GIRLS: Dating/girl help PLEASE!!!?

I'm not the best looking guy, kinda nerdy and shy. Never had a girlfriend. (I'm 20) But really nice and know how to treat a girl. How can I get girls to notice and like me? Is it possible? Ive gotten to the point of almost giving up. I do talk to girls, but almost everytime I start talking to a girl, they always have a boyfriend as many girls do where I live. So...that doesnt help. Also no one I know knows anyone single either. So I have no network. I also live in Utah where there is not really a shortage of nice guys like me, especially ones who are better looking. How can I compete with that? Ive tried several internet sites but out of maybe 50 girls Ive emailed, only 2 responded back. And neither of those worked out. Am I just not what girls want???

GIRLS: Dating/girl help PLEASE!!!?
Have you considered pay-per-nookie?
Reply:you sound perfect, maybe you need a change of scenery. move to a city, go to a big school, travel...the right time will come and you WILL meet someone, dont change, just keep talking to girls, not all have boyfriends. and who knows, naybe one will leave her guy for you?
Reply:Just give it time. At 20, most girls are still wrapped up in superficial ideas about what a dateable guy should be. As they mature, they will start to learn that a nice guy is better than the "hot" jerk.





Your best tactic is to just be that nice guy and let the women realize for themselves that you are worth noticing. If you are LDS, I realize there is immense pressure on people your age to find a mate and get married. Don't let yourself get caught up in all of that. Your value is not defined by how quickly you meet and marry and have kids.





Lastly, don't compromise on your standards just to find a girlfriend. Obviously you don't have to set your sights on the prettiest girl around. But if you want a woman with a certain education or religious background, or with certain hobbies, don't settle for less because you will ultimately be unsatisfied.
Reply:Just give it time. they will start to notice you.
Reply:Just be yourself and keep being nice and respectful to girls. You will meet the right one soon.You too young to be on the stiff dating sites. Get out and meet real girls. Just relax and enjoy yourself. Don't go out thinking about meeting a date, just mengle and have fun.
Reply:get a diffrent stly of a hair cut and a new wardrob. Hang out with guys that have girlfriends. play football and basketball and soccer and baseball. try to have a new conversation with a girl. somthing that doesnt kreep them out somthing they would like.
Reply:ummm try to change your style
Reply:Dont try so hard, she may be right under your nose! Let love find you. The day you stop pushing is when a change will occur. Let it flow and enjoy life, you have plenty of time. You dont want to seem desperate, girls find that as a turn off. Just chill out and let nature takes its course. Good luck.
Reply:just keep searching, we all go thru this
Reply:Well no! I would date you if I lived closer. ^.^ You seem like a sweet guy and that is a very good thing! Its also good that you respect girls as well. Honestly, all I can say is that you have to be as friendly as you can be and wait. Sometimes, things like this take time. Trust me, I know.
Reply:I really have NO problem with match.com or eHarmony, but always be careful of weirdos and gold diggers. Do you go to church? College? Join a local singles group maybe? You know, when you STOP looking a girl will be right in front of your face. Best of luck...my husband was a nerdy, shy, dateless guy, too..;)
Reply:Ok i wouldnt do the dating sites those could be dangerous and anyways maybe get contacts if you have glasses and try to maybe try talking to someone like a friend pretending they are the girl try maybe not to act geeky which i bet you probably are not just pretty much be yourself when you talk to them but dont change yourself in anyway.
Reply:patience my friend, patience. You will find her or she will find you. Try church, a community pool or a sporting event. You would be surprised at the single women at sporting events with their friends. You will find her trust me. And when you do good luck!
Reply:You want to know what I think?





I think girls are missing out on you. You sound like a really great guy. To me, looks aren't the main factor in what I look for in a guy. If they're ego is too high and they hit on every girl, it bugs me. Even if they're the best looking guy I've ever seen! It won't make me fall for them. So just wait a little, I'm sure you're exactly what a lot of girls out there are looking for. :]
Reply:Have you posted this before? I think I've read it.
Reply:dont be so desperate and go to partys?
Reply:Have you seen some of the make over or upgrade shows on T.V.! I,ve been going though the same stages my self ,just remember you may only get out of it as what you put in ? Perhaps just feeling lucky or unlucky is'nt what it all about!
Reply:Be yourself! Thats the best thing, and show them who you really are and what you like to do. And don't be controling and weird. Also when somthings wrong let her know.