Women/girls Help! I like this girl in work, wanna nail her :( advice please?

I known this girl since i started my new job 2 months ago she's sooo lush. Im shy around girls and have never had a girlfriend, im 21. Ive only ever snogged girls when out on the town n drunk. still a virgin. I want this girl so bad! Shall i buy her flowers or will she be embarassed or is it too cheesy! Ive been rejected when i ask girls out before, im nervous as i think it will make it awkward if she doesent want to go out with me! Sometimes i think im good-looking other times i think im ugly! I have thought some girls have liked me before, but no! im good at acting confident, i work in telesales!"! Shall i ask her out for dinner? or is that cheesy, i feel embarassed and shy! Its like saying 'i want sex with you' in a round about way! Shall i ask her bowling? we've had a few good chats(we laughed) and i think she likes me or does she just like me liking her? Please tell me how to get off to a good start and act cool wiv this girl!! Where should i take her? What to say? When2 kiss?

Women/girls Help! I like this girl in work, wanna nail her :( advice please?
First you say:


"I...wanna nail her" - which means WHAT? That phrase use to mean to kill someone....


Then you say:


"she's soooo lush" - which means WHAT? Physically luscious? That means outward appearance, which is a superficial perspective.


Then you say:


"I've only ever snogged girls" - which means WHAT? What in the world is 'snogged' - sounds like you blew your nose at them or snubbed them...


Then you admit:


"drunk" - so you obviously can't hold your alcohol, which means you are too young %26amp; undependable to get involved with licquor!


You say:


"Sometimes I think I'm good-looking, other times I think I'm ugly" - why again with the outward/external appearance so dadgum important? It is NOTHING.


Then you say:


"I'm good at acting confident, I work in telesales!". Being a good bull-talker does NOT mean or represent confidence. All it means is that anonymously via a telephone, you can bully people into purchasing what they don't want or need. And, telesales is a dying trade, too, so best find another means of income...


You conclude with:


"I want to have sex with you" is what you are inferring? Is that your Ultimate Goal??? Use this poor gal as the platform to Lose Your Virginity??? How crass and low!





Since your perspective is that of eventual sexual in nature, kindly leave the poor girl alone and find someone who will do what you need for a few dollars in her pocket. No need to pull this sweet innocent gal at work down with your lustful wanderings / wonderings.....





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Reply:You're VERY welcome!


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PS - don't hate you, just show the gal a little more respect for her as a PERSON, is all.... Report It

Reply:Keep it away from the work place!!
Reply:whoa whoa whoa settle down. You are to hyper in your writing.YOu need to relax which I think could be hard for you since youve never had sex. YOU need to find YOU cause you sound like your trying to be someone else. stop putting on a show and let her see the real you not some guy trying to talk slang and be gangsta. It is a huge turn off when guys act confident but you can tell that they are not. Girls can read between the lines and if your doing to much then she will just think you are some one fake. yeah she will laugh when you are talking but if she not getting into good conversation with you she is aware of your insecurities .and if you don't show her the real you then she will never give you the time of day.she will be nice but she won't go anyfuther with you ever. I hope I am not to harsh just being real. hope I helped a little.
Reply:Number 1 if you want to get with a nice girl then you don't talk about how you want to nail her. A relationship with a woman/girl is more than sex. You need to get to know her. Go out on dates. Kissing and holding hands is very romantic. Do not push her into sex because you will definitely lose her before it gets started. You sound like you don't have a very good opinion of yourself either. In order to have a good relationship with someone else, you have to be happy with who you are. Take your time. Be a gentlman. That is important. Good luck and God bless
Reply:take it easy, stay calm and relaxed and her in a low-pressure way, like "do u want to get a drink after work?" etc. you dont necessarily need grand gestures, especially if youre not sure what she thinks about you. either way, she'll be flattered, and if you guys get on anyway she won't be mean if she does turn you down.


good luck - and DON'T say "i want to nail you"!!!!