Girls attracted to my BF?

BF has insincere "friends"?


My BF is really faithful, but we do not see eye to eye on this issue of him hanging out with girls and letting girls call him that "like" him. These girls are old friends who have expressed their attraction to him in the past b4 he and i got together. But now that we are together, they are still friends. OK. I'm not asking him to stop talking to ALL GIRLS, but I feel disrespected that he is staying friends, and even let these girls come to his apt when I'm not there. I told him that these girls would get w/ him if he gave them the day and time, but his response is that "I'm not giving them the day and time". They hang out or talk for a hour and then that's it. Am I wrong for wanting him to stop hangin out with these girls that he knew b4 me? Is he disrespecting me by still associating w/ girls that he knows would break us up if they could? It makes me feel very insecure because I know the girls think that they have a chance w/ him. It would be different if

Girls attracted to my BF?
He could like the ego stroking he gets from having these female friends who are also admirers or he is incredibly naive (usually women have a much stronger instinct on this). I don't think he is necessarily disrespecting you, but if one should behave inappropriately, I do think he should cut them off.
Reply:Your point is valid. You think you can trust him with another girl alone in his apartment? Honey, even if he is a decent guy, it is just a matter of time. Actually, I hate to tell you this, but it probably already has. I'd find someone who respects you. It should be a non-issue!
Reply:Sweetheart it all has to do with trust.If u can't trust him then u shouldn't be with him.There will always be woman in his life. So u either trust him and deal with it or move on.Good luck hon.Oh I thought u should know that men that are in commented relationships don't have single woman in their apt.
Reply:no your not wrong!!They should definately not be there at your house when your not!!!It's not so much your b/f you have to worry about if he is trustworthy it's theses girls who have made it pretty clear about how they see him.This is soo not cool and yeah he should be putting some limits on how and when they get his time.My b/f and i are the same way it tottaly bugs me to know females that would get with him in a second if i were out of the picture and what your b/f is doing is basically allowing theses girls to disrespect you and your guys home.he may not think so but he is!I remember when my b/f introduced me to this girl and wanted us to you know become friends-well a few months later i found out they had a thing before me and had been together sexually and i just freaked out-it only came out because i found an old letter to this girl and it was just so aweful and hard for me to deal with!So i got mad and told him i felt like i had been lied to and felt like an idiot for not knowing!!!He tried to tell me it wasn't an issue and that's why he never told me and i thought otherwise.So i told him she was not to be alone with him or be around anymore b/c i don't like the idea of it at all i couldn't deal with that!The girl and i never really did become friends but i just wanted her to know how i felt and she was told and now we don't deal with that anymore!I told him to advise me of things like past girlfriend and flings before expecting me to be best buddies with them!
Reply:put that dog on leash
Reply:your bf is a joke.
Reply:screw that! he needs to stop talking to them! if they already said they wanted him then chances are they still do and the little sluts are still trying to get with him
Reply:ok. i think you need to give him some space but if his friends are there make sure that you are there with him. make the girls think that they dno't have a chance with him. and why dont' you call him and ty up the phone like so they can't reach him. i think you could be jealous but its natural thing. or you can try to be friends with them.
Reply:You can't just expect him to completly stop talking to his old friends, even if they are girls. You need to trust him and if he likes you then he will stay with you and not cheat. If he does cheat then he's not even worth your time at all, and you can do better :)