Ok for some reason alot of beautiful girls that I know in my high school started to drink and smoke pot. Some chicks I use to trust alot because they didnt do drugs. Now days alot good girls started to do drugs including my friends. I dont hang out with them anymore cause all of them talk about drugs and stuff. I never done drugs and Im not planning to do drugs peer pressure of doing drugs does not affect me too much. But the thing is if I start doing drugs and party with them Ill get to hook up with any girl. For my self I made this rule if a girl drinks or smokes dump her ! This year my positive friends graduated that are popular and dont do drugs. Now i feel really lost I dont know what to do? Im not a bad looking guy girls say im cute but im shy towards oppisite sex. I just want to find a trustable cute girl. If I ever find that special girl then I'll take her to the most romantic dinner out on the beach.
I just want to know what happend to all the nice cute girls ?
Girls and Relationships with them?
awe sweetie.
they're are still some of us out there.
: )
Reply:Theirs some of us out there you gotta look hard = ]
very cute good luck!
Reply:All the nice girls turned...well not so nice during highschool years...... u should try looking for one in diif. places
Reply:i know hooking up with any girl you want is great, but think doign drugs and drinking isnt worth it, think of marrying a gril thats a druggie, or alchaolic. Look for some1 you can trust, and you will find their inner beauty.
Dont drink or do drugs... in the long run its waaayyy better. dont make the mistake that many people have
Reply:lately ive been thinking that about all of the guys. But hey.
Tuesday, July 20, 2010
Will girls get jealous if I give a card to another girl?
Would a girl get jealous if I gave a birthday card to a girl? It's this friend's birthday (girl) and I was planning on giving a birthday card to her but would the girl I like get jealous if she likes me? Sorry this sounds really confusing, but main point is: I don't want it to seem like I have eyes on another girl. This girl is just a friend. So... would girls get jealous if I give a birthday card to another girl?
Will girls get jealous if I give a card to another girl?
she might get jealous. maybe just dont let the girl you like KNOW you gave the card.
if you DO if the card (which you should, btw. its her birthday, come on!) and your friend is friends with the girl you like, and the girl you like somehow sees it
make sure what you write in it isnt like lovey dovey or anything
its just a simple happybirthday, your FRIEND -insert name here-
or you know, whatever.
she'll get jealous if you make it seem TOO friendly
if she can tell its just a friend thing, then its all good.
PLUS when the girl you like's birthday rolls around (or christmas) write her an even better card.
OR to make up for writing a card to your girl - friend (just in case she does get jealous), give the girl you like a hug. or flash a smile. it always works for me :)
Reply:yes they would
Reply:i would give your friend the card. if the girl really likes you and gets jealous, just explain to her how the other girl is just a friend. if she is still jealous after you tell her this, she is probably controlling and will be jealous throughout the relationship.
Reply:We girls get jealous of lots of things.. But seriously!! A girl jealous just because of a birthday card!? Thats some crazy girl -.-'' (no offense to her!) But it depends...I don't know the girl, but chances are, if she see's it JUST as a birthday crad, u'll be ok.
Reply:if your girl is secure with you both she won't get jealous
Reply:Yea, I bet that if u get a gift card to another girl. like me I'll be so jealous if u give another girl a gift card and me.
Reply:No if she truly liked you then she would feel happy but if she's a ****** she'll get jealous.
Reply:truly yes she will get jealous. but before you do it get a consent from her. explain it to her first. ok. then you decide.
Reply:if she likes you, she'll get jealous.
yes.
or she'll think you're not interested in her
and start to move on.
but that's just me.
human teeth
Will girls get jealous if I give a card to another girl?
she might get jealous. maybe just dont let the girl you like KNOW you gave the card.
if you DO if the card (which you should, btw. its her birthday, come on!) and your friend is friends with the girl you like, and the girl you like somehow sees it
make sure what you write in it isnt like lovey dovey or anything
its just a simple happybirthday, your FRIEND -insert name here-
or you know, whatever.
she'll get jealous if you make it seem TOO friendly
if she can tell its just a friend thing, then its all good.
PLUS when the girl you like's birthday rolls around (or christmas) write her an even better card.
