so i was talkin with this one girl.
and our conversation somehow went to other girls, and i seriously hate one of them, and she doesnt care about that girl.
i talked some $hit about about that girl, and the girl that i was talkin to started to smile but after a while, she told me that i was being mean.
so yea, you girls don't like guys talkin bad about other girls?
Girls dont like guys talkin $hit about other girls?
Lol yea right girls or more mean about other girls than any guy could be so dont let her fool you, you might have just took a bit far for her
Reply:Woah.. reading this question gave me an insta-headache.
everyone should just shut the f*ck up.
ok headache gone..
Have a nice day!
Reply:WTF?
Reply:depends. if u sit there and talk alot bout her and bore her, then it gets annoying. but if u just talk and let a girl know how u feel bout some other girl then its not wrong cause we all need to share things. and we girls talk bad bout u guys all the time, why cant u talk bout us? lol
Reply:to an extent but if you keep going on and on it gets old and totally turns me off
Monday, August 16, 2010
GIRLS OR LADIES only reply ! its serious ! i am a 19 yr old guy ,need advice?
In my family i have only sisters...no brothers....so my company was always with these girls....they considerd me as a girl.when i was a kid they dressed me as a girl ...and made me a member among them.we have a festival in here where guys dress up like girls to please the godess.
this made me even girlish..
They stopped dressing me like a girl when i started to grow up,but i could not stop it ...
so i did it myself in my room hiding...with door locked.
i do it even now....i feel pleased to do it.....
but when i am out of my room i behave like a real guy.
now i wear all that a girl do..in my room....like
panty,bra,napkin,skirt,slips,makeup,li... etc.
i purchase bra,panty etc from shop.
none knows about it.
i have decided to stop it when i marry.
is what i do ,wrong !!
can i continue this till i have a girl friend.....
i am straight.not gay.
girls plz i need your valuble advice ,because u know abt this well....
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malavika_klm@yahoo.co.in
GIRLS OR LADIES only reply ! its serious ! i am a 19 yr old guy ,need advice?
I understand why you have this behavior. I don't think that dressing in women's things is WRONG. Doing so isn't hurting anyone but yourself. What I hear in your question and comments is a desperate and confused young man. You are very uncomfortable and ashamed with your secret life. It's time to change it NOW! There's no gaurantee that you will change after you are married, just like a person who drinks doesn't stop drinking when he/she becomes married - no matter how hard they try to hide or deny it before.
You realize that the problem isn't inherent. You acquired this by how you were treated like a girl when you were young. I'm wondering if you still spend time with your sisters. If so, I suggest that you distance yourself from them until you become stronger. It sounds like you deeply have the desire to become masculine - as most males do. Start by involving yourself in male-oriented activities (sports, hunting, fishing, etc). Surround yourself with men. Talk with them often. Observe and learn from them. Putting these things in your life and changing your surroundings will eventually overcome the desire to dress as a woman.
Change your environment at home. Get rid of all your female things. Do it in a ceremonial way, such as burning them or throwing them out and rewarding yourself with something new. This is an important event in your life - not to be taken casually. You are looking towards your future and putting your past behind you. Remember that day as the one that changed your life in positive ways!
When you think that you want to dress again, focus on your future and the man you want to be, not the boy you were. Keep that picture in your mind. Also, keep in mind that someday you will be able to see your wife in pretty, feminine clothing - something to look forward to! She'll look alot better in them than you and you can help her choose them! (Just make sure SHE's wearing them, not you. That would cause big problems.)
Put it in your past and noone needs to know about it. Be very, very proud of yourself of how hard you've worked to overcome a problem that someone else gave you!
Good luck to you!
Reply:Please don't think you are abnormal. You are perfectly normal. Some straight men like to dress in women's clothing. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. I used to work in a hotel and every year we had the cross dresser's club called Sigma Mu. They were mostly straight and they even brought their wives with them. It was just something they liked to do. Just make sure if you are going to cross dress, you do a really good job of it. And find a girl who is willing to accept you for who you are. There's no need to change your personality for anyone. I am a 48 year old straight woman and i can tell you for sure, you're fine. Accept yourself and find the woman who will accept you just the way you are. I have an 18 year old son and i hope if he were in this situation, someone would reassure him. Also, please don't listen to other answers that assume ther is something wrong with this. There isn't a thing in the world wrong with it. Be who you are.
