When I am looking for love, I do seem to like only the good looking girls, Harder as I try to think that beauty is only skin deep and all stuff like that I still cannot convince myself to like a not so good looking girl. I want to know from girls themselves what is it in them they like us to find - especially the not so good looking girls - I want to know how a girl can be interesting yet not beautiful.
I generally see answers from girls or other sources explaining about how harsh or bad or even mean the good looking ones probably . But this is not what I want to listen. I want to know what makes a girl special apart from her beauty
Girls please answer, What according to u makes a girl interesting or even special - not counting her beauty -?
I guess you need to spend more time getting to know girls. It's natural to be attracted to beautiful girls without knowing anything about them - but if you're looking for more than an instant fix, you would surely look a little deeper. Beautiful girls can be intelligent, funny, sexy, generous, caring, sharing sassy and smart. They can also be stupid, rude, ignorant, callous, nasty, greedy, cruel and cold - and so can ordinary looking girls. You don't know anything about the package till you undo the wrappings. If you're content sitting under the christmas tree with lots of beautifully wrapped gifts and feel happy to never open them...go for it. But don't forget the wrappings will eventually come off and you'll be left with the contents...maybe just another pair of socks? Don't overlook the ordinary package wrapped in brown paper and string. Its possible that much more effort went into the contents than the wrapping. As you mature, or look more closely at women, you might be lucky enough to discover that beauty is much much more than what you see on the outside. Do yourself a favour and get to really know and understand girls. You'll come away with a different idea about what is beautiful and as you get good at it...the superficial beauty will actually seem unattractive to you.
Reply:Does she have principles?
Can you see yourself with her a year down the road? How about 10 yrs? The kind of girl you should look for is one who's a classic beauty...and that beauty emanates from within.
Her personality. Does she laugh with you? Can you two feel relaxed and content in eachother's company? Do you share interests/passions? Is she intelligent? Is silence ok sometimes...can you be comfortable just being there with her?
Does she care for you-I mean really care? Would she take care of you when you are sick? Would you feel motivated to care for her?
Lastly: How do you know it's deeper than physical infatuation? Would you still love her if tomorrow you went blind? If she developed a life-long illness?
It's hard to not be shallow when you're young. I'm 21, so trust me, I know...but if you do happen to get to know a "less-than-hot" girl and find she's a gem, hold on to her, because if you don't you may regret it down the road. Sincere, Mature, Moral Girls are hard to find, but that is all that will really matter as you age. Sadly, we all get wrinkles in the end, few truly end up with that wisdom we so long for.
Reply:I think a girl's heart is what makes her special.
Reply:Who she is. She may be the only girl that likes one of your hobbies but you'd never know if you don't give her a chance.
Her heart. Does she display general care and concern for others? Someone who makes fun others or teases them for something as trivial as weight does not have a good heart. They are self absorbed and only care about looks.
Her personality. Does she make you laugh? Is she outgoing and crazy where you are shy and reserved?
These are things to consider for anyone - good looking or not. Beauty is only skin deep because it fades over time, but a woman's personality is with her always.
Reply:first of all, not all good looking girls are mean because i have a lot of friends that are really pretty and the sweetest people ever.
i am good looking [sry if that sounds like im bragging because im not trying to!] but im answering your question anyway. stuff that makes a girl special besides her beauty is her personality. some girls may not be pretty but they could be the nicest person you will ever meet and they would be totally worth getting to know.
Reply:her family, her interests, her intelligence, and her ability to make you happy. no one really wants to date a barbie doll girl who melts in the rain...those are the shallow, personality-less ones. It seems that you have a good head on your shoulders and you know what you want...the right type of girl.
Reply:Her individuality. You need to get to know someone before you pass any judgement on them, don't rule people out based on looks.
Reply:Sometimes you are lucky and a beautiful woman has a beautiful heart. In reality, we are looking for a true emotional match. Someone who will care about who we are, what we stand for, and how and why we feel the way we do. I call it emotional balance, and it is tough to find when you get older. That is why you see beautiful women with so-so looking men. These men know how to make a woman feel valued, important and loved. When the emotional connection is made, the way a person looks becomes more appealing. However, men are visual and interested in the outer package first. Women look more for that combination. I hope this helps.
Reply:Besides her good looks, how about her personality, humor,sensitivity,and all sorts of things!
Reply:personality, self esteem,
self confidence, heart and soul.