OR to make up for writing a card to your girl - friend (just in case she does get jealous), give the girl you like a hug. or flash a smile. it always works for me :)
Reply:yes they would
Reply:i would give your friend the card. if the girl really likes you and gets jealous, just explain to her how the other girl is just a friend. if she is still jealous after you tell her this, she is probably controlling and will be jealous throughout the relationship.
Reply:We girls get jealous of lots of things.. But seriously!! A girl jealous just because of a birthday card!? Thats some crazy girl -.-'' (no offense to her!) But it depends...I don't know the girl, but chances are, if she see's it JUST as a birthday crad, u'll be ok.
Reply:if your girl is secure with you both she won't get jealous
Reply:Yea, I bet that if u get a gift card to another girl. like me I'll be so jealous if u give another girl a gift card and me.
Reply:No if she truly liked you then she would feel happy but if she's a ****** she'll get jealous.
Reply:truly yes she will get jealous. but before you do it get a consent from her. explain it to her first. ok. then you decide.
Reply:if she likes you, she'll get jealous.
yes.
or she'll think you're not interested in her
and start to move on.
but that's just me.
human teeth
I just prefer slim tall girls, as long the girl doesnt outweigh me am happy?
This girls likes me but she is bigger then me, i like her as mate but thats it, i cant be intimate with a personality now can i,, we guys will always naturally prefer girls who dont outweigh us, as in slim pretty girls, human nature i suppose, but i keep telling this girl im not intrested like that, she dotn take the hint, maybe im too nice i dunno, am not beign shallow but honest, realistic, preference, slim girls pshycally attracted me, i cant help it, slim girls have better curvs then chubby or big girls, as long the girl dont outweigh guys then its all good, guys r naturally msucualr bigger, even a thin man will look bigger then a thin girl, im always attracted to slim girls, maybe cuz am slim, suppsoe thats natural, slim tall handsoem men will always prefer slim tall pretty girls, this is stat i read recently 98% of guys prefer slim girls, suppose its natural, suppose the hansdoem open minded slim guys will always prefer slim girls, anyway got to go bye lol.
I just prefer slim tall girls, as long the girl doesnt outweigh me am happy?
hey whatever floats your boat dude. and what was the question? and how much do u weigh? (j/w) if you weigh like 120 lbs, then your being a little unfair
Reply:I suggest that she go to tallhub and there are many guys who love dating tall girls, large girls. Also you may go and have a look. Report It
Reply:I have always lived by the motto of no women who weigh more than i do, bench press more, or have signicantly more money than I. It would just be problems.
Reply:well even if you like slim girls try to pretend there is a really slim girl with her personality. what would oyu think of them?
Reply:You're the reason why I don't date!!!
Reply:"Can't be intimate with a personality"?
So you think it's their bodies you get intimate with?
Here in the US, it's rather hard to tell a cute 18 year old from a cute 16 year old, but the difference is several years in prison. Most men actually find girls under the age of 18 to be more attractive than girls over the age of 18, but most men are not child molesters.
Ask yourself, could you love this woman who is not quite your ideal of beauty.
Now, ask yourself, do you really have the pull to get the girl who is physically perfect in your mind?
OK, so maybe you do, but will you be able to get that any time soon?
Until then, what are you going to do?
Reply:keep your thoughts to yourself why in the world would you think people want to hear about this?
Reply:Whats the question?
And everybody is different. If you dont find her attractive because she is bigger than you then thats pretty scummy of you. If you judge people on their looks then you arent going to be very happy. And not all guys like girls who are thinner than him or even girls who are 'thin'
The only reason why men like thin girls now is because its not fashionable to be thin. Hundred of years ago it was fashionable to be huge and guys would go nuts for them. Opera singers we known to be great beautys. Both these ideas of thinking is unhealthy I believe. A person who is healthy is beautiful.
And by the way, a personality can change the way you see somebody. I had a friend who I thought of as being unattractive but he was 'nice' then I got to know him much better and it seemed that I couldnt look at him without wanting to throw myself at him. I stopped looking at him and started looking inside him and thats what made me want him.
Having said all that, you shouldnt date somebody only because 1) they want to date you. 2) to prove you have some feelings inside you. 3) feel sorry for them.
I just prefer slim tall girls, as long the girl doesnt outweigh me am happy?
hey whatever floats your boat dude. and what was the question? and how much do u weigh? (j/w) if you weigh like 120 lbs, then your being a little unfair
Reply:I suggest that she go to tallhub and there are many guys who love dating tall girls, large girls. Also you may go and have a look. Report It
Reply:I have always lived by the motto of no women who weigh more than i do, bench press more, or have signicantly more money than I. It would just be problems.
