Girls only please!!?

Hi beautiful women! I'm Alex. Now I got to ask this because it's something that has been puzzling me over time. I'm 20 years old. Girls, why is that sometimes the guys who are disrespectful to girls, get all the girls? For example: Let's say a guy comes up to a girl and starts to throw sexual comments on her, girls for some reason dig that.





I myself am a gentleman and when I approach a girl and treat her with respect I always get turned down? My friends are so immature at my age and yet they get all the girls? I'm not boring at all, I just don't get it.





Do all girls like guys who are straight up tell a girl they like her? What I'm trying to argue is why do girls always go for the immature and rude type of guys, to put it better?





Another example, I just got a phone call from my friend who just met some girls and they are out partying trying to get them drunk. You know to get in there pants. See I don't want to be like that, I don't want to take advantage.





What's up? Tips?

Girls only please!!?
I hate guys like that.





Don't generalize. You're just going to the wrong women.
Reply:your friends are morons---the girls they attract don't require much from a guy. you should stick to your way of doing things--the LADYS you meet will be well worth the effort
Reply:I think if you are rude and disrespectful you are only going to get the "girls" that everyone has gotten before you. It sounds like you just haven't found the right girl who appreciates someone who has class. If you continue to do what you're doing you'll find that girl who will want to go out with you. Don't be discouraged..pigs only attract whores. You don't want a whore do you? They are only good for one thing.. and it sounds like you are a nice guy who deserves a lot more than just that. Keep trying. Maybe go after someone who is older and appreciates your style?
Reply:i think you sound very sweet. just continue what you're doing, and you'll meet the right girl. it seems that most girls these days are WAY too promiscuous, and not used to guys who actually show RESPECT. i wish i could meet someone like you...all i find are jerks. usually only the whores or desperate girls go for rude guys, so i suggeset once again that you just be yourself and find yourself a nice respectable girl =)
Reply:Girls like it when guys like the first move, and come up and tell them that they like them-it shows us that they aren't afraid to talk to us and that they are bold or brave!


Good Luck!
Reply:you go up to the wrong women then. or you live in hoeville. i totally hate disrespectful guys
Reply:You are obviously meeting or hanging out with the wrong type of girls. Women on the whole like a guy WHO IS A GENTLEMAN. I really don't know where you are getting your facts from.
Reply:A respectful guy is my type. Don't worry about getting turned down. Instead of going for girls that like immaturity, go for others. Eventually you'll find someone who appreciates your manners and who is perfect for YOU! :)
Reply:uuhhmmm... girls like that tend to see gentlemen as guys who has low self-esteem.... its like their not confident enough to handle girls like them... but for some...they dig the gentlemen because they respect them... its just a matter of attitude....
Reply:girls are not like that mean not all.





girls out there just want the same thing like the other guys





you won't find those girls who wants to be respected by guys out there on the streets...





did you get the idea?





you will find one believe me....





(^-^)V





there are lots of ladies who like a guy who'll gonna respect them...





but the problem is you need to find them
Reply:Ah, u sound like a sweet guy. I like 2 be talk dirty 2. But i don't put up with rudeness. Don't know why girls are turning u down though. My be u need 2 be a little more rough.
Reply:Guys like this DO NOT get all the girls. They get the sl utty ones.





You can tell a girl you like her. But, if you are very attentive and friendly and ignore other girls that will work too.





Don't be like your friend. Just be a good guy.
Reply:sounds like your picking all the airheads. find a girl who looks like she knows where she's going in life and ask her out. i bet she'll be as mature as you are.





i would like it if a guy told me strait up that he liked me. no more games. just put it all on the table.
Reply:It seems that way, but not all true. Some women like dominating, take charge men. These are men that are borderline bad boy, semi-gentlemen. These are men with strong back bones and set in their ways.





In this age, a man that is a complete gentleman is considered a wuss amongst his male friends and is later seen that way by women....I know pretty stupid huh. But true, since the beginning of time, men have ruled everything. A gentleman, like yourself, was hard to come by until recently.





My advise to you, let the women come to you. They will grow sick and tired of the bad boys who break their hearts pretty soon. Trust me...nice guys finish last----but at least they finish. Good Luck!!!
Reply:WOW. You seem perfect to me! I guess all i can say is wait for that right girl, PLEASE don't turn and change like you other guy friends! Just wait a couple years, and try picking up a girl some place more mature that lets a, a club?
Reply:not all girls are into crappy guys, we just like guys that aren't a wet blanket that do sweet gestures for us but not drool all over and become a pitiful heathen. judging from the layout of your question alone you sound like a together guy with a lot to offer you will have no problems. just don't smother a girl leave some space and you'll be turning them down for the dates trust me.
Reply:well it all depends on the girl. some girls like wild imature guys. nd some like polite mature guys. i guess it all depends on thier personality nd how long you've known them! :]
Reply:well girls like to no tht u like them and think there hot and sexxy and things like that but u hae to no not to come on to strong at first or too lame
Reply:most chicks get turned on by assholes n thats jus how we r u cant really explain it i kno it makes no since so yea im not that way thank god

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