Reply:It won't be easy for you to stop right away,even when you get a girlfriend,so it's very important that you find ways to do it now,gradually on your own or with professional help because it will hurt you in the end,and possibly those you love. Because you know the root and source if where this habit started and came from,you are at a much higher level to find success in over-coming this issue.Try to stop a little each day,and feel more confident as a man as much as possible. Do more guy things,and even see if your sisters could allow for the guy things you might like to do and invite your male friends to go over and have all guy events that are fun that you love and enjoy!
Reply:I'm sorry to hear this.
So, I'm sorry to hear that you feel bad about this.
To be sincere I think you should just STOP it!
You should try to be more determined! If you decide to STOP it, you should stuck on this and should try to give an end to this.
When you feel like you want to dress up like a girl, try to get busy with smth else. call a friend and go out with him/her, go and have a walk etc until this kind of desire goes away. Anytime you feel this try to do smth else. It is better if you stop it now, because later on it may get worse!
Good luck!
I'm sure you CAN DO IT!
Reply:well its like this you are one of them boys that feel com. on girls clothes and you just need to find a girl that can understand your problem well its not a problem its just sum you like but you can email me at lilprincesmiz@yahoo.com
Reply:is this a cultural thing, or are you just confused, chill, out, calm down, and wear the pants in your marriage
Reply:Dude, am a guy and let me tell you something BURN your girl clothes, and join a sport to take use your free time up, that will keep you from thinking about it, and try and get a girl man another thing to keep your mind busy.
Reply:WOW...I don't even know what to say about this one...honestly, if I found out my man liked to do that, I think I would have to leave him! And, who is to say that once you get married, you will be able to stop doing it!!! I think you need to talk to a boy/man that has done this kind of thing before or still does do it, to get better advice!!!
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this made me even girlish..
They stopped dressing me like a girl when i started to grow up,but i could not stop it ...
so i did it myself in my room hiding...with door locked.
i do it even now....i feel pleased to do it.....
but when i am out of my room i behave like a real guy.
now i wear all that a girl do..in my room....like
panty,bra,napkin,skirt,slips,makeup,li... etc.
i purchase bra,panty etc from shop.
none knows about it.
i have decided to stop it when i marry.
is what i do ,wrong !!
can i continue this till i have a girl friend.....
i am straight.not gay.
girls plz i need your valuble advice ,because u know abt this well....
ad 2 yahoo msngr
malavika_klm@yahoo.co.in
GIRLS OR LADIES only reply ! its serious ! i am a 19 yr old guy ,need advice?
I understand why you have this behavior. I don't think that dressing in women's things is WRONG. Doing so isn't hurting anyone but yourself. What I hear in your question and comments is a desperate and confused young man. You are very uncomfortable and ashamed with your secret life. It's time to change it NOW! There's no gaurantee that you will change after you are married, just like a person who drinks doesn't stop drinking when he/she becomes married - no matter how hard they try to hide or deny it before.
You realize that the problem isn't inherent. You acquired this by how you were treated like a girl when you were young. I'm wondering if you still spend time with your sisters. If so, I suggest that you distance yourself from them until you become stronger. It sounds like you deeply have the desire to become masculine - as most males do. Start by involving yourself in male-oriented activities (sports, hunting, fishing, etc). Surround yourself with men. Talk with them often. Observe and learn from them. Putting these things in your life and changing your surroundings will eventually overcome the desire to dress as a woman.
Change your environment at home. Get rid of all your female things. Do it in a ceremonial way, such as burning them or throwing them out and rewarding yourself with something new. This is an important event in your life - not to be taken casually. You are looking towards your future and putting your past behind you. Remember that day as the one that changed your life in positive ways!