Reply:well even if you like slim girls try to pretend there is a really slim girl with her personality. what would oyu think of them?
Reply:You're the reason why I don't date!!!
Reply:"Can't be intimate with a personality"?
So you think it's their bodies you get intimate with?
Here in the US, it's rather hard to tell a cute 18 year old from a cute 16 year old, but the difference is several years in prison. Most men actually find girls under the age of 18 to be more attractive than girls over the age of 18, but most men are not child molesters.
Ask yourself, could you love this woman who is not quite your ideal of beauty.
Now, ask yourself, do you really have the pull to get the girl who is physically perfect in your mind?
OK, so maybe you do, but will you be able to get that any time soon?
Until then, what are you going to do?
Reply:keep your thoughts to yourself why in the world would you think people want to hear about this?
Reply:Whats the question?
And everybody is different. If you dont find her attractive because she is bigger than you then thats pretty scummy of you. If you judge people on their looks then you arent going to be very happy. And not all guys like girls who are thinner than him or even girls who are 'thin'
The only reason why men like thin girls now is because its not fashionable to be thin. Hundred of years ago it was fashionable to be huge and guys would go nuts for them. Opera singers we known to be great beautys. Both these ideas of thinking is unhealthy I believe. A person who is healthy is beautiful.
And by the way, a personality can change the way you see somebody. I had a friend who I thought of as being unattractive but he was 'nice' then I got to know him much better and it seemed that I couldnt look at him without wanting to throw myself at him. I stopped looking at him and started looking inside him and thats what made me want him.
Having said all that, you shouldnt date somebody only because 1) they want to date you. 2) to prove you have some feelings inside you. 3) feel sorry for them.
Girls nevr smile or check me out?
i dont know how ugly a guy can be but when ever i see an attracitive girl i look her in the eye and she turns away IMMEDIATTLEY every time no exeptions.. Some girls do stare at me when i walk towrds them for like 4 secs and then turn away i turn around and she is not cheking me out..
Do girls ever smile at guys when they dont smile at them..Becuase i hear about girls randomly smiling at guys they think look cute but it never happens to me..Also people in my school say that i am ugly
When i go dffrent places guys even stare at me sometimes and its the same stares girls give me so im wondering what this means.When i walk past ouut of the corner of my eyer i see guys starin at e sometimes is this bad?
Once i tried to apprach a girl and she and her freind just laughed hysterically..I mean girls do stare at me but like the 4 sec glacne when im walking twd them and then they turn away --So wat does it mean when i girl glances for 4 secs and turns away is this bad??
Girls nevr smile or check me out?
Hey nobody is ugly here !!!
firstly imagine the look you probably have on your face, you think you are ugly and that girls are laughing at you so you will adopt a look of sheer horror whan you see a girl and they are picking up on it.
relax dude feel confident in yourself and you will come across that way instead of a frightened rabbit !!
i feel sure you will be picking up girls in no time !!!
good luck and remember YOU ARE NOT UGLY1111
Reply:what you have been discribing here is completely natural human behavior. If someone does not know you personally, they aren't going to smile at you. Girls also tend to be uncomfortable with eye contact with people they aren't very close to. It sounds like you need confidence. Thats all you need to get a girl, believe in yourself.
Reply:your young sweetie sadly girls only care about looks at this point inthere life and HOPEFULLY they grow out of it! some dont!
But I can't help to ask are you deformed in any way? if so are you ashamed of it? if so it may show and that alone is the uglyest trait anyone can have! How can someone love you when you don't love yourself!
I'm sorry girls laugh at you, you may not meet the typical GQ guy standards but everyone EVERYONE is attrative in one way shape or form! Just don't give up and ignore the rude ones! not worth your time!
Hold your head up high and smile and have that thought that your the best in the back of your head... because you are!!!
do it!
Good luck
Reply:ha
Reply:YOU ARE NOT UGLY!!! You just haven't found the right girl for you, she will see you as the gorgeous handsome youngman you are. Just be yourself, smile, be kind and friendly towards everyone!!!
The girls that are like that are not for you. Someone is...just be who you are an Smile!
