Girls always look down or away?

Ok so i have a girl problem i can be at school on a bus anywere. I try to make eye contact with girls and as soon as i do many of them look away realy fast or look down instantly. Does this mean they are not intersted?? I also side eye many girls i walk past them and look at them with my side vision to see if they are checking me out and many of them are not looking what does this mean?





-. then there are other times were i see fat girls checking me out and its really weird ? pretty girls dont check me out but the fat ones do and im not fat im very athletic looking. I mean if im athletic looking why do pretty girls never check me out





-Also if a girl thinks ur cute isnt she supposed to smile well when i see girls or look them in the eye some hold there stare the ones who i think do not look good but dont smile at me i mean i have no clue what u girls r thiniking when all this happends





i dont have a pic but im rather athletic looking why do pretty gals not check me out!??

Girls always look down or away?
well either your ugly ( i wouldnt kno sorry ) or your a little wierdd
Reply:they probably think you are wierd because you look at them all the time. Try talking to them instead.
Reply:well gee.. usually when a guy cares whether a girl checks him out or not, he`s the one that ends up a loser.. girls dont want a guy that says," aw man this girl, yeah she didnt even check me out, dude.. but this Fat girl, she checked me out, man.. MAN!! "





yeah .. think about it cause it makes lots of sense.





Really only girls care if guys check them out or not.. not the guys.. so stop being a pretty boy and toughen up.. go ride a dirtbike or a skateboard or SOMETHING.
Reply:girls hate to be caught staring at a guy unless they're sure the guy stares back.


smile at them or something


or say something


they're not nessesarily thinkig your ugly
Reply:Think about it from the perspective of the other person. What do you do when a less attractive girl gives you the eye? Do you smile and say "Good morning!" or do you look down and walk past, not giving the person the time of day? Of course, you are probably a nice guy and wouldn't do anything to hurt anyone's feelings on purpose. So... why don't you respond to her obvious interest? There are good reasons.





In our society today, these reasons are cultural, social, religious, prejudicial, stereotypical, historical, and morally based. Besides, you may be socially inept. I don't know you. I'm gonna assume however, that you have friends and know how to relate to the opposite sex, at least age appropriately. You don't respond to the heavyweights or other less attractive women because it would be embarrassing to be seen talking to a large person or one with red and purple stripes in her hair and a large nose ring by the really attractive girls you want to meet. You are afraid you will be "marked" as "one of those people" if you are thought of as friendly to them. This is "adolescent natural selection." It happens all over. Don't be dissuaded by those good looking women who are following the social rules and are ignoring you in very public settings where they feel "exposed" for lack of a better word. Also, realize that the less attractive women looking at you have feelings, families, dreams, and desires just like the more fancy gals who are ignoring you. I'm betting that if you are partnered with one of these less desirable women in your Chem lab or at another school work space that you will do just fine relating to her.





Using the same type of thought, there is no reason to believe you wouldn't get to know and become friendly with one or more of the more desirable gals in your school if you were accidently pared with one of them.





How about if you went on the offensive? Instead of just walking by and stairing, try saying "Good morning?" The first time she'll probably not respond because she'll be surprized. Try it the next day. You may be surprised to find that she responds to someone being simply "nice" to her.





Good luck.... Oh yeah, there's always the chance you will be pared with her in Chemistry!
Reply:I have no idea. Maybe your just too focused on wiether or not pretty girls are checking you out. Don't worry so much about it. In a couple years this question will seem really dumb, trust me.