Girls help me ! !?

Please help me girls I need help pretty bad?


I dont understand why my life feels so depressing. I mean im a good looking guy but i dont have a gf girls say im cute and all but inside im depressed i really dont know what to do. Maybe because I dont have a gf and I feel really bad inside. I liked this one girl but then she admitted to me that she smokes weed and drinks that made me even more depressed I told her i feel about her doing it but i guess she didnt care much. I told her i care about so and ur really cute she just said " Thank you " thats all. I really like her alot but she flirts with guys online even tho she has a bf. That makes feel depressed even more i really want to find perfect girl I think my life would get better and not depressing. No one knows that im depressed inside not even my best friend. I'll never hurt my self thats for sure but life is really bad I really dont know what to do. I dont do drugs and never will but depression over a girl hurts alot. This girl dosent know that i have such deep feelings for

Girls help me ! !?
Whack whack - Get a hold of yourself man!!


You're falling to pieces over a girl who couldn't give a crap about you. Man up and go out and meet some chicks.
Reply:Look I know that a lot of people are going to tell you that their are plenty of fish in the sea and that their is someone out their for you. And guess what I am going to tell you the same thing You are probally a teenager that thinks that your life will end if you don't have a gf but it won't in time you will find who you are looking for being depresses on the inside shows on the outside you may think otherwise but I'm telling you it does. Try and concentrated on the things that are really important to you make small goals and don't worry to much about the girls if you pretend that your not interested at all trust me they will then want you. People always want what they cannot have. Good on you for not doing drugs etc and try to avoid the people that do they will only drag you down (not matter how much you like them). I think also that you need to talk to someone about how you a feeling depression is not fun trust me get your feelings out even if you have to put pen to paper at least you have some of it out of you system.
Reply:um i think that a girl who drinks and does drugs is no girl for you you deserve someone who really understands you-Hope This Helps
Reply:Well for starters talk to GOD, he can help! And don't focus on some girl that just has bad habits to begin with. Find someone more your style. Maybe not with every quality that you would look for in a girl, but someone that gives you a cute smile, or soft touch. Someone genuine, who won't let you down. Be open, no matter what! IF you are truely depressed, seek counseling. IT will really help!!!
Reply:Talk about it to your friends, it's not good to keep things bottled up. Write, poetry, stories, letter, even is no one is meant to see them, that way you get theese feelings aout and maybe you'll feel better. It works for me. Try to look for other girls, cause this one has really bad habits, and in your state you might pick them up and that is not good.
Reply:Life happens - things will get better, when Im upset I always remember that "everyone has a story that can break your heart" that being said, there are probably a million people in the world living with awful problems that are far worse than yours ( as hard as it may seem to believe it at the time) so be happy for what you have - and remember it's not always having what you want...but wanting what you have...





Good luck hunxo
Reply:You shouldn't feel that badly. For one maybe its just the girls you go for. Try to go for girls who are your type. I know how you feel, one of my guy friends was really depressed and i helped him through it. Dont get depressed because that girl drinks and smokes weed, its not your fault and you had nothing to do with that so you shouldn't feel sad. And its her loss that shes not going out with you. I bet your a really nice guy that any girl would die for. You sound really nice, and deep. If you want to ever talk add me.
Reply:why don't you become a cowboy she'll love you for sure. Every lady can't resist a good ol cowboy
Reply:Get over yourself. You will depress anyone with that question. Girls do him a favor, stay away
Reply:What you need is some anti-deppressant pills.
Reply:First of all, forget that girl. She flirts with other guys, smokes and drinks. You would be compromising who you are as a person by settling for someone like her. Sometimes we just like people and it does hurt, but common sense has to intervene here. She is a bad influence and you don't need her. You say you want a perfect girl. But, one doesn't exist. But, this girl is far from perfect. You mean that you want a girl who likes you for who you are and respects you. You will find that if you do not settle for less. Girls think you are cute. Good. But, a girl who sees that you respect her and are polite and will treat her like gold will see you as ten times more attractive than you really are. Be confident in yourself and your good qualities. It will happen, but you will get a girlfriend when the right girl for you comes into your life. I hope you feel better.
Reply:Don't let a girl depress you boy, what the hell is wrong with you. If this girl can't see your good then you don't want to end up with her any ways and isn't that why we get in to relationships. How do you expect our love life to change if you don't make some changes. I promise that you will get a girl that is right for you just hold on because things like this don't come when you want them the most. Contact me if you ever want to talk about things because I'm a licensed therapist. I will talk to you for free not trying to make you feel bad, but I want to help. It's my job.
Reply:well if u think u r a good looking guy that is wat matters watever u think oh and if that girl smocks and drinks and u dont like her forget abt her there a lot more girls that r just like u
Reply:I know how you feel. I don't have a boyfriend and I'm pretty nice and kind. But the guy I'm attracted to is perverted and I don't like that. Don't be depressed. Start looking around. I'll find the perfect girl. Good luck! Don't look down on yourself! Have confidence!
Reply:I'm exactly the same way. I'm always searching for my soulmate, although it doesn't always end up good. I too, feel very incomplete without that special someone. Of course I would never hurt or do drugs to make me feel better either. You see, I have deep feelings for a boy at my school. I've even told him and he just brushed me off. He thinks it's just a few months thing but I've truly cared for him for about 2 years now. So I feel you pain. We're in the same boat.
Reply:I'm so sorry for your predicament. You should try focusing on something different, because often love finds you when u dont expect it.
Reply:You may need to a doctor about your depression. An anti-depressant may be in order.The girl that you described is not a girl for you. Maybe not for anybody, but someone who does drugs. Just because a girl is cute that doesn't mean that anything. The right girl will come along and when she does she won't be somebody that you have to mold into the one for you. You also need to be more confident. That is what girls find attractive. Good Luck.
Reply:you should let her know how you feel about her that you really like her but the fact that she doesn't treat herself well is hurting you alot that it hurts you to see he doing all of that. and the fact that you don't have a gf depresses you is sad. you should act like yourself and sooner or later you will find someone that you are compatible with i understand if you 40 and can't find a gf but i dougt thats the case here so hold your head up high and live life to the fullest cuz you never know whats headed your way quit killing yourself over a girl that doesb't care about herself if she is willing to change thats great if not MOVE ON!!!
Reply:You sound like a nice guy,don't hang out with her, you deserve better.





Maybe you feel depressed because maybe you don't love YOURSELF enough.





Keep telling yourself you deserve better.
Reply:I'm kinda depressed over this guy. Just tell someone. that's what I did. i felt a lot better.
Reply:Megan says:





OMG! I feel so sorry for you! That girl is a playa! Get away from her. It sounds like your in high school (sorry if i'm wrong) so you still have your whole life ahead of you! When I was a freshman I thought I would be lonely forever because all my friends had bfs. Next year I got a bf and I thought I would be happy but I really wasn't. I just wanted to fit in. I think you should be so sad about something thats not important. Don't worry when you least expect it the girl of your dreams will show up! : ]