockin' world go round!





Get on your bikes and ride!





(hope i didn't butcher it too badly)
Reply:so......................um................. does your question have to do with immigration? i guess "them fat girls" are tired of @ssholes making fun of them and they need someone to make fun of.
Reply:that happens all that time at my school: 6th graders come in skinny, 8th graders leave HUGE! of course, it could be the cafiteria food...
Reply:I don't know why people hate on each other...they could be spending their time doing more positive things in the world. But to be honest, it's all about competition. I think most guys like girls who are in shape or skinny. It's just more attractive. I think that girls who are thick lash out in a way because of the nature of how they are treated by other people. Some really large girls are jealous because they wish they could be thin. Other large girls might be jealous because they wish they could have a larger chance to hook up with men. Others might say that thin girls get all the advantages of the world because they are thinner (Not necessarily always true). It works in reverse as well; my best friend is gorgeous and in great shape, but she thinks she is too skinny and obsesses about trying to actually gain weight. She also obsesses on how she wishes people wouldn't judge her by her looks as well. Personally throughout all of this, people just need to mind their own damn selves and not worry about how others look. Be who you are and if others can't deal with that then tough luck. It would be wonderful if we all loved one another, but that's just not going to happen in the world. But what we all SHOULD do is to try to earn the respect of others around us. If they are jealous about their weight, then make an attempt to work out and eat better. if those factors don't help, then seek advice from a doctor or some help with fitness. Now if a girl was really overweight or very underweight, then there would definitely be a health concern and those are issues that should be addressed. Beyond that, however, are circumstances of weight issues that we can't completely control either. Some girls burn a lot of calories/fat naturally, while some don't. Those things are due to genetics, but there are ways to help fight against that. To make my long statement short, nobody should judge anybody by what they look like on the outside completely. I've learned to get past looking at others myself based upon their looks. In some cases, visual impressions can be wrong and it's best to judge people by the content within themselves. I'm not sure if my answer is the best one you are looking for, but I hope I helped you in some way.
Reply:You are serving only to diminish the severity of the immigration debate when you post your ridicules questions that have nothing to do with immigration.
Reply:Fat or skinny not a problem as long as they eat to live and not live to eat.
Reply:they can't show off thats y
Reply:Here's my answer.


*GIRLS* Why do girls dislike/not trust other girls?

My friend and I were talking and he asked me why girls dont get along with other girls. I personally prefer to have guys as friends, because i seem to get along with them better. And yes, i'm the type of girl who thinks other girls are scandalous and caddy. I couldn't explain to him why I felt like this, except for most girls i've been friends with have, in one way or the other, stabbed me in the back. Therefore, its hard for me to trust most of them. So I told him I'd ask online and let him know what you all think. Thanks!

*GIRLS* Why do girls dislike/not trust other girls?
Women are their own worst enemy.
Reply:Personally I would say that it's because we've seen the type of behavior we're capable of.





We know that we might do something shady and underhanded, and wouldn't put it past other girls to do the same thing.





Or, we know that we wouldn't do something shady and underhanded, but every girl we've been friends with has, and there's not much point in trying again with another girl.
Reply:Its really pretty easy. We are all in competition for the same thing. Attention. Just about everything we do is for attention. the way we dress, who we go out with, etc.





We all fight to get the attention of the best person we can. So.. anyone that stands in our way.. is an enemy.


Its just the way we are wired.





We were designed to propegate our species.. that means finding the best man for the job and making sure he mates and stays with us... that means fighting off everyone else for that spot.





its all evloution.. we are just made that way.
Reply:Girls at their worst--lots of times it happens because they are insecure and not feeling good about themselves--very little to do with you! But still--





Reasons to not like/trust other girls:





1. Afraid of conflict so they will talk about you behind your back and then be really, really nice to your face. You will find out months or even years later and be completely shocked they were ever pissed off at you. If you try to ask about it, they will gloss over it. You will get the feeling that this isn't the first time it has happened either.





2. Get jealous when something good happens to you and not to them. Like if you get a better job or nicer looking boyfriend or husband or get pregnant first or have a smarter/more athletic/more popular child. So they will have to find something about you that is bad so they can focus on that to make themselves feel better.





3. in a group, girls tend to get catty. The minute you walk away from a group of girls, one of them will bring something up about you. Depending on the group dynamic, the discussion will continue in full force OR it will stop and continue via telephone hours later with one or two of the primary members of the group.





4. DO NOT piss off the QUEEN BEE of the group OR there will be hell to pay. No matter what she does (steal other people's boyfriends, gets drunk and acts like a slut, etc.), you cannot ever comment, judge or do anything like this your own self or you will be castigated and thrown over the gorge to the wolves.





5. Girls never really forget; although they do forgive. Men can have fistfights and be best friends the next day. Women can never, ever do this. EVER. Even if they say they do, it will come back to bite you in the butt.
Reply:most girls are two faceded or just wanna cause dramam 24/7.me personally get along better with boys then girls.i guess to answere your question thats just how it is
Reply:Woman can be very emotional, catty, scandalous and back stabbing. They keep secrets like none other. I date woman and it's even harder for me.


My daughter has a sister and they're 3 mnths apart. Her mother was a good friend and co-worker of mine. She met my daughters father through me and use to hang out with us. I knew he was cheating just didn't know it was with her. I would call her crying at night when he would be out late or not show up at home all night. She would say " oh, I'm sure he'll be home. He's okay. Don't worry." Yeah, she knew because he was right there with her.


That's when I learned how scandalous woman can be.

Does this look good

Girls only! I need ur oppinion what do u think of me?

DO u think girls like guys like me ?


Im 6'1 145pounds I have a good sense of style. Girls say im cute and pritty good looking. I have brown hair and brown eyes. Im tan and I like skimboarding. Im really nice to girls always care for their oppinions and their feelings. I hate when my friends or other guys say " Dude look at her *** or her boobs " " I bet u want some of that " I hate when other guys say that to girls I think thats rude u know and then when I dont respond they might im gay. Im not gay and im not rude like that. I mean still I might glance real quick at girls but or something but I never say it or make a big deal out of it. I l like to be romantic with girls even though other guys will think ur gay for saying that but I dont care what they think of me. Im worry about my weight I think im really skinny thats only thing that bothers me alot. Plus I dont work out. But still im not fat or anything like that.





Girls please tell me ur opinions

Girls only! I need ur oppinion what do u think of me?
you are a real sweetheart this is what girls like don't ever change your attitude towards women!


if worried about being skinny work out a little You'll see a change in weeks.
Reply:If you need to ask some one else what they think of you... I wouldn't go out with you. It shows lack of self esteem and confidence.
Reply:U sound like a great guy. Don't worry what Ur friends think. Girls like it when u look at them but theres staring at them and pointing and making comments and then theres apprecating what they look like. Ur weight dont worry about it go to the gym and left weights and you'll see a diffrence in less then a month but you have to stick w/ it....good luck
Reply:DAM I'M IN LOVE ...LOL ... NAW YOUR OKAY YOU RESPECT US AND YOU SOUND CUTE DONT WORRY ALOT OF GIRLS DONT ALWAYS WANT GUYS BIG ANYWAYS L8R'S S8R
Reply:if girls already told you that you look good looking then why are you asking us because it was already answered for you. but from the way you sound you might be good looking but we couldn't really tell you unless we seen a picture of you.
Reply:I think you sound like the perfect guy. I have a little bit of advice, if you want it. I know everyone is going to say just ignore your friends when they're rude, but that can be hard to do with strangers, and even more so with friends. So next time you hear one of them comment on a girl's body, you could try one of these two things:


1. tell that person straight out that you dislike his rudeness and that girls are not objects, they're human beings.


or 2. Say something nice and sweet, like "I like her eyes better" or "she has a great laugh" or even just "she seems nice". This way, if a girl overhears you she'll know you're not a jerk, and your friends might get the hint that you're not.


