Black girls are dominant & white girls are weak??

^This is what my black friend says.


We'd seen a "fight" (perhaps I should say "slaughter") between 2 girls in which the black girl basically sat on the white's stomach and punched her face until her nose and lips bled.


The white girl was regarded as one of the prettiest girls on campus but when we saw her this morning, her face was swollen and covered in bruises. My friend found this funny and said she deserved it for flirting with the sista's bf. Then she asked me why white girls are so easy and lack the dignity to keep our legs closed. I told her she was racial stereotyping and that it was like saying 'all black girls are aggressive'. She said I was mistaking strength for aggression and that black women don't take crap because they have pride and dignity, which white girls lack.


I didn't try to argue cuz I could see she was angry but I was hurt by her words and wondered if a lot of people think this way or if my friend is being unfair?

Black girls are dominant %26amp; white girls are weak??
Your friend dont know what she talking about, she seems stupid in the stuff she saying. okay why would you beat up somebody over a guy and say it a "sistas bf" then calls it pride and dignity, hello that isnt no pride and dignity, she make black girls seem like we fight over the stupidest things, you need to check your friend out. The real sistas I know would beat up the guy and forget the girl, shoot they leave him if they found him cheating on them and tell the girl she can have him, cuz thats what a real woman would do.





Then she says why white girls cant keep their legs open. Do you know how many women out their not just white open their legs everyday and cant find their babies daddy. have you watched maury lately. Their not called "white women" their called women who have no self respect, a sorry *** excuse for a women cuz white girls are not the only one that do it, theres black girls, chinese, puerto ricans, they all do it, for that they aight even women they just "hoes".





And foreal I dont understand why she got mad, maybe she got something against white girls, but when it comes to being dominenet it just depends on what session your talking about, like dancing black women got more soul or like when it comes to strength, black women have been through alot over the years and years, now im not trying to say white women havent but when it comes to strength in life and moving on and getting over struggles black women have overcome that, but for the most your friend sounds stupid. maybe you should tell her how you feel.
Reply:I think it depends on the female I've meet some white girls who were more dominant than me and also the other way around but I myself am a non confrontational person but there are other black girls and white girls where violence is the only answer to get their point across.
Reply:Your freind is a RACIEST. The way she is, is typical of the black can, white can't thing going on in America. We can go all out of our way to make sure it "can't" be interpreted as raciest on our part and it's right the oppossite for blacks. I truly hate to say it but watchblack shows and they always have a dimwit white person on there to make fun of. I could go on and on but watch "your" friend and with the ideas she has, it won't be long until crack rocks and welfare will be all she has.
Reply:it's a fact that black women take more pride in themselves...but she shouldn't say that one race is stronger than the other


that girl was either strong...otr the white girl was just weak...it has nothing to do with race =\
Reply:she could be right.
Reply:Oh please..not all Black girls are tough nor can they all fight, some White girls I'm sure can fight. I think it's mostly ghetto Black girls that are like that. She was being ignorant, probably speaking out of anger and frustration. Don't worry about that not all Black girls feel that way or act like that.
Reply:your friend is a product of her environment, as are you


if strong black women are what your friend sees constantly, then yes shes going to believe that white women are weak. that doesnt mean shes wrong, but it also doesnt mean shes right. shes just sheltered.
Reply:Alot of black people think that way, I think it is stupid. The girl who beat up the white girl was not showing any type of strength she was showing how stupid she was, and as sad as it may sound sometimes when I see black girls getting all up in white girls face I just wish that the white girls would haul off and whoop their ***
Reply:im with u and what i dont understand is that all blacks think like oh ims so kool ur a wimp and uu cant do anything to all the whites and thats why i dont like them its ttly not racial i have some of the bestet freinds that r black so it definatly not racial
Reply:The problem there is that nobody taught that White girl to fight, and she never understood the importance of being able to defend herself. She might have bought the nonsense that too many White parents tell their children: "It takes two to fight."





