Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Girls comfortable looking at other girls?

I'm not sure about the title of this but anyhow...


How do you girls feel about looking at girls wearing bikinis, girls as cheerleaders, or even topless, on a beach for example. I've never understood why there is so much bitching amoungst girls about how other girls look. i know some of its jelousy but other girls are uncomfortable around girls who are aren't wearing much. I've never been bothered at all, its not as if they've got anything i havent.

Girls comfortable looking at other girls?
it doesnt bother me at all


i dont undertand the jelousy factor and then constant bitching either


i think some girls are so insecure about themelves that they are threatened if the see another girl who the believe to be beter looking than they are





im 100% comfortable with my body, and can apprieciate that some girls look nicer than me in a bikini. i can say wow, she looks good to my boyfriend and not feel a pang of jelousy or the need to call her names when he has a look
Reply:Doesn't bother me at
Reply:since they are wearing it, that means they wanna show what they have. so why not take a look?
Reply:certain girls wearing barely anything bother me...like my Mom nothing...and my sister nothing...now my other sister...who is over sexed I find it soo disturbing seeing her naked...I think he body is disgusting...=\
Reply:I have 2 thoughts on this...one, yes, some of it is jealousy but on the other hand some women feel that girls who "flaunt" their bodies are perpetuating females as sex objects only. Personally, I think if you "have it" use it to your advantage NOW cause women having power because of their looks or sex appeal doesn't last forever.It's the ONE advantage we have, power-wise, in this good old boys club called "the world."
Reply:some girls just do it to get attention so thats why other girls think they are bitchy!!
Reply:why is this in the fashion and accesories caragorie?


Question about...girls?

I am a Canadian and when to boarding school in England for a while (until I was 14). I am now I'm back. I'm 16 (today is by birthday!) and I back in England, at my old school. I came back and found girls staring at me, and I have had 6 -hot- girls ask me out. I've even had 3 girls randomly kiss me (that brunet was HOT!) I go to the library and go to the Science section. I will find girls who I know HATE science their. I will go the cafeteria and their will be girls in front and behind me in the lunch line.


Where ever I go, girls go..lol =)


I just want to some peace; I would love to to the library and relax with a good book in peace.


I love girls, don't get me wrong, but It as if they are stocking me. lol.


I'm not use to all this girl attention, I was very ugly as a child and couldn't even find a date for the Prom when I was 14...





I heard that girls are possessive so if I go out with a girl, will the others back off and leave me alone.

Question about...girls?
first of all, happy birthday!!





second, they most likely will. if they're just hanging around you because they're hoping you'll ask them out, if they know you're in a relationship, they'll most likely back off.





i hope everything works out for you!
Reply:Maybe you've got an England accent when you came back? If the girls are bothering you too much, ask them to give you some peace and quiet. Not all girls are possessive, some shamelessly flirt with anothers bf, expecally if your their new intresest.
Reply:No, they will always be like that. But they will back off a tad.


I know its weird but think of it as a lion feeding on a carcas. If one lion becomes dominate and takes the meat(you) then the others will back off. Good luck
Reply:hang out around your house more?
Reply:hmmmm...lets see now...heeeeello jealousy...can you say CAT FIGHT!!! and i highly doubt that there sre really that many girls...some body has a over active imagination....


Why are girls like this? (No offence)?

Girls are always telling the guys not to do something and they go do it themselves.





For instances a guy threw a paper ball at a girl (barely tossed). She made a big deal out of it and slapped him. The guy complained and the girl said get over it ...its just a slap.(UUMMM..get over the paper ball thrown at you). This really happened.





And also there was a girl who played a prank on a guy saying a family member of his was dead. He soon found out and she said big dea! its just a prank. Then the guy gets her back by saying someone was kidnapped from the girls family a year later. Soon the girl finds out and completely loses her head.





There was also a time when there was a boys cabin and a girls cabin. The leader of the guy's cabin was going to order pizza. (The girls didnt have a cellphone) The leader of the girls cabin told the guys not to order pizza because it was too late at night and takes the phone away.... and guess what? She orders pizza for the girls!





Why?

Why are girls like this? (No offence)?
There is no explanation for it,girls are just girls and guys are just guys.
Reply:Same way I guess guys cheat and tell girls it meant nothing. Each gender has its faults. If someone is so annoying to you I would suggest not being around them.
Reply:not all girlsare like that im not it not all girls but maybey some girls don't like it when boys play a prank on them
Reply:Because life is full of double standards and unfairness.





As far as the double standards go, us men get the longer end of the stick.





So stop complaining and accept it.
Reply:Not all girls are like this, you know.


I think that the only way a girl would do something like that on a regular basis is if she didn't like you at all.
Reply:I guess no one will ever know!





You just have to learn to deal with it, but not all girls are like that!
Reply:we are fickle.
Reply:Hey.....this does not apply to all girls i hope you know that lol....some girls do make big deals out of nothing and they do condradict themself and they are hypocritical...but i dont think they realise they are doing it tbh.....some girls are just stupid and like to protect themselves in the most crazy ways...but in the cases that you explained in your question the girls that were doing this were being extremely immature....i mean...i would never have slapped someone for throwing a paper ball that is hus ott....you just have to undertsand that some girls are immature and take little things extremely critically and serioulsy....hope this helped...shay xxx
Reply:Honestly, you need to take no notice and stay well out of it. Things like this are so petty, not worth the time of day. It's just not girls who do this, boys are just as bad. Revenge pranks are so childish, if you can't deal with pranks don't give them out! Simple?

buck teeth

Girls, i need your help.! advice here, and who would you?

these 2 girls at my school are always talking about girl power and stuff like that to a friend of mine. 1 said that if any guy wasn't treating her right, she'd ssmack him. my friend and i both doubt that. we don't believe most girls can do that to a guy. i mean come on, they're GIRLS! they told us we were crazy, girls can easily do that. so they made us make a bet. they'll try to smack us. 1 of them on 1 of us. when we don't expect it. face to face. and if they win, we have to do something they want for a whole day. same for us if we win by either ducking when they try or blocking thheir hand out when they try. 1 of the girls is 16 and a blonde who is 5'6. but i have a serious problem. she walked up and her right smack hit my friend straight on his left cheek good. they are laughing at us. she goes see? you can't block it from a girl. the girl i face is 5'2 really cute and 15. she says she's smacked 2 guys before. we can't lose! i have to block it! her friend was fast though. who wins?

Girls, i need your help.! advice here, and who would you?
if ur asking how to block just keep ur eyes open





maybe doing wat she wants might be fun u never know what


they'll think of


Town girls mimiking city girl's dressing style may soemtimes end up buying not exactly the same, is this OK?

I feel that girls coming from towns to cities like bangalore for working while trying to mimic the dressing style of city sometimes end up wearing similar ones and not exactly the same. A girl who has come to the city may see a city brought up girl in the road wearing a trendy jeans, the jeans that the city girl was wearing may be a Lee brand and a particular fit. The town girl may not know the exact brand that the city girl was wearing and may go to a Levis showroom and ask by explaining what she saw on the road and may buy a similar fit but not exactly the same fit and brand. Wht do you think about this siutuation???Does this mean that the town girl didnt understand the city trend and has failed to pick up the city dressing style??? Or does this mean that the mimiking is alright and the town girl has very well picked up the city style ??





Please comment...

Town girls mimiking city girl's dressing style may soemtimes end up buying not exactly the same, is this OK?
what a weird a.s.s question that is.. but umm...i think town girls should just stick to their town limits. cuz us city girls cant be mimiked (:
Reply:sure ok
Reply:Buy a fashion magazine and study that. Vogue, Harper's Bazaar, or for teens, Lucky or Seventeen.

teeth yellow

Girls, how would you feel? what would you do?

I've this one best friend, she's a girl, and we're both interested in each other as more than friends. We've been so cool, but recently, I started to talk with this other girl.


I don't feel guilty about that, since I'm still a single, and there's nothing wrong with flirting with more than one girl, eh?





The first girl(my best friend) found that out and asked me some things about second girl, and I told her without hiding anything, and now, she feels uncomfortable(or even devastated and jealous) about me flirting with other girl.





So girls, if you were the first girl, how would you feel? what would you do? We're both college students.

Girls, how would you feel? what would you do?
i would feel like you didn't even give the time 2 make it work instead you went on to another girl.also like you've lost interest.
Reply:even if you weren't "officially" together with the first girl, you reach a pt in a relationship where you have an unspoken agreement that the relationship is heading in that direction.


she probably really liked you, and even if she had a crush on other guys, maybe she made the effort not to flirt with them and thought you would do the same for her.


i advise you to make up your mind on what you want and if you choose that you want to be exclusive with girl #1, i would go appologize STAT and hopefully she'll still be interested.


good luck!!
Reply:i would feel betrayed because you said you have feelings for this girl and like wise for her and you go and flirt with anther girl and that is called leading on and that is not cool P.S. it is not OK to flirt with another girl if you have feelings for anther girl
Reply:i would be envious and maybe a bit jealous


and kinda uncomfortable too...
Reply:If I was the girl and I was shy about asking you out then i could see myself getting jealous. Would you want to pursue something with the first girl because if so then perhaps you need to talk to him about going steady and what not.


Personally Ive never been the girl that wants to date a guy who dates other women.
Reply:This is just what I think.