There's also the third way, bet your friend five bucks that you can get a date with your niceness faster than he can with his rudeness. If it were me you'd definitely win!





oh i'm 16 if that gives you an idea of my perspective.
Reply:okay dude for real, chill out. first of all i appreciate your respect for the ladies, but don't feel guilty for looking and admiring, cause the ladies like the attention!





but for your weight problem i suggest you hit the gym, and hit the gym hard, my brother had the same problem...he was pretty skinny, but he began to do some heavy weight lifting and gained muscle mass...its alot of work, but if you've got the heart, then go for it
Reply:your say your good qualites so that girls will like you and you'll feel good about your self- in real life your probably still just a tiny little pervert
Reply:you just said girls said you were good looking? do you really want attention that bad??
Reply:Congrats lol. Your about 75% of the girl populations perfect guy!
Reply:you sound like a very nice guy. You seem to really know how to treat a woman and that is a very good trait in a guy. And that is so wrong that guys would think you are gay because you treat a woman with some respect.
Reply:you sound like a catch, you don't need us to tell you that.
Reply:To be honest with you I rather date someone that is too thin that someone that is too fat.
Reply:Alright I am a guy but I will answer. YES GIRLS LIKE GUYS LIKE YOU. Also your tall girls like tall guys. As for being a gentleman girls don't usually realize or care about that until they are around 25. It is an on going joke in the media and society that girls like guys who treat them like crap. As much as girls say that's untrue I remember I kinda liked this one girl and I treated her with kindness and respect but she never gave me the time of day. One time I was upset at something and I didn't want to deal with her. So I kept telling her to get away from me and stuff next thing you know she liked me. Weird but it happened so girls respect the gentlemen and like a gentlemen but they don't truly appreciate a gentlemen until a certain age.





Hope that helped.
Reply:Hey, I'd date you, lol. I'm a fan of skinny. A real gentleman, hmm, ladies are weird these days and don't like a sensitive guy, maybe you should be a little more aggressive when you're with ladies, I don't know a girlie that doesn't like talking about sex. I think a good pick up strategy, if you're going for a girl you talk to, just ask her that question. A boy that sounds freakisly like your situation talked to me and describe your question, and I'm sprung so I'm sure other ladies with follow with positive opinions. Good luck :)
Reply:ya you sound respectful 2 us girls and alot of girls like the personality you have
Reply:omg, i think ur sooooo cute lol. Thats so caring wt u said. And some people might think ur gay. Its ok to say if u think a girl is hot or something, u just don't have to brag about it. Of course girls like u, ur suck a cutie pie :). On ur weight, u should start working out and eat more protein (More muscle). But otherwise, ur sooooo perfect and i want u :P


Girls avoiding me?

Im confused on why girls avoid me at times. This is one main reason i get afriad to talk to them. Like 1 girl i met saw me going down the hall and turned the other way, another one saw me in the library, she seemed like she was going to stay but then she turned my direction and left, this happened with another girl to. I thought girls liked confident guys, i don't see why they are avoinding me, im not clingy, i don't look that bad, and I make the 1st move, why would a girl want to avoid me. This kind of scared me out of talking to girls because i don't want them all avoiding me. What are your opinions on this, because right now im stuck. Does anyone know any reason why these girls are avoiding me??

Girls avoiding me?
Hi.


Have you considered maybe they aren't avoiding you, maybe it's something else, maybe they had something on their mind (i left the stove on and got to get back home to turn it off) and at that moment, they HAPPENED to be looking in your direction. Just remember, people and things arent always about you, sometimes people have things on their minds or last min. thoughts pop into their heads. dont take it personally.
Reply:since you said you make the first move, maybe you're moving too fast and those girls don't like you that way, so they feel uncomfortable around you. they might be afraid that you're going to ask them out too soon (since you make all the first moves). This might also give you a reputation of flirting with a bunch of girls, which will drive them away from you if they know that you won't focus on just her.
Reply:are you uglyhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
Reply:It's tough for me to say, because I don't know you. However, just from reading this question, I do notice that you say you are confident, but then say you are scared to talk to girls...maybe you are not as confident as you think. Or maybe you are just paranoid and notice it only when they are not interested, but not when they are. Has EVERY girl you've ever met avoided you, or are you just hung up on the ones that do?
Reply:Are you using your deodorant daily?
Reply:Some girls dont like you to make the first move. On every girl you ever date you might want to switch it up a little. Say for instance, ask the girls friends what they like and enjoy in a guy and go with that. Always dress for sucess! But always be yourself, you might could tell some fibs here and there, and this is coming from a girl and that is usually what i like to see in a guy. Best of luck!!!
Reply:Short of knowing you personally, how do you expect us to answer this question? Girls ignore guys for various reasons. How do you know they were avoiding YOU specifically? The situations you mentioned are pretty ambiguous; you don't indicate if you said anything to them, and if you did, what, nor do you let us know the specific circumstances surrounding YOU enough to deduce that girls are just going to avoid you no matter what. I mean what? Are you the pariah of the school? Are you popular? The butt of some painful horrible joke that everyone remembers enough to not want to be involved with you?





You don't tell us how you show your confidence around girls (sometimes guys are overconfident and that's offputting). You don't even let us know your style in approaching a girl. It's all sooo cryptic. I hope you have luck finding someone who will tell you what you want to hear, rather than the truth because nothing you've told us makes it possible to give you a straightforward answer.
Reply:Do u have a reputation?
Reply:most girls want the bad boy in side 4 the to see, in u so its not yo ur fault. Its just them that they want to know. an when you are in the bed try do stulf freekey. not just plane.
Reply:Dont Ask Me.....Im A Chick Magnet
Reply:dont ask me girls talk/ flirt wit me sooo much its annoying but u probably annoyed them


These 2 girls were really really mean to my friend?

Okay, long story short. I am a sophomore in college, i am a male, and i'm really close friends with this girl (she doesn't have many other close friends in college). Since fall, she's been hanging out with these girls who live in her building. We knew one of those girls last year, but this year we know her more.





Okay so my friend hung out with these girls and thought they were good friends. However, they decided on housing for next semester, they asked my good friend, and then ditched her, and then one of them asked her again a few weeks later (while knowing it may not work out) and my friend got really excited, only to find out that she was ditched again. Not only that, these girls did the same thing to another girl in their suite and my friend and this girl are close now. And that girl told my friend how the 2 (mean girls) talk about my friend behind her back ALOT and say horrible things, and one of them even called her a *****.

These 2 girls were really really mean to my friend?
Let it go and tell your friend to stay away from them. What goes around, comes around - you will reap what you sow.





Never repay evil with evil. They are not worth it.





All the best!!!
Reply:Its sweet you are concerned about your friends and wanting to help. I am unsure, but have you tried reporting them to the appropriate people? Perhaps you could ensure this situation does not happen again to other poor, unsuspecting girls. These horrible ones sound just awful and given the details you post, you should get active in stoping them. Good luck.
Reply:geez. some people take themselves too seriously. tell your friend to tell them to go fack themselves!!!
Reply:Don't say long story short and then drone on and on and on. There was nothing short about this long-winded story.


Girls & Boys Advice....feeling strange around a girl?

Well i have been hanging out with a friend(girl) just going out another girl comes with us all just friends.I am normally shy of girls %26amp; barley talk or anything but went around them I feel normal and all


We have been hanging out for like 6 months now or alil less we met from a friend of a friend of her cousin lol we were a big group when we met %26amp; I am a shy person when I am near new ppl but when around her I felt normal not like the other girls/boys that there were I was shy talking to them


We send msgs(sms) to each other %26amp; sometimes phone .I do not really have many friends that r girls if I can barley have 15 that r girl’s probly less %26amp; btw we don’t go the same school


We did not meet these 3 weeks the first week she was with her dad second I was sick and now we have exams so we need to study


I always think of her %26amp; all since the first time I met her what does it mean anyway %26amp; when I am around her I feel kind of strange like I can say anything to her is it just me or am I strange?

Girls %26amp; Boys Advice....feeling strange around a girl?
you like her...that's all there is.(:
Reply:Uh I am definatly not a lesbian!


why would I feel strange around a girl??
Reply:you like her that is all. and that does not make you strange

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So girls tell me this....?

