Girls who like girls?

being a girl its easy to approach dudes! I can even give dudes advise on what to say to girls?


but as a girl talking to another girl, its akward!


how can you tell the straight from the bi? I mean there is a lot of them! I don't want to just put it out there like "hey, i'm bi, you can talk to me"





what should i do?





I'm a very pretty girl. dudes and girls think so! I don't want studs approaching me like hamburger meat! so i want to keep it at a minimum! are there any bi male or females with advise?





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Girls who like girls?
I'm really shy about approaching women, but I try to get to know them a little first and then find a way to ease it into a conversation. With one I'd known for a few months, I just told her I thought she was really pretty and if by chance she was bi then I'd really like a date. She had never been with a women, but we were together for 3 years.


And when I have approached a straight women, I've never had them be mean about letting me know.





Good luck! I know it's not easy!
Reply:I'D LIKE SOME OF YOUR LEFT OVER HAMBURGER. Report It

Reply:You don't have to throw it out there just get to know them through casual conversation drop a hint. I'm a guy but a girl picked me up one time by telling me a story how one of her guy friends walked in on her stark naked. I replied wow lucky guy. We had just met it was at a table with other strangers and in a professional setting, I thought it was a nice subtle and discreet way of telling each other we wanted to get to know each other better.
Reply:I wouldnt approach just any girl it has to be a special one























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Reply:It sounds like your sleazy. You just want to get it on with everyone, men, women, what else?
Reply:i have problems approaching women and most women don't approach me because i'm very traditionally gendered (i can;t help it. skirts are the most comfortable thing ever to me)





if someone starts to treat you how you don't want to be treated just let them know. join a queer youth organization. just making friends with other lesbians or bi people will make it easier for you to approach someone (unless you're hopelessly shy like i am)
Reply:I don't know where you are from or your age but in general, the sexuality of a person is something that is discovered, experienced and enjoyed as you see fit. Time was when certain clubs or bars only catered to certain people--there was no question when you went in, what was going on. Are there any places in your area? First off, step back and take a real good look at the whole social scene----just cruise around and see who hangs where---don't jump into every club and bar--stay outside and see what goes on. You can never stop men from striking up a conversation--that's just natural. How you handle it is up to you. Just be gracious and be nice but if no is no --stick to it. I would say eventually you will find a place where you have a chance to discover and be happy---I think it is all up to you. And you probably have to be just as careful with whom you associate. Now people don't wear signs that say what their preference is----I would say you need to be approachable but how to dress or how to act is nothing I can say has a rule or a code. I do wish you a lot of luck and I hope you do get to find your happiness.
Reply:well, look at it this way. it may be hard to accept that a girl is approaching you, but they are still human ya know. it's not like it's a martian asking you on a date. (that would be pretty scary). be friendly to the girls who approach you, but let them know that you are straight. don't get mean k?
Reply:i found myself trying to figure out how to get women to notice me as well...... i felt like it would be easier to wear a sign!! but naw use your usual method of attempting to attract someone. I for 1 just stare and if they're interested they respond. If not life goes on:)) think about it THERES no harm in looking***