If you and the first girl are interested in each other, more than friends, then you should not flirt that much with other girls. If it was me i would be a tiny bit offended. What I would do in this sitution would have to do with how things happened after it was discussed.


I know plenty girls who like me, but i just dont have that feelin for any of them?

im a pretty cute guy, and a soph in high school, im confident im pretty popular and a flirt and all that, not afraid to get at any girl... there are so many girls who like me, and i cant choose cuz while sum look good i dont feel uttin speical enuff to go out w/ them. heres the twist - for most of last yr while i was the same person i didnt really take care of myself as much and was fatter and really had no girls that liked me, i had no confidence, etc. and i fell victim to the old get a crush on the flirt thing, i had a big crush on this girl, i was inexperienced and shy and all that and didnt really take a chance to charm her ell i prolly came off as a staler at first starin at her, (my firends finally got me to ask her out she said she just got out of a relationship which was true, but it still shot my confidence down to try again.) but at the end of the yr her flirting picked up the pase on me so much that it was teasing, cuz she knew i liked her and there were a bunch of other girls i cought starin at me, all this happeneing where i came of a suspension from shcool im not a bad boy but i do get in trouble and i dont like anybody messin w/ me, i was suspeded for fighting, and i cought her lookin at me and she whispered (why do u gotta be so bad) really low thinkuin i wouldnt hear lol i did, and on myspace she did a survey sayin she was thinkiin bout this guy but he was the wrong one, i offically from that moment on put her behind me and over the summer i worked out, and to get my confidence in my game up started talking to girls on myspace, i charmed quite a few girls and as i started adding more girls they started adding me and hollerin at me, my myspace blew up, not like the w4w blowups, but 500+ friends in a not so long time, all females. so this really boosted my confidence and i came to school a lil too overconfident the beggining of ths yr, i thought i could talk to a girl and try to get some quick sex out of some non-hoes, i was a *** and the reactions quickly calmed me down, so the damamge was minimal lol i dont feel that way anymore. but right now im single, tired of being single, have quite a few cute girls who like me but i dont have a thing for any of them, it seems only that girl from last yr that creeps into my mind and i want to start over with her shes stil at my school even tho i have no clases with her this semester, ive passed by her in the hallway a few times, she was walkin with a friend once and i heard from her friend (but he looks good) i didnt hear any more but i got the idea and im sure she said sumthn bout me, cuz her friend was lookin at me. and what a conicidence later that day i happened to be walkin behind her friend i didnt really pay attention thought, its an outside shcool and it rained that day and there were puddles, i was trying to keep my shoes clean and her friend walked up to sumody and it was her, and immedatl she lookedbehind at me made eye contact then back, and now after having her out of my mind exept once in awhile for the most part, shes back and my mind wanders to her. seriously, what should i do????

I know plenty girls who like me, but i just dont have that feelin for any of them?
wow I actually read all of that...lol. It seems like she might be a bit interested. But it will be hard to start a conversation with her since she isnt in any of ur classes. Try talkin to the girl who u like's friend. See what her friend knows about the situation.





Better yet, try hitting up her myspace, send her a friend request/message, ger her attention, see how she responds. If she gives u a hi back then continue from there. If she never requests u or answers ur msgs, then just move on as u've been doing.
Reply:You definately should care about people more.


GIRLS - what would YOU feel and do if...?

GIRLS, I go to this group thing at my college. There are about 25 of us that attend regularly, and I flirt and talk with almost all the girls...I'd say 80% of them. If a girl likes me, how will I know sense I flirt with most of the girls? And if one of the girls does like me, how would I know when I should stop flirting with all of the girls? If one of the girls does like me, will they soon dislike me if I continue flirting and talking with most of the other girls?

GIRLS - what would YOU feel and do if...?
i would definitely stop liking a guy who flirts with a lot of girls.
Reply:I would say keep on doing what you are doing if it makes you happy. If you really like one of the girls lots more than the others you will know and then you can go on from there. If you have been flirting all this time and you find a special one it should not bother her because that is your personality.
Reply:A lot of girls think a guy likes them if they flirt with them. Flirting with all the girls there is a bad idea. Girls talk to each other... you know, telling all their secrets and such. Eventually they will find out you've been flirting with all of them and they will lose interest in you. If there is one girl that you really like, flirt with her. You never know what could work out.
Reply:you're probably asking this question because you have your eye on one girl imparticular. flirt with her and not the whole lot of them because she probably just thinks you're a big flirt and isn't acknowledging you as anything real. focus on her and ask her out to dinner or something, see what she says and hopefully things will evolve from there. good luck!
Reply:girls dont like players.


girls want a guy who can commit and focus on just her.


and about stopping fliriting with the other girls...


thats a struggle you have to overcome yourself.


theres no definite this is how you stop solution.
Reply:If this girl likes you she will keep looking down at her feet or she will sqweeze in a giggle or two then ask her out on a date


Girls, can u help us solve an age old debate?

Between me and my friend, k...





HE says that girls like guys who are rugged and not really into stuff girls r into, in other words that most girls want a Vin Diesel...oh and that a girl can fall for the ugliest guy if he's confident enough...





I think every girl deep down wants a pretty boy, and every girl who doesnt have one, notices one every time she sees one. Some say it's not about looks, but I think deep down, every girl wants a Leo DiCaprio or a Brad Pitt. And Ive had friends (most of my friends r girls) say that "it's hard not 2"...





so...





which of us do you think is right?





fill us in on your female knowedge of what goes on in your head, and thanks...! :)

Girls, can u help us solve an age old debate?
girls love the confidence of guy 1 (vin diesel) but we would never pass up the opportunity of a pretty boy like leo... EVER!!!
Reply:let me chime in:


imo, leo and brad pitt are not "pretty boys" they're just really handsome men.





"pretty boys" are feminine touchy-feely half-women creatures. Often disliked by everyone but the uber-liberals.
Reply:Well I do think that maybe we all would like someone who looks good. (I wouldn't say a pretty boy) but in all actuality it really does boil down to the person that he is inside. I mean he can be handsome all day long but what about his character. No I don't want someone who feels he has to spend more time than I do getting dressed or who has to have his face in the mirror 24/7. Sorry but I have to agree with the guy side on this one.
Reply:If girls always want rugged outsdoorsy types, why do so many of us have crushes on gay men?
Reply:I agree with the part about a confident ugly guy... there used to be this pc nerd that worked at my office (extreme nerd), and everyday at lunch he'd walk by me and my gf's and it was like that coke commercial... it's all about the sex appeal for me. If a man has it he has it. Just the other day I was having dinner and if it weren't for all the other customers I would've ripped the clothes off my waiter and pounced on him... the boy was hot!!!! and his arms, oh my god, lol!!! :)
Reply:both, it all depends. women are into whatever their fancy.
Reply:thats not true all the time.
Reply:i only date P%26amp;Sers
Reply:Sometimes it's a bit of both =) .. haha.
Reply:I guess you guys are both right


What girl wouldn't want to have their own leonardo dicaprio?


most of the time, girls look for guys who are presentable, they don't have to be the best looking guy, they can be rugged but they can look and smell clean


I guess most girls would like a pretty boy becuase they seem more romantic than the rugged type cause deep down i think ever girl want those old fashion romance from classic films. There could be a hot guy but has no idea how to treat his girl, or a romantic rugged guy. There's no such thing as a perfect guy.
Reply:I never cared for the good looking guys - they were usually stuck on themselves and thought their s*** didn't stink! I do go for the more ruggedly handsome guys, but he can't be such a guy's guy that he forgets to treat his girl with love and respect. Its a delicate balance.
Reply:well girls would be lying if they say they dont like good lookin men, it doesnt make us shallow or fussy just like to have a man on my arm that im proud of and i bet he thinks the same, it would be a miracal if we could have both good looking and sensitive etc etc but aint gonna happin there either gay or married! if u dont like what he does whats ther point??
Reply:I like a guy who dresses well and takes care of himself... but has a bad boy, manly personality. How's that for not solving your debate? hahaha
Reply:Rugged and handsome and confident,but please not too ugly,which for me means obese,a slob,and some nasty habits.


Pretty boys at my age?I don't think so,lol !
Reply:I don't like pretty boys. I might notice a pretty boy, but they usually do nothing to get my heartrate up.
Reply:I fall in love with the person, not the looks.
Reply:I actually like guys who look hardcore.....tats, mean looking, but deep inside....he's a softie.

broken teeth

Girls, Do you take shorter guys seriously?

I'm 23 and 5'5" Often when out in bars, at college, in any kind of public place, I often feel that people my age don't take me seriously. A lot of guys have a superiority complex towards me, they'll ignore me while befriending other guys my age. And I know that most girls like a guy to be taller than them, so I feel like I'm wasting time even trying to talk to a girl let alone flirt. Overall I guess I feel people judge me too much on my appearance. I also feel like girls/guys my age are more willing to accept and hang out with average sized guys than me. I try to look more mature, but I feel like girls my age think I'm a joke cause I look so small compared to them, and they're girls! Most of the time I don't let it get to me, but then I see/hear girls relating to how they like a "big, strong, man" to sweep them off their feet. It's like girls put me in a whole different category than other guys. What do girls think of short guys, how do they feel about them?

