Girls nevr smile or check me out?

i dont know how ugly a guy can be but when ever i see an attracitive girl i look her in the eye and she turns away IMMEDIATTLEY every time no exeptions.. Some girls do stare at me when i walk towrds them for like 4 secs and then turn away i turn around and she is not cheking me out..





Do girls ever smile at guys when they dont smile at them..Becuase i hear about girls randomly smiling at guys they think look cute but it never happens to me..Also people in my school say that i am ugly





When i go dffrent places guys even stare at me sometimes and its the same stares girls give me so im wondering what this means.When i walk past ouut of the corner of my eyer i see guys starin at e sometimes is this bad?





Once i tried to apprach a girl and she and her freind just laughed hysterically..I mean girls do stare at me but like the 4 sec glacne when im walking twd them and then they turn away --So wat does it mean when i girl glances for 4 secs and turns away is this bad??

Girls nevr smile or check me out?
It seems to me like you're surrounded by some pretty shallow girls. (Yes, it's bad when they ignore you and laugh at you. But in my opinion, it doesn't say anything about about you. It says a lot of bad things about them.) Perhaps this has affected how you view yourself. Actually, there's no "perhaps" about it. If people keep telling you you're ugly, then sooner or later, you will believe it and act accordingly.





Don't listen to them. I know it's hard, especially when you're in school. (I assume you're a teen? Really, those are the hardest years people ever have to go through as far as socializing is concerned.) There are some girls who only want a classically "handsome" guy. They'd be better off dating a mannequin. But there are other girls out there who want a guy who is nice, funny, smart and sure of himself. They're very shy and you'll have to go through a lot of those shallow kinds, but they're out there.
Reply:my feet currently smell like hot swiss cheese..
Reply:yes thats very bad. they obviously think that you are ugly especially if they laugh
Reply:You don't say how old you are, but I'm guessing young. You need to be comfortable in your skin, however attractive that is. When you know yourself, you can play up your attractive points.


At 18, I knew a guy who had a horribly pock marked face from teen acne. He was 25 or so. This guy knew he'd never be handsome, so he played up his crazy sense of humor and niceness. I mean he was genuinely a nice person, always making those around him comfortable. I never heard him say anything derogatory about another person in the 10 years we associated. He brought his wife to the company Xmas party, and caused quite a stir. She was beautiful.


I heard the guys in a corner asking how could HE get her. His manager told them, "Because he's a decent human being."
Reply:she might think you are stalking her, try being polite and say


something nice to her


do not stare at a girl at all no
Reply:i dont know what you look like, or how old you are. but one thing that is very likely, is that this is really getting to you, and it shows in how you carry yourself. regardless of what you're born with, there are things any guy can do, that make a difference:





- dress nicely, cleanly, and neatly. even k-mart has decent,conservativ, dignifiede clothes that are inexpensive





- get and keep a decent haircut





- walk tall. dont be cocky, or pretentious, but walk with your back straight and your head up. Walk that way no matter how you feel. Find a comfortable expression in the mirror - it doesnt have to be a smile, but it cant be a depressed look either - find it and wear it.





- whether you realize it or not, you're having a dialog with these girls. you're asking 'am i good enough for you? then you prepare to base your self worth on her reaction'. well, any guy who does that already lost, no matter what he looks like. girls are biologically wired to be attracted to confidence, and repelled by weakness. solution? just dont do it. no guy can help looking at a pretty girl, so just glance, keep that dignified expression on your face, perhaps a slight smile, then look back away! dont stare!





- get some exercise. work out at the gym at school. if that's not for you, then at least get some long walks in. you'll feel better, and when you feel better, you look better.





the whole thing is, you must focus on being your best - it's all you can do. when you focus on being your best, rather than looking to others for approval, you look more confident by definition. and when you feel more confident, you look more attractive.





once you've brought yourself up a notch, or several, why not look for the best in some of the other girls? some girls who end up as beautiful women, were not always the hottest or most popular girls in high school





good luck, and get going!
Reply:dont let otha ppl opinions let u define ur elf maybe u are just so hot n sexy they jus dont want to let u kno because they will get embarassed