Girls & Guys...How far are you willing to go to please your man/women???

Okay so I've been reading a lot and hearing a lot about relationships and I basically want to ask is...how far a girl is willing to go sexually..in a relationship...does that really matter to a guy...and I want to know how far a girl is willing to go to please her man??





Guys~~Lets just say you have two girls, whom you've been dating for a while and your trying to decide which one your going to ask to be your girlfriend...and you pretty much have two great girls...but one is a little freakier than the other...like she's willing to do more sexual things and experiment with different things...and the other girl is still sexual but not as open to things...would that make a difference in choosing?





Or another example would be there are these two girls you think are hot, but one you know is of a certain ethnicity and you've "heard" that these girls (in this ethnicity) are freaks and do crazy things in bed...would that sway your mind??











Girls~~I want to know if you've been in a relationship for a while or even not for a while and your man wants you to try some stuff...that will make him happy...but you really dont believe in that or even if you dont care you just dont want to do it, would you end up doing it to please your man and make him happy or do you stand up and say "I dont do that"??





Do men/women cheat on eachother because something is not right in the bed??? Or do they stray off because of there partners un-willingness to try new things??

Girls %26amp; Guys...How far are you willing to go to please your man/women???
I believe that you should explore everything with you partner if and when you are ready........Try things if he wants something that's a little freakier then you ask for something. Men will and always do look for a women that pleases him in bed the fullest... Sometime you try a new thing Ianthe bedroom and that would be the only time. It does mean that you will be repeating the sexual act every time but it is nice to spice thing up from time to time... remember everything does and will get old it is up the couple to keep thing new and exciting.. This has nothing to do with comfort level......In every relationship that has been together for a while you will reach a comfort level that allows you to e more free with emotions and feelings from both partners. Once reach even pressures will lessen..... well i hope this helps..
Reply:what a girl does is up to her, not him, and people cheat because they have no integrity or morals-its their fault not the partner's.
Reply:Personally, I would be more interested in the girl thats "freekyer" depending on how freeky she is. Mostly because the other not so freeky girl would be more unwilling to change her sexual stance. In relationships I have found that sexually you need a bit of derversity. I dont consider myself freeky but every once and a while you need something a little bit different.





that is also why people would cheat. Its not that things are nolonger fun in the bedroom but a bit of diversity...kind of like playinging the same videogame over and over and over, its fun the first couple of times, but every once and a while you need something else to excite you and then you can go back to the other game and play some more
Reply:not to the jamie foxx stage. if you know what i mean
Reply:If you don't have sex before you're married you don't have to deal with all this nonsense.
Reply:if a guy loves me, he'll marry me and then he can get whatever he wants..........because i WILL keep him happy.





but dating? nope. there are limits.
Reply:wow, big time question. First of all I believe that men/women cheat because of the way the other person makes them feel about themselves. If your other half is not making you feel wanted, beautiful, desireable, smart, etc. and someone else does, then it is normal to be enticed into cheating, not right, but yet a normal reaction.





Personally, for the man I love I would try anything once for him unless it was against my religion or my morals, but I would at least try it, maybe even try it twice....then if I still didn't like it I would tell him straight up and if he left me for another women then he was never mine to begin with...good bye and good luck to him, and I would be on my way to finding the man of my dreams....no more wasting time.
Reply:It depends on what the girl is willing and comfortable with doing in the relationship.





If someone I was dating asked me to do something I wasn't comfortable with I would tell him that I don't do that kind of stuff and that we are going too fast. I would stand up and say "I don't do that." as the question asks.





I think in order for a relationship to be successful both parties have to respect each other and that means sexually as well. If one or the other doesn't feel comfortable preforming a certain task than it's best not to push the issue.





I think men and women cheat on each other because for some reason they aren't getting what they want out of the relationship they are currently in. Which I think is stupid because if your not getting what you want in a relationship than why would you stay in it?





I think that their partners unwillingness to try new things isn't the full reason for cheating I think it has to do with respect for the person they are dating as well as getting what they want out of the relationship.
Reply:i would have sex with him if i was madly in love with this guy and he felt the same way about me and we were both tested for aids/hivs and all those other nasty things, and i knew the relationship was going some where, and he has to be a virgin to sleep with me since im one. if he breaks any of those rules i would never go further then 3rd base. also i would never do the rusty trombone with any one thats sick!! im a really resevered person so knowing me im probably not gonna have sex till im married. thats just how i was raised
Reply:I don't think you should ever go against something you don't believe in. If you're worried your guy can't accept a no, maybe you shouldn't be with him
Reply:well there is this guy that i hav a crush on, and we act like we r together but wer not. but anywayz, he is like a perv and he would get in bed w/me anytime but im not gonna do that cuz i could get pregnant, but i would if i couldnt get pregnant. but we hav dun everything but sex. he wants me to giv him oral and wants to giv me oral. i am, maybe
Reply:i would pick the one that will experiment and is open to things =)
Reply:I dont go very far acually. If the guy likes me enough he'll respect my boundries. If not then you can consider him DUMPED!
Reply:I think it's safe to say that most guys would pick the freaky girl over the plain boring one. I sure would. I don't belive in rumons about ethnicity though.





Yes people cheat to get diffrent things in bed. And that includes boring partners.
Reply:If you love %26amp; care about the person you're with then why have limits?That's what keeps the fires burning!
Reply:yes the one that's more open