Girls, Do you take shorter guys seriously?
I don't mind shorter guys as long as they don't suffer from Short Man's Complex. As to the people who can't look past your height, they aren't worth your time. Short people aren't short on character, necessarily. A friend of mine married two years ago. Her husband is five inches shorter than her, and they couldn't be happier. Use your height as a character gauge. If a girl isn't willing to talk to you, than obviously she's not worth dating or marriage.
Reply:i like any nice guy but if they are shorter it is a little harder to take guys seriously.i'm sorry :(
Reply:I'm 18 and I'm 5'4". Don't feel like you're all alone. There are lots of girls out there who will go out with a guy shorter than them, but I would suggest going for girls close to your height, maybe 2 inches taller than yourself. Are you muscular at all? Even though I'm short, I wrestled in high school for 3 years so I'm more muscular than other guys that are bigger than me. I would suggest going to the gym and bulking up. Also, you need to have more confidence in yourself. Don't be afraid to approach girls, regardless of whether you feel smaller than them or not. You need to be comfortable and accept yourself the way you are.





If you are really desperate, you could try this website that has shoes that will make you 2-4 inches taller:


http://tallmenshoes.com/bcasual.html





By the way, look at celebrities such as Michael J Fox -- he is only 5'4" and has a beautiful wife! When Michael J Fox was in Family Ties and Back To The Future, teenage girls were clamoring to get their hands on him!
Reply:yeah, u really should worry about it. most girls like guys taller than them.
Reply:You could have it alot worse. Trust me on this one shorts not the worst thing in the world everyone has their own god smitten weakspot
Reply:Not that big of a deal, if you're cute and funny.
Reply:I'm 5.6" tall and my short stature had always been an impediment for achieving poise and self-confidence. It was about two years ago that I met my wife and we almost instantly made connection. She is about half an inch shorter than me but I would always feel a little insecure whenever she wore sandals. This would make her look much taller than myself. Not that anything wrong with that but society collectively feeds us with some stereotypes and a guy shorter than a woman would always raise eyebrows. My wife (who back then was my girlfriend) was conscious of myself being a little uneasy. She started coaching me on improving my dress coordination and also suggested that I should try wearing those walktall shoes. Doing a little research myself I gathered some info on stretching exercises. Although it’s true that exercises will not make you grow taller but it definitely helped me improve my posture. We certainly have more height hidden behind our slouched back and shabby dressing than we ever realize. There are some very basic stretching exercises and vertical fashion techniques that together can make a noticeable improvement in your height. And lastly it’s all a matter of perception. It all boils down to how we perceive ourselves. A better height can add to our confidence, but again, it’s our mind that perhaps makes us insecure. Some short dudes possess endless energy that makes their presence much taller than their height. You can follow the link below to get more info on posture exercises and some basic visual height enhancement techniques:


http://www.walktallshoes.com/grow-taller...





Good luck
Reply:Man, I empathize. I'm a barely 5'0" teenager, and I've kind of given up on girls for now.
Reply:Just try girls shorter than you; there are many girls shorter than 5'5", and many are super hot, like Cristina Ricci for example.





By the way, Tom Cruz is 5'5" (without shoes) and that doesn't stop him. You just need to grow more confidence. Girls really hate guys with poor self-esteem.
Reply:I feel sorry for short guys....because like you said...most women look for someone taller then them. I've never had a short guy approach me...but I know I'd be nice just like I would with anyone else. However, I do find men over 6 feet the most attractive. But it'll be the personality that wins out in the end.
Reply:personally i dont like tall guys maybe cuz im short but i never have. my bf of 2 1/2 years is short and i take him very seriously. dont be shy and look for shorter girls. plus theyre the crazy ones.lol
Reply:I guessed you have not noticed, but some of the most powerful men in the world, who have some of the most beautiful women are short.





Girls who make the statement about "big strong " men sweeping them off their feet, are usually living in a fantasy land, and are pretty shallow.





There are plenty of quality women out there, who could care less how tall you are, or actually prefer shorter guys.
Reply:I'm fine either way. I don't judge. Although my current crush is taller than me.


Good luck!
Reply:personally, i dont mind them. picture this, my old boyfriend, max, was 18...and he was 5'2. But, i didnt care how short he was. he was a sweet heart, and if he wouldnt of moved away, i would still be with him right now. Shortness shouldnt have anything to do with what somebody sees' in you!
Reply:I looove short guys. Short guys with big hearts, that is.
Reply:when i was in high school, college, there were a few short guys (shorter than you) who were popular, never at a loss for girlfriends. but that was a long time ago, so i think girls might be more shallow these days. but you wouldn't want a shallow girl anyways, would you?


i'm short too (5'tall) and size was never a determining factor. you don't have to be physically tall to be a strong man who can sweep a girl off her feet.


my dad was a short man, my mom taller than he was and he totally swept her off her feet! she adored him.


i think you are in good company with a lot of men of short stature who were great leaders in the world.
Reply:gross


Girls nevr check me out-Do they only care about faces and not body wats gouing on??

WHY are the girls not interested in me.?/?


I think im okay looking, but the girls never check me out. You know, when you pass a cute girl walking, you look back after you pass. ... Well , ive never seen a girl look back at me. And i always look. i evn use my perephinal vision when i walk past a girl and i see them glance at my face and turn there eyes away. talk about second glances never most girls i see will just look and look back as soon as they see me. Some girls do stare me in the eyes but "its rare' and when they do it they dont smile at me they just look me in the eyes and dont evn put up alittle smile for me.?


Now i thought i was attractive looking atleast ok looking althouggh nobody has told me this!! i mean my face is kinda soft looking.and my left cheak does stand out more than my right side but then again i thought no bodys face is perfect.


My body looks awsome with huge broad wide shoulders and evrythingive already appcd some girls in publc iand they laugh in my face

Girls nevr check me out-Do they only care about faces and not body wats gouing on??
maybe girls are intimidated by you. id have to see a pic =/
Reply:well, when you dont know someone and you think they are "okay looking" (as you put it) you might not look at them as much as a "hot" person.





Girls also look at guys in a more discreet way than guys look at girls..





a great looking face is a really great thing to have- yours sounds fine.


a nice body is with your face is even better. its amazing.
Reply:not ALL girls check out guys. maybe theyre like oh, he's cute. but i dont look back to see him again...
Reply:I think most women are just more discreet about how they check people out than men. I'd only look back if i knew he wasn't paying attention. otherwise one look is enough. and usually i don't change the look on my face if i see something i like. so it may appear like i'm not really impressed by what i see when really i'm just trying not to be caught.
Reply:you are probably a Taurus just like me we dint have pirty faces but we do have muscular shoulders and bull like buddies girls dint check me out that much aether but i got me a very hot one and Ive been with her for over 8 years so don't worry bro if your a good guy you will get your self a hotie too and then all the girls will be checking u out when you are with her. The only problem try not to check them out to much or she will lat u know who's the boss. God Dam Gemini es i love and hate them They are hot and smart and the manipulate people like crazy but so dam sexy though. OK i think I'm of the topic dam I'm stoned, and hungry OK got go
Reply:maybe it isnt your looks it could be your personallity. if you are mean or really shy or something then that could be it. also it could be the girls you look at. they could have boyfriends already or you are nto their type. maybe they just dont want you to notice them do it and they notice you looking and wait for you to turn away. also do you smile at them that could also be a problem





what is the last 2 line on your details section. i couldnt understand it.
Reply:Well i know i don't leave the house to look at guys or pick guys up...maybe other girls are like me and just want to be left alone...not everyones always looking for the opposite sex...if a guy looks at me when i go out i actually get angry...its so annoying.
Reply:i dont know about all girls but i dont check out guys like guys check out girls... you know what i mean im sure it not that they arent looking its just that the do it in a way that you dont know..
Reply:Well, here's the secret: girl's don't CARE about looks. They care about proper spelling and dictation. Once you master the English language (or whatever language you speak, I suppose) you will attract more of the opposite gender. I'd suggest a dictionary to start with, then you can move slowly to a thesaurus and maybe even encyclopedias!
Reply:ok i kno its tacky but do u even try talking to girls? u cant expect to be noticed just by looks. try breaking the ice first.it will be easier to focus on relationships if u make friends with girls first. keep in mind that girls can feel pressured 2 about approaching guys.........
Reply:women are usually more circumspect than men when "checking someone out". society rules that women are "not supposed" to ogle men the way men often do to women. but we look, all the same. we are just more sneaky.





perhaps some of these women are startled that you are "looking" at them, they might even be scared that you are "undressing" them with your eyes, in todays society that is not unusual and can be frightening for ladies.


perhaps you just need to smile if you see a lady you find more appealing. smile pleasantly and not lewdly. maybe even say hi.





what are you're hobbies? maybe try to meet a lady with the same interests. also, don't just look for a lady with "hot" looks either. some of the rarest jewels are the ones that don't fit the barbie doll image forced upon us everyday since we are born. and don't go to a bar to meet a nice lady.





i am not a "hot" woman, but lots of people say i look nice. i work in a warehouse atmosphere and i get lots of guys asking me how to meet someone like me. i tell them, don't drink, don't smoke and don't look for a nice girl in a seedy bar. women are also attracted to men with a sharp mind, take a few college classes or enrichment classes that you'd like and i'll bet you find some great ladies there.





lots of perfect looking women are far from perfect and lots of average looking women are wonderful!