When you think that you want to dress again, focus on your future and the man you want to be, not the boy you were. Keep that picture in your mind. Also, keep in mind that someday you will be able to see your wife in pretty, feminine clothing - something to look forward to! She'll look alot better in them than you and you can help her choose them! (Just make sure SHE's wearing them, not you. That would cause big problems.)
Put it in your past and noone needs to know about it. Be very, very proud of yourself of how hard you've worked to overcome a problem that someone else gave you!
Good luck to you!
Reply:Please don't think you are abnormal. You are perfectly normal. Some straight men like to dress in women's clothing. It doesn't mean there is anything wrong with you. I used to work in a hotel and every year we had the cross dresser's club called Sigma Mu. They were mostly straight and they even brought their wives with them. It was just something they liked to do. Just make sure if you are going to cross dress, you do a really good job of it. And find a girl who is willing to accept you for who you are. There's no need to change your personality for anyone. I am a 48 year old straight woman and i can tell you for sure, you're fine. Accept yourself and find the woman who will accept you just the way you are. I have an 18 year old son and i hope if he were in this situation, someone would reassure him. Also, please don't listen to other answers that assume ther is something wrong with this. There isn't a thing in the world wrong with it. Be who you are.
Reply:It won't be easy for you to stop right away,even when you get a girlfriend,so it's very important that you find ways to do it now,gradually on your own or with professional help because it will hurt you in the end,and possibly those you love. Because you know the root and source if where this habit started and came from,you are at a much higher level to find success in over-coming this issue.Try to stop a little each day,and feel more confident as a man as much as possible. Do more guy things,and even see if your sisters could allow for the guy things you might like to do and invite your male friends to go over and have all guy events that are fun that you love and enjoy!
Reply:I'm sorry to hear this.
So, I'm sorry to hear that you feel bad about this.
To be sincere I think you should just STOP it!
You should try to be more determined! If you decide to STOP it, you should stuck on this and should try to give an end to this.
When you feel like you want to dress up like a girl, try to get busy with smth else. call a friend and go out with him/her, go and have a walk etc until this kind of desire goes away. Anytime you feel this try to do smth else. It is better if you stop it now, because later on it may get worse!
Good luck!
I'm sure you CAN DO IT!
Reply:well its like this you are one of them boys that feel com. on girls clothes and you just need to find a girl that can understand your problem well its not a problem its just sum you like but you can email me at lilprincesmiz@yahoo.com
Reply:is this a cultural thing, or are you just confused, chill, out, calm down, and wear the pants in your marriage
Reply:Dude, am a guy and let me tell you something BURN your girl clothes, and join a sport to take use your free time up, that will keep you from thinking about it, and try and get a girl man another thing to keep your mind busy.
Reply:WOW...I don't even know what to say about this one...honestly, if I found out my man liked to do that, I think I would have to leave him! And, who is to say that once you get married, you will be able to stop doing it!!! I think you need to talk to a boy/man that has done this kind of thing before or still does do it, to get better advice!!!
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Girls like funny guys?
Well I'm not really a funny guy around girls but I'm funny to my family, relatives, and friends... Is it because I hesitate to be funny in front of girls because I don't wanna look stupid? I mean I see guys who tease girls by calling them idiot, retard, and etc and the girls aren't offended but laugh from it. I mean insults like retard isn't that funny. =\ I always fear to offend girls by making those mean jokes thats why I don't do it. So how to make girls laugh? I really gotta work on it. I mean I can make my girl cousins laugh like non stop but I can't mkae other girls laugh. =\ Please help. Thanks.
Girls like funny guys?
As like others answer your question, Just be your self boy! you know why you can make your girl cousins laugh is because you are comfortable being with them non stop talking about anything that simply make them laugh. Be comfortable and don't think about what might they say about your jokes cause it's your joke. It's not their joke, it's yours. I sometimes hard to make my friends laugh but we all have choices to choose right? Either you make funny jokes or you, yourself laugh of the joke. Tell them what you feel. I'm sure they understand it right? If they don't understand, I don't know what are they.