This is one thing i have on my mind. Girls are always saying guys are *** holes because most only look for some girl they just want to mess with. It angers me when girls say guys are *** holes. Girls arent the only one being judged. What about guys like me? just because im not the greatest looking i dont deseve a chance eather? So girls at my school cry because they had a boyfriend who was a jerk. Alot of girls look past the guys who really look for love and go for the more handsom men.....why? why not give us guys who really care and not just to get into you pants? To me it does not seem fare. Sometimes i think because im not as "handsom" as other guys does this mean guys like me dont deserve a chance? I know alot of guys look past the girls looking for real love also. Im not saying only girls do this. But why? why is it today that people who arent "hot" enough dont deserve a chance at love?

So girls tell me this....?
you're right. girls and guys alike are both to blame for being superficial. you can't even deny it: a lot of the girls you've been attracted to were/are pretty cute. we're all superficial--but that shouldn't change what you feel about yourself.





being insecure has nothing to do with them going for the jerks and not for a nice guy like you. you being insecure has absolutely NOTHING to do with anyone else but YOU! i know it may seem like a big DUH, but....insecurity stems from self-perception.





if you can't be happy with yourself, how the hell are you going to be happy with someone else?!?





you sound like a great person who deserves a lot in life. why settle for a girl that is stupid enough to pass you by...AND THEN ends up with a huge @ss?!





if it was up to me, i'd say: good riddance to those self-centered b1tches. everyone deserves to be happy, but we have to choose to be happy. don't dwell on the "this could have happened if i was hotter". you can't change things like that...nor can you change jerk-y people.





do what you actually CAN do--change your way of thinking. you're a great guy, you're a caring person, and you're worthy of so much more than these girls can offer.
Reply:heaven's sake every girl you know must be some kind of a freak. don't listen to what they say. they're just stupid.
Reply:I don't really have an answer for you but look on the bright side. When some lucky girl does fall for you at least you will know that she is really into you for yourself.
Reply:I agree with you completely. I don't think it's fair how girls or guys look only for how attractive someone else is and not for love or a true relationship itself. I personally prefer to get know the person and base any relationship around the persons qualities %26amp; characteristics %26amp; not on how 'handsom' they are. Some people don't realise that a person (guy or girl) doesn't have to look amazing to be a great partner. Like I said B 4 I totally agree with what your saying and it needs to change... :)
Reply:Wow. That was really heart-felt. Girls who look past the inside and only go for the guys who have an attractive outward appearance deserve the unsatisfying relationships that they get themselves into. The person that you end up with in life will really appreciate the REAL you and your personality.





By the way, don't categorize all girls. You're mad because girls are always saying that all guys are ***holes, when at the same time, you're generalizing all girls for saying that.





EVERYONE deserves a chance at love. Put your feelings on the line sometime and maybe that girl will really appreciate you for your courage. Don't let the hansome ones have all the girls. Put yourself out there Just be greatful that your capable of loving someone because some people aren't.
Reply:u first avoid to speak with or mess with such type opf girls
Reply:I think when girls are young they go for looks. But as you get older and mature, you realize there is more to a relationship than the outside appearance. Don't get your hopes down. The girls you've been dealing with probably have self esteem issues and don't know that they deserve better. Someday a girl who is worth your attention will see all that you have to offer.
Reply:Everyone deserves a chance, no matter what they may look like. God gave us souls and personalities for a reason, and I think that people who are not open to finding love anywhere are the completely shallow ***holes. The problem is, society has made it to where most of the time, only the so-called "good looking" people are sought after by others. I feel that, if a person only likes another because they're hott or goodlooking, then I wouldn't want to be with them anyway...they aren't deserving of real love if they are too ignorant to look for it in more than just a pretty face.





And, you shouldn't worry...all of the heartache these shallow people are going through now will someday turn them around, and if it doesn't, then they'll never find true love, and you should feel sorry for them for that cuz you'll probably have it soon.
Reply:I agree with you!
Reply:these kind of girls are shallow...only later in life will they realize that there's more to a guy than meets the eye...





lucky is the girl who'll fall for a nice guy like you...


goodluck.....


Why are girls like this? Girls only please!!?

I am going to start out by describing myself and then will get to where I am going with this.


I am 19 years old and am a junior in college. I play quaterback for the college. I have a muscular body and I am very fit.


With all this stuff, I feel that girls are only attracted to my looks, but that is not what I am getting at. I hangout with a lot of girls as well as guys from the football team and that, but it always seems that when I am hanging out with a girl, another one calls my cell phone and asks me to hang out. I am only one person and can only be one place at a time, but they all want me to hangout with them all the time. When I tell them that I am hanging out with another friend that is a girl they always get mad at me. Keep in mind, I am single and to me right now, none of the girls that I hangout with, i would not date right now. I also know that girls get jealous but why is that if I am not with a girl right now? Why must girls try to compete to get a guy?

Why are girls like this? Girls only please!!?
dont guys do the same thing. compete to get a girl's attention? It's the same thing just girls have more emotional. And I think you are one of the few guys in this time and age that is complaining that girls are only interested in you due to your looks. That normally the concern girls have about guys. HUH! But yes, girls will try harder to get a guy to only look at them...depending how desperate they are they might sleep with you...It's survival in the city jungle and you sound like something we would pounce.








Well my question is when did you start college because you are 19 and a junior already? Normally freshmans are 18 and it takes two to three years to become a junior.
Reply:they want u to get close to them any time they want.


u just really want to friend with them only?!


i think u a good guy cause u just want to be a friend with them right? by the way don't think about this too much ok.


that is normal.
Reply:well i admite wen my boyfreind used 2 hang out wi other girls but there was boyz there i didnt lk it n he didnt lk me hangin round wi other boyz n we bought told each other tht n tht was fine but i think u should jst tell the girls tht u dont wanna them fussin over u n tht tht shouldnt get jelous hope tht helps..x
Reply:I don't really know, I think that is how we are.
Reply:I guess cuz some girls think that they would have a chance with you and try to find a way to spend time to i guess get to "know" you or what ever... There are just some girls who really don't care about personality or those other things... and only looks...
Reply:thats just how girls are. before i start dating i man i am with now i hated him being around other girls. i really don't know why. may be a fear of losing something you want


Japanese girls??Virgin??Loyal??

I feel sad because I have read on the net that there are a lot of Japanese


girls who are slutty.I want to get a Japanese girlfriend in Japan and marry one but im wondering where to find a Japanese girl in Japan who is a loyal and conservative type of girl.I need to know where to find a Japanese girl who isnt slutty.Im not the kind of guy who is searching for a girl to have sex with because i respect girls.Im looking for a Japanese girl to love,respect and cherish forever so someone please tell me where I can find a nonslutty,conservative and loyal Japanese girl in Japan.Please dont give me any stupid answers because im asking seriously.

Japanese girls??Virgin??Loyal??
this is a stupid question so of course your going to get stupid answers. For one why don't you look at a girl for her personality and not just what her skin and face look like. That might turn you on now, but in 2-3 years once you've had your fun with the asian girl and it's not hot anymore, and she doesn't have the personality you like your in a big ol pile of ****.
Reply:uhhhhh...thats gonna be hard....why not try going to japan and actually findin a conservative japanese girl, or if not....try...match.com...lol..idk.
Reply:Dude, Japanese women are very classy and they carry themselves in a very respectable manner like no other races. They are very traditional and held their own pride pretty high.





I don't know where you've read such a thing about them, but from my own point of view, they are one in an elite class of intrigue women of the world............





♫♥♪
Reply:i guess u like japanese ladies cuz of theyre culture, looks and language? many ppl go to japan, taiwan and china to find a match cuz they like koreans. i for my sake want to lean korean culture trough e-mail http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?...


Girls Please help me, it is really very serious?

