Girls Give me some help?

Okay im a high school sophomore and i really think its time to worry less about cars and more about girls but i have some road blocks in my way.





Im one of those guys that can always talk to a girl normally and has about a million friends that are girls but never a girlfriend





My major problem is my weight which has killed me my whole life. Im on the football team so it helps but im still pretty heavy.





I always treat girls with respect and have them first of my priorities. I see how other guys treat their girls but yet they always have one when i don't.





when it comes to talking to a girl about a relationship i always break down and go dead. I would like some help on how to talk to girls





Also i shoot for the stars and the girls im usually interested in are "out of my league".





These are my problems can someone please help me out? Sorry for the vagueness if you have a question just email thank you all for your help

Girls Give me some help?
You haven't got a problem at all. And I believe that everybody should think that nobody is out of their league. If you like something - go for it. The only thing that is holding you back is your confidence. You've got nothing to lose.





Why not make a move? You cant do it anymore when you're 80. Ever thought of that?





As for the weight issue ... you'd probably have a better chance if you lost it, seeing as though it is what you are insecure about; and girls like guys who are sure of themselves, independent and confident.





Believeing in yourself is the one way you can achieve your dreams and goals. Don't let anybody bring you down - and don't listen to the negative comments. That is the one thing that will get you down and keep you down.





The rest will come naturally. Hope I've helped a bit, and good luck, mate. Some girl will be lucky to have you as a boyfriend.
Reply:ok, to start off, your weight has nothing to do with it but if it would give u more confidence then yes lose some weight...but mainly what u have to do, is play hard to get...walk past a girl and comment on like her shoes or like her backpack, and then just keep walking, girls whether we like to admit it or not like to chase after boys, so when u talk to a girl act like ur not interested in her and and like u have something else to do, don't ditch her, but just say, "hey well i i have to go, maybe we can finish the conversation some other time", and start to walk away, sometimes a girl will chase u down and give u a #, the more u pretend to not like a girl the more the girl will be interested in you, flirt but don't be desperate, flirt but at the same time act like u got others, chicks like competition.but once u got the girl then u can be sweet and treat her nicely...
Reply:well, by the looks of it, your a sensitive guy. being a girl myself, i've known a few guys that were like my bff and i ended up really crushing on them. talk to them about stuff you know and like, and things she does too. tell the girls what you like and look for in a girl, and you'll get better at it...
Reply:You sound great. You said you are interested in girls, "out of your league". Turn the tables, you said you are overweight but seem like a nice guy...you need to think of the "average" and nice girls that are out there going after a jerk thinking the same as you. My advice would be to look at other girls as someone you want on your league. Remember, don't let the package fool ya. This does not mean settling...but rather quality people. That is what makes relationships last.





As far as approaching girls...don't focus on "relationship talk" if you don't have one...just start out as friends..and keep the conversations as if there is nothing at all to worry about. If those questions crop up, just mention the positive qualities you like in a person..don't stress.
Reply:hmm, you need to find self confidence, you need to find a girl who is nice and not a girl is out of your league. no one is out of ANYones league.
Reply:u have to lose weight.thats it...then girls will come to you by thier own!trust me!