Reply:You may want to try finding someone with the same interests as you.
Reply:to get a smile, you have to give a smile, to have a friend you have to be a friend....focus more on yourself and what you are doing rather than trying to focus on others and why they do what they do.
Reply:some girls get embarassed to be caught checking a guy out, it all depends on the girls your observing, perhaps you've missed some
Reply:Well some girls are mean to guys just for the hell of it and others might be shy or nervous when you approach them. Don't give it any thought. I can tell you are young so don't worry about it. Why don't u try making some females friends then if u like them as more you can make a move. Its always helpful if you know the girl a little bit before you make a move.
Reply:I'm sure you're beautiful inside and out. I wish you could find that in yourself and stop focusing so much on what YOU think OTHERS think.
The truth of the matter is that you are who you are. To accept and love yourself for those qualities that make you YOU, is the first step in developing good reception from others. When you're confident and like who you are, it shows on the outside. Others notice it. People are attracted to that.
Please spend some time self reflecting. Focus on the good things about you. If you feel like you need to work on feeling good, why don't you volunteer somewhere and help animals or the elderly? You'll see how much you are needed and how it feels to have others need you and depend on you. It's so good for your own self-image. I promise you what when you're ready to be content with yourself, it will show.
Best of luck to you, and don't forget to flash a beautiful smile every day... that's important!
Reply:post a picture, then we should be able to tell you if your looks are the problem...
Do girls ever smile at guys when they dont smile at them..Becuase i hear about girls randomly smiling at guys they think look cute but it never happens to me..Also people in my school say that i am ugly
When i go dffrent places guys even stare at me sometimes and its the same stares girls give me so im wondering what this means.When i walk past ouut of the corner of my eyer i see guys starin at e sometimes is this bad?
Once i tried to apprach a girl and she and her freind just laughed hysterically..I mean girls do stare at me but like the 4 sec glacne when im walking twd them and then they turn away --So wat does it mean when i girl glances for 4 secs and turns away is this bad??
Girls nevr smile or check me out?
Hey nobody is ugly here !!!
firstly imagine the look you probably have on your face, you think you are ugly and that girls are laughing at you so you will adopt a look of sheer horror whan you see a girl and they are picking up on it.
relax dude feel confident in yourself and you will come across that way instead of a frightened rabbit !!
i feel sure you will be picking up girls in no time !!!
good luck and remember YOU ARE NOT UGLY1111
Reply:what you have been discribing here is completely natural human behavior. If someone does not know you personally, they aren't going to smile at you. Girls also tend to be uncomfortable with eye contact with people they aren't very close to. It sounds like you need confidence. Thats all you need to get a girl, believe in yourself.
Reply:your young sweetie sadly girls only care about looks at this point inthere life and HOPEFULLY they grow out of it! some dont!
But I can't help to ask are you deformed in any way? if so are you ashamed of it? if so it may show and that alone is the uglyest trait anyone can have! How can someone love you when you don't love yourself!
I'm sorry girls laugh at you, you may not meet the typical GQ guy standards but everyone EVERYONE is attrative in one way shape or form! Just don't give up and ignore the rude ones! not worth your time!
Hold your head up high and smile and have that thought that your the best in the back of your head... because you are!!!
do it!
Good luck
Reply:ha
Reply:YOU ARE NOT UGLY!!! You just haven't found the right girl for you, she will see you as the gorgeous handsome youngman you are. Just be yourself, smile, be kind and friendly towards everyone!!!
The girls that are like that are not for you. Someone is...just be who you are an Smile!
Reply:You may want to try finding someone with the same interests as you.
Reply:to get a smile, you have to give a smile, to have a friend you have to be a friend....focus more on yourself and what you are doing rather than trying to focus on others and why they do what they do.
Reply:some girls get embarassed to be caught checking a guy out, it all depends on the girls your observing, perhaps you've missed some
Reply:Well some girls are mean to guys just for the hell of it and others might be shy or nervous when you approach them. Don't give it any thought. I can tell you are young so don't worry about it. Why don't u try making some females friends then if u like them as more you can make a move. Its always helpful if you know the girl a little bit before you make a move.
Reply:I'm sure you're beautiful inside and out. I wish you could find that in yourself and stop focusing so much on what YOU think OTHERS think.
