Girls: What do you want? Bad boy or great guy?

I have a friend named Scot. I see him meet and talk to girls all the time and he always gets a great reaction. He tells me to be myself. I do that but I still get many girls who brush me off. We have the same groups of friends. All the new friends (girls) think he is great and tell me to act more like him if I want to attract a girl. They buy his BS when he pretends to be a good Christian for them but he still is the old Scot who talks about getting a girl just so he can "Hit it" and move on. Our old group of friends think Scot is a jerk. One girl told me she hopesthat most guys are not like him. She really likes me. Why does a guy like that get total strangers to giggle and bat their eyes at his every word, but I try being myself and I get crickets chirping? I just wanna be myself!! Girls who know me tell me I am a great guy, funny and hot. But I wanna be able to meet/attract girls I meet around town. Maybe I could stand to be more confident and laid back like Scot.

Girls: What do you want? Bad boy or great guy?
i like a good mix of gd and bad boy... not too good and not too bad!
Reply:Don't be a "Scott"--- Be you... most females come around and will see right thru the "Scott's" and eventually want the truly great guy, one that respects, and loves her...
Reply:I have a great guy with a little bit of bad boy in him.... nice package believe me.
Reply:I know it sucks but to be honest be yourself. If you want to be like Scot then you aren't being honest to the girl or yourself. I guess look at it this way, one night stand be like Scot, but you want commitment be yourself.
Reply:Well you just answered your own question. Just be yourself. Your friend Scot is trying to be something he's not...a good Christian. Yes he's getting the girls now..but if he keeps acting thisway...he's never going to have a real relationship. You on the other hand will.
Reply:Think about the QUALITY of girls that he is attracting with his "bad boy" banter.


Keep doing what you're doing and be yourself because that's the only way you'll attract the RIGHT girl for you.
Reply:all girls like the bad guy and after a while they like you to change b/c that is why they get you they think that they can make you a better person... just be yourself though and if she don't like you for that srew her she is a ***** if she don't like you for you!!!
Reply:mixed in with both.
Reply:Don't ever try to change yourself to be more like someone else that is like this Scott guy. You won't feel any better about yourself as deep down you won't know if the girl likes you for what you truly are. Also, if you try to act like Scott, you will seem really fake, that's a real turn off for me. I like a guy who acts natural and isn't afraid to be himself and stands for what he believes in. And later down the road you will probably have a nice wife that likes you for who you are and Scott will probably have one divorce after another because of how he treats other girls. So, take my advice and be yourself, you'll feel better later when the girls are through their wild stage and they are looking for a sweeter guy like you. Then you'll be the one with a lot of girls after you.
Reply:Well bad guys are fun at the beginning but they are not the ones you want to spend your life with. Its kind of like guys want to date 'blonds' but end up marrying brunettes
Reply:a great guy with a little bit of naughty. =D





Scot is a jerk... and he is probably finding stupid girls. anyway If you want to find a great girl be a great guy. girls notice, but it might take a little bit for them to say something. Good luck hun.
Reply:why would you want to be a person that your not be your self and sooner or later a great girl is going to find you!! dont worry about what everyone else thinks all the time your just making drama for your self be you!!!
Reply:Young women generally struggle a lot with self-esteem. They often believe they don't deserve a nice guy or are just growing up and finding out that bad boys will treat them badly and eventually they'll grow tired of it.





I've always had major crushes on boy next door types. Try looking for a girl a little older than you. Not someone as old as your mom, lol , but someone a few years older who has had her share of bad boy bs and wants a nice guy.





Look for smart girls with good self-esteem. You don't really want the kind of women Scot is attracting anyway.
Reply:Personally a bad boy is good for fun and fun only. But for long term and possibly marriage a great guy is what i want. However, I feel, (I used to get mad about this) most females aren't sure what they want. Just be yourself I know that a great personality is very attractive. If you act more like your friend you may attract the type of girl your not into. Hope this helps a little. :)
Reply:Those girls falling for your "friend" Scott...are dumb. A smart girl sees what a guy is under all the "cool" stuff. Second, have you heard the quote "tell me who your friends are and i'll tell you who you are" Ok! Stop hanging out with a loser guy like that! Third, Be yourself. Fourth, don't compare yourself with others EVER. Fifth, don't be in a rush you sound young. ENjoy life....all in good time. Everything will come into place.
Reply:to be honest a little bit of both .
Reply:you just need to be yourself but maybe more self-confident. try to smile more. but dont pretend to be anything your nod.





and i would actually prefer a great guy ;]





good luck!!!
Reply:I tried the bad boy thing for a while and it was fun at first but then it became to much drama. I tried the good boy thing but i felt i would "Ruin" him. I say its good to be a little of both but depends on the girls.

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