Girls, is this a turn off?

I was talking to a guy friend of mine in campus. And there were alot of girls around us, not necessarily listening to us, just around us doing their own things.





We were talking about girls and he asked me if I saw this one girl recently, and I knew about 6 girls with that same name, so I said, "Oh, you mean that fat one?". And all the sudden, all girls around us stared at me like 'What the f*** did you just say?', you know.


But that girl IS fat. She's around 250lbs. And it was none of those girls' bussiness.





So girls, was that a turn off?

Girls, is this a turn off?
I think you should of said overweight rather calling her fat.


or just make up nicknames for every girl and guy in the school,so no-one could know who you are talking about,thats what me and my gfs did..we had over 100 nicknames to every person in school..lol





Sicko


Tweety


doppy


smeek


J.lo


C.K


thats the only nicknames I rememeber from back then..lol
Reply:It's a huge turnoff that you could talk about someone liek that. It's rude to call someone fat. You could've said somethign else like " with the black hair" or " the one with glasses" or something less demeaning than that.
Reply:Whatever. some girls are just lame. 250 lbs is extremely overweight. by medical health standards, she is probably morbidly obese. The other girl shouldn't have been eavesdropping anyways. Yes, it isn't exactly a nice thing to say, but you were being truthful. even if the hirl who over heard knew who u were talking about and it was like her best friend or something, she should maybe consider focusing her energy into helping her friend come down to a healthy weight vs yelling at boys who said she was fat. She was probably just pissed you weren't talking about her or something. some girls need attention like that from guys. hope that helps!
Reply:Kind of... yes? You could have put it a little nicer. But yeah, none of their business.
Reply:no! that's the truth anyway
Reply:Not really. Girls would say the same thing if a guy were fat. Tell those gals to mind their own business!
Reply:not at all but next time be a little more discreet! if you think someones fat theres nowt wrong with that! just dont let her or her mates hear it!
Reply:I think some girls are very offended by comments like that. You should remember that females are often quite sensitive about their bodies and so can be quite defensive.





Just be careful with your choice of words next time.
Reply:sort of its pretty mean to call a girl fat behind her back plus we girls are pretty self-conscious
Reply:dats kind of messed up especially when there are other girls around u maybe you should use the word"heavy or big" those are better than "FAT"
Reply:It is a turnoff because that wasnt your only choice of words. You could have said "Which one?" or "The blonde one?"...You had lots of choices, and you just picked the wrong one. That is why it is a turnoff.
Reply:You should've continued like "yea, that monstrous slob!"
Reply:Not to me. I am open and honest and I expect everyone around me to be the same way. We (our friends) all do the same.
Reply:they probably had the same name so yeah u pissed em off cuz they thought u were talking bout them
Reply:What if it was the other way around? And one of them mentioned a name like yours and said that your p-nis was so small that she needed tweezers just to see it. All I'm saying is that one they shouldn't have ear hustled on the conversation and two we ALL have feelings and flaws.