Girls Girls Please read im begging!!!?

For some reason, i just have the worst luck with girls. I mean, i'm a really quiet guy if i dont know you, but if we have things in common i can start talking ya know? i just have a hard time getting into the circle of girls and getting to know them.. and getting them to like me as more than just a friend. i mean, i'm not at all conceited, but i would consider myself a decently looking guy. ive had girls tell me i'm cute, hot, ect.. but i cant get girls to date me. i'm very nice, friendly, i dress fine, i'm clean cut, i'm not THAT shy.. but i can be reserved at times. what am i doing wrong??? I What are some tips to give me that push over the edge so i can easily talk to girls and get their interest in me?? If i do ever try to date a girl, in the end we either argue or have trouble. i need to know what to say to a girl to make her feel special and to show her i really want her!I need your help girls.. so give me some advice!

Girls Girls Please read im begging!!!?
Be a friend to them. Every guy I've ever dated started out as my friend. She'll feel more comfortable with you and you can "hang out" without the dating stipulations first. Then as things progress, that first kiss will be amazing for both of you.
Reply:Girls like guys who have a little mystery and are independent, a combination nice guy/bad guy. If you are too much of a friend they never get to think of you as a possible date. They like the guy who carries their books, saves them a seat, helps them with a project, but they are just getting so much there is nothing to work for. And believe me girls like to work for attention.


This website has some pointers that might help you "get it".


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Reply:Girls are the most confusing creatures known to man, I will admit.





Some girls really like a guy to be shy and reserved, while others love him to be outgoing.





I would say that you just stick to your roots and be yourself, with a twist, though.





Don't be afraid to aproach a girl. Most guys say that they will speak when spoken to, but that's how most girls are! If they're interested, they won't display it by just talking to you (normally).





Women like to be approached, in a very non-vulgar way. Ask her how her day has been and tell her she's pretty or something along those lines. Nothing like.. "damn, id tap that" or something to a sexual reference.





And DONT, god forbid, suffocate her. Let her have her space, but let her know you care by doing random spontaneous things.


:)