I don't understand girls behaviour, most of all girl are doing same thing with me, whenever they saw me, immediately they just keeping their eyes down, they never try to make the eye contact with me.even i never talked any girl, also i never said any bad words about them.


also the girl that i like she also run away after seeing me(just try to avoid me) i don't know why she behave like that last 2 year we are just seeing to each other but we never talked to each other.


why girls are behaving like this it is really frustrating me like i m a terrorist.while in my group the girls and boys who knows me they are enjoying with me.Girls please advise me.i m not a bad looking guy.


thanks in Advance,

Girls Please help me, it is really very serious?
If she is running away from you do you shower enough or are you staring at her for long periods of time? It can make a girl feel very uncomfortable. Or does she have a boyfriend already and is afraid you'll ask her out and she will have to hurt you by refusing? It could be many things.
Reply:Awww find a new friend
Reply:first off e-mail me because i could give you advice of what your going through rebel_chick_0692@hotmail.com. second don't worry about them they probrably really like they just don't wanna make fools out of themselves.
Reply:don't worry maybe your to good looking and there afraid to confront you because they think you'll turn them down ......
Reply:maybe they just r shy. I dont talk to guys when I pass one at the races (my dad drives:; just every saturday night) I dont look them in the eyes. some people just have problems looking people in the eye its not that they dont like u r anything.Thats just the way that they r.
Reply:well some people might be shy and others might not be interested. girls are hard to read so beacreful. try to make small talk and have a small conversation, if same thing happens leave them alone because maybe they dont like u like in that way. or you can just tell them the truth and say i just want to be your friend nothing more r nothing less. you dont want to make anyone uncomftorable or be a stalker just give them some space if they talk to you then fine if not just find some new friends
Reply:may be they heard something bad about u.. like a rumour or something..





juss ignore this.. go to them and try talking to them normally.





Gd LuCk.

cleaning dog teeth

Would girls find me actractive or unattractive?

i'm 15


5'7


athletic/toned body








I think im pretty good looking and i have a great body, but i wonder if girls don't find me attractive because of my height. They always talk about how they want tall guys and how tall guys are so hot. but, if i'm taller than the girl then whats the problem. I mean there are both tall and short girls so why cant a short girl be into short guys. As long as their taller than her. I don't ever judge a girl by her height, unless she towers over me, witch i don't see whats wrong with that. But why are only guys over 6 foot attractive to girls of all different heights? I can see why a girl would not want a guy shorter than them, but if the girl is like 5'4, then why wouldn't she be attracted to a guy who is 5'7?

Would girls find me actractive or unattractive?
Lol, be careful my freind, most women would have you beleive that looks dont matter at all. They do, trust me. And dont be upset with the girls who tell you they dont, they really do beleive it, but that doesnt mean that they act in a conreugent way to that belief.





Ok you've got a great start with ur body and all that, but those kind of things arent all that important. Whats more important is that you present yourself well. Be well groomed, ie shave when you need to, keep your fingernails clean, hair looking nice etc. Dress well too, and wear nice shoes- girls notice shoes allot.





I'll have to say though, you could look like Brad Pitt but if you stand in the corner with ur hands in your pockets not talking to anybody around you most of the time then girls whont look twice at you. They are vastly attracted to people of high social status. So go and be a fun guy, make loads of freinds. Be nice to people but dont put up with people being nasty to you. Be the 'cool' guy of your social circle.





If you can do that then your heigh wont matter at all. And remember, you've still got a few years growing left yet!





Hope this helps





Matt
Reply:my best friends who are girls like shorter guys and taller guys...hair length is the key thing. They like long hair, at least med-long, and if it's short they aren't attracted to him usually.
Reply:Maybe its just the girls You know. Id dont really care about looks and height. Your right it is a bonus if your taller than them but its not necissary. They should like you for you not how you look
Reply:girls like men that seem to be tall and kind of like a bodyguard. like if someone says something rude to the girl, the boy comes and says stay away from my girl. when u meet the rite girl, they will love u no matter wut. they will forget about ur height. by your description, u don't look too bad ur self. i don't see why anyone would refuse to date u unless they r just rude.
Reply:It depends on the girl! To me you sound cute, but to another girl you may sound hideous! It's all about personal preference! I think your height is fine, but your probably not done growing so don't worry about it!
Reply:I'm only 5'2", so I think I'd prefer dating someone your height rather than someone who's like 5'10". =)





I'm sick of always having to look up and stand on my tip-toes.
Reply:Aww. xD I'm sorry, this is such an adorable insecurity. Soooo many people worry about the smallest things, so rest assured that you're not alone.





That being said, it's all depending on the girl. Some girls are a little more superficial and may not date you because of your height. On the other hand, there's tens of hundreds of thousands of girls out there who are just like you describe and either,





A.) Don't care about height to begin with


B.) Are shorter than you and might have a thing for tall guys, in which case you fit said criteria





Here's the thing though: It really shouldn't matter. When someone likes someone, I think it needs to go deeper than something as trivial as height. I like a guy who's about my height, maybe a little shorter, and that really doesn't bother me. Maybe tall guys are nice, but this guy is important to me. So what you need to be looking for is not a short girl who'll date you just 'cause you're taller or a tall girl who'll blow you off because you're shorter, but a girl who likes you for you.





:)
Reply:i know i'd be attracted to a guy higher than me.


there's no limit. ^^





i'm like 5'4" and just as long as he's who he claims to be.


then he's worth it.
Reply:I'd still like you. I'm around 5'7. If a guy is my height or taller I won't have any problems. I've even liked shorter guys in the past.
Reply:I do like guys to be taller than I am but not like, towering over me. I'm 5'5 so 5'7 is fine with me! I'd feel so short with people over six feet! I think you're a great height. :)
Reply:the girl wants the boy to be taller than her. but not as tall as you, your just TOO tall.
Reply:i think guys that r a little taller r sexy! y would a girl want a giant as a boyfreind! if u cant find someone who likes u 4 u and only cares about ur hight there not the one 4 u
Reply:I'm 4'11.





Life just sucks.





High school girls are extremely shallow, though.
Reply:i do not know but the girls i know would love to go out with you even me hey if you want to see about me we can talk
Reply:let's see pictures! lol.
Reply:Height is not an issue. You are only 15 so you have a lot more growing to do. Yes, as long as you are taller than the girl, everything should be fine.
Reply:Height isn't important - personality, chaisma, honesty, humour... all those things and more will win over a girl.





Look at Danny DeVito! Short, fat and ugly... but he still found love! Women find men attractice for a variety of reasons, and height might be part of the package but it isn't the most important thing.





Anyway, 5' 7 isn't short!


Girls, Is this TRUE ?

3 people once sat down to profer different xters of a woman. Here are what they see:





A Mathematician


Mathematics Equation %26amp; Girls





1. To find girls, you need time and money, therefore


girls = Time x Money





2. But Time is money, so


Time = Money





.:. Therefore


Girls = Money x Money


Girls = Money2 i.e (money squared)





But Money is the ROOT of all PROBLEMS





Money = sqrt. (PROBLEMS)





Tehrefore


Girls = (sqrt.(PROBLEMS)2) ***root eqn cancels square





Girls =PROBLEMS








Can any lady prove this wrong. ?








A philosopher


The percentage of a man wining an agrument with a lady in a relationship is directly proportional toTIME and stage of such relationship.





Thus:


at start or during DATING = 70%


2yrs later or during COURTING = 45%


5yrs later or after marriage = 2%








A philosopher


Properties of women.





Ohhhhhhh ! yahoo has delimited the continuity

Girls, Is this TRUE ?
d'u cross check ur question with your mum's diary ?


sure you'll find answers. because mama are great encyclopedia where u can find answers to 'lady/girl' assaulting questions like yours.





U need a revamp of your whole view about girls, and I think I'll be glad to be a company that can help.





catch yah.
Reply:WTF!?!?! Who Care?????????
Reply:See, I get what you're trying to do but "One At A Time" please. And seriously, it's so unorganized that I can't figure out where to start or what point you're trying to make. Keep working on it though because I think with some effort it will be interesting and I'd like to see the finished version.
Reply:NO,that is bu*****t!
Reply:all i have to say....





someone has waaaay too much time on their hands.