Plz answer why r girls so mean IN SCHOOL?

I am 14 in middle school and i have just wondered why do girls have to be so mean? I mean like i have had friends who have been a fights with girls like over stupid things like guys,boyfriends,,and the worst thing looks. Looks r the worst thing that a girl can judge my friend was put down by a group of stupid preppy girls because she was not pretty and she was a little bigger! and i have been put down and made funny of but i just hate the girls who make fun of girls. and i mean i have been mean. and i was just wanting to know why can't girls just be kool i mean i am a girl but i mean like i don't go crazy well not all the time LOL. But plz answer. because i just was wanting to know ok. and also why do girls talk behind other girls backs and they pretend to be friends with them? And also this happens every day at school. and all the stupid think their all that preppy girl r mainly the girls who can be the worst but mainly all the girls r in it at my school i just want it to stop!!!!!!

Plz answer why r girls so mean IN SCHOOL?
There can be several reasons...


Sometimes making fun of people makes themselves feel better. Peer pressure can be a major part, if another friend doesn't like someone and tells you that you shouldn't that'll make you be mean to them...Overall, girls are just immature brats that like to make others feel bad.
Reply:Thank you for recognizing this problem . Many girls get caught up in it without realizing it is so so wrong. Try to detach from the drama of it all and maintain a stable friendly nature without letting it get to you. It is a sick way to live and I know that there have been some recent steps taken to stop bullying and I think mental, verbal bullying is just worse than the physical fights boys have. Good luck and dont be discouraged.
Reply:Anybody can be like this. It's just, in stereotype, men are more meaner in physical strength, and women in mental. Its just how the world is, but not for every single person.
Reply:Ok, I'll tell you. THEY'RE PETHETIC! Girls are mean to other girls because it makes them feel "cool"! They usually have an insecurity about themselves and get rid of it by picking on other girls by attacking their insecurities! It makes feel less insecure because people think their confident. This makes people like them.
Reply:amen. this is why i have more guy friends... thier not drama queens like girls. jus have a few best girl friends, n the rest are guys
Reply:Guys aren't hormonal. Girls are. Girls are critical, judgemental, and very, very picky about who they hang out with.





In a scientific study, emotions between genders were studied. Throughout a month, women showed 34 emotions, and men showed 7.





Girls tend to be mean because they're insecure with themselves. They find things wrong with themselves, so they point out others' flaws so they can feel better about themselves.





I've had the exact same problem [I'm 13 %26amp; in 8th grade]. It gets better.
Reply:i'm 14 in 9th grade i learned grls bring drama they mean to u only if u let them boo u need 2 stick up 4 yourself if that don't work n u tried everything u need 2 beat thier ***
Reply:boys are the same


they lack confidence and self esteem
Reply:Girls are mean, jelous and insecure. They need to have a feeling of power because they can't get over how lame thier own lives are. I have, like, 5 close friends, but two of my best friends are guys. There's always drama if you have friends, even if they are guys, they just tend to have less because they solve things physically, rather than trying to get into your head like girls do.
Reply:some of them are immature... think they are better than others, or have low-self esteem so they want to make themselves feel better...
Reply:girls are stupid, only immature girls act like that. They will be a little more mature in high school, but you'll still have some of those stupid girls there that don't know when to grow up. It's because girls are jealous. I know girls that say that beautiful girls are ugly, and I'm like..wtf?
Reply:check this out i am 24 and when i was in school it was the same **** but all those girls are going end up looking so ugly later on and pregnant with no man and misreable and all drugged up they are so inmature and they think there **** dont stink but it does if i was you just ignore the hell out of them act like you dont give 2shits what they have to say and when they are man just start laughing and whatever get a life grow up ..i hang out with all the guys they are so much cooler to chill with as long as they have respect for you
Reply:I know what u mean! when me and my friend was in elementary school she ALWAYS got picked on. In 3rd grade this girl kept giving her dirty looks and everytime my friend was close to her she would go "eww" I think the girl didnt like my friend cuz she got alot of attention and the girl who was popular didnt


in 5th grade this girl had a clique and everyone in our class was allowed in except my friend cuz the girl I say was jealous of her cuz my friend was friends with a guy she liked





so what I'm saying is girls lack confidence, and are threatened and jealous and have to make people feel bad to make them feel superior


Guys, girls? (over 18 please) good girl bad girl?

what attributes to you find more attractive for a girl to have?:


the ditzy "oh-my-gahhh",


the preppy trend followers,


party girls,


mysterious girls


freaky girls (like goth)


or really nieve innocent girls?





im just wondering.





im kind of a loner when it comes to who i am, and i've always been kind of a party girl but not in the frat party kind of way. im wierd, i've Always been kind of the bad girl (but not in a slutty way) and i think i seem pretty mysterious to people who dont know me sometimes, im not very open to anyone until i warm up to them.





should i start watching my mouth and start dressing in hollister and worrying about if what i say is wierd or not?





(not that i would change haha, i just really am curiouse, does wierd scare men off???)





because i am pretty darn wierd.

Guys, girls? (over 18 please) good girl bad girl?
I like girls that are straight as a pen. Who are happy being themselves. Who don't need to get high or drunk to have sex and have fun. I like girls that enjoy life itself with all the hard ships and trials that come with it. I can't stand those who give themsleves over to drugs and alcohol and pills just so they can cope. I like girls that love themselves and everyone else too. I like girls that love their parents and the idea of family and friends and neighbors.
Reply:yeah and? Report It

Reply:I like girls that are friendly and sweet. Being shy is good just not so shy you wont talk to a guy. You should be yourself but I am warning you if you are very weird then you will scare guy off. I mean random comments and so on is fine. You just have to be nice and funny and sweet. I like a girl that loOKs innocent and acts it but is really not if you know what I mean. It is ok to be a bad girl just make sure you keep a good balance between the two, good and bad. I mean if a girl is always good she is boring, always bad and she gets on my nerves and I have to get away from her. You have to be willing to talk to guys and be yourself that's all. Dress how you feel comfortable, if you are uncomfortable then it shows and you seem awkward. I have liked girls from goth, to preppy it is all about how you act and what kind of person you are. Oh and yeah I have even liked weird girls to. You just need to find a good balance in yourself and go with it that's all. :)
Reply:A little bit of everything except not ditzy. Stupidity Is a turn off.
Reply:Just do what u wish to do...


Just do it...


No matter how u dress, if one guy is love u then he will...


If he don't love u, he will not love u...


Even u are ugly, but the guy love u then u are pretty...


Even u are pretty, but the guy don't love u then u are ugly...


So, just do what u wish to do...


Be urself then sure u will get ur love soon...


Good Luck...


Cheers....
Reply:How would I describe her... Maybe the average girl. The type of girl who doesn't dress like everyone else, and try to attract a guy with sex, but not a girl who doesn't care about herself at all. The kind of girl Id love to be with is someone who lives like no ones around. She could be in her own little world at time, just enjoying life. She doesn't need any drugs, or alcohol to have fun.





Really hard question. I guess a girl I could cuddle with one night, but Ride the biggest roller coaster the next day with; Someone who love to do sweet things, and loves being with her guy, but could get way over excited when she hears we are going to a rock concert; someone who isn't afraid to try new things, but respects herself, and her body to draw the line, and she knows she doesn't need to have sex with anyone but her husband.





So maybe the bottom three, Mysterious in the way she seems to be crazy, but she has a kind heart. Goth in the "old" fashion as she doesn't conform, and enjoys being herself in a world that tries to force the idea of "perfection" on everyone, and innocent because she respects herself, and doesn't try to use her body to get what she wants.
Reply:Yes i think someone that is very aware of how she behaves in public is great. Its always good to know that she has fun but is never slutty and knows how to let her hair down with her man.
Reply:Firstly don't ever think about changing. Every guy will go for a different kind of girl so you can't really ask which one is better or which one do they generally like. You sound a little similar to me (and yes, I think I'm a bit weird too!) I'm an awesome party girl but not the ditzy bimbo who likes to trash herself, get all the guys attention and get my **** out. I like all kinds of music (even heavy stuff, which surprises most people), sometimes I'm quite social, other times I keep to myself %26amp; just observe everything around me. Weird will scare some men off, but it will also attract some men - and they're the only ones you need to think about. So just be yourself ... I'll bet there's more than 500 guys out there who'd think you're definitely their type!

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What a normal of 18-19 girl like 2 c in a man..?





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Girls…..how to impress a girl…? How to find what she like ?
Just talk to her with confidence and don't be creepy.


Girls, do you believe in girl power?

i am a boy and believe in girl power, i believe that girls are the better sex. so girls, do you believe in girl power? that girls are the best %26amp; stronger sex. that girls dominate a boys life. that you enjoy humiliating them. or you like seeing boys hurt. if yes to all these questions then tell me what you think girls.