Reply:i totally agree with aisthetos, being yourself is the best option. and for the most part i havent met a whole lot of girls that really appreciate being the butt of a mean joke, gentle teasing maybe, but i wouldnt lead with that. get to know them a little first and youll start to get a feel for how far you can push...but be very careful, these games can be dangerous.
Reply:Three simple words for you. Just be yourself.
Reply:just be ur self!!! my guy friend makes me laugh all the time by making stupid gross jokes but thats just becuz i laugh really easely.
Girls like funny guys?
As like others answer your question, Just be your self boy! you know why you can make your girl cousins laugh is because you are comfortable being with them non stop talking about anything that simply make them laugh. Be comfortable and don't think about what might they say about your jokes cause it's your joke. It's not their joke, it's yours. I sometimes hard to make my friends laugh but we all have choices to choose right? Either you make funny jokes or you, yourself laugh of the joke. Tell them what you feel. I'm sure they understand it right? If they don't understand, I don't know what are they.
Reply:i totally agree with aisthetos, being yourself is the best option. and for the most part i havent met a whole lot of girls that really appreciate being the butt of a mean joke, gentle teasing maybe, but i wouldnt lead with that. get to know them a little first and youll start to get a feel for how far you can push...but be very careful, these games can be dangerous.
Reply:Three simple words for you. Just be yourself.
Reply:just be ur self!!! my guy friend makes me laugh all the time by making stupid gross jokes but thats just becuz i laugh really easely.
Girls, is this a turn off?
I was talking to a guy friend of mine in campus. And there were alot of girls around us, not necessarily listening to us, just around us doing their own things.
We were talking about girls and he asked me if I saw this one girl recently, and I knew about 6 girls with that same name, so I said, "Oh, you mean that fat one?". And all the sudden, all girls around us stared at me like 'What the f*** did you just say?', you know.
But that girl IS fat. She's around 250lbs. And it was none of those girls' bussiness.
So girls, was that a turn off?
Girls, is this a turn off?
I think you should of said overweight rather calling her fat.
or just make up nicknames for every girl and guy in the school,so no-one could know who you are talking about,thats what me and my gfs did..we had over 100 nicknames to every person in school..lol
Sicko
Tweety
doppy
smeek
J.lo
C.K
thats the only nicknames I rememeber from back then..lol
Reply:It's a huge turnoff that you could talk about someone liek that. It's rude to call someone fat. You could've said somethign else like " with the black hair" or " the one with glasses" or something less demeaning than that.
Reply:Whatever. some girls are just lame. 250 lbs is extremely overweight. by medical health standards, she is probably morbidly obese. The other girl shouldn't have been eavesdropping anyways. Yes, it isn't exactly a nice thing to say, but you were being truthful. even if the hirl who over heard knew who u were talking about and it was like her best friend or something, she should maybe consider focusing her energy into helping her friend come down to a healthy weight vs yelling at boys who said she was fat. She was probably just pissed you weren't talking about her or something. some girls need attention like that from guys. hope that helps!
Reply:Kind of... yes? You could have put it a little nicer. But yeah, none of their business.
Reply:no! that's the truth anyway
Reply:Not really. Girls would say the same thing if a guy were fat. Tell those gals to mind their own business!
Reply:not at all but next time be a little more discreet! if you think someones fat theres nowt wrong with that! just dont let her or her mates hear it!
Reply:I think some girls are very offended by comments like that. You should remember that females are often quite sensitive about their bodies and so can be quite defensive.
Just be careful with your choice of words next time.
Reply:sort of its pretty mean to call a girl fat behind her back plus we girls are pretty self-conscious
Reply:dats kind of messed up especially when there are other girls around u maybe you should use the word"heavy or big" those are better than "FAT"
Reply:It is a turnoff because that wasnt your only choice of words. You could have said "Which one?" or "The blonde one?"...You had lots of choices, and you just picked the wrong one. That is why it is a turnoff.
Reply:You should've continued like "yea, that monstrous slob!"
Reply:Not to me. I am open and honest and I expect everyone around me to be the same way. We (our friends) all do the same.
