Monday, August 16, 2010

Girls what more do you want from me? Why don't you want to be my girlfriend?

Nothing compares to the pain when a girl wants to date me, we go on a date, I call her and then she never picks up or returns my call. Why? Both times I really cared for a girl, we go on the date the girl tells me about how busy she is then never talks with me again. I make her laugh, I don't call her a million times, I am friendly with her friends during class(I stopped talking with them after this happened so I wouldn't bother them), I don't try to move to fast, and I do everything the same as every other guy. People tell me I am attractive, so its not that (I even have a six pack). I play sports, I play the guitar (and write my own songs), I am smart (am school to become a doctor), I am not arrogant, and I make people laugh. Every girl rejects me. Only time girls do stuff with me is at club, but I want a girl want to be my girlfriend, not just have one night stands (I don't though, even though the girl did).

Girls what more do you want from me? Why don't you want to be my girlfriend?
You seem like a great catch, so it's weird that you don't have girls all around you. I think part of the reason you're having trouble is because #1, you're a nice guy. You know the saying: "Nice guys finish last." While this isn't really true, because I'm sure you're going to find someone out there eventually and make lots of money, have 2.5 kids, get that American dream, it is true that girls, especially in high school, are attracted to guys that are edgy and hard to get. Maybe you're not looking in the right groups of girls, and try for those that are immature, maybe a bit "blonde", etc. I'm sure these girls are pretty and nice and everything, but they might not be ready for the same kind of relationship you are.





My advice: look outside your normal group of girls. And if things still aren't working out, then ask your close girl-friends if you're doing something wrong socially.
Reply:you sound nice i dont know why girls dont want to date u!


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