I'm a freshman in college, and I started to notice that majority of girls actually want a guy who enjoys intellectual conversation.
During high school, girls didn't care about it, all they wanted was a hot guy.
I mean, college girls want hot guys as well, but apparently it's not as important as it used to be back in high school, you know.
And I think it's same for guys too. Now I DO look for more than a face in girls. I'd rather date average looking girl with nice personality than hot girl with messed up personality.
So yea, girls, from your experience, when did you start to look for more than face in a guy? If you mention, age, it'd be great but certain period of time(during high school, college, etc.) is nice too.
Girls, when did you start to look for more than face in a guy?
When I was fifteen, believe it or not. I was sick of dating guys who were hot but had the brainpower of a toasted crouton. It's like talking to a rock!
I was lucky to learn early on that personality matters more than looks. I've been with my boyfriend since I was fifteen (four years now), and we're now planning the wedding. While he may not be the greatest looking, he's got more than enough personality to make up for it.
Reply:I'm a sophomore in high school and I've always kinda been the way. If I liked a guy and my friends didn't find him to be attractive I didn't care. I do think that most people change as they get older. They start to REALLY look at a person.
Reply:I'm 20 and in college. I have always wanted a guy who was decent looking with a nice personality. I didn't really want a hot guy who is out of my league because I would feel insecure and wouldn't trust him because his good looks can get him other girls easily. I just want someone who can connect with me and be able to have someone to love. Physical appearance is what a lot of people look for too, but it's not the most important. Right now, I have a nice bf with an awesome personality, but he's not very attractive physically. I am happy to be with him though because he makes me feel special and that's all it matters to me.
Reply:well im 15 and yes ur right, a hot guy is great. but i am already at the I LOVE PERSONALITIES stage!!!
Saturday, November 19, 2011
Girls, when did you start to look for more than face in a guy?
I'm a freshman in college, and I started to notice that majority of girls actually want a guy who enjoys intellectual conversation.
During high school, girls didn't care about it, all they wanted was a hot guy.
I mean, college girls want hot guys as well, but apparently it's not as important as it used to be back in high school, you know.
And I think it's same for guys too. Now I DO look for more than a face in girls. I'd rather date average looking girl with nice personality than hot girl with messed up personality.
So yea, girls, from your experience, when did you start to look for more than face in a guy? If you mention, age, it'd be great but certain period of time(during high school, college, etc.) is nice too.
Girls, when did you start to look for more than face in a guy?
When I was fifteen, believe it or not. I was sick of dating guys who were hot but had the brainpower of a toasted crouton. It's like talking to a rock!
I was lucky to learn early on that personality matters more than looks. I've been with my boyfriend since I was fifteen (four years now), and we're now planning the wedding. While he may not be the greatest looking, he's got more than enough personality to make up for it.
Reply:I'm a sophomore in high school and I've always kinda been the way. If I liked a guy and my friends didn't find him to be attractive I didn't care. I do think that most people change as they get older. They start to REALLY look at a person.
Reply:I'm 20 and in college. I have always wanted a guy who was decent looking with a nice personality. I didn't really want a hot guy who is out of my league because I would feel insecure and wouldn't trust him because his good looks can get him other girls easily. I just want someone who can connect with me and be able to have someone to love. Physical appearance is what a lot of people look for too, but it's not the most important. Right now, I have a nice bf with an awesome personality, but he's not very attractive physically. I am happy to be with him though because he makes me feel special and that's all it matters to me.
Reply:well im 15 and yes ur right, a hot guy is great. but i am already at the I LOVE PERSONALITIES stage!!!
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During high school, girls didn't care about it, all they wanted was a hot guy.
I mean, college girls want hot guys as well, but apparently it's not as important as it used to be back in high school, you know.
And I think it's same for guys too. Now I DO look for more than a face in girls. I'd rather date average looking girl with nice personality than hot girl with messed up personality.
So yea, girls, from your experience, when did you start to look for more than face in a guy? If you mention, age, it'd be great but certain period of time(during high school, college, etc.) is nice too.
Girls, when did you start to look for more than face in a guy?
When I was fifteen, believe it or not. I was sick of dating guys who were hot but had the brainpower of a toasted crouton. It's like talking to a rock!
I was lucky to learn early on that personality matters more than looks. I've been with my boyfriend since I was fifteen (four years now), and we're now planning the wedding. While he may not be the greatest looking, he's got more than enough personality to make up for it.