Reply:they probably had the same name so yeah u pissed em off cuz they thought u were talking bout them
Reply:What if it was the other way around? And one of them mentioned a name like yours and said that your p-nis was so small that she needed tweezers just to see it. All I'm saying is that one they shouldn't have ear hustled on the conversation and two we ALL have feelings and flaws.
We were talking about girls and he asked me if I saw this one girl recently, and I knew about 6 girls with that same name, so I said, "Oh, you mean that fat one?". And all the sudden, all girls around us stared at me like 'What the f*** did you just say?', you know.
But that girl IS fat. She's around 250lbs. And it was none of those girls' bussiness.
So girls, was that a turn off?
Girls, is this a turn off?
I think you should of said overweight rather calling her fat.
or just make up nicknames for every girl and guy in the school,so no-one could know who you are talking about,thats what me and my gfs did..we had over 100 nicknames to every person in school..lol
Sicko
Tweety
doppy
smeek
J.lo
C.K
thats the only nicknames I rememeber from back then..lol
Reply:It's a huge turnoff that you could talk about someone liek that. It's rude to call someone fat. You could've said somethign else like " with the black hair" or " the one with glasses" or something less demeaning than that.
Reply:Whatever. some girls are just lame. 250 lbs is extremely overweight. by medical health standards, she is probably morbidly obese. The other girl shouldn't have been eavesdropping anyways. Yes, it isn't exactly a nice thing to say, but you were being truthful. even if the hirl who over heard knew who u were talking about and it was like her best friend or something, she should maybe consider focusing her energy into helping her friend come down to a healthy weight vs yelling at boys who said she was fat. She was probably just pissed you weren't talking about her or something. some girls need attention like that from guys. hope that helps!
Reply:Kind of... yes? You could have put it a little nicer. But yeah, none of their business.
Reply:no! that's the truth anyway
Reply:Not really. Girls would say the same thing if a guy were fat. Tell those gals to mind their own business!
Reply:not at all but next time be a little more discreet! if you think someones fat theres nowt wrong with that! just dont let her or her mates hear it!
Reply:I think some girls are very offended by comments like that. You should remember that females are often quite sensitive about their bodies and so can be quite defensive.
Just be careful with your choice of words next time.
Reply:sort of its pretty mean to call a girl fat behind her back plus we girls are pretty self-conscious
Reply:dats kind of messed up especially when there are other girls around u maybe you should use the word"heavy or big" those are better than "FAT"
Reply:It is a turnoff because that wasnt your only choice of words. You could have said "Which one?" or "The blonde one?"...You had lots of choices, and you just picked the wrong one. That is why it is a turnoff.
Reply:You should've continued like "yea, that monstrous slob!"
Reply:Not to me. I am open and honest and I expect everyone around me to be the same way. We (our friends) all do the same.
Reply:they probably had the same name so yeah u pissed em off cuz they thought u were talking bout them
Reply:What if it was the other way around? And one of them mentioned a name like yours and said that your p-nis was so small that she needed tweezers just to see it. All I'm saying is that one they shouldn't have ear hustled on the conversation and two we ALL have feelings and flaws.
(girls) what do you think about asian men?
i dated an italian girl and an german girl before. i never see my asian friends dating any white girls. am i just a rare exception? personally i find white girls mroe attractive than ohter girls so i am attracted to them. what do you girls think of asian guys? my guess is white girls do not like asians for bfs because they say asians have smaller you know wahts. is that why girls do not date asian guys? because not all asians are small in the pants. if you think all asians are like that you're ignorant and very narrowminded. so tell me waht you think.
(girls) what do you think about asian men?
most american girls have a negative stigma against asian men. you can blame that mainly on hollywood. girls outside of n. america don't have this negative stigma towards asian guys.
chrome, did u date those two white girls, in europe or usa?
Reply:i would love to date asian men filipino,japanese, chinese, korean,taiwanese,vietnamese all of them because of who they are in person,i dont see their race, i dont judge according to race, i dont love someone because they have a big penis or what,that is not the point.
