Nice guys read this(girls too)?

If you are wondering why you haven't gotten that date with that girl that you were crazy about, it's because you were nice to them. Girls walk all over nice guys.(I'm talking about teenage and 20 Year old girls) Girls like Jerks. Girls like guys who treat them like crap. Because they like guys that can make their emotions surge. Stupid guys get girls. Guys that have poor jobs get girls. Guys that go to prison get girls. Guys that beat girls get girls. Nice, intelligent men that have good personality and jobs, don't. Nice guys = friend. Jerks = boyfriend and sex.


End of story. Thank you and good night. I will probably get hate mail from girls saying I'm wrong but I am right. I am a nice guy. I'm almost 16 and haven't gotten a girlfriend yet. Because I'm nice to girls. I'm highly attractive, but its not enough. whats ur answer

Nice guys read this(girls too)?
That's not neccessarily true. WAY WAY WAY* Too many guys are going for that whole "I'm gonna be a bad boy and attract women" thing. If you're proud of yourself that makes a HUGE difference, but what really makes a difference is your lifestyle. It's all about your lifestyle and what you make out of yourself. I used to be a natural asshole and get alot of dates, but most of "hot" women were just insecure neurotic emotional baggage (yes, I realize I'm bragging). But really, women aren't everything, being the bad boy isn't everything. You think it's hard attracting a woman? It's even harder maintaining a relationship, it's even harder getting through life. Most stuff David Deangelo says is just to get money, you can ask him yourself and he will openly admit it. I went to one of his seminars. He looks a little old now lol. But if you want to go through the bad boy phase, by all means do it. Maybe it could help you out with your life, who knows?
Reply:i dont like jerks okay, i'd prefer my bfs to be nice and if u havent gotten a gf and ur 16 i dnt really think dat ur acctually highly attractive or nice. maybe u have other issues
Reply:i think being a jerk comes with confidence. Most nice guys don't have confidence and in my opinion most nice guys are ugly, odd, shy, lame, or dorky. Im all up for a confidant, nice sexy guy lol. The jerks are usually the cocky confidant pieces of sex that all the girls want. That's why girls like jerks!
Reply:This is for questions, not for what some may consider inane opinions.
Reply:Sooooo true.
Reply:no. ur right. but as a girl, i could say the exact same about guys. they just like the slutty bitchy girls, not the nice attractive ones such as myself and it makes me feel terrible....and personally, i dont find those types attractive at all. i look for the nice guys, and i have such trouble finding them....wherever they are, they arent near me...dont worry, someone will appreciate u someday....ik i would- hey maybe we should get together=) lol
Reply:not all girls. i like nice guys, im very sensitive and i think id go crazy if my boyfriend was a jerk.





are you very shy? or maybe conceited? those are 2 things that would make you less likely to get a girlfriend.





try talking to some new girls, if youre nice, theyll like you =)
Reply:ok maybe youre right. that might be the case. this is how i see it:


the jerks are more assertive and then the girl knows that the guy is into them


the nice guys tend to be quiet sometimes or are worried the girls might think theyre moving too fast so you dont ask them out or show that you like them.





this is why my ex bf was a jerk and i didnt try to have a relationship with my ex guy friend. my ex bf asked first and what was i supposed to do. it took forever for my ex guy friend to reveal his feelings. (he was a nice guy..the only problem is he was a compulsive liar)





also perhaps the nice guys have been too safe. girls often like a guy who will live a little. maybe some of those nice guys dont have enough passion. sure not all the nice guys would be that way but it appears that way to the girls and they generalize.


i am reminded of Sabrina the teenage witch here. Sabrina hated how her bf Josh did not seem to have a reaction to another guy kissing her. it made him dull in her opinion. she found out he did get a little jealous at first. that is perfectly normal.


if a bf i had was like that where no matter what i did he would not get jealous that wouldnt be very fun. then it would be like the guy thought of me as a best friend. its like he wasnt in love with me and didnt mind being away from me.





nice guys often dont have confidence and the ones who do probly appear not to. thats another thing.





i guess i dont care about intelligence...i have liked a few intelligent guys. ill admit it. sometimes stupidity can be hot (not moronic level of stupid, way too much) but i do prefer nice guys. its just i didnt know the guy i went out with was a jerk.
Reply:I'm a girl, and I totally know what you mean. I haven't found a boyfriend yet because all of them are such jerks.. There isn't one nice guy, and all the good ones are taken. D:





I'm sure you'll find somebody soon!
Reply:I'm 30 years old and still haven't had a girl friend. I would exactly say I'm a nice guy but most girls mistaken me as one. For some reason because I tend to be quiet around them they assume I'm a nice guy... whatever. I disagree with the point about the good job. Good job equals good money and women love money... now I'm going to get hate mail... LOL!


You're only 16 and have only begun this whole game with girls at which I can't seem to figure out the rules. Wait until you're 25 before you start drawing your conclusions. I will say this however. Don't waste your life trying to be what women want.
Reply:In my opinion your kinda of right. ^^


I currently like this guy right now and he treats me like crap. But I know that deep inside of him, he is really nice and he does a lot of cute things.
Reply:Don't be so hard on yourself, there's someone out there for you. I know what you say is not true. Just look around. The reason these guys are getting more girls is because they're more outgoing. If you just put yourself out there, girls will notice. If worst comes to worst, with your philosophy, all you need to do is walk up to a girl you like and give her a right hook to the kisser. She'll fall in love with you on the spot.
Reply:I'm already 16.. and I say..be an asshole, the girls here who tell you that they're into nice guys are just fooling themselves and you along with them, if you wanna enjoy ur teen years to the fullest be an asshole. Its easy, u don' have to play angry, u just channel the frustration of not havin a girlfriend into how u treat the girsl around you...when u start bein impolite they'll notice you.
Reply:well, im a girl and i have to admit im attracted to "stupid" guys.thats cause they say dumb things that makes me laugh.but im not into jerks.and i actually like nice guys.if you have a crappy personality, dont even bother with me.its hard to find a mature guy in school whos also funny and knows how to treat a girl.
Reply:so true!
Reply:hey~ i love nice/sweet guys :)


i'm having trouble finding nice guys like emily j said all the good ones are taken..


i know that some things are true though.. i see jerks with girls all over them all the time. which i don't really get.


but I'm always nice and just cute but no guys are over me just smitten over the really attractive not so nice ones. so isn't it the same on both sides
Reply:Smart/Nice guys do.


i have had 1...2...3...4...5...6...7


7 NICE GUYS AS BOYFRIENDS!


And i am only 15!


yea...only jerks, huh?

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