Girls, do you believe in girl power?
of course women are the stronger sex, can you imagine how boring life would be without women. they have complete control over us. enjoy like i do.
Reply:MAN SHUT YO ***** *** UP
Reply:It depends on the girl, some girls will be alot more competitive towards males, but i would not personally say that is girl power. No one had really ever thought about 'girl power' till the spice girls came to life, and they were saying that they had it, and look what happened to them!!!
Reply:Why are you so prejudice for girls? They both have their good and bad points.
Reply:You sound like a girl yourself. Maybe you should be answering this question.
Reply:Pussy whipped? Be a man, grow a set!
Reply:I think there is girl power i think girls have a way to unite that blokes dont have
Reply:you must be gay to bash your own gender.
Reply:I believe women should be independent and not reliant on a man but i dont believe we should humiliate and hurt them,thats just horrible.
Reply:Sure Do.





Love humiliating men and know it all boys.





Sorry can't agree with all you say because you are a mere male.





Should men or know it all boys for that matter wish to show a bit of respect to the gender which gave them life then it may be a different story.
Reply:Absolutely. I don't really like seeing boys hurt (I'm too liberal for that), but I do like intimidating them, and occasionally kicking their a-ss when they mistreat me.


Girl problems, i think i like the bad girls.....?

ok i think i have a problem, i may like girls who like to party, ALOT! I mean that aint bad but ima Jock, i play football, baseball and wreslte and tbh, i dont party much, at all, and i dont really care, sure its hella fun to party, but i dont cause im shy, and somewhat unconfident around girls, i like.





Now the problem is the girls who i like, happen to be girls that go to alot of partys, and i MEAN ALOT. Now You see this one girl who i am trying to get, while i recenlty read a note my best girl friend, not GF but friend, gave me a letter she and the girl i liked were sending back and fourth. I read the note, and she had developed a crush on me and then it went away, thats when i was talkign to her, currenlty not bc im nervous too. N e ways in the letter she says that we wouldnt be a good at all together, bc she needs a guy like her. She says she needs a guy who partys alot, and is out-going, and the funny thing is she wants a guy who can keep a relationship.

Girl problems, i think i like the bad girls.....?
why would you like her anyways, if you don't like what she does?
Reply:just get a jock to date
Reply:Since you are a jock. I think maybe the cheerleaders might like you. Get to know one of the cheerleaders and maybe she'll like you back. Or if cheerleaders aren't your type what about the other girl you like? Try a relationship with her. Maybe it will work out! Hope I helped. My daughter partys a lot as well and she has a boy friend who is in the school's sport team.
Reply:The girls you like is not the best for you. Her lifestyle isn't healthy, and you're possibly attracted to her out of some sense of rebellion against everything you've been taught is right. When you know what's right for you and not just what's attractive in a vicarious-thrill kind of way, you'll start finding more wholesome girls interesting.





Don't be lured into thinking that partying is good just because these people are having fun often. They often wake up with hang-overs, and are ingesting stuff that's total poison. Open your eyes to other possibilities -- a lot of other people have a good time without getting drunk and behaving like perfect idiots. Stay sober sometime and watch them -- then ask yourself if this is what you want for your life.





Partyers make poor parents, just in case you're interested in that aspect of the downside.
Reply:Do something fun with her and show her you can have a good time too. Or show her you don't have to party to have a good time.
Reply:u sound hot...eccept 4 the shy thing.
Reply:Forget her be yourself and the right girl will come along for you. Plus it doesn't sound like you to have anything in common
Reply:Hey I got the opposite problem cuz I only dig the good girls.
Reply:get her to do activities with you
Reply:Throw a wicked party and invite her.
Reply:Dude, you want her try being what she wants. If she wants a guy that goes to a lot of parties, then go to a lot of parties, b/c that would not only help with her liking you but it would also help with your social standings, which could open you to a whole new world of girls. Also if you get shy, then parties are even better b/c its a good social environment that is easy to talk to people. But if you really like her as much as you say you do, see if she wants to go to a party with you or just hang out with you. Good luck man.
Reply:That Suks
Reply:A lot of guys like the 'bad girls'...
Reply:you and your friends can go to parties too. as a jock, you shouldn't be too busy after hours.
Reply:talk to them try to come out of your shell
Reply:thats ok many people like to "fix" their partners
Reply:thats not a 'bad' girl.... a bad girl is someone who raughts there lingerie and strips by night... The thing is with this type of chick, she may say shes into this this n this, btu all she wants is one thing.... the coxk!!!


You will not find a relationship like this.... maybe a one night stand!
Reply:find yourself someone that has more in common with you.


=p


Pick a girl: Teen boys answer only, please. girls welcome to comment....?

Which one of these girls would u rather date or hang out with?





a girl from group A:there are 6 of them.they all dress the same style(anything that is in ryt now).they are always talking loud 2 get peoples attention+they are catty with other girls who are not in the same clique.not at all good at sports coz they are 2 "cool"for them.





a girl from group B:there are two of them who are goody goods. they always suck up to the teachers and are always too nice(like its fake). they dress like group A and sometyms hang out with them.okay-ish at sports





girl C:hangs out with group B ocassionally.dresses like group A %26amp; is kinda bad influence.ex) bad grades, rule breaker,hangs with badkids.





girl D:is an idividual.unique clothing choices.smart very athletic.hates group A and is usually quiet and enviromentalist. artistic 2





girl E+F:girl E is tomboyish and hangs out with the guys. lyks videogames and hates sports.girl F is a bit weird+hipie like. both hate groupA. hang wit each other

Pick a girl: Teen boys answer only, please. girls welcome to comment....?
Girl D: She is an individual and not afraid to show it. She is smart, Which means better conversations when you cuddle all night. Athletic, Which is wonderful since I'm the outdoor type. Nothing wrong with wanting to protect the environment. And artistic too? We have a winner....
Reply:i def don't like b, c, or e+f. that leaves a and d. i think i'd chose d cause i hate girls who are loud and "2 cool" for anything.
Reply:I'm a chick, but what guy wouldn't want to date/hang out with girls D, E, or F?


Those girls are always the coolest.
Reply:D is the best. group a sounds like ditzy dumbasses, b are the ones that if they were guys they would get beat up, c sounds cool to chill with, not best to be girlfiend, e+f are wierd. that's my opinion..
Reply:girl from group b! if they're too nice in...it means the opposite in the bedroom wink wink!
Reply:I don't know. This question's too bloody complicated for me.
Reply:wow! funny question! i think your girl d? sounds like group a is angelina and the "group" and group b is a and t. lol
Reply:The only thing boys your age care about is who they can have sex with! All the other crap you wrote about means nothing to them!!!
Reply:a mix of A, C, and D.





y dont u have a soccer chick choice....soccer chicks are hot.
Reply:well im a girl...but if i had to pick a friend i would pick D or E
Reply:G: the easy one.
Reply:C or B. mostly C though. most of my girlfriends are bad girls. ( i don't mind the occasional goody goody though.) why? goody goodys are nice people but they don't agree with me all the time. example:


me:yo what's up? hey i just swiped my neighbors blackberry yesterday and sold it for a $150.


B(the goody goody): omigod and you didn't return it!


C(the bad chick): nice one babe.


see why i usually go for C? still goody goodys are nice once in a while but i gotta be careful when choosing something to talk about yadidimean?
Reply:im not a guy...but i think that girl d is alot like me:)
Reply:19.. still in my teens :)))





A and B to have sex with


C to go to dinner


D to go for a walk


E and F to get stoned with/race cars.
Reply:I would go aroung gils D, as long as she doesn't hate sports so much, and is good/ ok in school.


Also, i am a quiet person and envirmentalist. I do some art, and am good in athletics.
Reply:interesting question...
Reply:girl d and girl f....a girl needs to talk but not be obnoxious or loud. But can't just follow everyone and needs to stand out and have a voice.
Reply:group e and f. i luv sports. i always hang with gys and hate preppy cliches
Reply:omg! none...


Sportive, good looking, unique, smart but not bookworm, sarcastic but not excessive, funny.


Thats perfect...
Reply:a mix of d and e cause i have a crush on a tomboyish girl who loves sprots and has her own fashion sense
Reply:c
Reply:I'd pick every girl from group A, a couple times. It would be easy to play them off each other.
Reply:if i were i guy i would choose girl D, she seems nice.
Reply:Girl F : maybe not the usual choice, but i dont care. she sounds like someone new, someone who is completely unique, therefore considered weird, therefore i like the sound of her.
Reply:girl d. tho i dont think she needs to hate group A to be cool. is she nice? also not being athletic isnt necessarily a bad thing--some ppl r just bad at sports (namely me....:D)
Reply:I think you should learn to play an instrument or go take your dog for a walk, because your question displays to me that you are wasting your life away on the internet.
Reply:Well basically I have a few q's for you - for any girl's who are reading this. Not guys





DO you want to be hated by girls - totally HATED, but liked by guys? Then group A





DO you want to be hated (not as much) but by everyone, but respected by teachers? Then group B





DO you want to be hated by your parents? And by the teachers? And the police later? Then group C





DO you want to be hated by group A and bullied? But, get good grades, and be liked by parents, teachers and most other kids? Then group D





DO you want to never be thought of as 'hot' by the guys? Do you want to build close friendships with some guys? Then girl E





DO you want a good friend? And to be seen as 'weird' and never to be approached by people unless like-minded? Then group F





Hope it helps - this is from personal experience


Cheers
Reply:WHICH ONE'S THE S-L-U-T?

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Girls nevr check me out-Do they only care about faces and not body wats gouing on??

WHY are the girls not interested in me.?/?