Reply:I'm a sophomore in high school and I've always kinda been the way. If I liked a guy and my friends didn't find him to be attractive I didn't care. I do think that most people change as they get older. They start to REALLY look at a person.
Reply:I'm 20 and in college. I have always wanted a guy who was decent looking with a nice personality. I didn't really want a hot guy who is out of my league because I would feel insecure and wouldn't trust him because his good looks can get him other girls easily. I just want someone who can connect with me and be able to have someone to love. Physical appearance is what a lot of people look for too, but it's not the most important. Right now, I have a nice bf with an awesome personality, but he's not very attractive physically. I am happy to be with him though because he makes me feel special and that's all it matters to me.
Reply:well im 15 and yes ur right, a hot guy is great. but i am already at the I LOVE PERSONALITIES stage!!!
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Girls, what u will think and what would be the reaction in your mind?
I know and i love this girl from past 1 year.we both are working in same company also we are seeing each other but we never talked.now at one day she met me in the cab(aroung 9 o clock in the night) our houses are in the same area.also earlier in the night there are rape cases happen by the cab driver.so i asked this girl to droped u first then i will go to my home, but she said it is ok and she thanks me for this one.so girls please tell me if u are in place of this girl, what type of image in your mind about me, i m asking this question because i love this girl and the girl also knows that i love her, also earlier we had a lots of crush to each other becuase we both are shy.
so girls what u will think about me?.is it i did something wrong here?
Girls, what u will think and what would be the reaction in your mind?
no dear u r not wrong.... just be bold and ask her out dont wait any more... u really love her a lot... all the best
Reply:i think you are a nice guy but the thing with the cabby you probably pushed to hard, but then again if it comes down to it she will thank you for that
Reply:Sounds like she doesn't want you to know where she lives.
Reply:no..you are more difficult
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Reply:If it had been me, I would have thought you were really sweet to have cared enough to want to take me home, but I would also have refused because I like to do things on my own, without any help. But I think that you did the right thing. Maybe you shouldn't have taken no for an answer, but otherwise I'm sure she appreciated the gesture.
Reply:Ok, I don't know how you can love a girl without even dating her for a while.. So, I think it's not love, but just chemical attraction, or something like that. You should ask her out or talk to her in other occasions, get to know her better and after that get the conclusion that you love her. Maybe she's not so great as you think, maybe she has hidden flaws that you'll not accept. And about the discussion in the cab, I think women appreciate when a man is being protective.
Reply:i dont think so... if she is you say likes you, well then maybe she's just being the type of girl who is shy... try to talk to her more often and let her feel safe when shes with you so that she could trust you ... :)
Reply:When you asked this earlier you stated that she had a boyfriend. Step away, back off, and wait.
Reply:Kindness is never wrong.
Reply:you hadn't do anything wrong but you have to do the first step...maybe she thought that she will bother you when u asked her to drop her first so she said it is ok....try again and if she said no just forget about her
Reply:no it was a nice thing to do. also just ask her out
Reply:NO, YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG. YOU JUST SHOWED HER THAT YOU CARE ABOUT HER AND YOU ARE CONCERNED ABOUT HER SAFETY. IF SHE IS SHY, LIKE YOU SAID, SHE MIGHT BE WAITING FOR YOU TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE! ANYWAY YOU WON'T LOSE ANYTHING- IF SHE AGREES TO GO OUT WITH YOU- THAT'S GREAT, IF SHE DOESN'T- AT LEAST YOU WILL KNOW HER ATTITUDE AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. GOOD LUCK!
Reply:be sure she's not involved with anyone, then try telling her about the way you feel towards her.
Good Luck
so girls what u will think about me?.is it i did something wrong here?
Girls, what u will think and what would be the reaction in your mind?
no dear u r not wrong.... just be bold and ask her out dont wait any more... u really love her a lot... all the best
Reply:i think you are a nice guy but the thing with the cabby you probably pushed to hard, but then again if it comes down to it she will thank you for that
Reply:Sounds like she doesn't want you to know where she lives.
Reply:no..you are more difficult
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Reply:If it had been me, I would have thought you were really sweet to have cared enough to want to take me home, but I would also have refused because I like to do things on my own, without any help. But I think that you did the right thing. Maybe you shouldn't have taken no for an answer, but otherwise I'm sure she appreciated the gesture.