You lost me after the time=money. I can truthfully say i was actually trying to follow and understand that....lets just say i am NOT a mathmatician.
Reply:yes it all true you need money to spend time
Reply:Let me just say this:





~ Menstrual cycle


~ Mental Illness


~ Menstraul pain


~ Mental breakdown


~ Menstrual cramps





Notice how all our problems start with Men
Reply:i guess some of us really need to look deepy in this world. And realise not all girls in this world are like this. And of course that's referred to as a myth ...
Reply:Actually LOVE of money is the root of all evil, not problems. Therefore love of money =sqrt (evil),





girls =(love (evil)2),





But, evil spelled backwards is LIVE,


therefore





girls=love and life!
Reply:what....
Reply:sure it's true. that's the power we have....a jamaican song said,"GOD MADE MAN...MAN MAKE MONEY...GOD MAKE WOMAN TO TAKE MAN MONEY......MAN SMART -- BUT WOM AN SMARTER!!!!"
Reply:oh come on don't believe in such things.
Reply:Gazazmaster gets 10 points!!!
Reply:You just wasted alot of time typing up some equation instead of hooking up with a girl that could make time seem infinite....
Reply:WAT THE **** R U TALKIN BOUT
Reply:No i don't think that is correct. Not all the time anyway. If you go out looking for people than i guess it could go either way. but if your not out looking for them than i guess not.
Reply:IT IS A LOT CHEAPER TO BE GAY, IF YOU ARE SO OBSESSED WITH MONEY....YOU CAN SAVE AT LEAST 50% BEING GAY...CAUSE MY GAY MALE FRIENDS PAY FOR THEMSELVES...SO THERE IS THE SOLUTION TO WASTING YOUR MONEY ON WOMEN...
Reply:oh seriously! that is quite silly
Reply:what?
Reply:You really think of this do you ☻
Reply:just choose to be gay and if you are not strong enough to keep up with a real women
Reply:Perhaps this will shed some light:





Women Are Like Apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree.





Most men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.......


So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, they're amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.





And for the men...





Men are like a fine wine.





They start out as grapes, and it's up to women to stomp the **** out of them until they turn into something acceptable to have dinner with.
Reply:One simple equation is my answer








lack of girls = even bigger problems





can u say im wrong ;)
Reply:1. To find girls, you need time and money, therefore


girls = Time x Money


----%26gt; this is wrong hehe.... You don't have a fixed amount of money for each unit of time right? You may waste 2000USD for one date but sometimes it can be up to 2000000USD... what do you think?
Reply:I can prove you math wrong. You say girls=TimeX Money, but this isn't true. Just because you need two things to get another thing, it doesn't mean the third thing is made up of the first two multiplied. Besides, if you needed money to get girls, there would be no poor men married, and there are plenty.


Girls better than boys?

Okay I'm writing a FUNNY paper on how girls are better than boys. (I'm in the eightth grade so don't talk about crap please) first off I will talk about why they are better as little kids (which i actualy think boys are better when they're young but i have to write that girls are better) then as young adults, then when they are older, and stuff like that.





So far I got:


1. (as kids) with girls you never find frogs in their dirty laundry


2. (as adults) girls have this radar where they can hear everything and anything and can pick up on emotions really easily


and that's it, how pathetic is that? And I'm not like going to say girls are better because: etc. I' going to write like a narrative paper setup like this: Some ppl would say boys are better than girls, but they are just wrong. (remember I'm being FUNNY i'm not trying to be totally serious so i don't necessarily believe what i'm saying i'm just being funny)


1 hour ago - 3 days left to answer.


Additional Details


1 hour ago





(ran out of room) anyway I'll have my first paragraph be about how they are better as they are young........... "When girls are young, you don't find frogs and snakes in their dirty pant's pockets. You don't find them playing in the mud and ruining their outfits. When they get home from school you don't find out they've been in a big fight adn have two black eyes. ..................................... stuff like that. but i need stuff on young adults, adults, and youngsters on why they are better than boys

Girls better than boys?
Im a guy. and i think that girls are smarter then boys anyday! and girls sould run the world!
Reply:I totally agree with lol and I'm a guy,too. Report It

Reply:I liked playing in the mud when I was little, and I'm a girl.


Attracted to girls beacuse of vuneralbility?

God I feel so horrible and rotten when this happens, but nothing is more attractive to me then a girl that is





Nervous


Mousy


Clingy


lonely


Desperate


Scared


Sad





God, I want to rescue a girl so badly, unfortunately there just aren't any of these girls left. if I ever meet a girl like this, and btw physically she just has to be not-fat, thats it, no fatties and thats my biggest standard, all my other standards are things I don't think girls like this usually get, tattoos, body pericings, smoking, ect.





Is this some kind of mental disorder, I feel like such a monster beacuse I know that I would prey on a girl like this if I ever meet her,





but not for sex, I would really want to be her boyfriend, see I myself am a shy lonley sad guy, who just wants to find a girl,





I'm not good looking (I'm not fat though) and I know that since all most girls care about is looks (And its ******* true and you know it) the only way I could ever find love is by finding a girl who was as desperate as me.





I'm a monster

Attracted to girls beacuse of vuneralbility?
This is actually a bit disturbing, my friend. I think, perhaps, you should reach inside and learn to love yourself first. You'll then be a much better partner to whomsoever comes to love you back.





Good luck!

dr teeth

White girls need not be lonely and bitter?

I see all these Asian women out there with white men and I feel sorry for the white women. When a white girl sees a lot of white men with Asian girls, they often respond by going out with black or Hispanic dudes. Often, these black and Hispanic dudes are not serious and just using the white girls. So, in the end, white girls are still bitter and jealous of those white guys and Asian girls together. Yet, they don't realize there are angry and lonely Asian men out there too. White girls are reluctant to date Asian dudes because her peers would ridicule her because it is not cool and not in the trend to be with an Asian guy. There is also that superiority feeling they have. China is going to dominate the world someday, so why should being with an Asian guy be seen as shameful? Since so many white guys are with Asian girls, it is only fair and beneficial that white girls open up and receive Asian men to produce better relations between the races. Asian guys are loyal Americans too

White girls need not be lonely and bitter?
I'm young white woman and i would love to date an asian (Japanese or Chinese) guy as long as we respect each other. It would be two different cultures so there need to be understanding from both sides. But i used to think Asian guys are only interested in their own race since i rarely see an Asian guy with a non-Asian girlfriend. Lots of white guys tell white women that Asian guys aren't attractive and nonsense like that but this is just jealousy talk cause they hate to lose their power over white women. On one hand white guys are abandoning white women and on the other hand they love to see white women being miserable by chosing Asian women over white women. You have every right to be angry. We white women are angry too. We're not angry at Asian women, we're angry at white guys for not caring for the women of their own race. Lots of white guys are stealing your Asian women from you which is very unfair since there are already much more Asian guys than Asian girls. At the same time there are more white women than white guys, so it takes things even more out of balance, it leaves many white women and Asian guys without a partner. So i think Asian guys should start to ask out white girls. The only thing is, many white girls are tall and many Asian guys will be shorter than those girls. I'm 5ft11 and i don't care if my guy would be shorter than me but i'm not sure if Asian guys would like a girlfriend taller than them.
Reply:ok then
Reply:Blah Blah Blah..
Reply:It is thinking like that which sets race relations in America back 35 years.
Reply:First of all I don't know what or why theres alot of asian girls dating white dudes. I think lie they say it's for the social ladder thing, but I don't like it!!! They just just stick with their own kind!! they are dumb no offense, but yeah, those asian chicks need a spanking!!! They are wild and they are not the types I like. I'm a girl by the way...an ASIAN girl and prefer my own race. Actually I only date Philipinos but sometimes my dad say they are mean and discriminatory as well! I don't know. All I know is that my mom used to say go date white man so your kids will have blue eyes. Isn't that funny!
Reply:This is true, in a way.
Reply:hmm, I'm a young white girl, and I date asians guys... I find them to be very attractive and sweet!
Reply:Hollywood, MTV and the U.S. mainstream media are telling everyone that asian men are undesirable. So white girls don't like asian men.
Reply:Are you kidding me? I love asian guys! They usually don't like caucasian women back though;) It's a question of height usually. I can't help it that I'm taller than most Asian men. I don't care for having a taller guy, so the problem lies most with the acceptance of a very large female compared to their build.





I don't know who told you it's uncool to date an asian guy. I think these women should get their eyes checked out. For one, you (asian men) don't tend to create a rug by the time you're 40. You don't go bald as often. You don't need to shave three times a day. I personally think your eye shapes are the best. You rarely get fat. I mean? Who wants to be with Farmer Bill when you can have something Oriental!? I'm sure lots of ladies will agree with me.