Reply:"my guess is white girls do not like asians for bfs because they say asians have smaller you know wahts (Chrome)"
You already know what they think of Asian men. The girls you dated are rare exception. Most girls will probably say they don't care about race, but trust me. That's not true. You know, when you see a person, the first thing you see is the skin color, how can you possiblly ignore that?? As long as you have eyes, you will care about race whether you want to or not. American girls are ignorant and very narrowminded and I know you know it. You don't need to hear comments from those ignorant girls. All you need to do is to get a nice girl who is the least ignorant and narrowminded and just be happy with her.
Reply:I think most asian guy have much better morals and manners.i like that we have the same cuture and if I ever wanted to go back to Asia, it would'nt be wierd bringing back another asian opposed to a white guy.I also think asian guys tend to be more respectable,hard-workin and inteligent. Over all I love Asian guys,but thats just cuz I'm an asian girl
Reply:you do know the other people that answer this question are around 10 years old or are living with their parents and they're 30.
Reply:ew i`m asian and i would NEVER date an asian guy...my story is hard to explain and its very long and i dont even want to explain it...
Reply:I think all girls are different and theyre attracted to different types of people. Like for me, im kind of only attracted to asian guys. but im not being racist or anything cause ive liked white guys in the past but now only asian guys attract me.
+ People just think that all guys have small.. yeahh but its actually not true. Everyone's is different. haha
Reply:I'm white and my b/f is Japanese. It's not so much sex but culture and attitude.
(girls) what do you think about asian men?
most american girls have a negative stigma against asian men. you can blame that mainly on hollywood. girls outside of n. america don't have this negative stigma towards asian guys.
chrome, did u date those two white girls, in europe or usa?
Reply:i would love to date asian men filipino,japanese, chinese, korean,taiwanese,vietnamese all of them because of who they are in person,i dont see their race, i dont judge according to race, i dont love someone because they have a big penis or what,that is not the point.
Reply:"my guess is white girls do not like asians for bfs because they say asians have smaller you know wahts (Chrome)"
You already know what they think of Asian men. The girls you dated are rare exception. Most girls will probably say they don't care about race, but trust me. That's not true. You know, when you see a person, the first thing you see is the skin color, how can you possiblly ignore that?? As long as you have eyes, you will care about race whether you want to or not. American girls are ignorant and very narrowminded and I know you know it. You don't need to hear comments from those ignorant girls. All you need to do is to get a nice girl who is the least ignorant and narrowminded and just be happy with her.
Reply:I think most asian guy have much better morals and manners.i like that we have the same cuture and if I ever wanted to go back to Asia, it would'nt be wierd bringing back another asian opposed to a white guy.I also think asian guys tend to be more respectable,hard-workin and inteligent. Over all I love Asian guys,but thats just cuz I'm an asian girl
Reply:you do know the other people that answer this question are around 10 years old or are living with their parents and they're 30.
Reply:ew i`m asian and i would NEVER date an asian guy...my story is hard to explain and its very long and i dont even want to explain it...
Reply:I think all girls are different and theyre attracted to different types of people. Like for me, im kind of only attracted to asian guys. but im not being racist or anything cause ive liked white guys in the past but now only asian guys attract me.
+ People just think that all guys have small.. yeahh but its actually not true. Everyone's is different. haha
Reply:I'm white and my b/f is Japanese. It's not so much sex but culture and attitude.
Girls, why?
Why there seems to be double standards between guys and girls girls. A girl can freely reject any guy that is not her type even without thinking a bit about giving him a chance. For guys, they got labeled as 'jerks' right away if they reject a girl they're not attracted to. Think about it, don't guys also have the right to reject someone too? For girls, you can reject as many guys as you like cause he doesn't fit your criteria of 'mr. perfect'. Why don't you give nice, decent guys a chance, later on when you get to know them better and he is really not your type then you can end the relationship right away right? Not only that guys always risk the rejection, guys also get blamed for being 'shallow' that guys only care about whether a girl is good looking or not. please...we all know too damn well that not only guys do this, girls also do this if not more. So, i just don't get it, guys always get rejected, blamed and accused of things that girls also do, what's going on here? any ideas?
Girls, why?