Reply:Ok, I don't know how you can love a girl without even dating her for a while.. So, I think it's not love, but just chemical attraction, or something like that. You should ask her out or talk to her in other occasions, get to know her better and after that get the conclusion that you love her. Maybe she's not so great as you think, maybe she has hidden flaws that you'll not accept. And about the discussion in the cab, I think women appreciate when a man is being protective.
Reply:i dont think so... if she is you say likes you, well then maybe she's just being the type of girl who is shy... try to talk to her more often and let her feel safe when shes with you so that she could trust you ... :)
Reply:When you asked this earlier you stated that she had a boyfriend. Step away, back off, and wait.
Reply:Kindness is never wrong.
Reply:you hadn't do anything wrong but you have to do the first step...maybe she thought that she will bother you when u asked her to drop her first so she said it is ok....try again and if she said no just forget about her
Reply:no it was a nice thing to do. also just ask her out
Reply:NO, YOU DIDN'T DO ANYTHING WRONG. YOU JUST SHOWED HER THAT YOU CARE ABOUT HER AND YOU ARE CONCERNED ABOUT HER SAFETY. IF SHE IS SHY, LIKE YOU SAID, SHE MIGHT BE WAITING FOR YOU TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE! ANYWAY YOU WON'T LOSE ANYTHING- IF SHE AGREES TO GO OUT WITH YOU- THAT'S GREAT, IF SHE DOESN'T- AT LEAST YOU WILL KNOW HER ATTITUDE AND MOVE ON WITH YOUR LIFE. GOOD LUCK!
Reply:be sure she's not involved with anyone, then try telling her about the way you feel towards her.
Good Luck
Girls please tell me what u think of me? i have a pic?
Girls what do u think of me ? Im 6ft, im tan, i have size 14 shoe, skinny. Nice around girls and shy. Alot of ppl know me in school but i dont hang with ppl on weekends. I don't do drugs and never will. I probably wanna be a cop after high school. Im 17 and im a junior in my high school. I like alot of short blond girls cause most of them are cute and have great sense of style. I never had a gf but other kids in my high school who do drugs and part have hot girlfriends for some reason. Im a nice guy and romantic but im saving all of that for some nice girl. Someday when ill have a car and part time job i wanna take a girl out on the beach at night and walk with her since alot of girls like that or i would go buy some food and take her out on the beach and have picnic. Right now in high school and i havent found the right girl for some reason for her looks and her personality. Her is my pic http://img237.imageshack.us/img237/9295/...
Girls please tell me what u think of me? i have a pic?
Ok so u scream nice guy. Alot of girls in high school r lookin for the bad boy. Not all but alot. So basically instead of posting on yahoo answers, just start going out on weekends, have some fun, u dont have to do drugs to have fun, but you do have to be social to meet girls. Don't let them come to you, if you want something go for it. You're still young, all is not lost. Im not trying to be mean or nething, i would say ur cute if i were 17, but really get out and have fun. Wait until ur 30 to worry about wheather or not u can get a gf. Then u have issues.
Reply:wow. definitely nothing wrong with you. to be honest i wouldn't say your "HOT" but i would definitely say cute. Theres not much of a difference though. If theres no girl that you like than why push it? I know its really nice having a gf or bf but you shouldn't go out with someone just for that. You sound like you'd be a really fun guy to hang out with, so i bet that as soon as you find the girl you want to go out with, that she would totally love to be with you too.
Reply:this is not a dating site...
Reply:I agree with you on the drugs thing. Why does every druggie guy seem to have some sleazho hanging off of him? I'm also a junior, and a short blonde-ish one at that! Haha, if you lived near here, I totally scoop you up. :)
Reply:I think you're hot.
=]
Reply:awwww
what a cutie (:
Reply:Ooh! Where do you live!
Reply:You are perfectly fine, a cute young man.
You are in HIGH SCHOOL. Just wait, she will come around.
Reply:Thats really sweet. I'm also in highschool, and I am much like you. I know how you feel, but the way I look at things is that decent people have morals and love the people they go out with, but druggies don't. I think you are attractive, but most of all you seem really romantic and down to earth. I wish you lived here :-) I've never had a boyfriend but when I do I want it to be sweet and slow, I just wish I could find someone someday like what I know about you so far.
A couple of things i would really like to do is to go somewhere away from everyone and just laydown on a beach or go for a walk and just hold hands. It's too bad most kids our age think love sex and lust.
