Girls why do you do this? Its hurtful you know?!?

OK first off I'm not saying all girls do this but many I've seen do. I always see girls on yahoo answers asking "why won't he approach me?" I'll tell you why, its because guys fear rejection from girls. If a girl found out a guy likes her but she doesn't like him then she will ignore him as though hes creepy. Some girls would even end their friendship with a guy just because of that.





Hey if I knew a girl liked me and if I'm not interested I wouldn't ignore them. I'd be happy they liked me for who I am and be their friend. So why do girls do this? Ignoring people just for this little incident. Thats why I say I like strong women who can face situations. Thanks for reading.

Girls why do you do this? Its hurtful you know?!?
Fen hon, don't be so touchy about your ego. Rejection is not the worst thing in the whole world that can happen to a guy. You have to take the risks to find the most genuine/real girl. (the most sought-after girls are more prone to be that way) You're right, some girls don't have good social skills, but don't let that damage your self-confidence. Now you know that she is not what you had hoped she'd be. She's not the strong woman you are looking for. It's her loss if she rejects your offer of friendship. Just don't let it ruin your day.


Thanks anyway for your input, I for one do appreciate an honest thought from a wonderful guy. (I know you're special, cause you are sensitive).





Any dead fish can go with the flow, but it takes a real live one to swim against the current. lol
Reply:I dont know why I do it. D:


I guess its because I'm afraid of hurting him. If he likes me and I keep on talking to him hes gonna think I like him back...I just dont want his crush on me to go any deeper or I could really end up hurting him. :(
Reply:I agree. As a woman, I know women need more backbone to make it in this ever-changing society. Good question, Fenrir.
Reply:because they have the upper hand, girls are EVIL, it goes back to that school yard crap where they (not all) are mean for the fun of it, power i think and some people need to be treated like crap in order to stop being a cow.
Reply:look i am not saying that i am like that. i am a strong women but i have firend that do that and i dont under stand why they do that .i think some girls are like that cause they think that the person does not have feelings.
Reply:It's because women tend to think they're supposed to be on a throne, while guys are more realistic and know they're just ordinary people. Women have to have melodrama, or they don't know what to do with themselves.
Reply:agree
Reply:some girls do that thats completely true. but wonder why sometimes when you tell these people that like you that you rather be friend then other they dont understand .in other words they force themselves on to you like one guy told me he liked me and i told him i rather be friends than more he started persuing me trying to convince me he told everybody that he was my boyfriend and we were going out he made some stupid things up i had to turn him off the bad way i had to humiliate him infront of his friends i didnt want to i regreted after. but he he didnt want to respect the boundary i set
Reply:i agree. this has happened to me. like things are great and really good friends and she will flirt and everything. once you say you like them, they never talk to you every again. i was told never to talk to her ever again and i didn't even get a response to why.
Reply:dude thats so true cause that has happen to me.
Reply:ok so r u complaining dat grls r hurting u intentionally bcoz of some of ur phisical defects?hav u evr thought dat thy maybe shy 2 show,in front of their frndz, dat thy r interestd in u %26amp; ya there r som grls who do dat (as u said )thy r immature.cant help u abt dat.
Reply:i know ur a guy. so u will maybe or maybe not believe this.





guys are always saying how


its thier job to ask the girls out





we just have to sit and wait.








u guys needa grow some balls an do some asking out!





just playing with ya








girsl are shy some times.
Reply:i guess we just feel wierd and shy around boys who are attracted to us. i know, its immature but we can't avoid it. it takes time and courage.





anyway, thanks yeah? for pointing this out.
Reply:I think if a guy likes me it's flattering and I would just ignore a guy. I'd simply let him know that I wasn't interested but I would be willing to be his wing "woman" to help him meet someone else and I'd ask him to return the favor.
Reply:they do it cuz their immature, and dont know what else to do or say.
Reply:Hi, cant' answer why "girls do this". But thanks for this observation. Indeed for some of my friends (girls and guys), this would apply.