No. It takes the choice of two to ARGUE. It only takes the choice of one to FIGHT. That girl should have been stronger, fiercer, tougher than she was. Failing that, and assuming that Whites are the majority, every single White person within shouting distance should have rushed to her defense. And if the dark ones want a war, give it to them, now, here, to the bloody end. I absolutely hate it when a White girl gets beaten up.
Reply:Youre friend is a bigot.
Reply:I think your crazy to have let her talk to you this way. I'm a black female and I don't think this way. I would never disrespect someone like this for no reason. You need to stand up to her and tell her how you really feel. This stereotype about all black females being dominant is not true. I'm not this way. I'm very submissive, but I don't let people walk over me and talk to me any kind of way either. There are plenty of white women that have pride and dignity. There are also white women and girls that know how to stand up for themselves and fight. This has nothing to do with a woman being black, it has to do with this person being a human being. Who cares if she was getting angry. You were angry too, and she told you how she felt. This black girl needs to be put in her place, and she needs a dose of her own medicine. I wish I was there to do give it to her. Don't ever let someone talk to you, and belittle you this way. Don't get it in your head that black women are stronger and white women are weak. This only applies to a certain individual in particular. It has nothing to do with race. I suggest you get some backbone and start standing up for you and those around you. You give her this upper hand, and she's going to continue to dominate you just like she wants to.
Reply:Dominant? I don't considered either one "dominant". I don't associate myself with any girls, black or white, that feel the need to "whoop a**"
Reply:I don't think its a lack of dignity....society has shown white women that its only a half of step to a black mans bed for them....I always saw its more as ego (kryptonite for black males)...really most times its not the man, its what he has to offer in the long run.....black females exhibit both strength and aggression which is a result of hatred and lack of respect from society as a whole
Reply:Not all white girls are weak and not all black girls are strong. And, by the way, that was what I call white trash behaviour, NOT a sign of "strength". You don't hit people unless they hit you. This is not the behavious of someone who is proud. This is the behaviour of someone who is uneducated, or plain violent.





And since when only white girls often open their legs? I think it's not restricted to an ethnic background. Also, in England, plenty of white girls are really violent. This is not something to be proud about. In French, we say "Violence is the strength of the weak" (I don't know if you have that expression in English), which basically means that if you're not clever enough to argue back, you just use your strength.





Yes, she was stereotyping.
Reply:Just because one girl can get another girl pinned and beat her in the face doesn't make her dominant it makes her an animal! There is no pride or dignity acting this way. Lots of white girls are tough as nuts and lots of black girls are weak as anything. Depends how you grow up.
Reply:Well, she clearly is the dominant one in your relationship, or you wouldn't have been so intimidated by her. I'm not telling you to challenge her, she doesn't sound as if she's worth the trouble.





She's obviously a racist (that's right, black people can also be racists, it's not just us white folk), and if I were you I would seriously look at how important this friendship is to you. Do you really want to hang out with someone that has no respect for you?
Reply:Oh I could have so much to talk about here! I am no longer in school, (out for 8 years) but when I was, I had black friends and white friends. Thankfully, if we had questions about each others race, we just asked. Well, no one is completely white anymore. I am Native American and Irish, but I have pale skin, so I'm a "white girl" or "honky" or "Casper." Those RACIST comments were made to me by black girls all the time...as a "joke" they said. I have to say that yes, your "friend" is racist. OH MY GOD, is what so people are thinking, but white people are not the only race that can possibly be racist. And yeah, I agree. Every white girl on earth is not easy and weak. I beat the h*ll out of people when I was in school too. I had a bad attitude and a short temper. And trust me, people remember me not as "strong" but "crazy". Every black girl is not aggressive, either. There is no way that one person's actions can decide what a whole race acts like. Thats just stupidity. I wouldn't be friends with her. Not because she's black, but because she's rude. She shouldn't diss your race, she should be your friend. How would she like it if you said all black women end up on Welfare with ten kids by ten daddies? Ask her that.
Reply:Who ever attacked this girl should be in jail. Call the police and have them arrested.
Reply:LOL!





Not all black girls have dominant personalities.
Reply:Your friend was surely being unfair and yes she is racially stereotyping
Reply:The girl that posted before me about reporting you is totally not understanding your post. This is a case of stereotypes. Not ALL of a kind of people act the same way. There may be cultural differences here, but I don't think there are enough to stereotype. I have dignity and I am not easy. It has nothing to do with my color.
Reply:I can see why you upset at your "friend" I am Black and as being a part of the Black community as in any community we have our preconceptions of other races and cultures but I think that she was generalizing. I have a lot of white friends and they are very dominant and agressive so that is definitely a stereotype. If you feel the need to bring this topic back to state how you felt then you have a right to let her know how you feel/felt.
Reply:the white girl got a beat down because she was firting withe wrong guy,plain and simple.
Reply:Depends on what part of the country you live in. Are you saying Violence is a sign of strength ? You are not to bright.
Reply:Im staying out of this. I love black and white women, for different reasons. At the end of the day I prefer black of course.





But I have never seen a white girl kick a black girls azz.
Reply:Have you ever asked a black man why he would choose a white woman over a black woman?
Reply:Behind every stereo type dher is truth. I tink dhat dhis is true is most kases, but as always dher are always duh exseptionz. Dhat woulda been funny to watch doh, bet dhat sista really smack dhat H*e. I be knowin dhat Afrikan Amerikanz in general know how to fight right. We are more in touch whit our primative selves,smarture, and gettin beat down by our parrents showed us some moves at uh early age. Hope dhat be helpin you out brotha man, holla!

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