Reply:umm you are definently cute and you sound amazing...and by the way you sound a ton like me but im a girl lol. I have a ton of friends at school but dont hang out with them on weekends very much i know a bunch of guys that like me but i think i might be afraid to get into something to good to believe...and now you know stuff about me that you didnt ask for but i would definently date you!!! I am pretty sure that girls must like you, you sound awesome!!!
Just have fun,
Brittany
Reply:Gasp!! =O.. You're so cuuuuuuuuuute!! You seem like a great guy, I'm sure. And yes, don't do drugs. You're too good for that.
You sound very sweet and any girl would be very lucky indeed to have you. =D
Girls please tell me what u think of me? i have a pic?
Ok so u scream nice guy. Alot of girls in high school r lookin for the bad boy. Not all but alot. So basically instead of posting on yahoo answers, just start going out on weekends, have some fun, u dont have to do drugs to have fun, but you do have to be social to meet girls. Don't let them come to you, if you want something go for it. You're still young, all is not lost. Im not trying to be mean or nething, i would say ur cute if i were 17, but really get out and have fun. Wait until ur 30 to worry about wheather or not u can get a gf. Then u have issues.
Reply:wow. definitely nothing wrong with you. to be honest i wouldn't say your "HOT" but i would definitely say cute. Theres not much of a difference though. If theres no girl that you like than why push it? I know its really nice having a gf or bf but you shouldn't go out with someone just for that. You sound like you'd be a really fun guy to hang out with, so i bet that as soon as you find the girl you want to go out with, that she would totally love to be with you too.
Reply:this is not a dating site...
Reply:I agree with you on the drugs thing. Why does every druggie guy seem to have some sleazho hanging off of him? I'm also a junior, and a short blonde-ish one at that! Haha, if you lived near here, I totally scoop you up. :)
Reply:I think you're hot.
=]
Reply:awwww
what a cutie (:
Reply:Ooh! Where do you live!
Reply:You are perfectly fine, a cute young man.
You are in HIGH SCHOOL. Just wait, she will come around.
Reply:Thats really sweet. I'm also in highschool, and I am much like you. I know how you feel, but the way I look at things is that decent people have morals and love the people they go out with, but druggies don't. I think you are attractive, but most of all you seem really romantic and down to earth. I wish you lived here :-) I've never had a boyfriend but when I do I want it to be sweet and slow, I just wish I could find someone someday like what I know about you so far.
A couple of things i would really like to do is to go somewhere away from everyone and just laydown on a beach or go for a walk and just hold hands. It's too bad most kids our age think love sex and lust.
Reply:umm you are definently cute and you sound amazing...and by the way you sound a ton like me but im a girl lol. I have a ton of friends at school but dont hang out with them on weekends very much i know a bunch of guys that like me but i think i might be afraid to get into something to good to believe...and now you know stuff about me that you didnt ask for but i would definently date you!!! I am pretty sure that girls must like you, you sound awesome!!!
Just have fun,
Brittany
Reply:Gasp!! =O.. You're so cuuuuuuuuuute!! You seem like a great guy, I'm sure. And yes, don't do drugs. You're too good for that.
You sound very sweet and any girl would be very lucky indeed to have you. =D
Question for girls!what should i do!?! (girl related)?
I talk to girl "a" and to girl "b" but just as friends but i like girl "b" i told girl "a" i like girl "b" (stupid of me, i know)and now girl "b" knows i like her and probably thinks i only talk to her because i like her and im interested in her,im not sure if girl "b" likes me or not,what i wanna know is what do you girls usually do when you talk to somebody as friends then find out they like you? what do you do when your not attracted to the person? what do you do when you are attracted to the person?
Question for girls!what should i do!?! (girl related)?
giggle..gossip..talk about the guy and whether he's cute or not..etc..etc... not attracted- don't want to hurt the guys feelings so break it off nicely and hopefully can still be friend. attracted- usually get all nervous around the guy and then eventually go out with him.
Reply:If I find out that a guy friend is attracted to me and I'm not attracted to him, I tell him. I tell him that he is a great friend, but I'm just not into him as more than friendship. When I do like a guy as more than friends, I tell him. I tell him exactly what I feel, but I don't have any expectations about the situation changing unless he tells me different. Because just as I wasn't attracted to those other male friends of mine, he may not be attracted to me. If it happens to tunr out that way, I am able to remain friends with that person, because we were friends first.
