Girls please let me know your answers?

girls you know how guys can make girls cry.im a guy and girls can make me cry.if a girl says mean and hatefull things to me i end up in tears.why can girls make me cry?am i normal? i also want to dispell a myth some girls have.they think guys dont care if a girl breaks up with or leaves them.they think it doesnt hurt them.my wife of 4 years told me she wanted a divorce,i cried my heart out.i cried myself to sleep.so it does affect some of us guys.

Girls please let me know your answers?
You are what I call 'tender'. I don't think it's abnormal to cry in the face of sad news. Crying usually helps. As long as it doesn't interfere with your daily life, it's perfectly healthy. And endearing. When I see a guy cry, it just makes me want to hug and comfort him.





Good luck, hope everything works out for you.
Reply:Well, if you love a girl and she leaves you it is completely normal to cry. Expecially through a divorce. I can't tell you how many times I saw my parents cry when they were going through that. When me and my fiance were having problems a few years back I made him cry when I left him. I was just trying to prove a point though. But anyway, I don't think there is anything wrong w/ you or anything. You may be too sensitive though. But w/ a divorce and such it is normal. hang in there. You will be fine.
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Reply:divorce is a major issue, and if you don't cry or at least let is bother you THEN there is something wrong. There is a time %26amp; place for everything, there's nothing wrong with crying for appropriate situations( and this is one of them). As a man society has made it taboo for them to have feelings, my ex- b/f used to cry about things that really bothered him, %26amp; I didn't think less of him, I in fact respected him more for letting me into sharing his feelings. On the other hand nobody like a cry baby ( man, woman, or child for that matter) if you wanna cry to yourself or to close friends and family that cool, but honestly I don't feel like if someone said something "mean" to you should warrent crying. That's something you should work on.





-----Good luck :)
Reply:People are people hunny. We are all different. There are boys that cry over girls..and that's normal. You aren't odd in any way shape or form. We all are affected by our surroundings differently. We all react to problems differently. The fact that girls can upset you is alright. I hope this helps somewhat. =)
Reply:I've seen a lot of my guy friends cry. That's what the tear ducts are for:-) FYI these are perfectly normal men at all ages of life.





I don't think it is taboo. Better to cry than to go out an drink and to fight to let your emotion out.
Reply:There's nothing wrong with you.....Your perfectly normal, men have feelings too they were just taught as children not to let them show that's all.
Reply:i guess i was one of those that think that guys doesnt care if the relationship was over and that they prove to me that they're able to move on with someone new.. i think they are so heartless.





it never occur to me that guys have feelings too, my ex bf opened up to me how much he still cares for me, how much he wants to talk to me though he was the one who left me for another gal back then. It was disbelief. i cant believe that heart breaker telling me this. he does care.. he wants to know if i am alright. his selfish acts hurt me.. but i was able to hold my head high and move on..





i am sorry to hear abt ur divorce, dun give up and dun give in.. we are all humans regardless of sex, we have feelings too, its alright to cry, come tmr it'll be a brand new day. Soon time will heal(though we know its gonna be a long time).





thanks u rekindle my thoughts on guys.. and their emotions..take care.





“If someone comes into your life and becomes a part of you but for some reasons he couldn't stay, don't cry too much...Just be glad that your paths crossed and; somehow he made you happy even for a while.The greatest regrets in our lives are the risks we did not take.If you think something will make you happy, GO FOR IT. Remember that we pass this way only ONCE."