Girls help?

hi





im in a big rut rite now with finding a girl friend i never had one in my hole life and rite now im 19 never been kissed by one either and theres a girl thats still in high school i have a huge crush on i turned down a few girls cause id like a chance with this girl i like in high school should i tyr for sum other girl or just keep on trying for her im out of high school but i try to go up to the school and find her to talk to her to me she is the cuteist thing in the world girls what would you think if you were in high school or are in high school and sum guy that you never knew came up to you and told you he liked you alot and asked you out what would you think of him would you laugh at him or think hes sweet would you give him a chance?why do i get scared when i go try to ask a girl out what can i do to try and not be scared

Girls help?
I think that would be really sweet! You must really like her since you turned down a few other girls. Now here's a question. Why can't guys be more like you?
Reply:just relax but i would ask her out nothing hurts if you don't try. but if shes is one of those preps watch out. also at the same time i would try to find another girl just in case things don't work out. and i think it would be really sweet if you did that.
Reply:That;s like all guys. They get nervous around girls they think are attractive. I think you should go for it. Keep trying but don't let that "trying" keep you from doing other things in life. If I guy came up to me and I didn't know him and he was attractive, seemed like a nice person, I probably give him a chance. Have you ever talked to the girl yet? Does she know you exist? If not, then try talking to her. Don't make a fool outta ya self. Don't stalk her either.lol. Try not to be scared. Build up your confidence. Cuz if you dont ask her out ot talk to her today, she might not be there tomorrow. you know? And youre gonna feel guilty all ya life if you don't.
Reply:na can't you wrote so too long i don't want to read because i need to earn points
Reply:fear is sometimes from the unknown...as in you do not know how she will respond if you ask her


the only way to conquer our fears are to face them


so go on and ask her out or whatever...if she says no, then you will know where you stand...and you are not any worse off than you are right now with not knowing.





be cool...
Reply:you should get to know her first. that's what my friend did. he got to know me(he is 19, i'm 13), and in a couple of weeks, he invited me to his hockey game. ever since then, we have been inviting each other to stuff. how old is the girl?
Reply:you are 19 and you still concern yourself with who's in high school ,,,, You need to stick to girls your own age ,,,,, You are young yes but you aren't a bubble gummer anymore ,,,,
Reply:You should just ask the girl out, so that you aren't putting your life on hold for her. You never know, you could be missing out on something great by turning down these other girls. If the one your interested in tells you no, then move on. If she says yes, then good luck, I hope it works out for you. Don't be scared, you could live a lonely life if you don't get courage.
Reply:Always have confidence in everything u do even when it come to that. just ask her out for lunch, movie or something, i say go for it don't be scared. u can do it!!!
Reply:why not write her a letter, that way you wont be embarrassed if she says no, plus she'll be impressed by a boy who can make an effort. good luck
Reply:dude, i say go for it. What do you have to lose? I mean it's cute that ur 19 %26amp;%26amp; never been kiss, but I would like it if I knew a guy was going up to the high school to see me %26amp;%26amp; if he told me he liked me then yeah i would give him a chance b/c he made the effort, but if she's jsut leading u on afterwards or w/e then just move on. but honestly still try for it!
Reply:Well i'm in high school my self just remember that nost girls like a guy who is honest and dosen't use a stupie dline to get to know us, and try not to be clingy with her there are other girls and just breathe and be prepared for a yes and a no, i wouldn't expect her to say yes right off but get to know her and be friends first.