Reply:The first thing I think is "Oh no". Then I think, "Well, do I like him or see myself liking him? What would this be like? If I don't like him then I avoid him as much as possible. But I be nice to him if I run across him, hoping that he won't get any mixed signals. If I like him, I get kind of clutsy around him and nervous. Then I would get over that and have my way with him.
Reply:watch her body Language next time you are talking to her.Maybe she really likes you as a friend and in front of you she pretends she didn't hear about what you said,as she still wants to be friends with you,and if you find out that she does not feel the same,that you will no longer want to be friends,or maybe she is waiting for you to say some thing,so as I said watch her body language next time you are with her.I hope it all works out for you,whatever way you want things to go.
Reply:If you are attrcted to this person then say 'Do you like me" and if she says yes then ask her to be your g/f if she says no than just say that:
A.It was just a joke HA,HA!!
or
B.can we be friends?
Reply:if i found out a friend likes me and i dont like them back i might distance myself alittle from them so they dont get the wrong idea but not to much that im being ridiculous, and if i do like them i flirt back and if i know 4 sure they like me ill tell them .
Reply:you need to grow up and look up the word loyalty
Reply:Look stop stressing and let her come to you.
Question for girls!what should i do!?! (girl related)?
giggle..gossip..talk about the guy and whether he's cute or not..etc..etc... not attracted- don't want to hurt the guys feelings so break it off nicely and hopefully can still be friend. attracted- usually get all nervous around the guy and then eventually go out with him.
Reply:If I find out that a guy friend is attracted to me and I'm not attracted to him, I tell him. I tell him that he is a great friend, but I'm just not into him as more than friendship. When I do like a guy as more than friends, I tell him. I tell him exactly what I feel, but I don't have any expectations about the situation changing unless he tells me different. Because just as I wasn't attracted to those other male friends of mine, he may not be attracted to me. If it happens to tunr out that way, I am able to remain friends with that person, because we were friends first.
Reply:The first thing I think is "Oh no". Then I think, "Well, do I like him or see myself liking him? What would this be like? If I don't like him then I avoid him as much as possible. But I be nice to him if I run across him, hoping that he won't get any mixed signals. If I like him, I get kind of clutsy around him and nervous. Then I would get over that and have my way with him.
Reply:watch her body Language next time you are talking to her.Maybe she really likes you as a friend and in front of you she pretends she didn't hear about what you said,as she still wants to be friends with you,and if you find out that she does not feel the same,that you will no longer want to be friends,or maybe she is waiting for you to say some thing,so as I said watch her body language next time you are with her.I hope it all works out for you,whatever way you want things to go.
Reply:If you are attrcted to this person then say 'Do you like me" and if she says yes then ask her to be your g/f if she says no than just say that:
A.It was just a joke HA,HA!!
or
B.can we be friends?
Reply:if i found out a friend likes me and i dont like them back i might distance myself alittle from them so they dont get the wrong idea but not to much that im being ridiculous, and if i do like them i flirt back and if i know 4 sure they like me ill tell them .
Reply:you need to grow up and look up the word loyalty
Reply:Look stop stressing and let her come to you.
Girls please reply................... Only girls......?
Actually, I am from India, And here girls are very shy or you can simply say that in the part where i am currently living is full of shy girls........
Actually, I like a girl and i think she also likes me but i am in great confusion...... sometimes she reacted that she cares for me a lot...... and sometimes fully opposite.........
Truly saying, my heart says to leave this girl and concentrate on other(if any comes in my life).........
Truly saying, regarding this girl i am not happy and full of frustration!!!!!!!!1 but i have a senti character........... so i am facing problems in completely ignoring her.........
what i must do........
let me know that is it very very hard to understand girls......
plesae reply...........
Girls please reply................... Only girls......?
your heart's doing the right thing, just let her be..... concentrate on your own life and keep yourself busy - do things like going outdoors for sports, gym, etc. make yourself presentable... if she cares she'll come back.. but dont wait for her
Reply:if you truly like her then you will keep trying for her. If you want to leave, then look somewhere else....but just make sure you dont regret it
Reply:mybe this girl likes you but wont say anything cause she is not sure of her feeling get
Reply:If you want to know if she really likes you just ask her and tell her if she doesn't you want to feel free to find someone new. If she really does like you it would hurt her feelings if you found someone else without knowing how she really feels. Just ask her.