I'm not from the United States though and I don't exactly run into Asian men if I walk down the street. Nor will I find black people or hispanics. I probably wouldn't date a black man because I love hair and unfortunately they haven't been gifted with a head of hair you can run your fingers through. Hispanic perhaps, but seen from my background a little too hotblooded.





Also: because there are so little people of other color in my environment I of course, do not see the correlation white men- asian women daily. I have heard of the phenomenon. It is usually dismissed by white women as 'a choice easier to handle'. If there's a scale it would be:


asian women - white women - hispanic - black women.
Reply:ok I'm a white girl





I date hispanics.......its not that I am bitter that the white guys are taken by asian girls is that white guys arent my thing......I would date an Asian but I never see any in tx......





So......yeah.......I just love me some hispanics......I love me some mexican food! mmmmmmmmmm


Girls who want a date?

i am a 15 year old boy and i have seen some awesome girls online before that i never had the chance to meet. but i want that to change. if you are a girl who wants a date then i have come up with a plan. i want to find 10 girls online, and what i'm gonna do is have a little competition online. i will get to know the girls and i will eliminate them if i think they are wrong for me. i just want to find a girl who exactly like me. so are there any girls who want to give it a try? there has to be somewhere where we can talk online. and you have to tell me where it is. remember, there is 10 girls so if you want to give it a shot then hurry up!

Girls who want a date?
ummm.....i might want to give it a try, sounds pretty fun.
Reply:grow up then we can date
Reply:no thanks
Reply:how do you know people who reply arnt 40 year old men going to kidnap you and the you give out all your details?


then what?





and how do they know you arnt who you say you are either you could be anyone aswell , kidnapper , murderer, rapeist , anyone so dont go asking people for their details and to meet up with you who youve never ever met before because you or them could be ANYONE!





just meet REAL people in REAL life
Reply:Why dont u try and meet poeple you know im real life then us on here


Girls must be blind cause this sucks!!!!! (girls opinions would be awesome)?

Im a football player and hang with football friends and they are always talking about all the girls they've been with and what they did and it makes me think. how the hell did these idiots get sex and i can't even get a girl friend??? i think it sucks how these guys are treating them and the girls just go right to them. i wish that they could see that i would never be mean, disrespectful, or rude to them.





im 6'3 200lbs muscular and starting varsity 17 years old





What do i need to do cause i feel like ive got enough good things going for me i just can't seem to make it work with any girls i try...





i asked one girl to the movies but i asked her on monday and by thursday she called it off.





then i asked two girls to go bowling knowing that they would probably bail.... im kinda sick of it. i mean i put my self out there, i don't look bad. is it because i don't smoke at all or get drunk every weekend....





WHAT DO YOU THINK THE DEAL IS?????

Girls must be blind cause this sucks!!!!! (girls opinions would be awesome)?
The type of girls that are going after your friends, and sleeping with them, aren't the ones you should be with anyway. It sounds like you have your head on straight, especially for someone that's in high school.





I know having a girlfriend and going on dates is all teenagers think about, but if you concentrate on your grades, playing good ball, the outcome of your situation would be much better then if you "wasted" your time messing with girls.
Reply:The bad thing is most (not all) 17 year old girls don't care about nice.They care about what their friends are doing and what is going to make them popular. In a few years they will be looking for someone like you. The good thing is there are girls that aren't like that. Are you just looking in one group of people for a girl? If you are try to meet other people that you normally wouldn't think to go out with. You keep doing what you're doing and someone will come along. You can avoid alot of stress by staying away from those kinds of girls anyway because trust me after high school none of that will matter.
Reply:Most of the times girls are attracted by rough boys.I think that's what is it.You should try to be a little unapproachable and don't let them feel that you are in desperate need of a girl.You will see the difference.Try
Reply:most girls dnt knw a good man until they have actually been threw all the bad ones...just wait you will get someone who would appreciate the way you treat them...and there is nothing wrong with you ..the way you describe yourself.i mean not even your looks but just the way you have respect for women.....i would definetly go out with you ...and plus you have to remeber girls that age{well most girls} are not worried about men being nice to dem..dey just wanna get laid...so dnt worri if dese chicks arent digging u ...u will find a rel women who loves being respected and u love respecting her...
Reply:i think maymay was right you shouldn't be going after those kinds of girls and if they dont like bc u dont smoke or drink u shouldnt like them anyway bc i think that thats is the best thing in the world a guy who doesnt smoke or drink or do things he shouldnt be doing so dont chase love let it find you it may take a while but eventually u will find the perfect one so good luck with ur problems
Reply:It may be ur approach. But nit to worry u are only 17 u have plenty of time to refine ur skills. Try going out with a girl as friends at first and then see where u can take it from there. And make sure u compliment her and be pilot soon they'll be telling u all there business and you'll get all the sex u can't handle. LOL
Reply:I'm sorry you have to go through this in high-school. It really stinks but I can assure you that as long as you are a good guy, eventually the girls when open their eyes and see what a great catch you are. Girls often go for the guys that are the poorest choices in high-school, until they learn from their mistakes.
Reply:By what you are typing you sound arrogant but i could be wrong! i mean i dont really know you...hmmm, if you do say that you got all these things going great for you then it shouldnt be a problem right? just try a different approach on girls so that they could see that you are more than just a jock. And yeah, i agree with ya if your friends are rude then why do those girls go to them? im a girl and i hate to admit it but yes...sometimes we are blinded by infatuation, maybe the idea of going out with them just sounds appealing but in 10 years "labels" from high school wont matter anymore. trust me...you'll get a girl, just work on showing what you are on the inside..
Reply:Believe me when i say we're not looking for guys who smoke and get drunk... or at least I'm not. I personally think you're trying too hard. Don't throw yourself out there. You're only going to end up looking needy. I suggest you give it some time. And just be yourself. I speak for girls everywhere i'm sure when i say we hate it when guys try to pretend to be something they're not. And i'm sure that whoever she is she'll be lucky to have you... but that's only if you keep your word about not being mean and disrespectful and junk.


Patience. There are loads of fish in the sea and an entire lifetime to go fishing.. hehe..
Reply:awwwwww sweetie, u sound like the perfect guy...n there's very little chance u hv much competition between u %26amp; this guy(except ofcourse he's turning 18 and plays music..which is a bonus for me coz i feel a bit shy to get emotionally involve wit a guy whose younger than me or too old)...im from australia and we use kilograms to measure weight not ibs...wat is it??and wat is varsity?? the truth is tat idk wat the deal is...u seem like a nice good looking guy whose got things going for him...maybe those girls tat u asked out are either terribly shy(like me) or hv super strict military like poarents(like me) or is busy wit shopping or school(like me)..or one i think more 2 ur liking-that they r blind...maybe ask ur 'female friends' to go out wit u or focus more on hvng more good female friends who will introduce u to otehr good and hot looking girls.. i know tat i will introduce this guy to teh rest of my friends simply coz he's a bit like u, gawjus and sexyadn musical except i WILL KILL ANY1 who steals him frineds included...so ur female friends will open a door of oppturnity 4 u..btw, how do u NOT smoke at all??it's easy 4 me coz i dont smoke either and feel like vomiting whenever im ard a person who is smoking in front of me..but hw do u avoid tempttaion??/keep up the good habits and good luck wit ur "varsity" thingy n ur girl friends woes dont 'put urself out there. u wld seem so clingy nad insecure %26amp; i persoanlly wld prefer a GUY NOT A GIRL(nt tat im implying u're 1 but if u convey urself as the insecure eager type..u jz gonna put girls off) enjoy freedom while u still can
Reply:if you really won't be mean or rude to girls, i'd personally choose you. maybe you just need to wait for the right girl for you rather than be with a lot of girls you won't even like. maybe those girls your friends are talking about only want popularity since they're going with football guys. try to show girls that you really respect them..
Reply:I so know what you mean...


I'm also friends with footballers and i agree that they treat girls like meat. I also fail to understand why these girls sleep with them. However, it can be said that nine times out of ten, they pick these girls up while they are out and wasted at night clubs. The girls are usually overwhelmed about the fact that they are footy players (god knows why) and get caught up in the moment - and they are usually drunk as well.





