Why are many girls that go to church more judgmental, critical of guys, and more shallow than other girls?

I'am a single 22 year-old guy that lives and goes to church in San Diego. I'am troubled and quite frankly pissed off at the fact that many of the girls that I go to church with (most of them are very pretty) are very shallow, stuck-up, and very judgmental when it comes to guys. The church group that I'am a part of is for collage-aged people, like me. Many of the girls are in the 18-21 year-old range. They all seem to go to church for other reasons than to worship God. The number one reason I go to church is to worship God, but I would also like to meet that next girlfriend or special someone there. The problem is that I have meet better girls in town; girls who are non-christians or girls that don't go to chruch. I thought that church was the place to meet a girl who is nice and lives a good moral life. Is this no longer true? Are girls at church just as bad as other girls? Where should I be looking to meet a girl who is pretty but has all of the good qualities that I'am looking for?

Why are many girls that go to church more judgmental, critical of guys, and more shallow than other girls?
I know what you mean and hey, I'm in the same boat as you except I'm a single 22 year old girl who believes in God and live in California. I agree with the others who said you should pray to God and if it's part of God's plan for you to be with someone He will bring you someone. Well, here's a cute love story I was told when I was younger. It might help you. I'm guessing you are Christian, so you might have heard this story before, so I'm sorry if you have, but I'm going to tell it anyway. Well, there is this lady who sings in a Christain band. I don't remember the band's name, but anyway, she was in her 30s and she never dated a guy or nothing, but she wanted more than anything to get married and have a family. You know because she wasn't getting any younger, so one night she prayed to God to let her go since it's said that if you are single for a long time it's because God loves you too much and doesn't want to share you with anyone. The next day, the guy who plays the guitar in the band confess to her his feelings and they started dating. Three years later they got married and have a kid. I don't know if you ever dated anyone or not, but if you haven't maybe you should pray to Him to let you go and if He thinks you are ready He will send someone to you. Just be patience. Patience is a virtue, so wait and you will find the one you truly deserve and the one God put you on earth to love. Good luck and hope I helped.
Reply:ME 2! I try 2 approach a friendly face in youth group and they give me the cold shoulder!


and they're all (excuse my french) $luts! wearing mini skirts! it's sick! WHAT HAS OUR CHURCH COME 2?!!!
Reply:because they are brainwashed.
Reply:I find it easier to get on with non christian men than christian men to be honest. Not all christian people are the same though, but i must admit their are some stuck up people and medleers in the church, who think they know it all. Pray and ask God to find you a nice partner. If you meet someone nice ask them to church. I am sure God wants someone special for you, leave it with him and don,t worry about it, just concentrate on being friends with females.
Reply:Most girls in church who are lookin gfor a guy want someone whos almost perfect trust me i know this theres this lady in church whos 33 hasnt gooten married b/c shes looking for a guy whos awesome looking AND a preacher sorta type. Like thats gonna happen. A lot of people make fun of her for that. adn shes not ugly either
Reply:Sad isn't it. We live in the luke-warm church age. People go but don't seem to live what they hear preached. Since you go to church and are possibly a christian then why don't you just pray about who you are to meet. If you really want to meet a nice girl ask God to bring her to you, and have faith in that. Also be an example to these shallow minded girls. Trust God, He won't disappoint you.
Reply:just because the girls go to church or not does not make them the way they are. Girls who can go to church and then still be the creepy little things they are probably should not be going to church God says judge not lest ye be judged. you can find a decent, loving and non-judgemental girl anywhere and if you can't find one at that church go to another one
Reply:Ever if they go to church they go for all the wrong reason. Me myself I go to church and I see the same problem that you see at your church. And they start younger and younger. I dont believe that its the fact that they are in church, but they are just going to act like ever one around them. So i think that the best decision for you is not to look for anyone inside the church but out, and bring them to church.