Thursday, August 19, 2010

Girls around early 20's I need your opinion / point of view?

Here is my question, there is this girl that I like / is really cute at a store in the mall across the street from the office building I work in. I really want to tell her that I like her BUT she really doesn't know who I am. I have said "Hi" to her a couple of times, but other than that she doesn't know me anymore than any other person that walks into the store.





My question to you is in your opinion (from a girls point of view) how can I tell her "I like her" without making her feel aukward, scared etc. . If this was you, what could I say to you that would get my point across in a way that you would not feel scared etc.





***Additional Information *** I have already talked to another girl that work's in this store about the girl I like and I have found out from this other girl that also works there - what her name is, how old she is, and that she is single.





Is it OK to mention this to the girl that I like at this store, that the other girl told me the above about her ?

Girls around early 20's I need your opinion / point of view?
Just go into the store, strike up a conversation and ask her for coffee. Do not mention that the other girl gave you info. That will creep her out.
Reply:Walk in the store with confidence, you must be confident a woman can smell when a man is not confident in who he is and that turns us off because we need our man to be confident. Walk up to her and say Hello, How are you today? she will Good, fine, great, (if she smiles your good, if not hope she's just having a bad day) When she asked how you are doinjg, say pretty good, oh... by the way my name is .................... would you like to join me in a cup of cofee, *Make sure you smile when you say this...





dont mention that her friends told you about her that would be a little creapy...





PLEASE BE CONFIDENT!!!!!!!!
Reply:I would strongly recommend not telling her straight up that you asked another girl about her. As a girl myself, I would perceive that as pretty shady. You could accidentally come across as a "stalker" rather than a nice interested guy.





Instead, I would agree in asking her out for coffee. That way, it's a no-pressure atmosphere, and you both can really decide if there's mutual chemistry. From there, things will progress out of the awkward stage into something more comfortable.
Reply:Just go in and small talk w/her then ask her to get a movie or bite to eat sometime and nah I wouldn't mention the fact that you've ask ab her bc she prob already knows! Girls talk!


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