Do Girls like to subtly stare and like when Guys stare?

Is it a good idea to keep your legs spread apart when sitting near a girl you like? Do girls like to glance at a guys crotch and think this is attractive?





Also do pretty girls like if guys stare at them (not a long or overt stare but more at her face)? Then If the girl turns her head is it a good idea to maintain eye contact or look away as if you werent staring ?





As you can tell, I'm not very good with girls and my friends (who are all very successful with hot girls) say it's a confidence thing. They say I'm good looking funny but too nervous around girls and read into things too much. It just doesnt come natural to me.





What are good strategies of approaching girls at a bar? I really want a relationshipo but some female affection would be nice initially, as I have needs :).





Finally when making good conversation with a girl is it a good idea to put your hand on her leg or hand? And/or heavily compliment her on how you are attracted to her (phrasing it differently?

Do Girls like to subtly stare and like when Guys stare?
wow you really do read into things too much, you'd make a good analyst at work.





don't stress about it just do what comes natural, most of the things you're thinking about there are good, like sitting with legs apart, that's what confident guys do to say, hey look at what i've got, and it works (believe me, us girls really do look there, A LOT). or if you're stood up then put your hand in your front pocket, just with your thumb and the rest of you hand pointing down and towards your crotch, believe me that works too. i'm a confident girl and i do that and it really does make you feel good! and other people get the message, it's a sub conscious thing.





the looking over at girls thing is ok, but don't make it look like you're staring, just glance over and if she catches you looking give her a little smile and then look away yourself, she'll know that you're interested then but not freaky about it.





if you want to chat to a girl you like at the bar, just say hi, are you ok, are you enjoying yourself, good night tonight hey? just general chat, or make a comment about something like if the bar tender is taking ages and there is a queue, just say, busy in here tonight hey, that sort of thing. and if you feel a connection, you'll know, then maybe look over at her during the night and next time she's on her own then ask her if she might want a drink with you sometime, like now if she likes - you know you just have to wing it!!





not good to put your hand on them straight away until you know if she really likes you or not, so to find out after you've chatted for a bit, then you could really look at her sexily and tell her how good she looks tonight and that you noticed her as soon as she came in, and tell her that you're glad you met her tonight, just see what happens. it's difficult to say what might happen next but if you acted like that with me and i fancied you too then i'd definitely give you the signs and would return the compliments etc. then if the chat develops well and you feel more into each other then go for the kiss, why not, that would be cool..........





good luck, you'll be fine, but just chill, get to know yourself, feel confident and you are hot, if you feel that way then it'll show - don't doubt yourself or over analyse things and if it doesn't work out then hey, so what, you still had fun trying and don't let it put you off, they just weren't the right one for you :o)
Reply:If you were sitting next to her i say leave your legs open be comfortable but if your manly part is acting up then probably best not to have your legs open lol. And dont touch her on the leg get to know her talk maybe touch her hand if you guys are connecting. If she touches your leg your home free! And compliments are nice but dont lay them on too hard dont be completly obvious. And when looking at her stare or gaze gently enough for her to know you like her and smile if she see's you gazing or looking. If she smiles back slowly approach her and say she looks nice or you couldnt help staring cause her eyes are so beautiful. if she smiles and giggles a little sit beside her and introduce your self and talk some about general stuff just DONT stare at her chest or any body part other then her face. You can like scan once or twice to view it but do NOT be obvious you want her to know you think she is attractive you dont want her to think you want to hump her that second, but i said you dont want her to think that LOL you can feel it just try not to let "yourself" show like that dont be touchy.


Hope i helped! Good luck hunting lol
Reply:1. I never look at a guys crotch, just sit how you naturally sit and don't think about it because girls will be scared if you're thrusting your crotch at them....





2. Girls don't mind being stared at, we're used to it, but don't JUST stare, smile or say hi or something that says you're not a creep who likes to stare.





3. It is a confidence thing. Just think to yourself "I am SO worth their time" and you'll start to feel better.





4. Only put a hand on her hand if you guys are SERIOUSLY clicking. Light touching is fine if you're in the middle of playful banter, but a hand on the leg is WAY too strong unless you're just looking for a one-nighter.
Reply:I like it when a guy stares a bit. Not too much. Not in a creepy way. It makes me feel attractive to know a guy can't take his eyes off me. Within limits of course. If I catch him staring it's cute if he smiles, returns the glance and then looks down or away. I don't know. That's just me though. Other girls might be different.





As far as the touching, I wouldn't want a guy touching me until I've talked with him for at least a little while and gotten to know the basics about him at a minimum.
Reply:you are over thinking it just be your supersexy self and let the liquer take away your inhibitions

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