4 guys and 2 girls go out to dinner. None of us are single. Everyone is in mid-30s. Two girlfriends not present because they work nights.
Table of 3 girls (giggling 18-20 year olds) keep butting-in to our conversation from their table. I think they assume two guys at our table are single... but they are not.
I think our table should have been non-committal and not encouraged the between table chat. But instead the guy who is engaged actually invites the three girls to join us!
Why we should add three girls to our table? It seems rude/disrespectful to me that the guys in my group would so actively encourage that (including my and my friend's BFs). My boyfriend told me I should have tried harder to be friendly to the girls. Hmmmm I don't go to dinner with my friends to try and meet other girls!
BTW one of our friends ended up hooking up with one chick and he has long term girlfriend.
The girls did not know our friends were "taken" but we do and I think guys wrong/rude.
Girls : Are you okay with other girls being invited to party with you?
you should have got up and left if you are offended by it. i think you should tell that guys chick what he did it's not fair to her if it was me i would have loudly mentioned his gf
like what time is your gf getting off work is all you needed to say to shut that down but what is done is done so tell her
Reply:Damn, I would NOT want to go out with any group if YOU were there...While it was wrong for the hookup, I like when FUN people join me and my wife/group regardless of what sex they are. I like to have FUN. Unless it is supposed to be romantic, which it didn't sound like. Still wrong to cheat, though. But don't take yourself or supposedly fun outings so seriously...
Reply:The guys were definately wrong. If you are friends with the girlfriend of the guy who "hooked" up you might want to let her know. Not to start drama but so that she can be sure to protect her health when she "hooks" up with him.
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