Girls read this tell me if you agree?

every girl needs to be a little more open to guys that come up to them and want to have a consvesation with them. who knows, the guy could be nice and it could turn into a good relationship.. girls i've seen are worried about how much money someone makes, what kind of car he drives, whats his social standing is. not to be mean, but the most girls i've seen do this is girls that are hot and have hot friends..girls that have fat or ugly friends you know they are a little less judgemental and guys are more inclined to go up and talk to them because they know the girl will not just tell him to go away, some actually will talk for a little bit and even possibly give a number. my point is girls get to emotionally attached to guys and should be a little more open and look for other guys instead of just hangind around one or trying to find ways to make him jealous i mean come on theres a lot of guys out there who would like to have a chance with a beatiful girl

Girls read this tell me if you agree?
yea, unfortunately i know what you mean...and agree.





But I must say, most of the time, guys seem to only "go after" the "hot girls", who (no offence to anyone) can be quite slutty...because of this those girls get to pick and choose, and as most are mainly after money, worrying about how much a lad earns is logical...





Girls who are regarded as "ugly" often are inclined to be more accepting or alternatively afraid of close relationships, this stems from the gut feeling that guys are never serious about them just be cause they are ugly, and either dismiss feelings as false or accept them gratefully thinking they can't do better...





I think more girls should be more open, but to be honest most of the girls who are so concerned about "what car he drives" , are not usually worth bothering with, theyre not emotionally attached to the guy, THEY are jealous, and rather vengeful at that!
Reply:You have to remember. Most hot girls don't have much of a brain.
Reply:I definitely agree, it's not controllable, it happens involuntarily. I've experienced the same kind of treatment even though I'm a girl, you get different feedback from different types of people and their friends.
Reply:We all need to be more open. Beauty is only skin deep and in the eye of the eye of the beholder. It still hasn't been put any better. You list the superficial qualifiers that some women put on men like cars, social standing %26amp; looks but in the end you do the same by saying you want a"... chance with a BEAUTIFUL girl". How about a great girl or a wonderful girl or a nice girl. A girl who loves and is devoted to you with whom you share interests %26amp; values. I hope Dixiegirl doesn't truly esteem the mean things she espoused and is just having a bad day that will pass. I hope she didn't hurt your feelings. Sorry.
Reply:The reason pretty girls are not open with every man that approaches them, is because they get approached all the time by strange men (and some are creeps), who are trying to get in their pants.





It gets annoying and everyone has the right to choose if they feel like talking to strangers who approach them, or if they would rather be left alone.
Reply:true


but if youre in a really great relationship then y let it go


there could be some thing huge there


girls do get emotionally attached some more than others but once or if there heart gets broken its a blessing


thell no wat it feels like to be in love n wat it feels like to have a broken heart


some people wont ever get that
Reply:i kind of agree with you, however... not all of the girls who have "ugly or fat friends" are like that... most of the girls that i go to school with only hang out with people who are different from them( less pretty or more fat) to make themselves look better...
Reply:i agree. women should like me for who i am and not becuase i'm a millionaire real estate developer that drives a bentley and lives in a 12,000 square foot house.
Reply:Yes :) people should choose their partners based on friendship and honesty not just on appearances ( I am lucky though my hubby is cute and a sweetheart )
Reply:Maybe that's why guys that I see that I want to come up and have a conversation with don't! Alot of females I know are like that and they make it hard for pretty gils that don't care about those things.
Reply:true


but if youre in a really great relationship then y let it go


there could be some thing huge there


girls do get emotionally attached some more than others but once or if there heart gets broken its a blessing


thell no wat it feels like to be in love n wat it feels like to have a broken heart


some people wont ever get that
Reply:i agree
Reply:You sound like you are just as stuck up as these girls.
Reply:hi am a girl and i want to say i agree with u ,u know we live in a century which only money can talk so dating somebody had money may sometmes be more important than dating a nice person but im sure the girl who did this will reach a point she will be sorry for her self because money can go but the relationship is the thing which left to us and that what she dont have
Reply:haha! awesome. you've got some good points, and you've got some bad points. lemme break it down for you.





good: you are right. girls need to be more open and confident and most of all AGGRESSIVE. wouldn't it be awesome if a chick walked up to you and asked for YOUR number? or if she beat the **** out of some girl who was trying to steal her boyfriend? talk about hot... and the emotional attachment issue? yeah. girls need to get over the whole "i can't leave him even though he's a ****-head" thing. and the "i'm going to make you jealous" thing. passive-aggresiveness is a turn off for sure.





bad: maybe it's better that the less-than-hot chicks are more easily approachable. let me tell you from experience, that plain girls need love too. and you know what? stop ******* chasing those pretty little things with the pretty little minds. they are stupid like a brain-damaged farm animal, and you shouldn't be so easily attracted to pretty frames for stupid brains. just stick to the less pretty girls who will give you more for your investment. besides... the less pretty someone thinks they are, the more they tend to be grateful for your attention. that's always a GOOD thing.





anyway, you are on the right track. keep thinking, comrade. you're getting there. tell me when you do.
Reply:are u saying that hot girls try to make u jealous and fat ones dont care big girls need love to they dont care what guys have or drive because they know how it feels to be judged or not have someting. im sorry to say but if u think that all girls are like this then i thank you need to go gay
Reply:ok, firstly, there may be 'lots of guys out there who would like to have a chance with a beautiful girl' but why should they have the right to? life ain't fair and there isn't some charity outreach programme for less 'hot' guys. everyone gets rejected once in a while, and you can't go out with someone if you're just not attracted to them. secondly, you're being equally judgemental and superficial - why don't you ask a less 'hot' girl out? your argument is based on the idea that girls are superficial but the only reason that you're saying any of this is because you're superficial wanting to go out with girls who are out of your league - and bitter because you're being rejected.





and in answer to some of the comments above - not all pretty girls are vapid!!! i'm not conceited but i don't think i'm that bad looking and cambridge university (UK) offered me a place earlier this year, so don't be so patronising. i think we all need to be more open to personality and intelligence in people - not just looks. but getting leered at by drunks creeps in bars %26amp; clubs isn't that much fun sometimes. you don't have the right to treat girls like that - its just treating them like sex objects
Reply:i agree but some girls have been raised like that people have told them what to look for their whole life and thats just what they want to live up to I mean what girls wants to go out with a homeless bum..??
Reply:A girl that treats you like that is not worth your while. Don't worry about them.