You're making too many generalizations to be honest; both genders do what you had implied females do. But if you think what you said is true, what about girls being called a "tease" after they reject guys? Or being called a "whore" or "s*ut" after sleeping with a few while guys are simply labeled as a "player" for doing the exact same thing?
Reply:You're right. Girls are just as shallow as guys.
But then we get the whole being called slutty thing, and you don't... so I guess we're even...
Reply:U see, it means she has somebody else. And you silly dont understand it.
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Girls, why?
You're making too many generalizations to be honest; both genders do what you had implied females do. But if you think what you said is true, what about girls being called a "tease" after they reject guys? Or being called a "whore" or "s*ut" after sleeping with a few while guys are simply labeled as a "player" for doing the exact same thing?
Reply:You're right. Girls are just as shallow as guys.
But then we get the whole being called slutty thing, and you don't... so I guess we're even...
Reply:U see, it means she has somebody else. And you silly dont understand it.
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Girls : Are you okay with other girls being invited to party with you?
4 guys and 2 girls go out to dinner. None of us are single. Everyone is in mid-30s. Two girlfriends not present because they work nights.
Table of 3 girls (giggling 18-20 year olds) keep butting-in to our conversation from their table. I think they assume two guys at our table are single... but they are not.
I think our table should have been non-committal and not encouraged the between table chat. But instead the guy who is engaged actually invites the three girls to join us!
Why we should add three girls to our table? It seems rude/disrespectful to me that the guys in my group would so actively encourage that (including my and my friend's BFs). My boyfriend told me I should have tried harder to be friendly to the girls. Hmmmm I don't go to dinner with my friends to try and meet other girls!
BTW one of our friends ended up hooking up with one chick and he has long term girlfriend.
The girls did not know our friends were "taken" but we do and I think guys wrong/rude.
Girls : Are you okay with other girls being invited to party with you?
you should have got up and left if you are offended by it. i think you should tell that guys chick what he did it's not fair to her if it was me i would have loudly mentioned his gf
like what time is your gf getting off work is all you needed to say to shut that down but what is done is done so tell her
Reply:Damn, I would NOT want to go out with any group if YOU were there...While it was wrong for the hookup, I like when FUN people join me and my wife/group regardless of what sex they are. I like to have FUN. Unless it is supposed to be romantic, which it didn't sound like. Still wrong to cheat, though. But don't take yourself or supposedly fun outings so seriously...
Reply:The guys were definately wrong. If you are friends with the girlfriend of the guy who "hooked" up you might want to let her know. Not to start drama but so that she can be sure to protect her health when she "hooks" up with him.
Table of 3 girls (giggling 18-20 year olds) keep butting-in to our conversation from their table. I think they assume two guys at our table are single... but they are not.
I think our table should have been non-committal and not encouraged the between table chat. But instead the guy who is engaged actually invites the three girls to join us!
Why we should add three girls to our table? It seems rude/disrespectful to me that the guys in my group would so actively encourage that (including my and my friend's BFs). My boyfriend told me I should have tried harder to be friendly to the girls. Hmmmm I don't go to dinner with my friends to try and meet other girls!
BTW one of our friends ended up hooking up with one chick and he has long term girlfriend.
The girls did not know our friends were "taken" but we do and I think guys wrong/rude.
Girls : Are you okay with other girls being invited to party with you?
you should have got up and left if you are offended by it. i think you should tell that guys chick what he did it's not fair to her if it was me i would have loudly mentioned his gf
like what time is your gf getting off work is all you needed to say to shut that down but what is done is done so tell her
Reply:Damn, I would NOT want to go out with any group if YOU were there...While it was wrong for the hookup, I like when FUN people join me and my wife/group regardless of what sex they are. I like to have FUN. Unless it is supposed to be romantic, which it didn't sound like. Still wrong to cheat, though. But don't take yourself or supposedly fun outings so seriously...
Reply:The guys were definately wrong. If you are friends with the girlfriend of the guy who "hooked" up you might want to let her know. Not to start drama but so that she can be sure to protect her health when she "hooks" up with him.
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