Girls help me please! Am i a dumb*** when it comes to love? or am being to stubborn?

ok i like a girl. i know i am somewhat handsome since some girls want to hook up or want to date me. yet those girls i dont really like (not hot and really annoy me). and quite a few were hot and many of my friends were mad b cuz i dated them.


YET, i talk to the girls i have no feelings for (that like me) so maybe i can have some for them. but the girls i like absolutely ignore me!! so girls what am i doing wrong?? and yes i talk to girls a lot, not a creep or jerk.


They all say- "your cool and cute but i dont like you, maybe you will find someone better than me..."


and the always end up going for the jerk that takes advantage of them (like 70% of the girls i like) and break there hearsts.


why is that?


i have no luck at all! please help

Girls help me please! Am i a dumb*** when it comes to love? or am being to stubborn?
Unfortunately, dude, you are being a bit of a jerk, and you even admitting to being the jerk that takes advantage of them.


You're vain enough to think that girls only date you because you're handsome, and you select your dates based on their looks and how jealous your friends will be.


You're also selfish enough to fake an interest in girls you aren't attracted to and don't care for, just so you can "have some" (ie, hook up) with them. This is taking advantage of them and breaking their hearts - exactly what you claim the "jerks" do to the girls you like.





Hate to break it to you dude, but you really need to change your ways. Take a long hard look at your actions and ask yourself if you're really any better than the "jerks", or if you're attracted to certain girls for the wrong reasons.
Reply:Maybe your not as great as you think you are? Im sorry to say but maybe the girls you like dont like the fact you - "i talk to the girls i have no feelings for (that like me) so maybe i can have some for them". Im guessing ur admiting to stringing along for a hook up. Girls pick up on that kinda thing. Why dont u stop chasing these girls that have no interest in you and chase a girl you want that actually has interest in you. Everything in time my friend.
Reply:1st of all the girls that you like probably think that you a a player. A. because the girls who you like are best friends to the girls who like you , you don't like, you date. Making the girls who like you feel bad, which is the girl's best friend you you dated.B. Friends don't date best friends ex mans.C. The girls who you like, probably you have dated their best Friend, and the girls you you like have probably heard that you didn't really like them. D. They figured that you are a player. E. Stop (trying to) date girls you you don't like.F. If you like a girl date the girl who you like. Not the girl who likes you, but you don't like, because doing that just make thing complicated.It makes that girls who like you, but who you don't like feel like you like them. The girls who you don't like probably are the friends of the girls who you do like, and the girls who ignore you may like you somewhat.G. But you have dated their friend you you never liked in the first place.H. They can not date you now.I. NEVER DATE A BEST FRIENDS' EX J.The girls might want to date you but the honor codes says they are not able to date you.K. You dated their bestfriend.L.Or they might think that they are not good enough for you b/c you dated their Enemy/foe instead of them and now you turn to them b/c it didn't work out?? M. Next time just try to date the girl who you really like instead of the one who likes you and you don't like back the same way.O. Don't take advantage of girls...


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