I think im okay looking, but the girls never check me out. You know, when you pass a cute girl walking, you look back after you pass. ... Well , ive never seen a girl look back at me. And i always look. i evn use my perephinal vision when i walk past a girl and i see them glance at my face and turn there eyes away. talk about second glances never most girls i see will just look and look back as soon as they see me. Some girls do stare me in the eyes but "its rare' and when they do it they dont smile at me they just look me in the eyes and dont evn put up alittle smile for me.?


Now i thought i was attractive looking atleast ok looking althouggh nobody has told me this!! i mean my face is kinda soft looking.and my left cheak does stand out more than my right side but then again i thought no bodys face is perfect.


My body looks awsome with huge broad wide shoulders and evrythingive already appcd some girls in publc iand they laugh in my face

Girls nevr check me out-Do they only care about faces and not body wats gouing on??
You are probably a hideous fat beast (not in the smexy way) So...get a haircut, wash your greasy hair, clear up that horrible acne on your face, lose 50 pounds, and then...see what happens.
Reply:Hi, you should not let this bother you, nor should you check every time to see who is checking you out. I am a female, when I was younger and in high school adults would always tell me how pretty I was, but like you in school and amongst my peers no one ever gave me a second look. I never really felt I was pretty at all. However, every since I went to college and now I am adult, men literally fall at my feet. I am not bragging, nor do I promote this reaction from men and boys. When you are in high school, people sometimes like to go with whom they think is cool. So don't even let it bother you. One day, you will meet someone that is perfect for you. Don't worry about a thing, when you stop wanting people to notice you, then that is when they will. Get good grades in school and get a dynamite career making lots of money. That will certainly get their attention and they will regret not getting to know you in your younger days.
Reply:You are probably a loser. Just give up. Maybe you should turn gay.
Reply:Well I don't think girls really check out guys as often as vice versa. You have to talk to them.
Reply:Faces are the first thing they see. I guess if they don't like it, they never get around to the body. Find a girls who cares more about the inside. They are out there.


Girls nevr check me out-Do they only care about faces and not body wats gouing on??

WHY are the girls not interested in me.?/?


I think im okay looking, but the girls never check me out. You know, when you pass a cute girl walking, you look back after you pass. ... Well , ive never seen a girl look back at me. And i always look. i evn use my perephinal vision when i walk past a girl and i see them glance at my face and turn there eyes away. talk about second glances never most girls i see will just look and look back as soon as they see me. Some girls do stare me in the eyes but "its rare' and when they do it they dont smile at me they just look me in the eyes and dont evn put up alittle smile for me.?


Now i thought i was attractive looking atleast ok looking althouggh nobody has told me this!! i mean my face is kinda soft looking.and my left cheak does stand out more than my right side but then again i thought no bodys face is perfect.


My body looks awsome with huge broad wide shoulders and evrythingive already appcd some girls in publc iand they laugh in my face

Girls nevr check me out-Do they only care about faces and not body wats gouing on??
Sound conceited to me, """ My body looks awsome with huge broad wide shoulders and evrythingive already appcd"" ...... girls can spot that you are stuck on your self miles away
Reply:lol hahaha i do that to look back to see if a girl checks me out... girls check you out but they are sneaky about it you never catch them cause me and my friend were walkin and i walked past this girl and i looked back and she didnt so i turned around but my friend turned around to and told me she was checkin me out so idk SNEAKY SNEAKY SNEAKY
Reply:You need to stop staring at the girls and talk to them Be friends first.
Reply:Having the confidence to go up and talk to a girl is so much more important. If you then can show case you flirting skill and your sense of humor, even better. People who are confident and who do not worry what others think of them are naturally more attractive than others who do not. Its about how you carry yourself.
Reply:wud u eye up an ugly girl?!?! no you wouldnt simple as


Why do girls get called a "s1ut" for just having fun and doing what other girls are just too afraid to do?

For instance, I think girls should have fun and be who they want to be and go after what they want. So many times I've heard girls get upset because they felt they "acted s1utty" or would be called a s1ut because they got a little wild. In my opinion, those are the most interesting girls. I'd much rather have a girl who had a lot of expericence than one that was afraid of being called a s1ut. The part that really bothers me on the whole thing is that most of the time, it's the other girls that create the whole stigma...I can't remember how many times I've heard a girl call another one a "s1ut" and really, she was just trying to be mean to her...and most likely jealous. Not jealous that she couldn't do what the girl did, but jealous because she wouldn't be brave enough TO do it...and they feel vindicated by calling her a s1ut. It bothers me to hear girls refer to this a double-standard vs. guys, but it's the girls that typically lead the way on the double standard.

Why do girls get called a "s1ut" for just having fun and doing what other girls are just too afraid to do?
great question! i agree with you!
Reply:I could go on for hours about this, but there is a line between being "creative" and being "a slut." Yeah a lot of girls call eachother sluts just because they're jealous or don't like eachother, you're right there man, but everyone's true definition of what constitutes a "slut." Is different. Personally, I don't think a girl should be screwing around with more than one person at a time, so I would call a threesome a slutty thing to do. Other people (possibly you or other people) would just call that creative or fun or whatever.





It differs on a person-by-person basis.


GIRLS OR LADIES only reply ! its serious ! i am a 19 yr old guy ,need advice?

In my family i have only sisters...no brothers....so my company was always with these girls....they considerd me as a girl.when i was a kid they dressed me as a girl ...and made me a member among them.we have a festival in here where guys dress up like girls to please the godess.


this made me even girlish..





They stopped dressing me like a girl when i started to grow up,but i could not stop it ...


so i did it myself in my room hiding...with door locked.


i do it even now....i feel pleased to do it.....


but when i am out of my room i behave like a real guy.


now i wear all that a girl do..in my room....like


panty,bra,napkin,skirt,slips,makeup,li... etc.


i purchase bra,panty etc from shop.


none knows about it.


i love them hardly...


i have decided to stop it when i marry.


is what i do ,wrong !!


can i continue this till i have a girl friend.....


i am straight.not gay.


girls plz i need your valuble advice ,because u know abt this well....





ad me 2 yahoo msngr

GIRLS OR LADIES only reply ! its serious ! i am a 19 yr old guy ,need advice?
u should try to stop now what if ur friend come over and see all those girly stuffs in ur room?
Reply:Youre right! youre not gay


transvestite is a better word
Reply:Lots of people do what you do. Don't worry about it. Try to give it up now because it will make it easier to quit when you want to get married. However like i say to all the people all around the world, someone should love you for who you are and not what you are. So if your wife in the future doesn't accept what you do then she doesn't respect or love you that much.
Reply:Stop doing it.. coz hard habits a hrder to quit.. and if you have tried quitting many a times and havent succeeded, go and consult a specialist.
Reply:u need to stop it now, id freakout if i met a guy and then find out
Reply:Stop doing it asap...otherwise you may never marry. I know I wouldn't stick around if I saw a guy doing that.
Reply:i don't know if u are gay i think you are not though!Ok your sisters have a share to the blame but why don't u stop it now..i think is because u like it...not because u got used to it..besides why should u buy stuff and pay money...if u don't like it?if u want anything else to ask or for any advice IM me and i will get back to u as soon as i can!
Reply:Yipee!!! girl(sorry boy). Seriously you need help, try and talk to somebody older, some of this habit inbibed,does not easily go away, even, if you get married, you may not stop because, you've been so used to it unless you decided to stop it YOURSELF. Whenever you feel like doing this things, search your mind and have it at the back of your mind it, its not right, go out and do other things and snap out of it, or else, even, if they use soap and sponge, it cannot be washed off you. I know about two or three guys that was born among girls and they grew up to walk, talk and behave like girls, though they are straight, we only laugh when, we see them or what can we do. My dear, its not easy, for old habit to go away, see yourself as a boy and behave like one, both in and outside. Like a proverb in my place, that says "Everyday is for the thief and one day is for the owner, you may be caught one day, doing all those girlish things, where would you put you face? CHANGE NOW.
Reply:I dont think what ur doing is wrong,if you think it feel right. you should be joking with a girl about it before you really tell her to see what she say. like what if i told you i like to dress in womens stuff and if she looks crazy say your just playing. its an old saying different strokes for different folks. if you like they should love it if not move on its someone out there for evevryone.

canine teeth

Do you think girls covered in grease and working in cars is unattractive?

I love every single inside part from a car and fixing it or watching other "Men" do it! I know girls can fix and learn about cars as much as guys do. But some girls tend to go to the direction that leads them to fashion, clean stuff, and being rich, because as society might have it " It is always the proper way for a girl to behave" I personally think is BullS*hit! no girl can be told what her future will look like in a couple of years from now. We are destined to find our own path in life. I would like to work more on cars, and like that girl that programs computers on the cars, PROPS! she is involved in something were everyone else thinks is impossible for girls to achieve. Now not to sound all RIGHTS FOR WOMEN kinda girl, I want for all you men to stop and think: Are girls working for NASA? Can girls be PILOTS? DO girls go off to WAR?


and let me tell you the answer: YES YES YES YES!!!!!





so do you guy find it unattractive when girls act all MACHO and stuff? fixing cars?

