Girls, how would you feel? what would you do?

I've this one best friend, she's a girl, and we're both interested in each other as more than friends. We've been so cool, but recently, I started to talk with this other girl.


I don't feel guilty about that, since I'm still a single, and there's nothing wrong with flirting with more than one girl, eh?





The first girl(my best friend) found that out and asked me some things about second girl, and I told her without hiding anything, and now, she feels uncomfortable(or even devastated and jealous) about me flirting with other girl.





So girls, if you were the first girl, how would you feel? what would you do? We're both college students.

Girls, how would you feel? what would you do?
i would feel like you didn't even give the time 2 make it work instead you went on to another girl.also like you've lost interest.
Reply:even if you weren't "officially" together with the first girl, you reach a pt in a relationship where you have an unspoken agreement that the relationship is heading in that direction.


she probably really liked you, and even if she had a crush on other guys, maybe she made the effort not to flirt with them and thought you would do the same for her.


i advise you to make up your mind on what you want and if you choose that you want to be exclusive with girl #1, i would go appologize STAT and hopefully she'll still be interested.


good luck!!
Reply:i would feel betrayed because you said you have feelings for this girl and like wise for her and you go and flirt with anther girl and that is called leading on and that is not cool P.S. it is not OK to flirt with another girl if you have feelings for anther girl
Reply:i would be envious and maybe a bit jealous


and kinda uncomfortable too...
Reply:If I was the girl and I was shy about asking you out then i could see myself getting jealous. Would you want to pursue something with the first girl because if so then perhaps you need to talk to him about going steady and what not.


Personally Ive never been the girl that wants to date a guy who dates other women.
Reply:This is just what I think.





If you and the first girl are interested in each other, more than friends, then you should not flirt that much with other girls. If it was me i would be a tiny bit offended. What I would do in this sitution would have to do with how things happened after it was discussed.