The truth of the matter is that you are who you are. To accept and love yourself for those qualities that make you YOU, is the first step in developing good reception from others. When you're confident and like who you are, it shows on the outside. Others notice it. People are attracted to that.
Please spend some time self reflecting. Focus on the good things about you. If you feel like you need to work on feeling good, why don't you volunteer somewhere and help animals or the elderly? You'll see how much you are needed and how it feels to have others need you and depend on you. It's so good for your own self-image. I promise you what when you're ready to be content with yourself, it will show.
Best of luck to you, and don't forget to flash a beautiful smile every day... that's important!
Reply:post a picture, then we should be able to tell you if your looks are the problem...
Girls, girl A or girl B?
girls, girl A or girl B?
Boy takes out girl A to picnic and they spend 6 hours together. Boy takes girl B to shopping and then they go eat a bite and then they watch a movie together. They also spend 6 hours. Which girl is more ready to be seduced?
Girls, girl A or girl B?
Girl B. Allow him to spend money on her and also move from one activity to the other means the girl loves being with him; which definately means she encourages a relationship.
Reply:girl A becuase she is willing to spend time with you talking, laughing and hanging out. but girl B just watches a movie with you 4 about 2 hrs and there is really nothing romantic about dat Report It
Reply:does it really matter??
Reply:both....:))
Reply:Girl B. The dinner could have been in a romantic setting, you could have made direct eye contact, and even played footies. At the movies, you proably cuddled and rubbed her in certain places.
Reply:Girl A is more ready (but not necessarily ready enough). Time was wasted with Girl B while watching a movie because there was no talking or interaction going on.
Reply:b i tihnk that whould be the good one because a girl lovers to shop you shold now that man and by the whay you whill be shoping whith her for probly hours
Reply:Didn't you already ask this yesterday? Girl B will be more likely to be seduced.
Reply:Girl C, the drunk ones you meet in the bar. LOL
Reply:Both.
Reply:depends on the girl....
Boy takes out girl A to picnic and they spend 6 hours together. Boy takes girl B to shopping and then they go eat a bite and then they watch a movie together. They also spend 6 hours. Which girl is more ready to be seduced?
Girls, girl A or girl B?
Girl B. Allow him to spend money on her and also move from one activity to the other means the girl loves being with him; which definately means she encourages a relationship.
Reply:girl A becuase she is willing to spend time with you talking, laughing and hanging out. but girl B just watches a movie with you 4 about 2 hrs and there is really nothing romantic about dat Report It
Reply:does it really matter??
Reply:both....:))
Reply:Girl B. The dinner could have been in a romantic setting, you could have made direct eye contact, and even played footies. At the movies, you proably cuddled and rubbed her in certain places.
Reply:Girl A is more ready (but not necessarily ready enough). Time was wasted with Girl B while watching a movie because there was no talking or interaction going on.
Reply:b i tihnk that whould be the good one because a girl lovers to shop you shold now that man and by the whay you whill be shoping whith her for probly hours
Reply:Didn't you already ask this yesterday? Girl B will be more likely to be seduced.
Reply:Girl C, the drunk ones you meet in the bar. LOL
Reply:Both.
Reply:depends on the girl....
Girls nevr smile or check me out?
i dont know how ugly a guy can be but when ever i see an attracitive girl i look her in the eye and she turns away IMMEDIATTLEY every time no exeptions.. Some girls do stare at me when i walk towrds them for like 4 secs and then turn away i turn around and she is not cheking me out..
Do girls ever smile at guys when they dont smile at them..Becuase i hear about girls randomly smiling at guys they think look cute but it never happens to me..Also people in my school say that i am ugly
When i go dffrent places guys even stare at me sometimes and its the same stares girls give me so im wondering what this means.When i walk past ouut of the corner of my eyer i see guys starin at e sometimes is this bad?
Once i tried to apprach a girl and she and her freind just laughed hysterically..I mean girls do stare at me but like the 4 sec glacne when im walking twd them and then they turn away --So wat does it mean when i girl glances for 4 secs and turns away is this bad??
Girls nevr smile or check me out?
It seems to me like you're surrounded by some pretty shallow girls. (Yes, it's bad when they ignore you and laugh at you. But in my opinion, it doesn't say anything about about you. It says a lot of bad things about them.) Perhaps this has affected how you view yourself. Actually, there's no "perhaps" about it. If people keep telling you you're ugly, then sooner or later, you will believe it and act accordingly.