Do you think girls covered in grease and working in cars is unattractive?
I think it's hot, I don't think there's something wrong with it.
Reply:I ******* LOVE YOU! this is exactly what I've Been trying to say for ever. i agree COMPLETELY! i love getting dirty!


i would say more, but i have to go pee. Report It

Reply:I think nothing is sexier than a girl with grease smudges on her and the ability to fix something whether it be mechanical,around the house, or whatever
Reply:I think its great if a girl works on cars.


If she knows what shes doing, Id let her work on mine too.


Im giving you an addagirl ok.
Reply:Well girls that is quite a handyman is fun to be with!!
Reply:a lot of people are still stuck with the ideals that a woman, is a home maker, taking care of the kids of stuff.


in my personal opinion, a girl who can work on her own car, and knows what she is doing, well, very attractive.





what about a guy who is really sensitive, likes to cook, garden, clean, and do girly stuff, is he attractive to other girls?
Reply:I have no problem with it. I beleve that a girl can be tomboy sometimes and frilly sometimes. Can you help me rebuild my old van? lol
Reply:if the girl is hot IT'S SEXY
Reply:Uhh... Do guys really think that girls can't do stuff? I think girls can do anything that guys can do. I mean, well, in my oppinion, it's not /attractive/ watching anyone work on a car. Not to say that the person who's doing it isn't attractive.
Reply:are you kidding me....the thought of a gear head babe under the hood of my car makes me hot........
Reply:I've been told by several guys that girls working on cars is sexy.
Reply:Negative. You can fix my truck anytime you like.
Reply:no i like girls that are dirty.oh and can fix my car
Reply:it will be hard for a female to go into a war situation, what happens when it is time for your monthly?


other than that: we tomboys need to stick together.


a female if she has the yearning to become what ever her heart takes her, go for it.
Reply:no i think there beautiful
Reply:As a woman I say you go for it girl! Some girl has to drive it(Danika Patrick) and some girl can work on it if that is her passion.There are female truck driver's aren't there? If a guy thinks it is unattractive then who needs him!!!
Reply:.,., never .,
Reply:hell naw playa
Reply:Nope, as long as they remember that they are sweet, loving, cuddle, and a girl. I think it is great for girls to be able to work on cars,trucks,trains,and airplanes. The girl that works on Ex-Stream 4X4 TV show is hot!!!!! She is a GIRL with a plan
Reply:i alwasy help with fixing stuff, if's it's my dad, my friend anyone i mean yesterday i put in a whole speaker system and deck into my friends car who is a guy!!!!! So girls can do anything they want some just dont want to do that, so what?
Reply:i as a man think in this day and age a woman can do just about anything she has a mind to do,and as for the anwser i think it is very sexy!!!
Reply:I love working on cars, my boyfriend got me started on it. I get the biggest thrill out of having my hands almost black with grease and streaks on my face...Cars are amazing and you never understand until you know how they work.


Girls.. girls.. girls..!! i need some help and advice!?

For some reason, i just have the worst luck with girls. I mean, i'm a really quiet guy if i dont know you, but if we have things in common i can start talking ya know? i just have a hard time getting into the circle of girls and getting to know them.. and getting them to like me as more than just a friend. i mean, i'm not at all conceited, but i would consider myself a decently looking guy. ive had girls tell me i'm cute, hot, ect.. but i cant get girls to date me. i'm very nice, friendly, i dress fine, i'm clean cut, i'm not THAT shy.. but i can be reserved at times. what am i doing wrong??? I What are some tips to give me that push over the edge so i can easily talk to girls and get their interest in me?? I need your help girls.. so give me some advice!

Girls.. girls.. girls..!! i need some help and advice!?
lol you sound like the male version of me, when im around my friends im really out going and chatty, but with new people im reserved and probably come accross shy.. im quite shy around guys too...quite annoying





all i can say is, when youre attracted to a certain girl, give her the hints like long eye contact, a smile and general flirtiness, and try to intergrate into a group just like you would with your friends..


from the your picture you should have no problem ;), maybe your coming across as intimidating or something cause your shy, girls may be misinterpreting it as you dismissing them cause your not interested.. you could work on that.. but really as the others have answered, you shouldnt change who you are.. your time will come. good luck
Reply:Have confidence and be you. and they'll love you;)
Reply:Maybe you just need to come right out and tell these girls that you are talking to that you like them or want to date them. I am one of those girls that will keep a guy as a friend unless he tells me that he wants to date me or likes me.
Reply:Heres something stop thinking negative. think postive and start talking to girls more often
Reply:be yourself-and just wait-pushy is NOT all that sexy. Plus-99% of fools that talk to me-i wish didn't, and don't trust what they say we said, more than likely we told them NO thanks.


when they look at you-smile back-if they look more than once-GO


and again-wait, that or find easy ones if thats what ur looking for
Reply:Don't change for anyone, just be yourself..... maybe flash a girl a smile or find something that interests her to talk about, but not bore yourself! Have fun with it!
Reply:you sound pretty decent to me.


so, i dont know.


you must be going after the wrong girls.


Girl help girls only.....?

girls really don't like me and all the other guys have girls all over them it really bugs me and I get really sad and lonly, I know girls are so cool and great but none of them even want to be around me it really sucks I hate it to it kills me inside very slowly, and the worse thing is, is that I don't whsat they do'nt like I'm a nice guy not fat 5''2.5 110 lbs not fat I'm not mean I wish there was a girl out there that would talk to me it would mean so much to know that somone cares, girls tend to make fun of me and kick me and slap me, so if you know why no girl on this DAMN planet likes me plz let me know plz......... girls are so kool

Girl help girls only.....?
LOL!!!! Maybe they don't like you because you complain a lot. No offense. You are right you are not fat but you are a little on the short side. How old are you??? Cause you know if you are younger women can be mean to nice guys. Its not until we get older that we realize we don't want a rough guy but a nice guy to settle down with. I would recomend just waiting. You obviously haven't met the right girl, so cheer up!!! You will find her eventually!!





Good Luck!!!
Reply:Learn how to write proper sentences, and spell, then maybe girls will think you have some brains.
Reply:first of all, my friend - girls are not kool at all. you have to be cool, don't run around them ever. Don't give them any weightage or too much attention (let them do the running and thinking), if you do they'll know it and treat u the way they do now. Just be cool, don't get bothered by anyone, and don't take **** from anyone - I mean anyone (even girls). Ignore the girl for sometime who slap or kick u. Don't get invited to parties?? organise your own ones, prepare a gang or people which are worth something.





Remember, the guys who have girls now, and look like a steroid bag would only land up in some marketing job or become some male stripper, u have to be above them all, concentrate, and do what u do right, succeed and u will have girls all over you man.





And above all - believe in yourself!
Reply:ok.. i feel sorry 4 u... maybe u shouldnt try to hang around girls who r mean 2 u.. find a prson who is like u,or evena person who is the opposite of u... normally it is 1 of the 2 which work
Reply:not to be mean or anything but maybe ur a jerk to them, or arent very attractive. i dont get why they'd make fun of u and slap you unless u did these things. try being nice, talking to them, and stuff. remember girls rarely ever make the 1st move, so if u feel she likes u and u liek her, then make the 1st move
Reply:i feel sad reading this because i usually read this about girls.





you need to have confidence in yourself and not let anyone hit you around at all. start by loving yourself and changing how you talk to yourself. if you love yourself people will like you, too.





personally, i don't think many guys like me either. they don't approach me and ignore me when i look at them or talk to them. so, you are not alone. take care
Reply:may be it's bcz u're not cute enough or that u don't really know how to impress them or also u're not smart?i guess that's why but don't worry one day u'll find ur luck goodluck.


Do Girls like to subtly stare and like when Guys stare?

Is it a good idea to keep your legs spread apart when sitting near a girl you like? Do girls like to glance at a guys crotch and think this is attractive?





Also do pretty girls like if guys stare at them (not a long or overt stare but more at her face)? Then If the girl turns her head is it a good idea to maintain eye contact or look away as if you werent staring ?





As you can tell, I'm not very good with girls and my friends (who are all very successful with hot girls) say it's a confidence thing. They say I'm good looking funny but too nervous around girls and read into things too much. It just doesnt come natural to me.





What are good strategies of approaching girls at a bar? I really want a relationshipo but some female affection would be nice initially, as I have needs :).





Finally when making good conversation with a girl is it a good idea to put your hand on her leg or hand? And/or heavily compliment her on how you are attracted to her (phrasing it differently?

