So girls tell me this....?

This is one thing i have on my mind. Girls are always saying guys are *** holes because most only look for some girl they just want to mess with. It angers me when girls say guys are *** holes. Girls arent the only one being judged. What about guys like me? just because im not the greatest looking i dont deseve a chance eather? So girls at my school cry because they had a boyfriend who was a jerk. Alot of girls look past the guys who really look for love and go for the more handsom men.....why? why not give us guys who really care and not just to get into you pants? To me it does not seem fare. Sometimes i think because im not as "handsom" as other guys does this mean guys like me dont deserve a chance? I know alot of guys look past the girls looking for real love also. Im not saying only girls do this. But why? why is it today that people who arent "hot" enough dont deserve a chance at love?

So girls tell me this....?
you're right. girls and guys alike are both to blame for being superficial. you can't even deny it: a lot of the girls you've been attracted to were/are pretty cute. we're all superficial--but that shouldn't change what you feel about yourself.





being insecure has nothing to do with them going for the jerks and not for a nice guy like you. you being insecure has absolutely NOTHING to do with anyone else but YOU! i know it may seem like a big DUH, but....insecurity stems from self-perception.





if you can't be happy with yourself, how the hell are you going to be happy with someone else?!?





you sound like a great person who deserves a lot in life. why settle for a girl that is stupid enough to pass you by...AND THEN ends up with a huge @ss?!





if it was up to me, i'd say: good riddance to those self-centered b1tches. everyone deserves to be happy, but we have to choose to be happy. don't dwell on the "this could have happened if i was hotter". you can't change things like that...nor can you change jerk-y people.





do what you actually CAN do--change your way of thinking. you're a great guy, you're a caring person, and you're worthy of so much more than these girls can offer.
Reply:heaven's sake every girl you know must be some kind of a freak. don't listen to what they say. they're just stupid.
Reply:I don't really have an answer for you but look on the bright side. When some lucky girl does fall for you at least you will know that she is really into you for yourself.
Reply:I agree with you completely. I don't think it's fair how girls or guys look only for how attractive someone else is and not for love or a true relationship itself. I personally prefer to get know the person and base any relationship around the persons qualities %26amp; characteristics %26amp; not on how 'handsom' they are. Some people don't realise that a person (guy or girl) doesn't have to look amazing to be a great partner. Like I said B 4 I totally agree with what your saying and it needs to change... :)
Reply:Wow. That was really heart-felt. Girls who look past the inside and only go for the guys who have an attractive outward appearance deserve the unsatisfying relationships that they get themselves into. The person that you end up with in life will really appreciate the REAL you and your personality.





By the way, don't categorize all girls. You're mad because girls are always saying that all guys are ***holes, when at the same time, you're generalizing all girls for saying that.





EVERYONE deserves a chance at love. Put your feelings on the line sometime and maybe that girl will really appreciate you for your courage. Don't let the hansome ones have all the girls. Put yourself out there Just be greatful that your capable of loving someone because some people aren't.
Reply:u first avoid to speak with or mess with such type opf girls
Reply:I think when girls are young they go for looks. But as you get older and mature, you realize there is more to a relationship than the outside appearance. Don't get your hopes down. The girls you've been dealing with probably have self esteem issues and don't know that they deserve better. Someday a girl who is worth your attention will see all that you have to offer.
Reply:Everyone deserves a chance, no matter what they may look like. God gave us souls and personalities for a reason, and I think that people who are not open to finding love anywhere are the completely shallow ***holes. The problem is, society has made it to where most of the time, only the so-called "good looking" people are sought after by others. I feel that, if a person only likes another because they're hott or goodlooking, then I wouldn't want to be with them anyway...they aren't deserving of real love if they are too ignorant to look for it in more than just a pretty face.





And, you shouldn't worry...all of the heartache these shallow people are going through now will someday turn them around, and if it doesn't, then they'll never find true love, and you should feel sorry for them for that cuz you'll probably have it soon.
Reply:I agree with you!
Reply:these kind of girls are shallow...only later in life will they realize that there's more to a guy than meets the eye...





lucky is the girl who'll fall for a nice guy like you...


goodluck.....