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Reply:I kinda have a romantic fantasy where the guy not only loves me, but my talents. I love painting, poetry, and writing. If a guy admired that and encouraged me with that, that would make me so happy because I think that sets me apart from other girls. Other things to look for are her opinions. Does she have a stance on politics, and things like that. Also what might make a girl special are her ambitions. Ex: I want to become an internalist and take a break to make movies. If you see a girl who wants to change the world, she's special. I hope that answers your question.
Reply:Definitely her personality. Then her values (family, herself, religion, stuff like that). Her conversation and it wouldn't hurt if she kept herself up like a woman i.e. keeping her hair styled, nice, sexy clothes and little lip gloss!
Reply:personality, commitment, honesty. And someone who doesnt want to sleep with you on the first or second date. someone you can picture spending the rest of your life with. yes you can have a pretty girl but everyone gets old and beauty fades. would you rather have pretty girls who come and go or have a partner you can share time with, talk to, and grow old together?
Reply:Her passion
Reply:personality and self confidence
Reply:Being able to stand up for herself and being REAL, aka having likes and dislikes, even if they're not the norm, being comfortable being herself, GOOD SENSE OF HUMOR, and smile. (Not smile as in perfect teeth or whatever.)
I wish all guys thought like you and were looking for real girls. Good for you %26lt;3
Reply:confidence, personality
just being herself
Reply:PERSONALITY!!!
Reply:Brains is usually a plus, as is common sense. A lot of the very pretty girls I know ask the dumbest questions... for example I have a friend who is a model, she called her boyfriend and asked if she could park her car anywhere on campus... he said yes, and she said how about in front of such and such a building, and he said no, you can't park there, you can only park in places that have parking lines. I mean really, the girl is in college but needs to be told that she can't park on the street, that she has to park in a parking lot/space. I think that would drive most guys nuts. Another one of my friends (once again, a good lookin gal) thinks that Chicago is a state and Europe is a country...
Reply:I 'm soooooooooo glad you asked.
You don't have to go to ugly to get other things that might be interesting to a person. Some people want,
FUN to hang out with
EASY to talk to
FUN to talk to
LIKES to do cool %26amp; FUN things (mini-Golf / Play pool / Play Chess
LAUGHS @ your corny jokes
NICE PERSON
NICE TEETH
I mean, think about it, if she is Hooooot but teeth missing. . .. Not Good
If she is Hooooot but curse a lot . . . . . . Not Good
if she si Hooooot but Dropped out / school . Not Good
if she is Hooooot but MEAN JERK . . . . .Not Good
if she is hooooot but SMOKES . . . . . . . . Not Good-YUK
if she is hooooot but DRUGS . . . . . . . . . Not Good
And sometimes, the other person can be the Jerk. But people are just people. If you are the type that says. . . . . I don't care that those are fake or that's not her "real" hair, or that she / smokes/ is a jerk. .
Try to be carefull not take anything . . . . Just as long as she is "cute". How about cute and Nice, smart, funny . . . . . ect.
Reply:similar interests, if she share inrests with you and you can enjoy being with her.
Reply:The first part of attraction is always physical. Especially when you are young. If you take the time to talk to someone who has the same interests as you, you might find her attractive. Someone with a really wicked sense of humor. You will find, as you get older that the looks are just the icing on the cake. If there is no cake you will get bored. When you are young, its all about the looks. You will get over that. I have been really really attracted to men based on their personality. If I saw them walking down the street I would never look twice. But they draw me in with their sense of humor and mind. That comes with age.
Reply:Her mind and personallity. Because beauty isnt for ever. Look for something that yu like bout her and work with that.
Reply:Listen to what they have to say.
Woman can be very pretty and it can have absolutely nothing to do with her hair, make up or body. Each person has a talent, just find out what her talent is. She could be really good at singing, telling jokes, skateboarding, ect.
Talk to her about her interests. Maybe she loves to play video games, or watch movies. Nothing is all about beauty and what a person does or does not look like.
girls love to know that boys like more then just looks. She likes to her about how she has pretty eyes.
You need to pay attention to things dealing with her personality. Lauging, smiling, what she does for fun, ect.
Reply:she wants you to look at her as human being if she asks u if u liek her clothes and you dont be like i dont really like that but maybe you could try this.... look at her personallity and natural beauty. make a list of things you like about her or just give a girl a chance
Reply:the fact that she is down to earth, easy to get along with (no silent moments), does not take 10 hours to get dressed
i dont think anyone likes dog ugly people but some people who arnt totaly modle material but arnt totaly dog ugly have little quirks that make them really really sexy.
Reply:Her personality, her views on life compared to yours, and her devotion to you.
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