Girls syndrome//?

I called this girls syndrome simply because i have lots of problem regarding on courting girls..!! Some people said that i'm a good looking but still i dont know how to court a girl (here is my pic.. http://www.friendster.com/photos/4238740...





The problem is i dont know how to treat a girl..meaning i dont have a friend that is a girl.. I'm shy talking to girls..I feel they will do something makes me shy and go away when there is a girl..





There are lots of times that i met beautiful girls that i want to be mine but the problem is that i dont know what to do.. Were not yet friends.. And i'm shy talking to girls.. So here is the problem:








1: what will i do to talk to her without feeling nervous(she is always around of her friends..)


2: what is my problem?? why im shy of girls??


3: what you can advice me,for me to be comfortable around girls..!!








thx...

Girls syndrome//?
hey hun, ur pic link doesn't work. Umm i think u jus need to relax, girls dont like it if a guy is over the top just be friendly, start off by smiling and just saying hi!





start slow, and don't worry about it, some people are naturally shy around the oppisite sex. my best advice is just relax!!
Reply:yea...the link doesnt work.





1. Get a group of guys to act like your wingmen. They'll take away the girl's friends while you two can be alone.





2. Get to know them better. Instead of having all guys in your group, mix it up. Your probably shy of girls because you haven't had any interaction with them at all.





3. Be around them more often instead of walking the other direction.
Reply:1. Unlucky... hate it when women do that they cluster together so that no one would luster the nack to say something to them, and dont go waiting till shes alone cuz then your just 1 step away from stalker. Tough call, either gather the nuts or find a more convenient time.


2. Well if your like me its your inferiority complex, always get the feeling she wont like you? or your not her type? or that your going to be used? otherwise its your own ballpark, so make the rules of the game.


3. Well figure out what kind of girl you want, what personality to be exact, and then look for one that would suit you, or one thats already at your heals and you dont seem to realize. An weird odds thing says that odds are you have 2 girls that like you and dont know about them, weird stuff huh?
Reply:girls are a little more sensitive than guys, so juts talk to her like she is one of your mates but remember dont talk about sex, porn, lol anything u think would upset her! just treat her like one of your mates but be a little bit more sensitive. maybe you should talk to a few girls just as friends what about your mates gfs or their friends or something. you will need to become friends with a few girls to get your confidence up i tihnk! just remember u only live once, u have 2 do wat makes u happy! dont live for others, live for urself! if u want sometimes, do what it takes to get it! always respect a girl in what she says, some silly girls say things they dont mean but thats not your problem to decipher if she says ihngs she doesnt mean thats her prob lol! i dunno really just pretend you are confident, if you pretend you are you will come across as if you are and the more you pretend, the more confident u wil lget!
Reply:The link on your profile works, even though the link on this page doesn't work.





I agree that you need to start with being just friends with several girls first. If you find that to difficult because you are always thinking of what boys usually think about, then find some ugly girls that you won't be thinking of that kind of stuff about, get to know them, get used to talking to them, find out what girls like to talk about.





Then move up to okay looking girls until you can feel comfortable talking to them.





Then get yourself some kind of cute girls to talk to. Talk to them until you feel comfortable looking in their eyes while talking to them, and not at other parts of their bodies. after that you should have enough confidence to talk to all the pretty girls that come along.