Don't listen to them. I know it's hard, especially when you're in school. (I assume you're a teen? Really, those are the hardest years people ever have to go through as far as socializing is concerned.) There are some girls who only want a classically "handsome" guy. They'd be better off dating a mannequin. But there are other girls out there who want a guy who is nice, funny, smart and sure of himself. They're very shy and you'll have to go through a lot of those shallow kinds, but they're out there.
Reply:my feet currently smell like hot swiss cheese..
Reply:yes thats very bad. they obviously think that you are ugly especially if they laugh
Reply:You don't say how old you are, but I'm guessing young. You need to be comfortable in your skin, however attractive that is. When you know yourself, you can play up your attractive points.
At 18, I knew a guy who had a horribly pock marked face from teen acne. He was 25 or so. This guy knew he'd never be handsome, so he played up his crazy sense of humor and niceness. I mean he was genuinely a nice person, always making those around him comfortable. I never heard him say anything derogatory about another person in the 10 years we associated. He brought his wife to the company Xmas party, and caused quite a stir. She was beautiful.
I heard the guys in a corner asking how could HE get her. His manager told them, "Because he's a decent human being."
Reply:she might think you are stalking her, try being polite and say
something nice to her
do not stare at a girl at all no
Reply:i dont know what you look like, or how old you are. but one thing that is very likely, is that this is really getting to you, and it shows in how you carry yourself. regardless of what you're born with, there are things any guy can do, that make a difference:
- dress nicely, cleanly, and neatly. even k-mart has decent,conservativ, dignifiede clothes that are inexpensive
- get and keep a decent haircut
- walk tall. dont be cocky, or pretentious, but walk with your back straight and your head up. Walk that way no matter how you feel. Find a comfortable expression in the mirror - it doesnt have to be a smile, but it cant be a depressed look either - find it and wear it.
- whether you realize it or not, you're having a dialog with these girls. you're asking 'am i good enough for you? then you prepare to base your self worth on her reaction'. well, any guy who does that already lost, no matter what he looks like. girls are biologically wired to be attracted to confidence, and repelled by weakness. solution? just dont do it. no guy can help looking at a pretty girl, so just glance, keep that dignified expression on your face, perhaps a slight smile, then look back away! dont stare!
- get some exercise. work out at the gym at school. if that's not for you, then at least get some long walks in. you'll feel better, and when you feel better, you look better.
the whole thing is, you must focus on being your best - it's all you can do. when you focus on being your best, rather than looking to others for approval, you look more confident by definition. and when you feel more confident, you look more attractive.
once you've brought yourself up a notch, or several, why not look for the best in some of the other girls? some girls who end up as beautiful women, were not always the hottest or most popular girls in high school
good luck, and get going!
Reply:dont let otha ppl opinions let u define ur elf maybe u are just so hot n sexy they jus dont want to let u kno because they will get embarassed
cleaning dog teeth
Do girls ever smile at guys when they dont smile at them..Becuase i hear about girls randomly smiling at guys they think look cute but it never happens to me..Also people in my school say that i am ugly
When i go dffrent places guys even stare at me sometimes and its the same stares girls give me so im wondering what this means.When i walk past ouut of the corner of my eyer i see guys starin at e sometimes is this bad?
Once i tried to apprach a girl and she and her freind just laughed hysterically..I mean girls do stare at me but like the 4 sec glacne when im walking twd them and then they turn away --So wat does it mean when i girl glances for 4 secs and turns away is this bad??
Girls nevr smile or check me out?
It seems to me like you're surrounded by some pretty shallow girls. (Yes, it's bad when they ignore you and laugh at you. But in my opinion, it doesn't say anything about about you. It says a lot of bad things about them.) Perhaps this has affected how you view yourself. Actually, there's no "perhaps" about it. If people keep telling you you're ugly, then sooner or later, you will believe it and act accordingly.
Don't listen to them. I know it's hard, especially when you're in school. (I assume you're a teen? Really, those are the hardest years people ever have to go through as far as socializing is concerned.) There are some girls who only want a classically "handsome" guy. They'd be better off dating a mannequin. But there are other girls out there who want a guy who is nice, funny, smart and sure of himself. They're very shy and you'll have to go through a lot of those shallow kinds, but they're out there.
