Girls is there something I'm just not getting?

I'm 19 years old and I have never had a girl friend.


I'm by no means a pig! I have a clean face, wash every day, basically keep myself in very good health. I have shortish hair, its the usuall messy yet styled look most guys have. I keep stubble.


I keep myself in very good condition by playing many sports, this keeps my body relatively toned, I have slight curves. I dress smartly, no trackies or hoodies. Its Jeans, shirts etc. I keep things colour co-ordinated. Aporaching girls, I'm confident in myself and can make/start conversations easily. I get looks from girls and I smile back, let girls through doord first etc. I also have many strong 'friend' relationships with girls but have yet to actually date one! Girls tend to be shy around me, which makes it worse for me as I also have my shy side. I've seen/talked with many girls in many places but I get rejected or 'just friend'. Have I just been unlucky? My height an issue? I'm 5ft 6. What do you girls think?





Thanks in advance.

Girls is there something I'm just not getting?
You just need a bit more confidence in yourself. A good way to make a girl feel at ease with you is to make them laugh. There's an old expression that goes, "laughing them into bed,2 and believe me it works. Just keep trying your luck.
Reply:I would say that it sounds like you are trying too hard. Most people, women and men, tend to subconciously go for the people that seem to be not interested in them. And be funny! Humor is important with most women!
Reply:I think it might be fear; lurking in the background. The "what if...." or "will I won't I"


Actually coming out, and asking a girl on a date would be the first step.


I don't think it could be an issue; the height thing; no one I know thinks negatively about tall guys! In fact, quite the reverse! So, get a grip, and take the plunge; I think you'll "like the water" just fine!


Good luck Mr. "It's now or never"! lol
Reply:they all think you're gay, sweety.


do loads of macho stuff and hang around with lots of manly guys until they realise you arent, drinking lots of beer


have you heard the term metrosexual? that is a straight guy with all the qualities of a gay one. that's what you are.
Reply:mybe you should approach girls in away that makes them not think of you as a friend but as a boyfriend or someone to date,because if you always approach a girl like in the way you have, you will always be in the friends zone...
Reply:No, your height won't be an issue. For petite girls, that'll be a plus.





You sound nice - you just need to have the courage of your convictions and ask them out. Don't fall into the "friends" trap - that can be very difficult to get out of if, actually, you want something more.
Reply:Sounds to me like you are a pretty good catch and that girls may be intimidated of you because they may not think that they are worthy of you. It also could be a strong possibility that other girls think that your really good girl friends are more than friends. It's great that you are confident and you can talk to girls and treat them with respect. Try asking a girl on a date, I'm sure you'll get a positive response.
Reply:i'm shorter than 5'6 and never had a boy friend and i am 36.


but in all seriousness, i think there is nothing wrong with your height, i have never been put off by men of short stature
Reply:Oh my days , thats the first Ive heard I guy like you with every effect being knocked down like that,





maybe and listen carefully, are you really approaching the right kinda of girls





go for a girl like you , smart and everything who has simaliriites like yourself,





or just grab a girl for your sake and kiss her
Reply:don't worry about it... you'll find someone really soon... just be you.... that's all... there's nothing wrong with you....
Reply:It is not your height... maybe you should just be more confident...
Reply:truly hun I really don't think there is anything wrong with you, unless there is something you have not mentioned here that turns girls off. I'm only 5'3", but even if I were taller than you height wouldn't matter. I actually prefer guys that aren't waaaay taller than me :) I'm 17 and never had a boyfriend, so don't worry about that for your age either.





Hope you have a good weekend, email me if you like :)
Reply:well if you were made of chocolate you'd probably eat yourself
Reply:Maybe you should try talking to girls and make jokes. Be friends with girls and be yourself.
Reply:Be yourself! join a sport of somekind and mix more and if you like someone there are plenty of cafe's that a coffee and a chat does wonders then progress from there.
Reply:You think you've got problems. I am 4 years older than you and life was not exactly gentle to me I am only 4ft 3 inches and considered a dwarf, I am amusing and popular but my height has always made me feel a very insecure. People can be cruel and have always taken easy jibes at me especially females, girls seem to have a thing with dwarfs and in my personal experience they shamelessly chase me and use me for their sexual games, I am of normal to large size in my pants, but because of my overall height it looks much bigger, so they laugh and use me with their friends but never chose to see me as a boyfriend or introduce me to their families. Yes I get plenty of action but it is all secret, all behind closed doors. I feel very lonely and yet many guys think I have it all.
Reply:dude. confidence works, u cant put it on or buy it. takes time n experience. girls like a guy thats NOT on the pull and looks fun to be with.
Reply:Stop looking for a relationship and one will find you. You just need to relax and everything will fall into place, including a girl.


Just you wait and see.