Plz answer why r girls so mean IN SCHOOL?

I am 14 in middle school and i have just wondered why do girls have to be so mean? I mean like i have had friends who have been a fights with girls like over stupid things like guys,boyfriends,,and the worst thing looks. Looks r the worst thing that a girl can judge my friend was put down by a group of stupid preppy girls because she was not pretty and she was a little bigger! and i have been put down and made funny of but i just hate the girls who make fun of girls. and i mean i have been mean. and i was just wanting to know why can't girls just be kool i mean i am a girl but i mean like i don't go crazy well not all the time LOL. But plz answer. because i just was wanting to know ok. and also why do girls talk behind other girls backs and they pretend to be friends with them? And also this happens every day at school. and all the stupid think their all that preppy girl r mainly the girls who can be the worst but mainly all the girls r in it at my school i just want it to stop!!!!!!

Plz answer why r girls so mean IN SCHOOL?
There can be several reasons...


Sometimes making fun of people makes themselves feel better. Peer pressure can be a major part, if another friend doesn't like someone and tells you that you shouldn't that'll make you be mean to them...Overall, girls are just immature brats that like to make others feel bad.
Reply:Thank you for recognizing this problem . Many girls get caught up in it without realizing it is so so wrong. Try to detach from the drama of it all and maintain a stable friendly nature without letting it get to you. It is a sick way to live and I know that there have been some recent steps taken to stop bullying and I think mental, verbal bullying is just worse than the physical fights boys have. Good luck and dont be discouraged.
Reply:Anybody can be like this. It's just, in stereotype, men are more meaner in physical strength, and women in mental. Its just how the world is, but not for every single person.
Reply:Ok, I'll tell you. THEY'RE PETHETIC! Girls are mean to other girls because it makes them feel "cool"! They usually have an insecurity about themselves and get rid of it by picking on other girls by attacking their insecurities! It makes feel less insecure because people think their confident. This makes people like them.
Reply:amen. this is why i have more guy friends... thier not drama queens like girls. jus have a few best girl friends, n the rest are guys
Reply:Guys aren't hormonal. Girls are. Girls are critical, judgemental, and very, very picky about who they hang out with.





In a scientific study, emotions between genders were studied. Throughout a month, women showed 34 emotions, and men showed 7.





Girls tend to be mean because they're insecure with themselves. They find things wrong with themselves, so they point out others' flaws so they can feel better about themselves.





I've had the exact same problem [I'm 13 %26amp; in 8th grade]. It gets better.
Reply:i'm 14 in 9th grade i learned grls bring drama they mean to u only if u let them boo u need 2 stick up 4 yourself if that don't work n u tried everything u need 2 beat thier ***
Reply:boys are the same


they lack confidence and self esteem
Reply:Girls are mean, jelous and insecure. They need to have a feeling of power because they can't get over how lame thier own lives are. I have, like, 5 close friends, but two of my best friends are guys. There's always drama if you have friends, even if they are guys, they just tend to have less because they solve things physically, rather than trying to get into your head like girls do.
Reply:some of them are immature... think they are better than others, or have low-self esteem so they want to make themselves feel better...
Reply:girls are stupid, only immature girls act like that. They will be a little more mature in high school, but you'll still have some of those stupid girls there that don't know when to grow up. It's because girls are jealous. I know girls that say that beautiful girls are ugly, and I'm like..wtf?
Reply:check this out i am 24 and when i was in school it was the same **** but all those girls are going end up looking so ugly later on and pregnant with no man and misreable and all drugged up they are so inmature and they think there **** dont stink but it does if i was you just ignore the hell out of them act like you dont give 2shits what they have to say and when they are man just start laughing and whatever get a life grow up ..i hang out with all the guys they are so much cooler to chill with as long as they have respect for you
Reply:I know what u mean! when me and my friend was in elementary school she ALWAYS got picked on. In 3rd grade this girl kept giving her dirty looks and everytime my friend was close to her she would go "eww" I think the girl didnt like my friend cuz she got alot of attention and the girl who was popular didnt


in 5th grade this girl had a clique and everyone in our class was allowed in except my friend cuz the girl I say was jealous of her cuz my friend was friends with a guy she liked





so what I'm saying is girls lack confidence, and are threatened and jealous and have to make people feel bad to make them feel superior