Reply:my feet currently smell like hot swiss cheese..
Reply:yes thats very bad. they obviously think that you are ugly especially if they laugh
Reply:You don't say how old you are, but I'm guessing young. You need to be comfortable in your skin, however attractive that is. When you know yourself, you can play up your attractive points.
At 18, I knew a guy who had a horribly pock marked face from teen acne. He was 25 or so. This guy knew he'd never be handsome, so he played up his crazy sense of humor and niceness. I mean he was genuinely a nice person, always making those around him comfortable. I never heard him say anything derogatory about another person in the 10 years we associated. He brought his wife to the company Xmas party, and caused quite a stir. She was beautiful.
I heard the guys in a corner asking how could HE get her. His manager told them, "Because he's a decent human being."
Reply:she might think you are stalking her, try being polite and say
something nice to her
do not stare at a girl at all no
Reply:i dont know what you look like, or how old you are. but one thing that is very likely, is that this is really getting to you, and it shows in how you carry yourself. regardless of what you're born with, there are things any guy can do, that make a difference:
- dress nicely, cleanly, and neatly. even k-mart has decent,conservativ, dignifiede clothes that are inexpensive
- get and keep a decent haircut
- walk tall. dont be cocky, or pretentious, but walk with your back straight and your head up. Walk that way no matter how you feel. Find a comfortable expression in the mirror - it doesnt have to be a smile, but it cant be a depressed look either - find it and wear it.
- whether you realize it or not, you're having a dialog with these girls. you're asking 'am i good enough for you? then you prepare to base your self worth on her reaction'. well, any guy who does that already lost, no matter what he looks like. girls are biologically wired to be attracted to confidence, and repelled by weakness. solution? just dont do it. no guy can help looking at a pretty girl, so just glance, keep that dignified expression on your face, perhaps a slight smile, then look back away! dont stare!
- get some exercise. work out at the gym at school. if that's not for you, then at least get some long walks in. you'll feel better, and when you feel better, you look better.
the whole thing is, you must focus on being your best - it's all you can do. when you focus on being your best, rather than looking to others for approval, you look more confident by definition. and when you feel more confident, you look more attractive.
once you've brought yourself up a notch, or several, why not look for the best in some of the other girls? some girls who end up as beautiful women, were not always the hottest or most popular girls in high school
good luck, and get going!
Reply:dont let otha ppl opinions let u define ur elf maybe u are just so hot n sexy they jus dont want to let u kno because they will get embarassed
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Girls Give me some help?
Okay im a high school sophomore and i really think its time to worry less about cars and more about girls but i have some road blocks in my way.
Im one of those guys that can always talk to a girl normally and has about a million friends that are girls but never a girlfriend
My major problem is my weight which has killed me my whole life. Im on the football team so it helps but im still pretty heavy.
I always treat girls with respect and have them first of my priorities. I see how other guys treat their girls but yet they always have one when i don't.
when it comes to talking to a girl about a relationship i always break down and go dead. I would like some help on how to talk to girls
Also i shoot for the stars and the girls im usually interested in are "out of my league".
These are my problems can someone please help me out? Sorry for the vagueness if you have a question just email thank you all for your help
Girls Give me some help?
You haven't got a problem at all. And I believe that everybody should think that nobody is out of their league. If you like something - go for it. The only thing that is holding you back is your confidence. You've got nothing to lose.
Why not make a move? You cant do it anymore when you're 80. Ever thought of that?
As for the weight issue ... you'd probably have a better chance if you lost it, seeing as though it is what you are insecure about; and girls like guys who are sure of themselves, independent and confident.
Believeing in yourself is the one way you can achieve your dreams and goals. Don't let anybody bring you down - and don't listen to the negative comments. That is the one thing that will get you down and keep you down.
The rest will come naturally. Hope I've helped a bit, and good luck, mate. Some girl will be lucky to have you as a boyfriend.
Reply:ok, to start off, your weight has nothing to do with it but if it would give u more confidence then yes lose some weight...but mainly what u have to do, is play hard to get...walk past a girl and comment on like her shoes or like her backpack, and then just keep walking, girls whether we like to admit it or not like to chase after boys, so when u talk to a girl act like ur not interested in her and and like u have something else to do, don't ditch her, but just say, "hey well i i have to go, maybe we can finish the conversation some other time", and start to walk away, sometimes a girl will chase u down and give u a #, the more u pretend to not like a girl the more the girl will be interested in you, flirt but don't be desperate, flirt but at the same time act like u got others, chicks like competition.but once u got the girl then u can be sweet and treat her nicely...
