Girls, help me out here...?

I have trouble finding a girl that actually likes me, or at least knowing they do. I have found that many of the girls I am attracted to seem to use, neglect, and reject me all the time. Then some girls who are friends seem like they like me in my mind, but then also do something or say something that changes my mind. So I ask you, girls, why is it that I'm attracted to girls that never really like me back or respect me? I'm not shallow, I'm attracted to a wide range of girls, and usually just go for the girl that I find the closest to me and most interested in me, but they always seem to play me. I know I'm not the best looking guy around, but I just don't see why no girl I like will give me a chance. Any advice out there?

Girls, help me out here...?
dont let them use you, you sound like a nice sencire honest guy and some stupid girls take advantage of that. the right one will come along you just have to play the field and not let them take advantage of you. good luck
Reply:trust me, i'm asking the exact same question about guys. you are the ones who flirt and flirt and then reject. it goes both ways, and you just haven't found the girl yet. sometimes it takes a while so keep trying. just keep trying.
Reply:THERE ARE FEMALE VERSIONS OF YOURSELF. WHAT I HAVE FOUND OUT, IS, IF YOU ARE ATTRACTIVE, WELL GROOMED, NICE AND LAID BACK, IT SENDS THESE SIGNALS TO GIRLS: 1. YOU ARE SOMEONE I DON'T WANT TO OPEN UP TO OR SERIOUSLY GET INVOLVED WITH B/C, THE NICE AND GOOD GUYS ARE JUST THAT. 2. THE MORE ATTRACITVE YOU ARE, THE MORE THE INSECURE THAT FEMALE WILL BE, SO THEREFORE YOU ARE ALREADY LABELED AS A MALE WHORE OR SOMEONE THAT SLEEPS AROUND BECAUSE YOU CAN HAVE ANYONE YOU WANT. THE MORE YOU LAY ON THE TABLE, THE THIRTY WOMEN GET. YOU TALK ABOUT WHAT YOU HAVE, WHAT YOU CAN OFFER, WHAT YOU ARE WILLING TO DO, THE MORE THEY COME BACK TO TAKE, TAKE, AND TAKE. SO REALLY WHAT YOU NEED TO DO, IS STEP BACK, RELAX, AND LET THINGS FLOW. LET THEM TALK, GET INTO THEIR MINDS FIRST, READ BODY LANGUAGE. THE MAIN THINGS GUYS GO INTO FIRST SHOULD BE LAST. SEE IF THEY HAVE LONG TERM GOALS. SHORT GOALS END WHEN THEY REALIZE YOU CAN AFFORD THEIR LAZY ASSES. SO, WRITE A LIST OF WHAT YOU WANT IN A FEMALE, WILLING TO WORK WITHOUT 2 OR LESS OF YOUR CRITERIA ON YOUR LIST AND DON'T GIVE IN. LIFE IS TO SHORT AND BEST BELIEIVE YOU DON'T WANT TO END UP WITH A HIGH MILEAGE FEMALE, THAT IS LOW MAINTANCE. I AM A FEMALE. I AM TELLING YOU THE TRUTH. THERE ARE A LOT OF GOOD MEN OUT THERE THAT HAVE BEEN SCORN OR JILTED BY IGNORANT, NO CLASS, LOW SELF ESTEEM FEMALES THAT ONLY FEELS YOUR PAIN, WHEN KARMA KNOCKS ON THEIR DOOR FOR THE SAME GAMES THEY THOUGHT THEY WERE PLAYING AND WINNING. THE BRAIN IS THE SEXIEST ORGAN IN THE BODY, USE IT TO YOUR ADVANTAGE.