Hot girls = bad. less hot girls = good.........right???

I'm not dating a hot girl anymore. In two senses:


1.)I broke up with my attractive girlfriend.


2.)I've decided not to date a hot girl again.





Dating a hot girl is great, since you're constantly thinking about having sex with her, and you get to. It's really fantastic. BUT!! (and this is a big BUT) it comes at a cost. Gather 'round, children.


Girls are like starving jackals when it comes to complements. Complement them on their shoes, and they'll stave off complement starvation for a little bit....but they'll need to feed again. Soon. Hot girls are the fat jackals that get food tossed to them. They go through their day being admired, stared at, and complemented for everything they do from buying a bagel to passing gas ("Dude, that hot girl farted." "AWESOME!") so they begin to define themselves by their hotness. Because they're validated so regularly, hot girls get a self-esteem defined by others, and a sense of entitlement that could match your average NBA player.

Hot girls = bad. less hot girls = good.........right???
I think to a degree you are right on the money. I am pretty nice to look at I am told. I used to model and dropped out of it to be a mommy and wife. I hope to stay young and pretty but I would much much rather have a sticky, hairy little candy picked off the floor and put in my mouth from my little one, given to me with love and a big fat kiss than a stupid @ss compliment any day, sorry. (you would have had to have been there, lol. I had a candy on the way to my mouth when my then-5 year old dropped it, then proceeded to pick it up, out of the DIRT and LINT covered floor and he wiped it on the front of his shirt, looked at it, deemed it clean, smiled at me, and fed it to me. HOW could I refuse???)
Reply:What exactly is your question?
Reply:You are right about that, I know from experience but dont let one bad apple destroy the whole bunch. Date another attractive girl if you like because all of us dont act the same.♥
Reply:It's up to you...but I'm guessing you're hanging around girls who are under the age of 25 who don't know themselves very well yet. I'll go a step further and say that you have never dated a hot and intelligent girl who understands people and grasps that their compliments and ego-stroking means absolute sh*t in the grand scheme of things.


Don't sell yourself short by saying you'll never date a hot girl again; just be more picky with your definition of "hot".
Reply:Totally
Reply:Speak the truth, brother!
Reply:It depends on what you're saying man...


I mean, if a girl spends too much time on themself, of course they're going to want to get some compliments. And the reason why they try to look like that is for...ding ding ding! The men. Since these days no one uses the word "beautiful" anymore, they use "hot" and "sexy", women forget how much make up they have on...


So, I believe that if you find the inner "sexy" girl instead of those shallow girls who are jackals as you called them..? =3


Good luck with that dude.
Reply:True. But you mustn't have prejudices. I mean, you are probably wright, but sometimes, we girls are so hurt inside, that we use some kinds of masks to hide beneath them... Maybe you could find someone with soul, not only with sense for dept of someone's wallet... We do exist, but we are hard to find...
Reply:not all hott girls are like that...

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