Sunday, August 22, 2010

Would girls find me actractive or unattractive?

i'm 15


5'7


athletic/toned body








I think im pretty good looking and i have a great body, but i wonder if girls don't find me attractive because of my height. They always talk about how they want tall guys and how tall guys are so hot. but, if i'm taller than the girl then whats the problem. I mean there are both tall and short girls so why cant a short girl be into short guys. As long as their taller than her. I don't ever judge a girl by her height, unless she towers over me, witch i don't see whats wrong with that. But why are only guys over 6 foot attractive to girls of all different heights? I can see why a girl would not want a guy shorter than them, but if the girl is like 5'4, then why wouldn't she be attracted to a guy who is 5'7?

Would girls find me actractive or unattractive?
Lol, be careful my freind, most women would have you beleive that looks dont matter at all. They do, trust me. And dont be upset with the girls who tell you they dont, they really do beleive it, but that doesnt mean that they act in a conreugent way to that belief.





Ok you've got a great start with ur body and all that, but those kind of things arent all that important. Whats more important is that you present yourself well. Be well groomed, ie shave when you need to, keep your fingernails clean, hair looking nice etc. Dress well too, and wear nice shoes- girls notice shoes allot.





I'll have to say though, you could look like Brad Pitt but if you stand in the corner with ur hands in your pockets not talking to anybody around you most of the time then girls whont look twice at you. They are vastly attracted to people of high social status. So go and be a fun guy, make loads of freinds. Be nice to people but dont put up with people being nasty to you. Be the 'cool' guy of your social circle.





If you can do that then your heigh wont matter at all. And remember, you've still got a few years growing left yet!





Hope this helps





Matt
Reply:my best friends who are girls like shorter guys and taller guys...hair length is the key thing. They like long hair, at least med-long, and if it's short they aren't attracted to him usually.
Reply:Maybe its just the girls You know. Id dont really care about looks and height. Your right it is a bonus if your taller than them but its not necissary. They should like you for you not how you look
Reply:girls like men that seem to be tall and kind of like a bodyguard. like if someone says something rude to the girl, the boy comes and says stay away from my girl. when u meet the rite girl, they will love u no matter wut. they will forget about ur height. by your description, u don't look too bad ur self. i don't see why anyone would refuse to date u unless they r just rude.
Reply:It depends on the girl! To me you sound cute, but to another girl you may sound hideous! It's all about personal preference! I think your height is fine, but your probably not done growing so don't worry about it!
Reply:I'm only 5'2", so I think I'd prefer dating someone your height rather than someone who's like 5'10". =)





I'm sick of always having to look up and stand on my tip-toes.
Reply:Aww. xD I'm sorry, this is such an adorable insecurity. Soooo many people worry about the smallest things, so rest assured that you're not alone.





That being said, it's all depending on the girl. Some girls are a little more superficial and may not date you because of your height. On the other hand, there's tens of hundreds of thousands of girls out there who are just like you describe and either,





A.) Don't care about height to begin with


B.) Are shorter than you and might have a thing for tall guys, in which case you fit said criteria





Here's the thing though: It really shouldn't matter. When someone likes someone, I think it needs to go deeper than something as trivial as height. I like a guy who's about my height, maybe a little shorter, and that really doesn't bother me. Maybe tall guys are nice, but this guy is important to me. So what you need to be looking for is not a short girl who'll date you just 'cause you're taller or a tall girl who'll blow you off because you're shorter, but a girl who likes you for you.





:)
Reply:i know i'd be attracted to a guy higher than me.


there's no limit. ^^





i'm like 5'4" and just as long as he's who he claims to be.


then he's worth it.
Reply:I'd still like you. I'm around 5'7. If a guy is my height or taller I won't have any problems. I've even liked shorter guys in the past.
Reply:I do like guys to be taller than I am but not like, towering over me. I'm 5'5 so 5'7 is fine with me! I'd feel so short with people over six feet! I think you're a great height. :)
Reply:the girl wants the boy to be taller than her. but not as tall as you, your just TOO tall.
Reply:i think guys that r a little taller r sexy! y would a girl want a giant as a boyfreind! if u cant find someone who likes u 4 u and only cares about ur hight there not the one 4 u
Reply:I'm 4'11.





Life just sucks.





High school girls are extremely shallow, though.
Reply:i do not know but the girls i know would love to go out with you even me hey if you want to see about me we can talk
Reply:let's see pictures! lol.
Reply:Height is not an issue. You are only 15 so you have a lot more growing to do. Yes, as long as you are taller than the girl, everything should be fine.
Reply:Height isn't important - personality, chaisma, honesty, humour... all those things and more will win over a girl.





Look at Danny DeVito! Short, fat and ugly... but he still found love! Women find men attractice for a variety of reasons, and height might be part of the package but it isn't the most important thing.





Anyway, 5' 7 isn't short!


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