Don't get me wrong - footy players are great as friends, and i do know some nice ones, but the majority of them i would never consider as boyfriend material. I guess this is because they can get any girl they want because of their status and are usually not very faithful which would drive me crazy!





I know it can be disheartening sometimes. But...someone will come around. Someone who is worth it. You don't want to be with someone who doesn't understand you and takes you for granted. You need to be with that person you feel most comfortable with and someone who loves you for you!





Don't give up!
Reply:I don't think there's an actual problem here...


I think that you just havent found the right girl 2 date yet?? Your still young, so I wouldnt worry too much !





You sound like a really decent guy. So I'm sure you will have no problem meeting a nice girl who will feel priveledged to be with you..





As in for them dudes on your team, They sound like Muppets!!, Sadly some girls tend 2 fall for these types, bt not all girls!!!!!!!!!!!..... %26amp; are you POSITIVE they are all telling the truth??? Because I have found thru life, that the guys most likely to BRAG are the ones who arent getting anything, if you know what I mean..... They sound eally immature.





Stay the way you are %26amp; PROMISE you'll meet a nice lady....


Xhope this helpsX
Reply:alright , i know exactly the situation you are in. i was the same way in high school. i was a cheerleader and everything but no one ever liked me. i never had a boyfriend from my school. but i was friends with everyone.





the reason they arn't dating you is the fact that you are too nice of a guy and want more than a good lay. right now all theya re looking for is to have fun, and when someone is mentioning something serious they object to it!





btu dont worry you may not be catching the women right now but as soon as you get out of high school they will be chasing you down!





good luck!
Reply:tbh you try for the girls you like dont exspect them to come to you and you jst gotta keep tryn man its how it gos keep asking untill you find one who does go to that movie. GL man girls like a guy who cares and you seem to have the right idea =] keep tryn youll find a girl
Reply:you might not like the sound of this but wouldnt you prefur a realy nice girl who treats you nice and has a realy nice personality rather than just sex and things like that? i think you should wait untill it happens cos it will you wont be single forever its like you can get the most good looking boy ever and he wont have a girlfriend for ages it just the way life works
Reply:maybe u arent confident enough try harder smile alot be funny with them maybe they just want to be friends and think ur coming on to them just keep trying and dont give up being a teen is hard i know im 17 too life sucks sometime sbut u just gotta keep trying
Reply:Well it seems at though your friends could really use a reality check...Sometimes girls don't understand what a guy is feeling. At other times girls just don't know what they want. They at first want that bad boy then they realize it's really a nice guy they want. Yeah it's not fair that you are always overlooked by girls but like you said you have alot going for yourself and when the time is right the right one will come along. In the meantime keep being yourself and don't change for anyone. If they can not like you for you then you really don't need them in your life.


GIRLS, LADIES HELP!! Why do girls see me diffrently?

Ok, i'm not being a stuck up, conceited, arrogant or anything bad. If this sound conceited... i'm sorry....i'm just curious about girls and women....so here's the questions...





Why do girls see me differently?.............i don't really understand girls...somehow they see me diffrently......i get comments from them too...some girls think i'm cute....others think i'm hot....others think i'm handsome.....so which one am i?


gosh girls are hard to understand!!!! girls help!!!

GIRLS, LADIES HELP!! Why do girls see me diffrently?
Lol, its not that they see you differently. Its the girls themselves.





You can tell a lot by a girl from the word she uses. Girls that use the word hot..paris hilton type..they like to use the word that everyone else uses..just because they think its cute.





If a girl says cute or handsome..it means the same thing as hot...its just...a bit more sophisticated.





I explained that the best i could.





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Do rich girls stimulate more sexual interest and have more sex drive compared to middleclass or poor girls???

I am searching for a wife for me. My mind is asking me to go for a rich girl because I have a feeling that rich girls have more sex drive and are more sexier compared to middleclass girls %26amp; poor girls. Anyway I agree that beauty is independent of any class. But I feel that the branded items %26amp; the expensive clothes that rich gals wear will attract and stimulate of lot of sexual interest compared to middleclass girls. For example a high brand panty that a rich girl is wearing may stimulate a lot compared to the panty a middleclass girl or a poor girl may be wearing.





Please advice me on this matter based on your experiences in life.

Do rich girls stimulate more sexual interest and have more sex drive compared to middleclass or poor girls???
honey its just all material.....rich girls are just stuck up......they know where to hit you in your hip pocket.....
Reply:Hmmmm....basing a marriage on a "panty brand"? Yeah, that should make for a strong foundation.
Reply:Thanks for the great belly laugh! That's really something.





Given the shallowness of your criteria, focus on finding an airhead to marry. She'll be perfect for you!
Reply:Marry for the money, but bang them all there in no difference at all once show them the hammer..
Reply:well, if paris hilton is your type.... enjoy your aidz and other many stds.
Reply:You have asked this question way too many times.





Before you get a wife, you need to get a life.
Reply:Rich girls are a two way street. On one hand, they might bring more to the table, rich father, inheritance possibilities. On the other hand, they're used to a comfy lifestyle and might be spoiled and hard to please. Rich or poor, they're all sexy for a time, then it wears off. Also the over-sexed ones might stray someday. My advice? Don't look too hard, good matches arrange themselves somehow.
Reply:defineitly not. money has noooo influence on the individuals sex drive. its strictly up to that person.
Reply:no they just wont more money
Reply:go %26amp; get a rich panty for urself.
Reply:You dont look for a girl because of how rich she is thats just being stupid and sex wow thats great you only want a rich girl for sex nah man you are missing the point girls are supposed to be your best friend someone you care for love not just an object to be used and then discarded
Reply:no idea





good question











may be u can have fun with middle class girl








cause rich girl might want to have fun rather than you





she might ask u first to satisfy her n never think about your pleasure








may be ?





Iam not sure








Now i have to try it my own





thanx


Girls do you care what body size or shape a guy has?

I as this because at my campus there are many thin hot looking girls with guys who are fat or guys with no abs, or guys who are super thin, and it goes on. As for when girls date guys, most guys would choose thin girls only while the girls would take guys of any size....





It seems as though girls don't care if the guys are model quality while the guys care if the girls are model quality. So girls why is that? I'm a medium size guy with muscles, not thin nor fat, I wonder if its ok.

Girls do you care what body size or shape a guy has?
girls like guys for being guys not really how big they are.... actually sometimes it just depends
Reply:If a man makes me laugh, knows how to have fun, and doesn't worry about what everyone thinks, then he gets my attention. It doesn't matter what his body is like.
Reply:I used to care until I met a man that has showed me Love like I have never had before. He is not in shape but he is the sexiest man I know. I had one that was in great shape and he treated me like ----- in the end. 15 years with him and eventually he lost his great shape and all appeal to me. It is the way that a man treats you that matters the most to me and it took me a long time to learn that
Reply:well it depends on the girl,really. but as my opinion i dont really like muscles- but a lil are OK.


Girls jeans on guys?

ok so my gf told me i should start wearing girls jeans and i was wondering if they should looks like girls jeans too what i mean is they are tight like a girls jeans would be... but i have seen other guys who wear girls jeans and they look kind of baggy, but she said that i should wear them the way girls wear them so my butt looks good she said it looks stupid when guys wear girls jeans and don't sag them so should i wear them on my hips like girls do or let them be baggy

Girls jeans on guys?
well..you should wear them low on your hips like girls wear them so that they still make your butt look good...=)
Reply:DON'T PUT THEM ON!!!!!!!!!!!! IT'S A HUDGE TURN OFF! but if you really want to.... make them look more masculin.... at least a bit.... weaar them baggy... you can gget girl jeans that are baggy... try those!
Reply:Mmmmmmm ...............girl jeans on boys = yummy :-)
Reply:only gay guys wear girl's jeans!
Reply:girls jeans=skater, goth, emo, punk.





if ur more of a different style, tell her that guys butts are to be admired from a far. lol :)





withlove, dahling.
Reply:I know guys that wouldn't be caught dead in girls jeans.
Reply:please don't wear girls jeans!
Reply:lol dont
Reply:Whatever happened to periods at the end of sentences and capital letter in the beginning?
Reply:please dont do it !
Reply:Ohmygod


Why girl jean?!!!


I know skinny jean look good on a guy but to go THAT extreme?