Reply:well, by the looks of it, your a sensitive guy. being a girl myself, i've known a few guys that were like my bff and i ended up really crushing on them. talk to them about stuff you know and like, and things she does too. tell the girls what you like and look for in a girl, and you'll get better at it...
Reply:You sound great. You said you are interested in girls, "out of your league". Turn the tables, you said you are overweight but seem like a nice guy...you need to think of the "average" and nice girls that are out there going after a jerk thinking the same as you. My advice would be to look at other girls as someone you want on your league. Remember, don't let the package fool ya. This does not mean settling...but rather quality people. That is what makes relationships last.
As far as approaching girls...don't focus on "relationship talk" if you don't have one...just start out as friends..and keep the conversations as if there is nothing at all to worry about. If those questions crop up, just mention the positive qualities you like in a person..don't stress.
Reply:hmm, you need to find self confidence, you need to find a girl who is nice and not a girl is out of your league. no one is out of ANYones league.
Reply:u have to lose weight.thats it...then girls will come to you by thier own!trust me!
Im one of those guys that can always talk to a girl normally and has about a million friends that are girls but never a girlfriend
My major problem is my weight which has killed me my whole life. Im on the football team so it helps but im still pretty heavy.
I always treat girls with respect and have them first of my priorities. I see how other guys treat their girls but yet they always have one when i don't.
when it comes to talking to a girl about a relationship i always break down and go dead. I would like some help on how to talk to girls
Also i shoot for the stars and the girls im usually interested in are "out of my league".
These are my problems can someone please help me out? Sorry for the vagueness if you have a question just email thank you all for your help
Girls Give me some help?
You haven't got a problem at all. And I believe that everybody should think that nobody is out of their league. If you like something - go for it. The only thing that is holding you back is your confidence. You've got nothing to lose.
Why not make a move? You cant do it anymore when you're 80. Ever thought of that?
As for the weight issue ... you'd probably have a better chance if you lost it, seeing as though it is what you are insecure about; and girls like guys who are sure of themselves, independent and confident.
Believeing in yourself is the one way you can achieve your dreams and goals. Don't let anybody bring you down - and don't listen to the negative comments. That is the one thing that will get you down and keep you down.
The rest will come naturally. Hope I've helped a bit, and good luck, mate. Some girl will be lucky to have you as a boyfriend.
Reply:ok, to start off, your weight has nothing to do with it but if it would give u more confidence then yes lose some weight...but mainly what u have to do, is play hard to get...walk past a girl and comment on like her shoes or like her backpack, and then just keep walking, girls whether we like to admit it or not like to chase after boys, so when u talk to a girl act like ur not interested in her and and like u have something else to do, don't ditch her, but just say, "hey well i i have to go, maybe we can finish the conversation some other time", and start to walk away, sometimes a girl will chase u down and give u a #, the more u pretend to not like a girl the more the girl will be interested in you, flirt but don't be desperate, flirt but at the same time act like u got others, chicks like competition.but once u got the girl then u can be sweet and treat her nicely...
Reply:well, by the looks of it, your a sensitive guy. being a girl myself, i've known a few guys that were like my bff and i ended up really crushing on them. talk to them about stuff you know and like, and things she does too. tell the girls what you like and look for in a girl, and you'll get better at it...
Reply:You sound great. You said you are interested in girls, "out of your league". Turn the tables, you said you are overweight but seem like a nice guy...you need to think of the "average" and nice girls that are out there going after a jerk thinking the same as you. My advice would be to look at other girls as someone you want on your league. Remember, don't let the package fool ya. This does not mean settling...but rather quality people. That is what makes relationships last.
As far as approaching girls...don't focus on "relationship talk" if you don't have one...just start out as friends..and keep the conversations as if there is nothing at all to worry about. If those questions crop up, just mention the positive qualities you like in a person..don't stress.
Reply:hmm, you need to find self confidence, you need to find a girl who is nice and not a girl is out of your league. no one is out of ANYones league.
Reply:u have to lose weight.thats it...then girls will come to you by thier own!trust me!
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