Girl problems, i think i like the bad girls.....?

ok i think i have a problem, i may like girls who like to party, ALOT! I mean that aint bad but ima Jock, i play football, baseball and wreslte and tbh, i dont party much, at all, and i dont really care, sure its hella fun to party, but i dont cause im shy, and somewhat unconfident around girls, i like.





Now the problem is the girls who i like, happen to be girls that go to alot of partys, and i MEAN ALOT. Now You see this one girl who i am trying to get, while i recenlty read a note my best girl friend, not GF but friend, gave me a letter she and the girl i liked were sending back and fourth. I read the note, and she had developed a crush on me and then it went away, thats when i was talkign to her, currenlty not bc im nervous too. N e ways in the letter she says that we wouldnt be a good at all together, bc she needs a guy like her. She says she needs a guy who partys alot, and is out-going, and the funny thing is she wants a guy who can keep a relationship.

Girl problems, i think i like the bad girls.....?
why would you like her anyways, if you don't like what she does?
Reply:just get a jock to date
Reply:Since you are a jock. I think maybe the cheerleaders might like you. Get to know one of the cheerleaders and maybe she'll like you back. Or if cheerleaders aren't your type what about the other girl you like? Try a relationship with her. Maybe it will work out! Hope I helped. My daughter partys a lot as well and she has a boy friend who is in the school's sport team.
Reply:The girls you like is not the best for you. Her lifestyle isn't healthy, and you're possibly attracted to her out of some sense of rebellion against everything you've been taught is right. When you know what's right for you and not just what's attractive in a vicarious-thrill kind of way, you'll start finding more wholesome girls interesting.





Don't be lured into thinking that partying is good just because these people are having fun often. They often wake up with hang-overs, and are ingesting stuff that's total poison. Open your eyes to other possibilities -- a lot of other people have a good time without getting drunk and behaving like perfect idiots. Stay sober sometime and watch them -- then ask yourself if this is what you want for your life.





Partyers make poor parents, just in case you're interested in that aspect of the downside.
Reply:Do something fun with her and show her you can have a good time too. Or show her you don't have to party to have a good time.
Reply:u sound hot...eccept 4 the shy thing.
Reply:Forget her be yourself and the right girl will come along for you. Plus it doesn't sound like you to have anything in common
Reply:Hey I got the opposite problem cuz I only dig the good girls.
Reply:get her to do activities with you
Reply:Throw a wicked party and invite her.
Reply:Dude, you want her try being what she wants. If she wants a guy that goes to a lot of parties, then go to a lot of parties, b/c that would not only help with her liking you but it would also help with your social standings, which could open you to a whole new world of girls. Also if you get shy, then parties are even better b/c its a good social environment that is easy to talk to people. But if you really like her as much as you say you do, see if she wants to go to a party with you or just hang out with you. Good luck man.
Reply:That Suks
Reply:A lot of guys like the 'bad girls'...
Reply:you and your friends can go to parties too. as a jock, you shouldn't be too busy after hours.
Reply:talk to them try to come out of your shell
Reply:thats ok many people like to "fix" their partners
Reply:thats not a 'bad' girl.... a bad girl is someone who raughts there lingerie and strips by night... The thing is with this type of chick, she may say shes into this this n this, btu all she wants is one thing.... the coxk!!!


You will not find a relationship like this.... maybe a one night stand!
Reply:find yourself someone that has more in common with you.


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