Reply:confront her. might as well, it doesn't sound like this is going anywhere.
Reply:She wants you to "chase" her, the beginning works of love is a game, and if you play correctly you will have her. This is her way of making sure you really care for her before she gives you her heart.
Reply:ASK HER WHETHER SHE LIKES U ...................IF SHE SAYS YES THEN........................ ITS GOOD
BUT IF SHE SAYS NO.............THEN LEAVE HER
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Actually, I like a girl and i think she also likes me but i am in great confusion...... sometimes she reacted that she cares for me a lot...... and sometimes fully opposite.........
Truly saying, my heart says to leave this girl and concentrate on other(if any comes in my life).........
Truly saying, regarding this girl i am not happy and full of frustration!!!!!!!!1 but i have a senti character........... so i am facing problems in completely ignoring her.........
what i must do........
let me know that is it very very hard to understand girls......
plesae reply...........
Girls please reply................... Only girls......?
your heart's doing the right thing, just let her be..... concentrate on your own life and keep yourself busy - do things like going outdoors for sports, gym, etc. make yourself presentable... if she cares she'll come back.. but dont wait for her
Reply:if you truly like her then you will keep trying for her. If you want to leave, then look somewhere else....but just make sure you dont regret it
Reply:mybe this girl likes you but wont say anything cause she is not sure of her feeling get
Reply:If you want to know if she really likes you just ask her and tell her if she doesn't you want to feel free to find someone new. If she really does like you it would hurt her feelings if you found someone else without knowing how she really feels. Just ask her.
Reply:confront her. might as well, it doesn't sound like this is going anywhere.
Reply:She wants you to "chase" her, the beginning works of love is a game, and if you play correctly you will have her. This is her way of making sure you really care for her before she gives you her heart.
Reply:ASK HER WHETHER SHE LIKES U ...................IF SHE SAYS YES THEN........................ ITS GOOD
BUT IF SHE SAYS NO.............THEN LEAVE HER
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Sunday, August 22, 2010
Why are many girls that go to church more judgmental, critical of guys, and more shallow than other girls?
I'am a single 22 year-old guy that lives and goes to church in San Diego. I'am troubled and quite frankly pissed off at the fact that many of the girls that I go to church with (most of them are very pretty) are very shallow, stuck-up, and very judgmental when it comes to guys. The church group that I'am a part of is for collage-aged people, like me. Many of the girls are in the 18-21 year-old range. They all seem to go to church for other reasons than to worship God. The number one reason I go to church is to worship God, but I would also like to meet that next girlfriend or special someone there. The problem is that I have meet better girls in town; girls who are non-christians or girls that don't go to chruch. I thought that church was the place to meet a girl who is nice and lives a good moral life. Is this no longer true? Are girls at church just as bad as other girls? Where should I be looking to meet a girl who is pretty but has all of the good qualities that I'am looking for?
Why are many girls that go to church more judgmental, critical of guys, and more shallow than other girls?
I know what you mean and hey, I'm in the same boat as you except I'm a single 22 year old girl who believes in God and live in California. I agree with the others who said you should pray to God and if it's part of God's plan for you to be with someone He will bring you someone. Well, here's a cute love story I was told when I was younger. It might help you. I'm guessing you are Christian, so you might have heard this story before, so I'm sorry if you have, but I'm going to tell it anyway. Well, there is this lady who sings in a Christain band. I don't remember the band's name, but anyway, she was in her 30s and she never dated a guy or nothing, but she wanted more than anything to get married and have a family. You know because she wasn't getting any younger, so one night she prayed to God to let her go since it's said that if you are single for a long time it's because God loves you too much and doesn't want to share you with anyone. The next day, the guy who plays the guitar in the band confess to her his feelings and they started dating. Three years later they got married and have a kid. I don't know if you ever dated anyone or not, but if you haven't maybe you should pray to Him to let you go and if He thinks you are ready He will send someone to you. Just be patience. Patience is a virtue, so wait and you will find the one you truly deserve and the one God put you on earth to love. Good luck and hope I helped.
Reply:ME 2! I try 2 approach a friendly face in youth group and they give me the cold shoulder!
and they're all (excuse my french) $luts! wearing mini skirts! it's sick! WHAT HAS OUR CHURCH COME 2?!!!
Reply:because they are brainwashed.