Ohmygod
Reply:some guys can pull it off.


if you do your look sexy.





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Why do girls lie about the size penis they have had in past relationships?

Every girl I was with always lied to me about the size they have had. The girls I have been with are all in their teens, and since I am above average they always have to go bigger then what I am.


I really wouldn't care if they told me the truth. It's just that I hate girls that lie, especially just to dampen my pride. It's not that I brag about it either.


It's just so amazing that they lie, and it's unbelieveable. Pretty much every girl I have been with has had a penis bigger then 10 inches and up to 14 inches. It's ridiculous... And when I call them out on their lie they get mad at me.


A girl told me she has had a 10 inch one. Then I find out she is a virgin. Stupid girl. She is the only girl I knew was lying, and she eventually admitted she was.


The girl I am with now is the only girl that I have been with that didn't lie at all about that. And their is one other that didn't lie, but most did.

Why do girls lie about the size penis they have had in past relationships?
you must be small because girls ususlly lie and tell their boyfriend they are the biggest.
Reply:bc they don't want you to brad about your own or they don't want to feel inferior to "the penis" so they say things that make you not want to talk about "the penis" at all. it's a psychological thing, that they can't even explain. fluctuating hormones and estrogen levels.
Reply:Keep your genitals in your britches, there are too many dieases out there.
Reply:How did you know that they lied? Did you spy on them?
Reply:THEYRE HORNY
Reply:ok i have a question for u. why do guys lie about their pen is size?





well just that makes u wanna work harder with it maybe. and make u use it well. also maybe they were messurin with a fishermans ruler. where every 1inch is 2 inches. so the fish can look bigger lol. idontknow though. maybe they dont know how to messure.
Reply:perhaps when your a little older you won't find the need to be reassured and will skip that silly questions to the lovely young ladies. i'm sure girls arn't asking you if theirs is the biggest bosoms you ever had.


if you don't like to hear tthe answers, then don't ask us the question
Reply:I think guys are more likely to lie about the size of their penis. I hear so many guys say their penis is above average. Well, some of them have to be lying because everyone can't be above average.
Reply:only 1% of the population has a penis that is naturally as big as 8 inches (when erect).





just throw that statistic at them
Reply:Perhaps this e-book can help you with your relationship? It's a free download so it's worth a shot I think.
Reply:Young girls! I don't know, maybe they want you to think they can handle it? Truth is, most girls have no idea how many inches any of them are. We can say oh it was about this big. But that's it.
Reply:girls find the amount of guyz that they have laid and the size that the guy has had to be something to brag about... some girls do that to make fun of you even tho u have a well sized dick. don't worry about it dude... chilax.. just be like oh Wow! really u laid a guy who had that big of a dick? well i be he didn't pleasure you like i am about to
Reply:Why would you ask? What has happened in the past with these girls is none of your business. The details of previous intimate encounters are not something you should be asking - other than, did they use condoms, and how recently did they get lab work done. If you ask a question as out of bounds as this, you get the level of truth you deserve.





If they are volunteering this information without you asking, take it as a sign they don't have a heck of a lot of class, and adjust your expectations of truthfulness accordingly.
Reply:OMG you are too young for this crap. Don't hang out with girls who talk like that. You should know better. And stop asking about other guys' penises. That makes you look gay and insecure.
Reply:They wanna see if you are man enough to take what they are throwing at you. They lie just as we lie about how many girls we've been with. Its a test of wills of that "this is my past, can you deal" type of thing, just bursh if off and make them forget those ex's with what you got.
Reply:God dont whine about it. Just live with it. If your fine with your "size" who cares. Sounds to me like your just unsatisfied with what god gave you.

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Girls who aren't so subtle?

I asked about girls who plays hard to get. What about girls who don't. Girls who stares at you. You know girls like that. Like girls that sit quietly and then when you ask her to do something (dance) she pulls you by the wrist or something like she knows you well. I hate girls who play hard to get it was childish and will always be childish. I'd rather have a straight up girl but I don't want anything over that...you know? Like I said I want a WOMAN not a crazy ***** lol.

Girls who aren't so subtle?
Playing a little hard to get isn't bad. To over do it - is childish. I play hard to get a little sometimes but just to get reaction from the guy, to see if hes willing to try to really get to know me or he just seems me as "aghh whatever just another b*tch" you know? I want to see if he really likes me and DOES actually want to hang out with me and usually it works. Especially if I am not in a relationship with the guy I will play hard to get sometimes but once were in the relationship the games stop but I'll still do it once in a while to get him crazy over me lol.
Reply:What do you think happens to the straight-up, unsubtle woman after she gets rejected by men a few times? Rejection sucks, of course shes going to be a little shyer next time. Maybe if guys hadn't acted like asses to them in the past then every girl would be less subtle, but guys can be cruel, and rejection hurts.
Reply:Lol, well I'm one of the girls who kinda stares at guys a like but not like full one stare. But i don't like grab a guy as if a know him if he like asks me to dance or anything.


I don't know why girls are like the way we are, but that's just us.


Girls and boobs?

ok well i just asked this but i believe people made mistakes in their answers





girls only answer plz.


ok well i was wondering why girls are more obsessed with boobs than most guys are. honestly you know how many questions there are from girls about their boobs not bieng big enough or something? i personally like a-b-c cups but all u girls want d's and stuff (just means you will be saggy later) but honestly i think more about ur personallity i wud rather have a flat nice girl than a busty stuck-up-snob. (yet i'm still single lol) so why are girls always obsessing about their own boobs???





mistakes-everyone was saying "well the media is saying that we need to be skinny with big boobs" do me a favor and before you say somethng like that go find a dress or something magazine and open it up then count how many girls with DD's have on dresses and stuff. maybe 1!

Girls and boobs?
I guess it's because it makes us feel a little bit more like a real woman.





And guys go crazy over big boobs, like at my school if you're pretty but flat then no one will talk to you but you can be ugly with big boobs.





But its whatever.Im skinny and happy. When I get older i wont have to worry about being 300 pounds. Mostly fat chicks are the ones with big REAL boobs
Reply:Alright, since you didn't like that answer, I'll give you the other one I was thinking of.





MEN. I really don't need to say more than that.
Reply:these girls are self conscious.


Please come to my school! Guys here are so frickin annoying trying to throw things into everyones chest and stuff. They're sex addicts! So I'm really surprised a girl hasn't found you yet
Reply:One thing to keep in mind with these sort of questions: Girls are self-conscious. About their appearance, about most things. I don't care how confident someone says they are, ladies tend to have a little voice in their head throwing out concerns at all times, whether they let it affect their lives or not. The ladies you're speaking of are probably of the weaker breed... :) They just want to be told that they ARE normal, or are maybe just voicing their body issues; Girl talk. Not that big a deal!





And hey, not all of us are dreaming of d's.... As a b girl myself, I think they'd get in the way too much! :)
Reply:It's just like guys obsessed with their size. yep i said it. so just mind ur own bussines.
Reply:I guess its because boobs make most girls feel more feminine and SEXY!!!! I f you were a girl you'd understand ;). I'm a d cup and I love wearing shirts that have cleavage....It makes me feel more confident and sensual... All my friends feel the same way about their boobs and if they are flat chested they will buy padded bras or just about anything to feel sexy with a low cut shirt (not for guys but for themselves).. Boobs are a girl thing it make a girl feel like a SEXY woman even like a GODDESS =) Most girls even nickname them A girls obsession with boobs is hard for a guy to understand and possibly you may never understand because Boobs are a Huge part of being and feeling like a real Woman (not for mens attention or to please you guys) ;)
Reply:most girls are obsessed because the want guys to like them or get attention from them


it doesent really make sense boobs are saggy flap coming off a girls body
Reply:i have the size i want so i dont care but i do have d's oh well im happy now saggy later
Reply:LMAO!!


Its because, when we girls have bigger boobs, it makes us feel more cumpforbule in our bodys!
Reply:Ok, well I have D cups, and I am pretty young too, so I look rather unnatural and disproportionate. Trust me, you can be perfectly happy without the stupendous things.


They MIGHT sag later, and they can hurt when you are running.





So come on girls, be happy with what you have, honestly.