GIRLS Please Help I Need Help PLEASE?

I'm 16, and there is this girl in my class that sits in front of me and I really want to get to know her, but I don't know how to start a conversation.





I was never good with girls. And I want to change. I just want to be friends with girls and overcome my shyness.





My question is, if I don't even know this girl and not even her friends, what can I do to chat and be friends with this girl?





I can modestly say that I am pretty OK looking but not the 'very hot' type. But my social skills greatly hinder my appearance and girls just think of me as a social loser.





The girl in my class talked to me before but not she doesn't anymore. All she does is turn around and talk to my friend beside me and not me.





She doesn't even know my friend that well and she talked to him so much more than me, in fact she just ignores me and looks away now. But why is she doing this? Is she doing this on purpose? She hates me and wont give me another chance.





How should I speak up? I don't know what to do/say..

GIRLS Please Help I Need Help PLEASE?
Being so shy probaly made this girl think that your boring and that she cant have a conversation with you, but its not too late. Theres nothing to be shy about. If you try to strike a convo up out of nowhere though it may seem like your trying to hard so try these approaches: If shes talking to your friend why dont you butt in on the conversation and give your opinion, itll be easy if there talking about something you know alot about. Oooor if she says something you agree with when talking to your friend or even in a class discussion speak up and say you agree or further the point. If she sees that you share some of the same views youll be more approachable and youll have things to talk about later. Hopefully this will be some help to you and eventully maybe you will hold actual conversations with this girl and become friends. =)
Reply:casually but-in to your friend and her conversation. DO NOT change the subject. if they are talking about something, say something on that topic and maybe you three can have a conversation. and maybe she will tlk to you more often. Make eye contact.
Reply:just listen to their conversations at first n then just try to get involve with it. as for other girls, just talk to them n when u'll talk to more girls, u'll prob have an idea of how the girls think n what they usually like to talk about.
Reply:lol! try the shortcut. be confident. express yourself to her. don't be shy. you can do it. use simple but assuring words. smile first then, say " hi" and get to know her afterwards. it's that easy.
Reply:Ask her to borrow a piece of paper or a pencil. When she talks to your friend and not you you could be imaging it (she just might not really notice you, but not ignoring you. It's easy to imagine things when your worried.) or she knows you like her and that's why she's not looking at you (she feels awkward now). Since she's talking to YOUR friend you could add to their conversation since you know your friend so it won't look so weird. Good luck.
Reply:Welll all i can say to this is that all girls are different, maybe she doesnt wanna be ur friend, but maybe shes jus a lil shy as well. but for you bein a dude, u need to step ur game up, i mean ur 16 its about time you grow outta ur shy stage. im not saying dudes that are shy aint attractive or ne thing im jus saying that maybe shes not into all that. and shed rather you step up and idk TALK TO HER! good luck
Reply:just say what a guy once said to me!! "how much does a polar bear weight?" shell be like " uhh I dunno..." and u say "enough to break the ice my name is whatever ur name is." then just laugh and smirk haha she'll kno u werent serious but it will be a leadway into a convo and it'll probly make her day. its so corny and cheesy but thats what makes it funny! then after that u can b like "dont act like that wasnt the best pick up line ever." then just start talking about gay pick up lines and lead into other subjects and the next day say what up to her and start another convo. haha hope that helps!
Reply:I read your novel =D


Start a convo by saying how was your weekend, did you do your homework? Hows your boyfriend?





Tell her you would like to be her friend and nothing else - Maybe thats why shes ignoring you because she thinks you want to go out with her?





Maybe you can get tips from her on how to talk to girls, if shes a nice girl she will help :)





Dont make yourself look to available =D





Goodluck =D