What in girls is attractive to guys? i need to know . so i know what not to do and what to do.?

What attracts girls to guys? i need to know . so i know what not to do and what to do.?


first i would like to say im sorry that this is so long but i would like u to help me the most important thing is in the middle but if u have time to read this and answer please like a long answer for all of my ?'s thank u











How can i get over my shyness and my insicuatity?"?im almost 17 year old girl . a jr in high school. and i have never had a boyfriend . also i can be akward ,weird ,ugly , shy ,ect. so i would not know how to act when i finally get a boyfriend if that ever happends. and i belive thet everyone hates me..Am i weird? i think i am depressed!!?Why do people not like me and hate me?I'm 17 and I've never had a real boyfriend! Is that pitiful or what??i've never flirted with guys and igk how so anyhow, i had stopped worrying about getting a boyfriend until recently when i've noticed a lot of people at school walking wround holding hands, hugging, etc...and i suddenly wanted a boyfriend really bad. i've never had one before! i dont just one one because everone else has one . that would be wrong. i want to know what it's like to go out on dates, you know, stuff like that.my friends say i'm a "good-girl" or i appear to be one even though i'm not some goody-two-shoes. do boys not like "good girl" girlfriends? what's up with me? what could i do?btw, i'm not up for changing who i am to get a boyfriend.help me pleaseI have a ? i want a lot of answers please?also i can be awkward ,weird ,ugly , shy ,ext. so i would not know how to act when i finally get a boyfriend if that ever happens. and i believe that i just need advise but i don't show people this i hide all this inside me i never let it show that I'm depressed or not liked or what eve i just want advise on this and i don't want a boyfriend just to have one i want one so it can help me feel better about my self and show it on the outside and stop hiding all me feelings bottled up inside.What r some hints i can give a guy to tell him that i like him?i am the most shyish person on the planet , so asking him out is way out of the ?,What Should i put this note to the guy i like?every summer me and my friends and their moms and siblings go to this water park. i just happen to be the oldest even though their is about 2 more my age and 2 that are 1 yr younger and some younger than that that are siblings. i am 16 turning 17 but that does not really matter .LAST SUMMER when we went every girl in our group was cruising on this lifeguard (me the most ) in the middle of the day my mom actually goes up to another lifeguard to ask for his name. his name is Jeff ( i love that name). when we were about to live we decided to go down the water slides one more time and we were all running up there because his shift for the water slide was almost over . i was calling the yellow slide because it was closer to him and then one of the younger siblings was all u just want that one because jeff is rt there and i was all no(but u know its the truth) .but then the lifeguard up there with us was all asking us if we liked him because i was saying we have to hurry and get up there . and then the younger sibling was all not all of us just her . if the sibling was my own i would of hurt her so bad keep in mind the lifeguard is my age\but the bad thing now is i just got hired at the water park but i have not been working yet so ID K what to do if he is still working there what if he remembers me? ( i f he does and he is still working there i am really shy around guys) so guys what in a girls personality and looks like and attitude of life do u like im blond and have brasssed and were the hotest cloths and am 5' 5'' and 110 pounds but whats wrong with me u say


ah i just don't understand no guys like me . and i have no friends but I've flirted with guys who have liked me but in the long run we never went out and i am really shy. its not that well my body shape is well I'm 5 ' 5" and weigh 110 pounds and have brasses but i just don't understand. so any how, i had stopped worrying about getting a boyfriend until recently when I've noticed a lot of people at school walking round holding hands, hugging, etc...and i suddenly wanted a boyfriend really bad. I've never had one before! i want to know what it's like to go out on dates, you know, stuff like that.my friends say I'm a "good-girl" or i appear to be one even though I'm not some goody-two-shoes. do boys not like "good girl" girlfriends? what's up with me? what could i do?BTW, I'm up for changing who i am to get a boyfriend.because if u dont like me ill channge to the way u want me to be am i happy or depressed? i am a 16 year old girl . a Junior in high school. and i have never had a boyfriend also i can be awkward ,weird ,ugly , shy ,ext. so i would not know how to act when i finally get a boyfriend if that ever happens. and i believe that i just need advise but i don't show people this i hide all this inside me i never let it show that I'm depressed or not liked or what eve i just want advise on this and i don't want a boyfriend just to have one i want one so it can help me feel better about my self and show it on the outside and stop hiding all me feelings bottled up inside just please give me some advise im not saying im hot because i were the hotest cloths i just mean is there sometheing wrong with me and im not hot so what

What in girls is attractive to guys? i need to know . so i know what not to do and what to do.?
First of all, there is nothing wrong with being 16/17 and not having a boyfriend, its NOT pitiful. In fact, I would say it would better to wait for the right guy than having some stupid guy as your boyfriend just because every other girl around you has one.





I don't think there is anything wrong with you. I think the reason why guys at your age might not want to have you as a girlfriend is that you are a good girl and they think you'll not have sex with them. MOST (not all) of the guys at that age are only looking for sex and thats why they'll go for girls who they think are stupid enough to have sex with them and when these girls find out that they have been fooled into having sex, they get really hurt. So at least thats not going to happen with you.





After seeing the way you express yourself, I don't really think you should worry too much about boys, at least for now otherwise you're just going to get hurt really bad. I'm 21 and I've never had a girlfriend and most of my friends have them but I don't really think I'm missing out on anything because I'd rather be with someone I really like than just having a girlfriend for the sake of having one.





Another thing, never ever date a guy who is dating you just because you look good. Its alright to look good but if someone wants you to date for that reason alone then he doesn't like you, he just likes your body and sooner or later he'll dump you for someone else.





You talked about changing yourself. I would say don't ever try to change yourself for anyone else (unless its a bad habit or something) because a guy is supposed to like you the way you are. Don't try to change yourself, just try to find a guy that is compatible with you. If you try to change yourself then not only are you fooling the guy but you're also fooling yourself because sooner or later you'll get back to how you were simply because thats what you are.





And please, don't feel depressed for being single because you know we all want to be in love with someone and want to be loved by someone but sometimes it is better to wait for the right person than being with someone that you're not in love with. You're still very young and I'm sure you've a bright future ahead so just concentrate on your studies and try to enjoy life to the fullest.
Reply:What's the big rush for? Just be yourself is the right thing and when the time comes it will just happen. It's kind of like magic when you both see eye to eye... There is nothing wrong in not having sex until you get married in fact thats the way GOD intended us too stay until then it is the most special moment of your life... It's okay to date just don't give in to any of them make them respect you... The moment you give in you will loose control... Be the smart one out of the group... Be the leader not the followers...
Reply:ok first of al! ?!??! u repeated the same thing like 4 times!! just saying.. and first u said ur not up for changing and now u are?? wtf? o well.. maybe u just shouldnt rush blah blah the rite guy will come