To all nice guys(girls should read this too)?

If you are wondering why you haven't gotten that date with that girl that you were crazy about, it's because you were nice to them. Girls walk all over nice guys.(I'm talking about teenage and 20 Year old girls) Girls like Jerks. Girls like guys who treat them like s h i t. Because they like guys that can make their emotions surge. Stupid guys get girls. Guys that have poor jobs get girls. Guys that go to prison get girls. Guys that beat girls get girls. Nice, intelligent men that have good personality and jobs, don't. Nice guys = friend. Jerks = boyfriend and sex.


End of story. Thank you and good night. I will probably get hate mail from girls saying I'm wrong but I am right. I am a nice guy. I'm almost 16 and haven't gotten a girlfriend yet. Because I'm nice to girls. I'm stopping it now. Ok, now you can answer.

To all nice guys(girls should read this too)?
you are right...we always prefer bad boy even when they are morons...


you need to find a real woman...about 26 and up and she´s going to appreciate a good guy cause when we realize that we let them pass by is too late...
Reply:For telling it like it is, I give you kudos.





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Reply:That is completely true. I'm 18 and I've had one gf and she is the girl of my dreams. I've had to act like I didn't want her to be able to get her. Right now I'm not talking to her for many months in order to get her back! Why can't girls like us the way we are? Report It

Reply:You go dude! Report It

Reply:I just do not under stand if that if thats what girls like why do they call men dogs and abusive people?????????????????????? is it ok to answer a question with a question?oh look theres another question
Reply:Don't give up yet, you are only 16....you have YEARS AND YEARS ahead of you. Many years to meet girls who will appreciate you for who you are. But, yea, it does seem like young girls (and some women) go for the a**holes. In high school, I think girls go for the jerks cuz the girls are superficial and shallow, for the most part. They do it partly out of rebellion, a bad boy will always pi** the parents off! Hang in there, and you will be surprised at how the world opens up (you will meet all kinds of people) after high school......people who are looking for real, meaningful, cool people. Just remember there are girls out there wondering why they can't get a boyfriend, why all the guys always go for the girls that are b****es!
Reply:My boyfriend is nice and we've been together for 2 years. My ex was a jerk and he's my EX. I don't see where guys keep getting this idea.
Reply:I have a boyfriend..after my other one moved to Florida... He's a jerk and I think he's HOT!!
Reply:Well....you have your own points of view!
Reply:thats right!!! brother I'm 16 too and I have the same problem
Reply:Its not because your nice is because your Gay! Just kidding!!!! Well Im a girl, But I really appreciate nice guys, So Im not like those gilrs you've been trying to date
Reply:I think you are right..and this happens to girls too. Cause people tend to really really want what they cannot have. So if someone snobs you, an air of mystery clouds over you, making you want to pursuit this person. It so happen the one person you pursue is pursuing another, because she is having a hard time to get him.. it's a cycle.
Reply:Listen I'm 13 and it's all in the matter of time that you will get a girl.If you beat or do anything that you said you're going to do don't.Well because for me since I'm a young teenage individual I like guys that respect me.If they don't then they can hit the rode.Don't worry Like I said I'm 13 and don't have anyone yet.Just pay attention to the signs.But I repeat don't do any of the things you said you are planning on doing.And trust me on this one if you want a girl just look.If you want a good girl there's plenty of them out there,or if you want anyone then look.Hey and even a girl could have her eye on you.You never know.I tell you me being 13 and when a guy asks me out I say "Sorry,I want to muture more then go for me in a couple of years."And you know what I've never had my first kiss,but I'm waiting for prince a charming of my dreams.Hope I helped you at all.Yea I know I'm pretty muture for my age but I need to muture more.
Reply:Hey, you haven't got a girlfriend not because you are nice (which is currently being debated by this question) but because there's more to the situation. Are you acting like you only want to be friends with that perfect girl? Flirt a little. Do you live in a small town where all the good-looking guys ARE jerks? Grow up to live a big city.


Also, YOU'RE 16. Not everyone has a "significant other" by then. I have friends who haven't been on dates before and they're 25 and 28!


For the gods' sakes, don't give up on the whole "nice guy" thing now.


For your info. I like nice guys. Jerks are simply that: JERKS.


Tah,


~Mel~
Reply:I'm 16 and I've never had a gf either. Being mean to girls is not the way to go. Those relationships will not last.
Reply:All I can say is that you are still young and generalizing about what women/girls like. Women like nice guys--it's just that there are so few of them around out there. You have been hanging out with the wrong girls. Go to bed, get some rest and everything will be all right in the morning.
Reply:Woohoo! At least you're doing something about it.
Reply:I think your right....for your age group. Girls that are in there 16 are stupid and look for the wrong things in a guy. So don't let it be the way you change yourself with girls. Just know that when the time is right and you find that one girl who loves the fact that your responsible and a nice guy....it will all work out. Dating is a learning process and yeah we all make mistakes....hell I can tell you a few guys that I blew off that I really should of dated.....but we are all stupid at that age....just wait...because when your 21 thoughs stupid girls are going to say.."Damn I should of dating that hot guy!" Just wait.....
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Reply:I am 19, i have only been in one serious relationship. In the beginning he was great. He said the right things and done the right things. But slowly he started turning into a jerk. So no, we don't go after the jerks. They come after us. And some of us are smart enough to recognize the next jerk and not fall into the same situation. Now, some girls are too stupid to realize that and keep getting involved with every different breed of jerk. And in your situation, being 16, girls are very superficial (and guys too). everybody just wants to fit in or do what makes them "cool". So that probably encompasses girls going after the jerks. So, my advice to you is don't give up completely.