Do Girls like to subtly stare and like when Guys stare?
wow you really do read into things too much, you'd make a good analyst at work.





don't stress about it just do what comes natural, most of the things you're thinking about there are good, like sitting with legs apart, that's what confident guys do to say, hey look at what i've got, and it works (believe me, us girls really do look there, A LOT). or if you're stood up then put your hand in your front pocket, just with your thumb and the rest of you hand pointing down and towards your crotch, believe me that works too. i'm a confident girl and i do that and it really does make you feel good! and other people get the message, it's a sub conscious thing.





the looking over at girls thing is ok, but don't make it look like you're staring, just glance over and if she catches you looking give her a little smile and then look away yourself, she'll know that you're interested then but not freaky about it.





if you want to chat to a girl you like at the bar, just say hi, are you ok, are you enjoying yourself, good night tonight hey? just general chat, or make a comment about something like if the bar tender is taking ages and there is a queue, just say, busy in here tonight hey, that sort of thing. and if you feel a connection, you'll know, then maybe look over at her during the night and next time she's on her own then ask her if she might want a drink with you sometime, like now if she likes - you know you just have to wing it!!





not good to put your hand on them straight away until you know if she really likes you or not, so to find out after you've chatted for a bit, then you could really look at her sexily and tell her how good she looks tonight and that you noticed her as soon as she came in, and tell her that you're glad you met her tonight, just see what happens. it's difficult to say what might happen next but if you acted like that with me and i fancied you too then i'd definitely give you the signs and would return the compliments etc. then if the chat develops well and you feel more into each other then go for the kiss, why not, that would be cool..........





good luck, you'll be fine, but just chill, get to know yourself, feel confident and you are hot, if you feel that way then it'll show - don't doubt yourself or over analyse things and if it doesn't work out then hey, so what, you still had fun trying and don't let it put you off, they just weren't the right one for you :o)
Reply:If you were sitting next to her i say leave your legs open be comfortable but if your manly part is acting up then probably best not to have your legs open lol. And dont touch her on the leg get to know her talk maybe touch her hand if you guys are connecting. If she touches your leg your home free! And compliments are nice but dont lay them on too hard dont be completly obvious. And when looking at her stare or gaze gently enough for her to know you like her and smile if she see's you gazing or looking. If she smiles back slowly approach her and say she looks nice or you couldnt help staring cause her eyes are so beautiful. if she smiles and giggles a little sit beside her and introduce your self and talk some about general stuff just DONT stare at her chest or any body part other then her face. You can like scan once or twice to view it but do NOT be obvious you want her to know you think she is attractive you dont want her to think you want to hump her that second, but i said you dont want her to think that LOL you can feel it just try not to let "yourself" show like that dont be touchy.


Hope i helped! Good luck hunting lol
Reply:1. I never look at a guys crotch, just sit how you naturally sit and don't think about it because girls will be scared if you're thrusting your crotch at them....





2. Girls don't mind being stared at, we're used to it, but don't JUST stare, smile or say hi or something that says you're not a creep who likes to stare.





3. It is a confidence thing. Just think to yourself "I am SO worth their time" and you'll start to feel better.





4. Only put a hand on her hand if you guys are SERIOUSLY clicking. Light touching is fine if you're in the middle of playful banter, but a hand on the leg is WAY too strong unless you're just looking for a one-nighter.
Reply:I like it when a guy stares a bit. Not too much. Not in a creepy way. It makes me feel attractive to know a guy can't take his eyes off me. Within limits of course. If I catch him staring it's cute if he smiles, returns the glance and then looks down or away. I don't know. That's just me though. Other girls might be different.





As far as the touching, I wouldn't want a guy touching me until I've talked with him for at least a little while and gotten to know the basics about him at a minimum.
Reply:you are over thinking it just be your supersexy self and let the liquer take away your inhibitions

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What do girls see when they look at Acne Scars?


What do girls see when they look at Acne Scars?


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What do girls see when they look at scne scars?
ACNE SCARS. ?? Duh.


Girls read this tell me if you agree?

every girl needs to be a little more open to guys that come up to them and want to have a consvesation with them. who knows, the guy could be nice and it could turn into a good relationship.. girls i've seen are worried about how much money someone makes, what kind of car he drives, whats his social standing is. not to be mean, but the most girls i've seen do this is girls that are hot and have hot friends..girls that have fat or ugly friends you know they are a little less judgemental and guys are more inclined to go up and talk to them because they know the girl will not just tell him to go away, some actually will talk for a little bit and even possibly give a number. my point is girls get to emotionally attached to guys and should be a little more open and look for other guys instead of just hangind around one or trying to find ways to make him jealous i mean come on theres a lot of guys out there who would like to have a chance with a beatiful girl

Girls read this tell me if you agree?
yea, unfortunately i know what you mean...and agree.





But I must say, most of the time, guys seem to only "go after" the "hot girls", who (no offence to anyone) can be quite slutty...because of this those girls get to pick and choose, and as most are mainly after money, worrying about how much a lad earns is logical...





Girls who are regarded as "ugly" often are inclined to be more accepting or alternatively afraid of close relationships, this stems from the gut feeling that guys are never serious about them just be cause they are ugly, and either dismiss feelings as false or accept them gratefully thinking they can't do better...





I think more girls should be more open, but to be honest most of the girls who are so concerned about "what car he drives" , are not usually worth bothering with, theyre not emotionally attached to the guy, THEY are jealous, and rather vengeful at that!
Reply:You have to remember. Most hot girls don't have much of a brain.
Reply:I definitely agree, it's not controllable, it happens involuntarily. I've experienced the same kind of treatment even though I'm a girl, you get different feedback from different types of people and their friends.
Reply:We all need to be more open. Beauty is only skin deep and in the eye of the eye of the beholder. It still hasn't been put any better. You list the superficial qualifiers that some women put on men like cars, social standing %26amp; looks but in the end you do the same by saying you want a"... chance with a BEAUTIFUL girl". How about a great girl or a wonderful girl or a nice girl. A girl who loves and is devoted to you with whom you share interests %26amp; values. I hope Dixiegirl doesn't truly esteem the mean things she espoused and is just having a bad day that will pass. I hope she didn't hurt your feelings. Sorry.
Reply:The reason pretty girls are not open with every man that approaches them, is because they get approached all the time by strange men (and some are creeps), who are trying to get in their pants.





It gets annoying and everyone has the right to choose if they feel like talking to strangers who approach them, or if they would rather be left alone.
Reply:true


but if youre in a really great relationship then y let it go


there could be some thing huge there


girls do get emotionally attached some more than others but once or if there heart gets broken its a blessing


thell no wat it feels like to be in love n wat it feels like to have a broken heart


some people wont ever get that
Reply:i kind of agree with you, however... not all of the girls who have "ugly or fat friends" are like that... most of the girls that i go to school with only hang out with people who are different from them( less pretty or more fat) to make themselves look better...
Reply:i agree. women should like me for who i am and not becuase i'm a millionaire real estate developer that drives a bentley and lives in a 12,000 square foot house.
Reply:Yes :) people should choose their partners based on friendship and honesty not just on appearances ( I am lucky though my hubby is cute and a sweetheart )
Reply:Maybe that's why guys that I see that I want to come up and have a conversation with don't! Alot of females I know are like that and they make it hard for pretty gils that don't care about those things.
Reply:true


but if youre in a really great relationship then y let it go


there could be some thing huge there


girls do get emotionally attached some more than others but once or if there heart gets broken its a blessing


thell no wat it feels like to be in love n wat it feels like to have a broken heart


some people wont ever get that
Reply:i agree
Reply:You sound like you are just as stuck up as these girls.
Reply:hi am a girl and i want to say i agree with u ,u know we live in a century which only money can talk so dating somebody had money may sometmes be more important than dating a nice person but im sure the girl who did this will reach a point she will be sorry for her self because money can go but the relationship is the thing which left to us and that what she dont have
Reply:haha! awesome. you've got some good points, and you've got some bad points. lemme break it down for you.





good: you are right. girls need to be more open and confident and most of all AGGRESSIVE. wouldn't it be awesome if a chick walked up to you and asked for YOUR number? or if she beat the **** out of some girl who was trying to steal her boyfriend? talk about hot... and the emotional attachment issue? yeah. girls need to get over the whole "i can't leave him even though he's a ****-head" thing. and the "i'm going to make you jealous" thing. passive-aggresiveness is a turn off for sure.





bad: maybe it's better that the less-than-hot chicks are more easily approachable. let me tell you from experience, that plain girls need love too. and you know what? stop ******* chasing those pretty little things with the pretty little minds. they are stupid like a brain-damaged farm animal, and you shouldn't be so easily attracted to pretty frames for stupid brains. just stick to the less pretty girls who will give you more for your investment. besides... the less pretty someone thinks they are, the more they tend to be grateful for your attention. that's always a GOOD thing.





anyway, you are on the right track. keep thinking, comrade. you're getting there. tell me when you do.
Reply:are u saying that hot girls try to make u jealous and fat ones dont care big girls need love to they dont care what guys have or drive because they know how it feels to be judged or not have someting. im sorry to say but if u think that all girls are like this then i thank you need to go gay
Reply:ok, firstly, there may be 'lots of guys out there who would like to have a chance with a beautiful girl' but why should they have the right to? life ain't fair and there isn't some charity outreach programme for less 'hot' guys. everyone gets rejected once in a while, and you can't go out with someone if you're just not attracted to them. secondly, you're being equally judgemental and superficial - why don't you ask a less 'hot' girl out? your argument is based on the idea that girls are superficial but the only reason that you're saying any of this is because you're superficial wanting to go out with girls who are out of your league - and bitter because you're being rejected.





and in answer to some of the comments above - not all pretty girls are vapid!!! i'm not conceited but i don't think i'm that bad looking and cambridge university (UK) offered me a place earlier this year, so don't be so patronising. i think we all need to be more open to personality and intelligence in people - not just looks. but getting leered at by drunks creeps in bars %26amp; clubs isn't that much fun sometimes. you don't have the right to treat girls like that - its just treating them like sex objects
Reply:i agree but some girls have been raised like that people have told them what to look for their whole life and thats just what they want to live up to I mean what girls wants to go out with a homeless bum..??
Reply:A girl that treats you like that is not worth your while. Don't worry about them.