Reply:I find it easier to get on with non christian men than christian men to be honest. Not all christian people are the same though, but i must admit their are some stuck up people and medleers in the church, who think they know it all. Pray and ask God to find you a nice partner. If you meet someone nice ask them to church. I am sure God wants someone special for you, leave it with him and don,t worry about it, just concentrate on being friends with females.
Reply:Most girls in church who are lookin gfor a guy want someone whos almost perfect trust me i know this theres this lady in church whos 33 hasnt gooten married b/c shes looking for a guy whos awesome looking AND a preacher sorta type. Like thats gonna happen. A lot of people make fun of her for that. adn shes not ugly either
Reply:Sad isn't it. We live in the luke-warm church age. People go but don't seem to live what they hear preached. Since you go to church and are possibly a christian then why don't you just pray about who you are to meet. If you really want to meet a nice girl ask God to bring her to you, and have faith in that. Also be an example to these shallow minded girls. Trust God, He won't disappoint you.
Reply:just because the girls go to church or not does not make them the way they are. Girls who can go to church and then still be the creepy little things they are probably should not be going to church God says judge not lest ye be judged. you can find a decent, loving and non-judgemental girl anywhere and if you can't find one at that church go to another one
Reply:Ever if they go to church they go for all the wrong reason. Me myself I go to church and I see the same problem that you see at your church. And they start younger and younger. I dont believe that its the fact that they are in church, but they are just going to act like ever one around them. So i think that the best decision for you is not to look for anyone inside the church but out, and bring them to church.
Why are many girls that go to church more judgmental, critical of guys, and more shallow than other girls?
I know what you mean and hey, I'm in the same boat as you except I'm a single 22 year old girl who believes in God and live in California. I agree with the others who said you should pray to God and if it's part of God's plan for you to be with someone He will bring you someone. Well, here's a cute love story I was told when I was younger. It might help you. I'm guessing you are Christian, so you might have heard this story before, so I'm sorry if you have, but I'm going to tell it anyway. Well, there is this lady who sings in a Christain band. I don't remember the band's name, but anyway, she was in her 30s and she never dated a guy or nothing, but she wanted more than anything to get married and have a family. You know because she wasn't getting any younger, so one night she prayed to God to let her go since it's said that if you are single for a long time it's because God loves you too much and doesn't want to share you with anyone. The next day, the guy who plays the guitar in the band confess to her his feelings and they started dating. Three years later they got married and have a kid. I don't know if you ever dated anyone or not, but if you haven't maybe you should pray to Him to let you go and if He thinks you are ready He will send someone to you. Just be patience. Patience is a virtue, so wait and you will find the one you truly deserve and the one God put you on earth to love. Good luck and hope I helped.
Reply:ME 2! I try 2 approach a friendly face in youth group and they give me the cold shoulder!
and they're all (excuse my french) $luts! wearing mini skirts! it's sick! WHAT HAS OUR CHURCH COME 2?!!!
Reply:because they are brainwashed.
Reply:I find it easier to get on with non christian men than christian men to be honest. Not all christian people are the same though, but i must admit their are some stuck up people and medleers in the church, who think they know it all. Pray and ask God to find you a nice partner. If you meet someone nice ask them to church. I am sure God wants someone special for you, leave it with him and don,t worry about it, just concentrate on being friends with females.
Reply:Most girls in church who are lookin gfor a guy want someone whos almost perfect trust me i know this theres this lady in church whos 33 hasnt gooten married b/c shes looking for a guy whos awesome looking AND a preacher sorta type. Like thats gonna happen. A lot of people make fun of her for that. adn shes not ugly either
Reply:Sad isn't it. We live in the luke-warm church age. People go but don't seem to live what they hear preached. Since you go to church and are possibly a christian then why don't you just pray about who you are to meet. If you really want to meet a nice girl ask God to bring her to you, and have faith in that. Also be an example to these shallow minded girls. Trust God, He won't disappoint you.
Reply:just because the girls go to church or not does not make them the way they are. Girls who can go to church and then still be the creepy little things they are probably should not be going to church God says judge not lest ye be judged. you can find a decent, loving and non-judgemental girl anywhere and if you can't find one at that church go to another one
Reply:Ever if they go to church they go for all the wrong reason. Me myself I go to church and I see the same problem that you see at your church. And they start younger and younger. I dont believe that its the fact that they are in church, but they are just going to act like ever one around them. So i think that the best decision for you is not to look for anyone inside the church but out, and bring them to church.
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